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This is cute. :)
nicknotes comments on Apr 24, 2018:
Edgar Allen Poe.....I used to have the collection of all his short stories and poems in one volume. I read it several times. He was a master of literature.
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@nicknotes That one still gives me the creeps and one of several stories that convinced me not to read Poe any more.
Am I the only atheist that doesn’t smoke pot?
birdingnut comments on Apr 25, 2018:
You can take cannabis in more ways than smoking, which doesn't give people enough THC to cure cancer- it takes cannabis oil. Or you can take CBD oil, which also calms people, raises their moods and is legal most places. It also cures seizures and other problems.
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@okiestache Where have you been? People have been curing cancer with THC since the 1970s. The internet is crammed with stories, and even the official cancer website admits THC kills cancer cells without harming human ones, but keeps saying it hasn't been officially endorsed by the cancer society. Mainly because chemo therapy and radiation, which recent studies in the U.K. show kills patients within 15 years of treatment for 50% of patients, is a billion dollar industry. People who announce alternate cures in their clinics have been turning up dead in droves. So many in the past few years that it's forced alternate cancer care givers into hiding. You might try reading more.
This is cute. :)
nicknotes comments on Apr 24, 2018:
Edgar Allen Poe.....I used to have the collection of all his short stories and poems in one volume. I read it several times. He was a master of literature.
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
I was worse..I actually memorized the raven poem. I hated his horror short stories but his detective stories were great, like The Purloined Letter.
This my brother Stephen, today I took him to a park.
birdingnut comments on Apr 24, 2018:
It's good to be outside, stoned, and happy.
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@Charlene Thanks. It's a nightmare. But every pain/nausea free hour, sometimes even a minute, I consider a win. Staying happy and managing to get at least two meals a day down is my daily goal.
In America, complaining is a normal conversational pastime.
Scoobs comments on Apr 25, 2018:
That's really interesting about their culture. I was not aware. So there's a lack of small talk? I find small talk can warm up a situation and create an opportunity for strangers to connect. Does this not happen in Thailand?
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@Scoobs Yes, which will renew your tourist visa from month to month, but it's not a good solution for a long-time stay with recent law changes. The border crossings were getting iffy a few years ago, so I stopped doing that.
Life with new baby is not wine and roses, the new parents are facing challenges.
birdingnut comments on Apr 24, 2018:
If you carry the baby against your body in a snuggly..on your belly if newborn, on your back if a few months old while you go about your daily household chores, it puts babies right to sleep and keeps them calm for hours after you put them back down again. If the baby is crying and suffering from...
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@HippieChick58 I did my daughter's sunbaths inside, by the glass window, because it was winter in Colorado when she was born. Well, I hope it all works out. The beer will still help the mother, whether or not she nurses. The beer hops are said to encourage the milk gland let down reflex.
In America, complaining is a normal conversational pastime.
SAGECOACH comments on Apr 25, 2018:
what? that's terrible............... no Mcdonalds there??? ;-)
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@webbew1 Yeah..I avoid touristy areas. Most places I've lived since I moved here in 2010 have been so remote that seeing Caucasians is rare. Some places, like in Narathiwat, had NEVER seen one, and were dumbfounded when I couldn't understand everything they said in Thai-they froze and didn't know what to do next. I've gotten better in speaking Thai, but sometimes even now I stop them and say I'm not following them, but now they can usually reword it so I get it.
Ahh, two days to rest in a nice .
birdingnut comments on Apr 24, 2018:
You forgot the weed.
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@TedGresham997 Gotta ask around. Most people have friends with friends.
When I was released from the hospital after the suicide attempt, I found this site and ...
birdingnut comments on Apr 24, 2018:
I always use the name of my favorite pet of the moment. Or the name of the town I'm currently living in, since I'm still in Thailand and the cities have cool names.
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@Melbates Well, not as is..I would try to change it enough make it cool. I named one proposed business after my Asian Fairy-Bluebird, by using a graphic of the bird with spread wings and called it Bluebird___Agency. I used my favorite terrier's name for a lot of things also.
In America, complaining is a normal conversational pastime.
Scoobs comments on Apr 25, 2018:
That's really interesting about their culture. I was not aware. So there's a lack of small talk? I find small talk can warm up a situation and create an opportunity for strangers to connect. Does this not happen in Thailand?
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@Scoobs I feel much safer here than I ever felt in the US and have traveled all over the country by myself since 2010, and I'm 65 years old and a female (sort of). The issue is the visa. I am here because of a work permit, but just to visit would require different arrangements.
In America, complaining is a normal conversational pastime.
Scoobs comments on Apr 25, 2018:
That's really interesting about their culture. I was not aware. So there's a lack of small talk? I find small talk can warm up a situation and create an opportunity for strangers to connect. Does this not happen in Thailand?
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
Not sure. They start conversations with me occasionally, but it's rare. Most Thai are trained from early childhood to leave strangers alone, and only interact with me if there are only a few of us riding a songhteaw truck bus, and someone who is older than I am is overcome with curiosity. In Thailand, younger people must defer to older ones, and if a younger person you know greets you, you are not obliged to answer. Since I'm 65 years old, it's not often someone is old enough to question me. They are usually so curious about where I come from, why I'm living in Songkhla, why I can speak Thai, that they ask several questions in a row.
In America, complaining is a normal conversational pastime.
SAGECOACH comments on Apr 25, 2018:
what? that's terrible............... no Mcdonalds there??? ;-)
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
I shouldn't complain about anything ever here, since there's no better food than Thai food. Or better weather. I live on a peninsula and it's sunny and 85 almost year round, with a cross-breeze from Songkhla being on a peninsula.
Headed to Los Angeles soon and I was wondering if there are any recommendations for any cool camp ...
birdingnut comments on Apr 24, 2018:
No need to ask us..just google KOA campgrounds for your route, if you have a tent, RV, or camper, and google national park campgrounds if you like to rough it in a tent (as I do). Or google alternate campground reviews for your route. Great scenery out west.
birdingnut replies on Apr 25, 2018:
@Fibonacci1618 They are always clean, organized, have hot showers, playgrounds for the kids, and amenities for even large RVs as well as tent camping. Furthermore, they are everywhere..even in cities, and at a reasonable cost. If you don't want to camp, you can rent a small cabin there for a low cost.
Trump is having a State Dinner, for France's Macron and only one Democrat and no journalist are ...
birdingnut comments on Apr 24, 2018:
At least he's meeting a liberal with inclusive world views. Right now the international news commentators are calling Macron "The Trump whisperer," since he's got Trump talking about softening on Iran and the global warming treaties.
birdingnut replies on Apr 24, 2018:
@Freedompath Well, duh, but for now the international news commentators are calling Macron a hero and discussing him at length, showing the videos of Trump grabbing him, holding his hands, etc. Some newspapers have been calling them a "bromance," and joking about it, but they seem both impressed and amused by the visit.
Life with new baby is not wine and roses, the new parents are facing challenges.
birdingnut comments on Apr 24, 2018:
If you carry the baby against your body in a snuggly..on your belly if newborn, on your back if a few months old while you go about your daily household chores, it puts babies right to sleep and keeps them calm for hours after you put them back down again. If the baby is crying and suffering from...
birdingnut replies on Apr 24, 2018:
@HippieChick58 I've heard that women who can't let down their milk due to anxiety are quickly cured with a nice cold bottle of microbrewed beer while relaxing in a recliner with the baby. If a hungry baby is allowed to root around on the breast, eventually it will stimulate the milk to let down. For jaundice, give him naked sunbaths.
This my brother Stephen, today I took him to a park.
birdingnut comments on Apr 24, 2018:
It's good to be outside, stoned, and happy.
birdingnut replies on Apr 24, 2018:
@Charlene I have to stay stoned on cannabis oil..I also have cancer, and it's been reducing it slowly over the past few months. But even with natural methods I've had almost constant nausea and loose bowels..very miserable. So I take walks, climb stairs, do pull ups, read Kindle books, watch Netflix, and keep myself as happy as I can manage.
Today I had a job interview.
birdingnut comments on Apr 24, 2018:
Dunno. In my case, if they don't accept my liberal, agnostic views then I don't want to work for them in the first place.
birdingnut replies on Apr 24, 2018:
@AmiSue That's the point. If a workplace makes an issue of my private beliefs, that is a violation of my privacy and I don't want to work for such a place.
I’ve noticed a lot of mention of past horrible relationships and how long people stayed in some of...
Lincster45 comments on Apr 24, 2018:
1. The person either misrepresented themselves or changed in a negative way. 2. Kids would be the number 1 answer, Number 2 financial, Number 3 you are happy enough with life you put up with it, because it isn't what you signed up for but isn't that bad. The list goes on. 3. Too long out of ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 24, 2018:
I would never live with a cat, since they spread dangerous diseases to wildlife, kill millions of birds each year, and their urine territory marking by spraying walls, could hit an outlet and start a fire. But I agree with your last two..my person must have the ability, and desire, to travel and also hate both country and gospel music.
Why might a person pursue a totally fruitless, undignifying interest or way to spend time, but never...
Condor5 comments on Apr 23, 2018:
Maybe you could give an example of what you mean by "undignifying interest?
birdingnut replies on Apr 23, 2018:
What he said. This post question is confusing.
When I was much younger, I took a girl on a date to the movies.
birdingnut comments on Apr 22, 2018:
YES. No woman who starts to think some guy actually likes her for herself, wants to find out his entire goal of taking her to the movies and paying attention to her in the first place was to satisfy his body urges.
birdingnut replies on Apr 23, 2018:
@webbew1 LOL! Spoken like a male..no "love" -just sex. And on a first date, unless you are claiming to be able to fall in love with a woman in one date and care about her. I think not.
Whole app lliberals?
BeOPSVMo comments on Apr 21, 2018:
You should have made different options for “liberal” and “extreme liberal”. I’m a liberal but I have a lot of conservative values. I don’t think safe spaces are healthy and I haven’t been convinced that a man who feels like a woman is a woman or vice versa.
birdingnut replies on Apr 23, 2018:
@BeOPSVMo You have no idea what you would feel like if you woke up in a woman's body, and are only speaking from the viewpoint of a cis gender. It would be the same as if you made some comment like that about gay people..implying that something was wrong with them. Trangender people are usually BORN feeling and believing they are the opposite gender of their assigned gender. Doctors used to believe that one's gender identity was purely a social construct (as many on this forum also seem to think) so when a baby was born with intersex genitals and they couldn't tell which gender it was was, they'd arbitrarily operate to make it female, since that's a relatively easy operation. Later, as the children grew up, a third of them were OK with it, but two thirds were upset, identifying as male despite their operations, and later many sued the doctors, and tried to get restoration surgery. Scientists think a third were genetically wired to be girls, a third to be male, and a third were nonbinary. Otherwise half would be happy, and half unhappy.
Miss Amanda has to share our message....
nicknotes comments on Apr 22, 2018:
I always hear Christians speak about morality and hold the Bible up as the standard for morality. But is the Bible the standard of morality in our modern culture here in the USA? I say NO...the Bible is not our standard of morality. The God of the Bible endorsed slavery....we do not practice ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 22, 2018:
Love your list. I copy/pasted it to my Facebook page, since I still have religious people lurking on it.
Is it biologically possible to mate a cow and a stallion together aside from some differences in ...
birdingnut comments on Apr 21, 2018:
I don't know, but at least you could milk your transportation. But, seriously, you can't mate them naturally, but of course you can with genetic manipulation in a petri dish. They even put jellyfish DNA slice bits in rabbits, to make them glow in the dark.
birdingnut replies on Apr 21, 2018:
@GeorgeRocheleau That's how the Mongolians did it, and Arabs drink camel milk. I should have said, you can do dressage and have a drink of milk on breaks without leaving the room.
Whole app lliberals?
BeOPSVMo comments on Apr 21, 2018:
You should have made different options for “liberal” and “extreme liberal”. I’m a liberal but I have a lot of conservative values. I don’t think safe spaces are healthy and I haven’t been convinced that a man who feels like a woman is a woman or vice versa.
birdingnut replies on Apr 21, 2018:
Until you educate yourself on gender issues, I highly advise you NOT to make comments about transgender people to that affect. People who are transgender are born with their brains imprinted with hormones from both genders, usually with the opposite gender stronger. They don't "want" to be the opposite gender, they just "are." The same as if you woke up one day with a female body, you'd still think and feel like you were a man. You'd feel horrified and ashamed of your body..maybe even start having panic attacks and getting depressed. That's called "gender dysphoria."
I thought I’d be married before level 6 or a date or something.
birdingnut comments on Apr 20, 2018:
Are you actually asking women out? Private messaging them? Or just waiting for the more aggressive male-ish women to chase YOU?
birdingnut replies on Apr 21, 2018:
@HoaryMarmot LOL! Gender traits have nothing to do with appearance (sigh). I look like a tiny, delicate woman but I'm partially transmale and I also pursue the prey, better than men do.,,but only if I have a crush on a female. My cis hetero women friends and relatives do NOT chase anyone, but men sure chase THEM. Most Americans seem to know little about gender issues..thinking everything has to do with appearance, and most think "all women" are alike.
Ever played "Marco Polo"..with a pet?
idlopalev comments on Apr 19, 2018:
Beautiful horse and children. I play Marco polo with my now Grown children in supermarkets since they were kids
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
Thanks!
Ever played "Marco Polo"..with a pet?
Stevil comments on Apr 19, 2018:
My pit bull Ladybug was obseesed with keeping her pack together, this may have been baggage from her being abondoned and put in a garbage bag to die. We would play hide a seek. She knew she wasnt supoosed to go visit the neighbors, but if we were outside and she saw or heard a door open she would ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
@Stevil Yup! I also had to take her to the playground where she'd join the slide queue with the kids, climb the ladder, slide down, then get in line again. She also used to ride the merry-go-round if I'd get it started for her. She also wrangled my horse when I went up to the pasture to get him from a herd of other horses, but needed me to give her more work. If I didn't throw the tennis ball for her, she would throw it herself, slinging it high into the air, then running and getting under it to catch it when it came down. Sometimes she'd just start it rolling down the stairs, then when it picked up speed, go after it.
Was Buddha a dead beat dad?
VAL3941 comments on Apr 20, 2018:
Buddha was a fat slob.
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
@VAL3941 They aren't! That's just the western tourists! In fact the Thai statues show a different Buddha, usually with small breasts, so he might have been intersex, but dunno. It's likely though because a Third Gender is part of Thai Buddhism. Photos: My daughter and I posing by the 99-ft reclining Buddha on Ko Yo Island, near Songkhla, where i live. A row of statues depicting Buddha during different stages of his life. Seated Buddhas at a temple near the beach in Songkhla, Thailand
Was Buddha a dead beat dad?
birdingnut comments on Apr 20, 2018:
Me'thinks you misunderstand Asian culture. Even the concept of the daddy, mommy, children living happily in a nuclear family is only a recent western paradigm..since the 1830s. Before that, vast, extended families, with fathers having little to do with child rearing, was the norm. In other ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
@thinkwithme There are no wedding vows..in fact the couple says nothing to each other during the ceremony, but there are a lot of cool customs, like the groom passing through a series of symbolic "gates, where he has to perform tasks or answer embarrassing questions to allowed to pass, fetching his bride from another room, symbolic joining of bride and groom with the mong kol cord headpieces, joined by a string and the guests lining up to pour waters of blessing from a shell onto their clasped hands.
You can keep your bible and pious sayings.
HeathenFarmer comments on Apr 20, 2018:
I wonder if that exploring embryo planet was the same one that struck the earth and give birth to the moon.
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
@Angelface It's amazing the snow job the US government has done on the American public. UFO sightings relentlessly deleted from the internet, mockery, etc. Now most US citizens associate aliens and UFO sightings with trailer parks and fraud. Weird. Yet I've seen so many UFOs in the US and in Haiti, always with witnesses and sometimes entire groups of people. I've seen the weirdest spaceships ever..apparently some made our own government. Bunch of government spin liars
Was Buddha a dead beat dad?
VAL3941 comments on Apr 20, 2018:
Buddha was a fat slob.
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
@VAL3941 (Sigh...) On the contrary, Buddha fasted so much he was skin and bones..almost dead, before he had his enlightenment moment. After that he only had one small meal a day. He was also a very, tall, powerful young warrior, a prince, said to be over six feet tall, and his branch of the ancient family has been reported in writings have warriors 7 ft tall. His father arranged for him to have hundreds of women to keep him happy when he was younger.
Was Buddha a dead beat dad?
VAL3941 comments on Apr 20, 2018:
Buddha was a fat slob.
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
The images of a "fat, happy Buddha" are actually of a legendary Chinese figure of folk Buddhism representing good fortune named Budai. He can be called "a Buddha" or "a Bodhisattvah," but, legendary or based on a real person, he is not the historical Shakyamuni Buddha from India.
You can keep your bible and pious sayings.
HeathenFarmer comments on Apr 20, 2018:
I wonder if that exploring embryo planet was the same one that struck the earth and give birth to the moon.
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
@HeathenFarmer Watch it before you scoff. It even shows Hillary and Obama admitting it. Or just go back to sleep.
You can keep your bible and pious sayings.
HeathenFarmer comments on Apr 20, 2018:
I wonder if that exploring embryo planet was the same one that struck the earth and give birth to the moon.
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
According to government whistle blowers I've read about for decades, there used to be a super planet that ended up destroying itself with too much advanced AI, but some 18-foot tall survivors made it to earth and inhabited the earth millions of years ago. The moon is actually artificial, and part of an even more advanced race's "planet seeding" drones they sent out to get planets like earth seeded with life and developing intelligent life. See the documentary, "Unacknowledged" on Netflix and YouTube to see videos of astronauts, US presidents, NSA agents and scientists discussing some of the things our government knows, but keeps classified.
Will we elect a self-professed non-believer for president in our lifetime?
birdingnut comments on Apr 19, 2018:
Probably. In fact, I'm guessing that most, if not ALL, our past presidents were actually agnostic, but played the game, because "The Prince" advises politicians to seem religious to get votes. Trump is almost certainly agnostic.
birdingnut replies on Apr 20, 2018:
@Darthpug Gods don't care.
Perfectly good classic joke changed forever by my morbid teenager and Instagram.
sassygirl3869 comments on Apr 19, 2018:
Sick kiids-I just posted the same joke with a different answer under Memes
birdingnut replies on Apr 19, 2018:
MUCH better...
Ever played "Marco Polo"..with a pet?
Stevil comments on Apr 19, 2018:
My pit bull Ladybug was obseesed with keeping her pack together, this may have been baggage from her being abondoned and put in a garbage bag to die. We would play hide a seek. She knew she wasnt supoosed to go visit the neighbors, but if we were outside and she saw or heard a door open she would ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 19, 2018:
That's so funny! I used to play hide-and-seek with my eager-beaver Border Collie, to keep her happy.
Do you believe in Karma?
birdingnut comments on Apr 19, 2018:
No, I don't. I wish it did, but of course the bad people are often the rich, successful people, and researchers who studied past lives never found a karma effect from one life to another.
birdingnut replies on Apr 19, 2018:
@Sealybobo LOL! If there were Karma, Trump would be homeless and penniless after all the workers, students, and companies he's cheated. Ah..I LOVE the idea of Karma, but sadly..doesn't happen.
Describe your love life in one word.
birdingnut comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Imaginary.
birdingnut replies on Apr 19, 2018:
@Rodatheist Sorry..I'm demisexual. That means I feel no sexual attraction for any gender or person, except after over a year of close association, and then, only with that one person. Ironically, this is exactly what Christianity promotes as the normal and ideal way to be.
Name THREE things about yourself and one not true. Let me guess which one's not true.
birdingnut comments on Apr 18, 2018:
1.I recorded two records, one in three languages, in the 1960-70s. 2.I had a top tune hit on the top Port-au-Prince hit radio station in 1970 for three months 3.I sang my first live solo on Haiti radio when I was four and a half years old.
birdingnut replies on Apr 19, 2018:
@Redcupcoffee Nope
I say oh hell yes.
birdingnut comments on Apr 19, 2018:
We call it our Higher Self. Or Source Energy. It's part of the universal consciousness mentioned in quantum physics..that all energy is connected, and it is intelligent.
birdingnut replies on Apr 19, 2018:
@jlynn37 LOL! We are participating in creating our own universes/realities: “I regard consciousness as fundamental and matter as derivative from consciousness." – Max Planck, theoretical physicist who originated quantum theory, 1918 Nobel Prize in Physics
OKAY.
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Arguing and contradicting a partner is a female trait. Women are typically in charge of hetero relationships, so want to keep the upper hand. In fact, a famous study shows that the only relationships that succeed long-term are those where the man yields to his wife. But that sounds like many of ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 19, 2018:
@evestrat I don't want to list all the gender trait links from years of reading, but pickiness, being critical, choosy, etc. are female traits. Cis hetero females are the ones running the cis hetero relationships. They choose the mates. They simply look at all the male suitors and pick the ones that give them best advantage. You'll never see a cis hetero woman marrying a handsome drug addict homeless guy, for instance, or a janitor. If men are picky, they are only showing their female traits. Most cis hetero men pursue the youngest, prettiest female they can find, no matter what she does for a living. It's all about what they see. You might be a female, but you are apparently male-ish female, as most women on this forum are (including me)..since creative, high IQ people are mostly androgyne. Link: The creative mind is usually androgyne http://blogs.psychcentral.com/creative-mind/2011/02/the-complexity-of-the-creative-personality/
I couldn't agree more!
birdingnut comments on Apr 18, 2018:
My mom used to make me eat meat and I couldn't leave the table until I did. At least that's one childhood thing I still agree with.
birdingnut replies on Apr 19, 2018:
@Freedompath OK, that is one meat I could eat even now, after decades of only eating fish. I crave liver and onions so badly I might risk trying it even now.
How many of you older people listen to current pop music, or is it only "noise" to you?
ThinkKate comments on Apr 17, 2018:
You may enjoy Daisy Castro and her Gypsy Moth Quartet. Currently 18 I think, she is the daughter of a friend of mine and has been playing violin since she was 6; she plays Gypsy Jazz and has toured a bit in France and on the east coast of the U.S., and she's very good. Last I heard, she was working ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 18, 2018:
@ThinkKate I love this one! Hugo, Daisy Castro and Robert Ford jamming at Samoreau 2013 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g0QON6P7nLU
Being offended: What does it REALLY mean?
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I disagree. As a white, cis hetero male you are rolling in white male privilege, so likely don't face many challenges, but if you are a black, Muslim, female, Latino, in the LGBTQ community, etc., you will quickly find out how cruel and insulting people can be. YES, people can be triggered. ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 18, 2018:
@MacTavish You sound so alt-right I wonder how you got on this website.
Would you rather be crazy rich or deeply in love?
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
LOL! Hopefully, you mean reciprocated love.
birdingnut replies on Apr 18, 2018:
@kensmile4u Depends on how influenced they are by female traits. Everyone is on a gender trait sliding scale.
Feelings about your own Funerals
ArthurPhillips comments on Apr 18, 2018:
I'll be dead, so I don't really care. Toss me through a woodchipper, put me in a garbage bag and toss me downriver.
birdingnut replies on Apr 18, 2018:
Exactly. Just recycle me asap.
OKAY.
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Arguing and contradicting a partner is a female trait. Women are typically in charge of hetero relationships, so want to keep the upper hand. In fact, a famous study shows that the only relationships that succeed long-term are those where the man yields to his wife. But that sounds like many of ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 18, 2018:
@evestrat I constantly post links to these studies, both in my past posts and in my replies to others, but people like you keep asking again and again for links without checking my past posts, until I no longer care if you agree with me or not. I studied gender issues for years. I speed read and read piles of books, science article links and studies, joined forums, and experience this stuff first had as a gender fluid person. Go ahead and yell "fake news"-you're like many others on this site..which often reminds me of an alt-right site.
What weird thoughts have kept you awake recently?
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Hmm...you could try taking an early morning walk to reset your thyroid and sync your sleep rhythms with the sun. Avoid chocolate and caffeine, eat organic food, avoid drinking pop and other chemically loaded food. Eat fish and fresh produce. If you can't sleep because you've thrown off your ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 18, 2018:
@BucketlistBob LOL! Drinking coffee can keep me awake for two days. Not fun. Chocolate keeps me awake only for one night.
Any more wierd pet stories from your childhood?
EllenJellen comments on Apr 18, 2018:
Sweet story. If you haven't read The Yearling, read it! It's a great story about a boy that loved a wild pet. I didn't know they had mustangs outside of the US southwest.
birdingnut replies on Apr 18, 2018:
I loved that book as a kid. Lightning and La Brujah (an Akhal Teke throw-back mare) were Haitian mustangs..the original mustangs. Haiti used to be a horse supermarket for the new world, with fine Spanish, Arabic, and Turkish horse stock being bred there for importation. The Haiti African slaves rebelled in 1791, killed off Napoleon's mighty army, and then began using the horses for domestic chores and riding without caring for them or gelding them. The strong horses who could survive on little care or food were what survived. This is similar to what produced the North American mustangs..feral escaped horses multiplied into wild herds and bred at will.
Things that people put in dating profiles that are pet peeves. Discuss.
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I don't look at dating profile photos, as it's the male's job to contact me first. After someone messages me on the website, then I look at his profile. But usually any man who contacts me hasn't even looked at my profile and knows nothing about me, which I find insulting, even though I know ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 18, 2018:
@ArthurPhillips (sigh) Despite all the silly sexist rhetoric about both genders being "equal"-they aren't. If a male isn't attracted to female himself and doing his own pursuing, he's not ever going to be committed..he'll be looking around for someone more picky and challenging...someone HE chose. Women who pursue men are showing masculine traits, since they are hardwired to be predators, except for men heavy in picky female traits. I'd NEVER pursue a man because I'm not interested in them. Men have to pursue me and get ME interested in them, make me choose them over all my other choices. If men don't like it, I could care less.
OKAY.
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Arguing and contradicting a partner is a female trait. Women are typically in charge of hetero relationships, so want to keep the upper hand. In fact, a famous study shows that the only relationships that succeed long-term are those where the man yields to his wife. But that sounds like many of ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@evestrat LOL! You are illustrating what I meant.
How many of you older people listen to current pop music, or is it only "noise" to you?
ThinkKate comments on Apr 17, 2018:
You may enjoy Daisy Castro and her Gypsy Moth Quartet. Currently 18 I think, she is the daughter of a friend of mine and has been playing violin since she was 6; she plays Gypsy Jazz and has toured a bit in France and on the east coast of the U.S., and she's very good. Last I heard, she was working ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
Cool! Love it! Sort of bluegrass jazz..
Would you rather be crazy rich or deeply in love?
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
LOL! Hopefully, you mean reciprocated love.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@kensmile4u Worse than anything I can think of, although I've only "fallen in love" once, when I let my male gender mode dominate. Females don't fall in love..they "choose" the most suitable lover among their admirers. Of course, women heavy in male traits can fall in love, as I did, but it's dangerous for females. If they become as besotted over males as men get over females, they'd put themselves at risk of abuse. Most cis hetero females not only are picky from the beginning, if a lover messes up later on, they'll not hestitate to toss his stuff onto the lawn and change the locks, while a masculine-trait woman is likely to keep forgiving him and letting him come back, as males do with female lovers.
Is it wrong...
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Did you report the abuse, and get statements from the neighbors? You should be able to get a court order to stop the visitation if a child's life is being put at risk.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@Byrd It's unbelievable to me that you accept such treatment of you and/or your young son. Stop being an enabler and report the crimes. If your son is hurt or killed, you will be partly at fault.
Do you like being intelligent?
marga comments on Apr 17, 2018:
What are the statistics you are talking about? I would like to see them, because your blanket statement that agnostics are more intelligent....I'm quite interested.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@marga LOL! You sound like the alt-right, always yelling "fake news!"
Are you concerned about your family?
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
LOL! Take some CBD oil and take a long walk in nature.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@Angelface So you think obsessing and worrying will help? LOL! Go ahead and worry, then!
Being offended: What does it REALLY mean?
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I disagree. As a white, cis hetero male you are rolling in white male privilege, so likely don't face many challenges, but if you are a black, Muslim, female, Latino, in the LGBTQ community, etc., you will quickly find out how cruel and insulting people can be. YES, people can be triggered. ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@MacTavish Are you serious? You don't know about all the innocent black people, of all ages, gunned down in their own yards by the police? Even children. Wow. You sound alt-right.
Do you like being intelligent?
Nickbeee comments on Apr 17, 2018:
1.You might feel frustrated with "normal" people and only want to hang with intellectual equals. 5.you don't care what other people think since you think them beneath you, and wonder what's wrong with everyone. Sorry but this is not really a symptom of true intelligence - both of these points ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@Nickbeee (sigh) Typical high IQ person, arguing and nitpicking over every detail, LOL! The typical cut-off in textboks where high IQ people start losing their ability to relate to others is 140 IQ, but people close to that level can be the same way. My kids rolled their eyes at us when they were babies, correcting us, and acting like they wished they'd been adopted by more intelligent parents.
Do you like being intelligent?
Amisja comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I would never consider any other person beneath me. Neither would I post an arbituary figure based on whether or not you are good at working out sequences. Intelligence for me is far more complex. Some people on the ASD score highly on formal IQ tests but are unable to match their socks. ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@Amisja Exactly what a high IQ person would say, as they are often nitpickers! Nevertheless it's a more useful measure to say "high IQ" than to say "smart people."
Do you like being intelligent?
BucketlistBob comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Geeze... high IQ? I just dont put up with crap. I must be the dumb ass in here. I think people that have money are smarter then me. Im sitting ok, but i cant travel the world like the well off...lol.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@buzz13 That's also typical of high IQ people..they generally don't care much about money, although there are a few exceptions, like Edison.
Do you like being intelligent?
NotConvinced comments on Apr 17, 2018:
What? Sources please!
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
For which assertion?
Do you like being intelligent?
alvinsmom comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Interesting. I have a two year college degree and can carry on a decent conversation with anyone....high school education through PhD. I am prone to depression at times. But, I am not a snob and feel I get along with most people. Not saying I'm a genius but I think I'm fairly intelligent. It ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
You don't have to be a snob to be high IQ, but many are.
Do you like being intelligent?
wordywalt comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I have an IQ of 145, but I have almost always fought most of the tendencies you describe. As a child and young man, I had the privilege of knowing some remarkable uneducated people and from whom I learned some important things. I am repulsed by elitism, including intellectual elitism. In 1968, ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@wordywalt SInce when was "wisdom" synonymous with "intelligence? Many high IQ people have learning disabilities or are on the autism spectrum, and statistically, after 140 IQ and higher, people often tend to lose the ability to relate to others.
Do you like being intelligent?
M3G4N666 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I don't look down on other people and think they are beneath me... no matter what... I have always agreed with bill hicks that we are "a virus with shoes"... I am somewhat a misanthrope.. It really irks me when people act like they are better... in my opinion its delusional (ego)
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@M3G4N666 LOL! This isn't talking about what people "should" or "shouldn't," do..it's a comment on how most high IQ people, even young children, look down on others. My own kids were so smart they were correcting us when they were in diapers, and were right. They thought we were morons and acted like they wished they'd been adopted. I couldn't argue with my five year son about anything, or he'd step to the bookcase, jerk out a encyclodpedia, flip to a page, read it to me to prove me wrong. Both my husband and I were intimidated.
Do you like being intelligent?
ITguy64 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I doubt that I will ever find out what my IQ is. Around thirty years ago I took a quick IQ test and scored fairly highly. On the strength of this I booked myself in for a MENSA test. The test was to be held in a city about 20 miles away. At the time I was quite poor and owned an old moped with a ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
Contrary to the movie portrayals, high IQ people are more likely than the general population to be forgetful, awkward, and socially clueless. Also a high percentage of them have learning disabilities, such as dyslexia.
Do you like being intelligent?
snytiger6 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
My IQ is only around 130, and, at times, I fidn it very frustrating to deal with less intelligent persons. I may be above average, but my brain tends to not work fast. Howeer, my answers are usually better having taken my time thinking about them. I hadn't seen research to support that more ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
I didn't say that LGBTQ people were high IQ-I said that most creative high IQ people are androgyne, although they likely don't realize it, as I didn't. A high percentage of high IQ people have some sort of mental health issue, or are LGBTQ in other ways. But that doesn't work both ways. It's like saying all cats have fur, but not everything that has fur is a cat. Most LGBTQ people I've met don't seem any brighter than most, so it's just the small percentage of them to which this applies. Although extremely smart people are statistically more likely to be on the autism spectrum and/or LGBTQ, not all have gay, pansexual, or other alternate types of sexual attraction, although many do.
Do you like being intelligent?
Nickbeee comments on Apr 17, 2018:
1.You might feel frustrated with "normal" people and only want to hang with intellectual equals. 5.you don't care what other people think since you think them beneath you, and wonder what's wrong with everyone. Sorry but this is not really a symptom of true intelligence - both of these points ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
LOL! I wish! That is from experience, observation, and studies I've read. I can speed read as fast as I can turn the pages. Have you ever met a "genius?" Usually it's not pleasant experience, unless they manage to behave themselves while meeting you. If you read their (honest) biographies you'll find that most of our intellectual heroes were zeros in many other ways.
Do you like being intelligent?
marga comments on Apr 17, 2018:
What are the statistics you are talking about? I would like to see them, because your blanket statement that agnostics are more intelligent....I'm quite interested.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
Here's a couple a links: Why Atheists Have Higher IQs https://www.huffingtonpost.com/nigel-barber/why-atheists-have-higher-_b_853414.html Belief in God is associated with lower scores on IQ tests. https://digest.bps.org.uk/2018/01/26/are-religious-people-really-less-smart-on-average-than-atheists/
Do you like being intelligent?
Petter comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I'm an Asperger, I'm used to it and having sometimes to explain. I was never subjected to an IQ test because I grew up in "Darkest Africa" - the same country as did the father of that "stupid" (according to thick Evangelicals) fellow, Barrack Obama.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@Petter My ex was probably on the Asperger's/autism spectrum, and I'm sure I'm on the autism spectrum. From what I've read, that's common for high IQ people.
Do you like being intelligent?
HookEmChef comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I tested out at 164 at 6 when I never slept and was reading at 3. Fuck being smart. Most tests are pattern identification, spacial awareness, logic processing and all linguistic based. Intelligence spans so much more. I can memorize sheet music, but I can’t perform. I can read 930 words per ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
LOL! You sound like a typical high IQ type!
Do you like being intelligent?
Wildgreens comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I wonder how much of this counts if your brain has been injured.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@Wildgreens Yeah..I'm still looking around for a more open-minded forum, but I've blocked so many trolls by now, I'm being attacked less often.
Does anyone else think it's weird when a dating profile says something along the lines of "I'm ...
birdingnut comments on Apr 15, 2018:
I'm VERY picky and specific in the hobbies of prospective dates. If they can't join me in body surfing the waves, hiking, climbing cliffs, ballroom dancing and riding horses, then what's the point of dating them? I can do these things fine by myself, but just wanted a companion/side-kick.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@DuchessNyx I'm sorry, but if you are fat, short, out of shape, eat junk food, lazy, like to golf and fish, never read, incurious, physically inactive, not willing to do all those things then I'd rather be single. I am perfectly happy single.
Do you like being intelligent?
shockwaverider comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Being on the right tail of the normal curve, I can say for me that #1, #2, #4, and your second #7 are true. #3 not so much, #5 sometimes, both #6s are sometimes true. Your second #6 is flawed as high IQ and mental illness are correlated but inferring a cause and effect is specious. ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
That why I said creative high IQ types, since that's a different category. People with a higher IQ are at greater risk of mental illness, study finds http://www.independent.co.uk/news/health/intelligence-mental-illness-iq-study-findings-depression-a8005801.html Superior IQs are associated with mental and physical disorders, research suggests https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/bad-news-for-the-highly-intelligent/
Do you like being intelligent?
BAMFHufflepuff comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I've been measured between 140 and 143. Very little of the list applies to me, at least AFaIK. I get along pretty dang well with others. I have been successful in college and in a fairly technical career. I like science books, documentaries and other thought-provoking movies. But I like stupid ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
There are few normal "geniuses," but they are usually the exception to the rule. The usual IQ boundary line where people start statistically being unable to relate well to others is 140 IQ, if you read up on such things.
Do you like being intelligent?
Amisja comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I would never consider any other person beneath me. Neither would I post an arbituary figure based on whether or not you are good at working out sequences. Intelligence for me is far more complex. Some people on the ASD score highly on formal IQ tests but are unable to match their socks. ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
LOL! If none of the list applies to you, then don't worry about it. It does to most high IQ people. In fact, 140 IQ is considered the boundary line for people being able to relate to others easily. If you want to count beans and get picky and critical, you are demonstrating a typical high IQ response. Part of what I meant by high IQ relatives being difficult to deal with.
Dating while separated
HookEmChef comments on Apr 17, 2018:
If you have any hopes of reconciliation, don’t even consider it unless you discuss it. That’s a surefire way to send the message you’re not overly interested in saving the relationship. Obviously no advice can be given without knowing circumstances, but it has to come down to figuring out what...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
What he said.
What weird thoughts have kept you awake recently?
birdingnut comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Hmm...you could try taking an early morning walk to reset your thyroid and sync your sleep rhythms with the sun. Avoid chocolate and caffeine, eat organic food, avoid drinking pop and other chemically loaded food. Eat fish and fresh produce. If you can't sleep because you've thrown off your ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@babsy I ordered a pound of powdered catnip online. It was way too much, and I only took a tiny fraction of it in years. You don't need much. Just google the closest place to you-probably most health food stores carry it. Many people use it to calm babies during teething. https://www.amazon.com/Starwest-Botanicals-Catnip-Leaf-Powder/dp/B002DXZEBM
Do you like being intelligent?
Beach_slim comments on Apr 17, 2018:
If don't care about IQ anymore. EQ interests me more.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
It's not a matter of "caring" about it..it's just a useful tool for self-evaluation. EQ is very important and often inversely affected by IQ levels. LOL! How many nice, kind, geniuses do you know? I don't know any. If you think some famous person you admire is nice, just meet them in person, or read an honest biography. Many/most act nuts, and treat people terribly. Dare to read up on Henry Ford, for instance. The guy was a semi-mobster.
Do you like being intelligent?
Robotbuilder comments on Apr 17, 2018:
My IQ is 139, which I suppose makes me a stupid genius. :) I find it frustrating when I make conections people don't see. I remember in an online forum defining creativity as being able to look at something from a 90 degree angle, instead of looking at it straight on. They didn't get the point,...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
139 IQ is plenty high-it's not an exact science. I had mine done by brain scan since I was so dyslexic, the tests weren't reliable for me. My son's IQ is 160 and he's way out there.
Do you like being intelligent?
Wildgreens comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I wonder how much of this counts if your brain has been injured.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
Still counts. I was beaten in the head and robbed, nearly died, in 2014. It slowed my brain and I had to relearn to walk and keep my balance, but my brain slowed down to match others around me for the first time in my life. It was such a relief to speak slowly enough for people to follow me. But I did start recovering and soon was almost as incomprehensible as before.
Gonna get personal.
Renickulous comments on Apr 15, 2018:
@Peeves Hello I hope not offend,I just want a better understanding. When you say you don't feel like a woman. Can you describe that? Is it a feeling? Are you just not interested in stereotypical woman hobbies?
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@Renickulous Whoa! You need to be flagged and blocked. Educate yourself in gender issues before you post on gender issues! Unbelievable homo/tranphobic..I'm guessing you voted for Trump also.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
birdingnut comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I lived most of my life thinking I was a hetero cis female. I never "fell in love," as that's a male trait, useful for keeping males in the lives of females who are raising his progeny. Cis, hetero women are the "choosers," picking out the best male suitor from among those courting her. They ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
@Amy0825 Sadly, I'm the same way and currently in danger of returning to my dangerous ex because as a male-minded female I can't seem to hold a grudge or have boundaries. My only protection is to avoid him. He keeps emailing me wanting us to get back together, and despite everything he did I seem willing to let it go. No normal cis hetero woman would put herself at risk this way. When in my "female mode" I can dump and forget bad love interests at once, however (sigh).
Who do you look up to the most? and why?
WileEQuixote comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Jesus. Wait.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
LOL! Well, at least the stuff Jesus allegedly said matches a lot of quantum physics, and has things in common with many other beliefs.
[thefix.com] Who do you know who was turned off AA or NA because it was too religious?
jacpod comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I have attended a couple of meetings in the Uk with clients who wanted me to go with them (I was a 'person centred counsellor' but I actually found it to be subtly -very shame based and though I know people who have really benefitted from it I think that hte format could be tweaked to make it ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
What she said.
Evangelicals are planning a high-profile meeting with Trump - The Washington Post
KKGator comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Would that I lived near D.C. I'd be out front with several carefully-worded signs for them.
birdingnut replies on Apr 17, 2018:
I'd join you. Except I might get myself arrested.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
KKGator comments on Apr 16, 2018:
"Love at first sight" is usually lust. Which is fine, as long as you don't get it twisted and think it's something it isn't. I don't believe in a "soulmate". I also don't think we always meet "the one". Relationships are transitory. It's rare when humans mate for life. Be open to the ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
LOL! So true!
Just a quick thought/observation: As I was walking my dogs today, I saw some door-to-door ...
BearsNPenn comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I love this sign. LOL
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
@BearsNPenn I'd likely be a customer! When I was with my ex we loved to visit sex shops and buy new toys, and we regularly ordered costumes.. I'd order different colored silk thongs for him, and he'd order such things as "naughty" air hostess outfits. We were very creative in our fantasy play.
How many of you older people listen to current pop music, or is it only "noise" to you?
paullouisf comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I have never listened to pop music, and I never will listen to that banal crap.
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
LOL! I love it all. I even follow K-pop, Thai pop, Latin pop, etc. And all the other genres, plus classical music..LOVE Chopin, and play it myself. I used to play in a band, even toured.
A friend posted online asking what if we could live forever.
birdingnut comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I was born remembering a past life, as did my youngest sister. I have since remembered a number of them, and even googled the details of some of the most recent past life incidents and found my memories to be accurate. Whenever I access the memories of a past life, I temporarily remember many of...
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
@Renickulous LOL! There has been extensive research done on past lives remembered by children ages 2-6 years old, world wide, The facts of their past life memories were carefully verified. Try to read up on stuff before commenting.
Gonna get personal.
Renickulous comments on Apr 15, 2018:
@Peeves Hello I hope not offend,I just want a better understanding. When you say you don't feel like a woman. Can you describe that? Is it a feeling? Are you just not interested in stereotypical woman hobbies?
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
@Renickulous I'm only a partial transmale..about 60% according to online gender identity tests. I didn't notice anything was wrong until puberty. Up to that point I ran around with the boys and was accepted by everyone as a default boy. I was horrified at puberty to see my beautiful stick legs get fat lumps, and when my breasts started growing, I was mortified. I prayed desperately for god to restore my body, but got no answer. Yes, transgender is part of LGBTQ community label..being the "T."
Have a weird childhood pet story?
Bizarre comments on Apr 16, 2018:
We had a dog, Skippy, who could climb over our 6' high fence, so my dad tied him to a tree. I went out one morning to find him hanging, dead. I was heart-broken. I said to my dad, "we'll be together in heaven, me and Skippy." My dad replied, "no Steve, dogs don't go to heaven." That was the day I ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
Don't worry, there's no heaven, but since we're all utimately energy, which can't be created or destroyed, and time and space are an illusion, then we and our pets have always existed and will always exist in some energy form. So, yeah, your pet dogs could be running around reincarnated or something.
Have a weird childhood pet story?
Archer comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Interesting. Suki got strong fast!
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
A lot faster than I'd thought...
Have a weird childhood pet story?
ThinkKate comments on Apr 16, 2018:
It was the 1950s and I was about 5 years old. Our family lived in an old house with a big kitchen and an old kitchen stove. It used wood and kerosene and stood about 8" from the floor. Our cat had a litter of 8 kittens, and my mother had rigged a wooden box in back of the stove for the kittens to ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
That's a scream!
Ever had pets that both you and others treated as equals?
ThinkKate comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I had a cat who thought he was a parrot - does that count? I rescued a very young kitten with his 2 brothers and sister, but he was the smallest and really attached to me. He would climb up my jeans to my shoulder and just perch there watching everything around, even if I was sitting or walking. ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
That's hilarious!
Ever had pets that both you and others treated as equals?
Archer comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Wow. Love that. Got any photos of Lightning?
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
This is me on Lightning when I was 14 years old, on our Haiti mission, near Cap Haitian.
Ever had pets that both you and others treated as equals?
DrewShourd comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Great story, I am curious why you didn't tie him up somewhere?...and If you knew you didn't, why were you surprised that the horse was 'technically loose'. But the part that gets me the most about your story is that a stranger would buy a horse ice cream and then let a little girl ride off on it. I ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
You sound so "American!" I was 16 years old and had been riding that horse since I was ten. It was homemade vanilla ice cream, and Lightning only got one scoop, apparently bought for him by one of the Haitian Bible school students, all friends of mine. This was on our Haiti mission, and although Lightning was a stallion (he retained one testicle when gelded) I rode without a saddle or bridle because he read my thoughts. I didn't have to tie him up; he'd follow me like a dog and come to me when called.
Gonna get personal.
Renickulous comments on Apr 15, 2018:
@Peeves Hello I hope not offend,I just want a better understanding. When you say you don't feel like a woman. Can you describe that? Is it a feeling? Are you just not interested in stereotypical woman hobbies?
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
@Peeves I understand completely..this is the common experience of transmales, many of whom don't realize what they are. In my case, I suffered so badly from gender dysphoria I couldn't look in the mirror and see a female face, or at old photos, as I was filled with horror and revulsion. Hearing my feminine name brought a burst of rage from inside me, but I never knew why until a transwoman friend from high school outed me to myself. I stumbled across derris scandens, a Thai herb, that relieves dysphoria (and dyslexia!) and allows me live as masculine-ish androgyne woman.
Age difference dating
SLBushway comments on Apr 15, 2018:
I find that when a person seeks to date someone that is 30 or more years younger than they are that it's about control. Otherwise why wouldn't that person seek someone that they'll likely have more in common with? It's either that or they get turned on by having sex with someone they can call "kid" ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
What he said.
Do people actually use this for dating, or is it basically just an open forum to discuss socially ...
phxbillcee comments on Apr 15, 2018:
There is some "dating", tho more 'trying' I believe! This has become a number of communities, some inter-linked & a few mor insular. The ideas don't have to be socially umpopular, though those kinds of ideas do arise. Check out the categories & the Groups, there are many interests represented here! ...
birdingnut replies on Apr 16, 2018:
What he said. There aren't enough members yet to provide a wide dating choice for any particular area of the country.

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