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Humanist, secularist, intersectional feminist, demisexual, BLM and LGTBQ+ ally.

I am averse to controlling people or people that do not respect my boundaries. I do not have a profile picture up for personal reasons. I don't care if everyone in the world had a profile picture up, I'm not going to do something just because others do it! Just like I wouldn't jump off a bridge because everyone is doing it. So kindly do not demand I post a pic or ask me for a picture of myself. K thanks bye

"Could dress up to get love, But guess what?
I'm never gonna be that girl,
Who's living in a Barbie World

Could wake up and make up and dumb,
Pretending that I need a boy,
Who's gonna treat me like a toy...

But I don't wanna be the puppet that you're playing on a string..

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How many of you feel as if your lack of any sort of religious or spiritual belief system has ...
demifeministgal comments on Jul 20, 2019:
Well, I have found it truly difficult to find men I am attracted to that are not religious. In my experience, minority men tend to be more religious than white guys... so the struggle to find a non-believer is harder than it should be. But I persist... ;)
If someone is recovery from surgery and is high on pain killers and they tell you they love you, how...
demifeministgal comments on Jul 15, 2019:
Not much at all especially if those drugs have that effect on patients and they are telling everyone around em they love em.
Why is racism is wrong? . . For most people this a very "religious" tenet. They just believe what ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 27, 2019:
Racism: prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior. So reworded: why is thinking one is superior to another based on an inherent, socially constructed trait like race, problematic. You tell us. If you can. Without exposing your biases and bigotries.
An open letter to Prime Minister Trudeau regarding his very Christian message for Christmas. ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 27, 2019:
Can you give examples of this: "laws and government systemically discriminate against atheists year-round"? :S I genuinely do not know of laws that discriminate against us here.
A STAR IS BORN I have been closely following Pete Buttegieg and the more I watch his interviews, ...
demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:
What is his platform like? What does he believe about income inequality? About the gun violence in the USA? About the prison industrial complex? About environmental damage? About offering socialized healthcare or affordable pharmaceuticals for Americans? About raising the minimum wage to a livable wage nationwide? That's what I would like to know. I have no beef in this race since I am Canadian btw.
Although I fully anticipated a return of depression following the huge fire that took my home and ...
demifeministgal comments on Mar 5, 2019:
New here so I like the middle. I am still married to my wife that is 18 when we 1st met. Have two ...
demifeministgal comments on Apr 4, 2019:
You should COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR SPOUSE. Find out why y'all are not having sex. If you are old enough to be having (or not having) sex and old enough to have kids you are old enough to have uncomfortable, but honest, conversations about sex. There must be a reason she is not in the mood these days. Perhaps she's exhausted from childrearing and/or work and could use some help in that department from you.
Happiness is a 75-pound lap dog.
demifeministgal comments on Jun 17, 2019:
awww he's snuggler! how precious! I wish kirby was a cuddly type but he's too proud for that. humph
[agnostic.com] Just to get it out in the open...
demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:
This is what happened, just in case CB didn't have the energy or desire to inform y'all... click on the link @mooredolezal @t1nick @LeighShelton @Wildflower
I think we all want to believe what we believe. I also think we all do everything in our power to do...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 12, 2019:
Not necessarily. You may really want to do somethings but your lack of resources (ie money), lack of time, poor health or poor mental health, etc. create(s) barriers and make doing said things nearly impossible. It does not mean you may not want to do said things, but being realistic, obstacles and life get in the way, so we gotta settle.
I'm just venting here. I just got off the phone with a real pain in the butt, after she talked for ...
demifeministgal comments on Jun 7, 2019:
I remember! For years, I've had this feeling that there's been something I'm forgetting. Something ...
demifeministgal comments on Sep 17, 2018:
I disagree that everyone is a bit insane or a bit clinically disordered. But there is a VERY high proportion of the population that does struggle with mental illness or disorders and many more that go undiagnosed due to dumbass religious or spiritual beliefs.
Inter-racial dating. Some time ago, I used to blog on a dating site and I wrote a few pieces about ...
demifeministgal comments on Apr 1, 2019:
I wonder if she had been a woke white person that understood privilege and systemic/individual level oppression and actively tried to understand his experiences, and not make it about herself and her white fragility, if he would have dumped her.
[bitchmedia.org] Why do we have an obsession with serial killers like Ted Bundy?
demifeministgal comments on Nov 4, 2019:
We as a society you mean? :s
hi 🙂 is this group accepting of people who think toxic positivity is an ineffective way of ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 2, 2019:
I feel the way you do.... perhaps not to the point of calling it abusive, but I definitely think that cliches and positive thoughts are never enough for people with clinical disorder that require medication to adjust or control.... I would say this group does tend toward people finding solutions outside of medications such as diet and excercise and walking in nature, or more "natural" solutions/approaches.... so if you do not like that, it is here.
I am curious about how many of you are close to your families. I have spent the past 5 days with my ...
demifeministgal comments on Oct 25, 2019:
Consider yourself truly lucky and blessed you never had abusive and toxic immediate family members.... the only fam member I can be close with is my sister, everyone else triggers me because they are emotionally/psychologically abusive/toxic. And nobody should be forced to endure time with people that destroy you or break you down, just because you share some biology.... you would not put up with such crap from strangers, why would you from family. Just trying to help you understand your extended family a bit better and why they may be the way they are.
Will humans as a species ever be able to work together as a whole to achieve a goal? What is holding...
demifeministgal comments on Apr 4, 2019:
nationalism, xenophobia, bigotry, wanting control of resources and power, exploitation, etc. Even when you have nations come together for common goals under various millenial development goals or other UN-based things, there are still nations that will not ratify (agree to follow) the goals in favour of their own nations' laws/customs. :/
Ritualized compulsive comfort-seeking (what traditionalists call addiction) is a normal response ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 25, 2018:
So does this person completely ignoring the chemical dependence that is often a part of addiction? And that one does not have had to endure childhood adversities to become addicted? A limited and poorly thought out article, imo.
Today's the day. Vote early and often. Great choice! Mr.Dress-up, Harper-Lite, Punjabi ...
demifeministgal comments on Oct 22, 2019:
Why do you assume he is a separatist? And why mention his punjabi ethnicity and not the others'? Sounds like a racist thing to say from a canadian bible belter... smh
Memes are spam... Or are they?
demifeministgal comments on Mar 27, 2019:
I've seen informative memes produced and shared online with medical biological or political facts so I would not say they are all spam. Though some can be spam, others can be useful as conveyors of knowledge/info.
What small things brighten up your day when they happen?
demifeministgal comments on Apr 4, 2019:
cute fluffy doggies walking down the street especially if said doggies come to say hi to me and I get to pet them! :D
I know people love their animals, but I wonder what would happen if you were required to sponsor a ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 17, 2019:
LOL I don't think people need to be adopting kid(s) they do not want as projects. And honestly, too many people that do not want kid(s) are already having them the last thing we need is for kid(s) to be adopted in to neglectful or abusive households. Also, requiring childfree people to adopt kid(s) is disgusting and forces parenthood on those of us that do not want kid(s). If anything, the ones that want to have one or more kid(s) anyways should be required to sponsor, not us happily childfree people.
"You talking to me? "
demifeministgal comments on Aug 23, 2019:
My life as an asexual........... (Warning lots of sex mentions) I was made fun of in school for ...
demifeministgal comments on Oct 18, 2019:
Seems you have been abused/coerced alot sexually as well as needing to come into your own confidence and esteem (so your worth did not rely on others' desire of you) by sexual people... Good to read you finally accepted yourself for who you truly are and stopped having sex for all the wrong reasons... as a demisexual I need a bond with someone before I can be sexually intimate and it is sometimes described as a type of asexuality (which is funny cuz we are not, we just don't desire to screw someone we find hot or sexy, before getting to know them). Just know not all of us "allosexuals" are as disgusting as the ones you have had unfortunate or terrible experiences with. Enjoy your poly relationship :)
My mother is having a family cookout on Friday. She is inviting my half uncle who I have avoided...
demifeministgal comments on Sep 6, 2019:
You are not unreasonable for not wanting to go... seems the bulk of my fam members are similar to your uncle minus the flat earth and selling drugs bit... and I still go and see the loonies XD
I am really am 42 years old ,and my balls act like they're still in puberty,i mean they get so tight...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 17, 2019:
You should tell your doctor about this.... It is not normal for testicles to randomly hurt for no reason.
A night under blankets and stars while contemplating life with one another seems to be a wonderful ...
demifeministgal comments on Oct 25, 2019:
I'm not lying under blankets and the stars on any date... that sounds like camping and I dislike camping... however contemplating life or having intellectually stimulating conversation sounds great :)
Would you date/marry a Muslim?
demifeministgal comments on Apr 4, 2019:
No. They tend to be too conservative for my liking. Although I wouldn't date a jew or christian even! heh
Reason 542 it sometimes sucks to be female. [bbc.co.uk]
demifeministgal comments on Oct 7, 2019:
reaction from reading the article: ughhh stop a girl in a rush?! FCK them I am in a rush for a reason keep me out of your GD games! :/
Ideally, should religious people be:
demifeministgal comments on Oct 16, 2019:
I'd say educated and guaranteed equal rights... not sure what you meant by forcibly? As in religious cults that insist on home schooling their kids? And the state sending them to public or private schools? :s
Just met a guy from on here for coffee Saturday. He really wasn’t into it and was distracted the ...
demifeministgal comments on Jan 28, 2020:
Some people are compulsive daters or serial monogamists and literally cannot stand being alone, not in a romantic relationship, for too long. They need to do some introspection and stop dragging people down to fill their empty voids.
I don't know what to do... my mother died years back and my grandparents (her parents) had ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 23, 2019:
To be clear, I am not worried about straining my relationship with my grandparents, they will die soon anyways.... I am worried about my sister... that they will go to her guilt more money out of her and she will resent me and only me for having to pay more. Just like she seems to resent me and only me for not contributing more financially to funeral costs even though I planned and arranged everything with her and went above and beyond to perfect every detail while she was at work. It is like my labour meant nothing to her, just money... I wonder if now my money will mean nothing to her in the future and I will be resented for the headstone... needless to say our mother FCKD UP our relationship and continues to do so beyond the grave it seems! :/
I need to tell this yoga teacher I just don't want to be touched in class. The first time she went ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 26, 2019:
Where I live, what she is doing would be considered sexual assault (defined as unwanted touching or kissing) and you and others would be in the right to report her actions to her superior(s). Better that she get a warning from a boss than the company get a lawsuit for sexual assault. Think of it that way and do others as well as yourself a favour. :)
If anyone can relate and give me tips with how they dealt with similar or the same situation, I'd ...
demifeministgal comments on Oct 23, 2018:
Update: one of my bosses tried to teach me something complicated today, way beyond what I have been exposed to. The top manager looked at us and scoffed good luck! Then she took the envelopes from me and the packages and started doing things herself because I was not fast enough (they are damn behind since their previous admin went on maternity leave and their replacement left in september). It just left me feeling demoralized and down. Then she asked me why am I not answering calls or doing other stuff and I'm like I was told not to! Not to mention nobody fckng trained me on calls yet! I have no idea what the company policies are were a caller to ask!! Talk about feeding into my self-doubts today. FCKKK :( >:( :/
Are people that don't reason humans?
demifeministgal comments on Aug 13, 2019:
But humans ARE animals, we are mammals. We may be higher order animals aka our ability to reflect or reason as you say, but that does not make us any less animals. This question would disqualify mentally disabled, (formerly "retarded") from being humans, since they cannot reason and often need caregivers. In that sense, the question, as posed, comes across as ableist. Just sayin'
Gender in atheism
demifeministgal comments on Dec 12, 2019:
Probably because it is women that were raised to raise their kid(s) under religion and it is their duty to raise kids in the faith, so that coming out will take longer. Also, my generation is using other social media, not this forum so much-- the site tends to skew in the 40+ range-- and we do have higher numbers of atheists and non-believers than boomers and Gen X'ers do.
HETERO & BI WOMEN: Your next relationship will be with an older man, a man your age (within five ...
demifeministgal comments on Oct 25, 2019:
A man my age (within 5 years older) or a man older, don't do younger... it is hard getting men mature enough in my age group, I would not want to go younger and more immature.
Doing a shoot with my actor friend Skye.
demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:
Needs more toning on the butt. lol
This is why I hate technology
demifeministgal comments on Aug 27, 2019:
Perhaps you just hate select technology? I assume you posted this post via a laptop/PC/smartphone/tablet and this website uses the internet and other tech to function.
Seems like many of you are so caught up in the fact that your non believers that you’re forgetting...
demifeministgal comments on Oct 25, 2019:
I use it as a community site since i wanted to connect with other agnostics out there. :) When I googled something like agnostic or atheist forums this group popped up. It was not advertised as a dating site, otherwise I would have never joined at the time... though it can, of course, be used as a dating site.
My girlfriend just asked me if i would still love her if she didn’t have any skin?? um...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 23, 2019:
wtf prompted that question? Did she watch a documentary about acid burning or about burn victims or something? :s
What am I do? I have been with a woman several years, she is amazing and wonderful in every way ...
demifeministgal comments on Jul 13, 2019:
I had a ex that was okay with the same routine and did not want to spice things up. I communicated with him about it, open and honestly, on several occassions and told him what I wanted to try. Now, he did not try everything but he made minor changes. On the other hand, initially he did not want to try at all. That is the worst imo if you communicate your needs and your partner is like meh, fck it. Good luck with those needs. :/ Hopefully your partner is more willing to satisfy your needs once it is discussed and pondered about on her end.
Has anyone else searched the web on “painless suicide”? I did about twelve years ago, after a...
demifeministgal comments on Oct 3, 2019:
Yes, when I still lived at home and the narc made me want to kill myself.... in fact, if they allowed people to purchase 1000L of carbon monoxide, without needing good reasons for it, I wouldn't be here now. The fear of pain or vomitting has stood between me and death, as I fear both. :$
Will You Still Love You When You're No Longer Young and Beautiful?
demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:
what is an NPC?? :s And yea often gym rats or those primarily concerned with their looks tend to neglect their most powerful organ: their brains.... their bodies may be fit but their brains are out of shape, so to speak. It is those few gems that have found a good balance between working on their bodies and their brains :D
Can an atheist and a devout religious person have a real love connection, and intimacy without one ...
demifeministgal comments on Jun 22, 2019:
The men I am attracted to tend to be religious too. :/ It is difficult finding Latino/black guys that are not religious, especially if they are immigrants or kids of immigrants. grrr
Woman are pressed in Stereotypes. When I see so-called "Feminists" dressing in Hijabs, I get the ...
demifeministgal comments on Jul 22, 2018:
This sums up my point nicely
I ran across a friend who was in a similar situation that I was recovering from...so I shared this....
demifeministgal comments on Jan 31, 2019:
What the heck are these supposed seven centers of consciousness? How does this author define or conceptualize consciousness?
Here's another for your viewing pleasure... You're welcome 😊
demifeministgal comments on Aug 21, 2019:
less tattoos next time >.> but keep up the muscley arm pics <3
What is your idea of a good death?
demifeministgal comments on Mar 20, 2019:
I will disagree that one needs to live a long life. But rather, one should live a fulfilling life in which all their needs, as per Maslow's hierarchy, are met. And any (realistic) goals or desires or dreams or wishes of theirs are met. And a pain-free death would me ideal for me. Were it not for my aversion to pain and fear of vomitting I may not be here right now. heh xD Also, to have closure before one dies and sort out all one's affairs and say one's goodbyes or farewells and make ammends. For me, closure is important and I would probably right all my loved ones letters.
So I'm gonna show off my good friend Talonn. He's so gorgeous both inside and out and I love him!!! ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 28, 2019:
those arms, that smile and a gorgeous brain to boot! goddam his partner is lucky to have him ;)
The difference racist comments between Canada and US. Don Cherry a hockey Icon got fired on ...
demifeministgal comments on Nov 12, 2019:
No you are lying... at least have the decency to tell the truth... he literally said: "YOU PEOPLE love-- that come here, whatever it is-- you love our way of life, you love our milk and honey, at least you can pay a couple bucks for a poppy or something like that. These guys paid for your way of life that you enjoy in Canada"... in regards to immigrants... and his old, rich fat ass never gets out of his car... if he did and actually walked around the streets of toronto he would see lots of people wearing poppies as I did on a daily basis. Why are you lying for him? What do you get for sharing false information?
I posted a couple weeks ago about a guy I had a date with, and a second date planned. The second ...
demifeministgal comments on Mar 24, 2019:
Honestly, men like him and stories like this is why I always offer to go dutch. And if a guy tried the get desert from me, he would be starved out and it would be his own damn fault.
I just need a way to make $65 a week........ but I keep getting bullied or trolled when asking for ...
demifeministgal comments on Oct 25, 2019:
Have you tried doing focus groups or online surveys in your area? It would not provide $65/week but it could help with some extra cash.... I'd recommend surveysavvy.com and qmee.com for you as an american.
It takes more than an Atheist to over throw over obiedience authority of Religion. It takes a born ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 21, 2019:
What anarchists cannot address properly is what happens to the disadvantaged populations? Your disabled people that cannot work or the sick or pregnant or poverty-stricken or elderly? Without social services and social programs like socialized healthcare or medicaid, food stamps, welfare, subsidized or affordable housing, pension plans and a host of other programs, how will they live? Anarchists assume the community would step up and care for all of these. AND WHAT IF THEY DON'T?! Fck em? Would there be socialist programs offered under anarchism?
Good morning honey... WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING? 😊😍😘😄 At the request of ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 21, 2019:
LOL at my request?!? hahaha if it were truly at my request he would have way more melanin ;)
At long last, my articulate daughter speaks clearly on the phone.
demifeministgal comments on Nov 4, 2019:
Do claire and terry work together? :)
Can you be a close friends with someone who once your lover??? I'm on thin ice, folks.... I can't...
demifeministgal comments on Feb 14, 2019:
I think it can be done but both parties MUST be open and honest with one another and with themselves... and I think if either party starts catching feelings they need to tell the other party and either take some space apart or break off said friendship. Not everyone is capable of being just friends with a former lover.
How does one come about using this app?
demifeministgal comments on Nov 12, 2019:
Well what do you have to offer to the world/potential partners? What makes you different from all others? Neither I nor anyone else here can answer that for you. Find your people aka join groups here that allign most with your interests or hobbies or values and go from there.
I've had a nice little break and I'm back. I missed a few of you.
demifeministgal comments on Jul 16, 2019:
Only a few huh? :(
Day before yesterday I woke up at 5 AM. I am still up. Earlier yesterday afternoon, I wanted to ...
demifeministgal comments on Nov 19, 2018:
Have you tried doing a sleeping study to see what's wrong? I am doing one soon :D
How do you feel about Friends With Benefits, whether your single or married?
demifeministgal comments on Mar 28, 2019:
I am okay with it. but there NEEDS to be open and honest communication among the partners to ensure neither is catching feelings. And, if feelings are caught, it is up to the one without feelings to either put a stop to things or see if the partner can continue. No leading them on! It is okay for singles and only okay for poly married or open marriage people.
Found that my mentally challenged niece is pregnant. Her evangelical mother (my sister) says she ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 17, 2019:
Hopefully she will help her raise it? Otherwise we will have yet another abused child crippled in their adult years to contend with---- I say this as someone who's parental units should have never bred btw.
Rare $0.05 cent Canadian bill found in U.K.
demifeministgal comments on Jul 20, 2019:
LMFAO omg they are so cute.... it literally says canadian tire could nobody google that to see it was a store?! silly humans
I wanted to share an update on my "Romantic Situation" here at agnostic since it is This Site that ...
demifeministgal comments on Mar 6, 2019:
Got any wedding pics? ;)
This post does not pretend to represent a scientific analysis; it's just a conversation starter. ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 31, 2019:
I don't know why you chose those 2 specific posts to compare and contrast. Quite simply, I blocked one of those posters for incessantly complaining about her "online love" and how it has traumatized her as it was getting tedious. And I did not see seeker's post. Lee Lou's post appeared under trending when I was in the browse function. So quite simply, visibility and trendability got him a reply from me.
What is this? I guessed two-headed dog collar in my Oddites group. Looking for some more salacious...
demifeministgal comments on May 24, 2019:
Based on porn, I'd say it is for a dom's 2 subs so they can be attached to one another and easily lead around simultaneously?
OK, I have a lady friend who forgot how to fuck. The other day she said she had a memory from 30 ...
demifeministgal comments on Jan 29, 2019:
Yes it is valid, she is experiencing traumatic flashbacks. She may not be ready for a sexual relationship at this point. Try using some empathy would ya?
My daughter and her husband took the kids to ski in Verbier Switzerland. The first is her with my ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 30, 2019:
:O does that mean you are a great-grandfather?
So the post about a dog that isn't friendly and wanted to add a dog to her home was removed because ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 1, 2019:
Well, your ego and pride were clearly hurt. What clique? Do you think the admin or mod of this group removed the post? :s Is it not just possible that the poster got all the advice she wanted/needed and was sick of notifications, so removed it? Why make a big thing over it as if she personally insulted you?? CALM DOWN!
have not been on this site for bit, had car accident and suffered a concussion, lost a month, and ...
demifeministgal comments on Sep 23, 2019:
did you mean sapio-sexial?? :s
Sometimes I think my dog needs how to act like a dog class.
demifeministgal comments on Apr 30, 2019:
LOL I once saw kirby drag a pillow off the couch onto the floor and under the computer desk to rest his head on it. I think he just lies on the couch on pillows now but that was quite the funny thing to witness. silly doggies
I was watching a report on racism at the UK football/ soccer matches and they also said that ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 10, 2019:
I would say it is a combination of unconscious (or conscious) biases, othering, and plain old bigotry... I am not sure there is any evidence or data to support that your average everyday human is trying to use hate to thin out the herd to horde or conserve resources... For those that are interested, this is what I mean by othering: transforming a difference into otherness so as to create an in-group and an out-group In-group: a group to which a person/speaker belongs to out-group: a group to which a person/speaker does not belong to
I just found out today that there are companies that exist who hire individuals to go on the ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 15, 2019:
source? :S :o
Hi all; I want to share with the group my experience I had this last Thursday. The local sensual...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 30, 2019:
talons all over my body? yikes no thanks! :o Good thing you two had safe fun and he learned about consent :)
I just got laid off from my job. I'm reeling.
demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:
Hopefully you can use one of your bosses or coworkers as reference. Did they say why you were being laid off?
I have read a good deal of Freud's writings . . . . The modern reaction to anyone who mentions Freud...
demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:
So many things have changed in the field of psychology since Freud's time though... do you ignore all of that and throw away things like the DSM V or other psychiatric diagnostics in favour of his primitive writings? I agree with Len that he is a founder of psych the way Darwin was the founder of evolution.
My online experience has been underwhelming, lots of scammers , propositioned by both sex's which ...
demifeministgal comments on Apr 5, 2019:
when you say nail stuff do you mean you expected her to be manicured and nail polished? By hair stuff do you mean did not run a brush through her hair or it was windy and it got messy or frizzy? :s
[motherjones.com] Elizabeth Warren makes formal announcement today in the mill city of mostly ...
demifeministgal comments on Feb 11, 2019:
Apparently kamala is supporting for profit prisons and is a real detriment to minority communities based on her track record. I think she is a better option than kamala by a long shot.
Why I Love Dogs, Reason 42:
demifeministgal comments on Mar 29, 2019:
<3 I should look into this for kirby
King and Queen
demifeministgal comments on Sep 27, 2019:
I can buy good food but I dislike cleaning soo good housekeeper for me :D
Carl Benjamin: the case for free speech. FREE SPEECH is the foundation of western civilization. No ...
demifeministgal comments on Apr 26, 2019:
I am not Murican, but am North American, and I'd rather have been born in a nordic nation which are the best nations for women to live in. :)
A ridiculously good questions to ask.
demifeministgal comments on May 21, 2019:
I will say one of my best memories is before the toxicity fckd me up and I was able to find simple pleasures in life... so my sister and mother went to visit my grandparents while I was alone with my dad (he fell asleep). So finally it was my chance to do what I saw on cartoons... learn how to fly!! So for those few hours before they came home I kept jumping off of the couch arm and flapping my arms hoping to fly. It didn't work. :p When they came home, I got a doll that my grandma brought back for me from Europe. I still have that doll and that memory to this day.
I returned to online (okcupid) dating last month and even paid so I could set likes without ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 6, 2019:
Don't put too much stock into it as the last option before you give up on dating.... just have fun with it and use it as an opportunity to enjoy yourself and time with another human :)
Any single woman
demifeministgal comments on Jan 28, 2020:
No. They all left right before you got here. Tough luck. Go somewhere else!
So over whelmed. My Rottweiler somehow split her lip open today. Looked like a murder scene. Blood ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 8, 2018:
Some community centers offer funding for pet care or vet visits. Worth researching and looking into if there is some organization in your area that covers such expenses for the future.
IS IT possible, even desirable, to have a long-distance relationship, with one partner that travels?...
demifeministgal comments on Nov 21, 2019:
Are you saying only you or only she would be willing to travel? That you two would only see one another when the 1 party did the travelling? :S And yes it is possible.... if it is desirable is entirely up to you. @Rondo
My wife and I have been fighting about her embarrassment at my “manic” reposting of Atheist ...
demifeministgal comments on Jul 14, 2018:
You can set her your restricted friends list on facebook. That way she can only see your public posts and you can make those posts only visible non restricted friends. If she is not facebook savvy she won't even know she's on that list. Good luck
USA and Canada are both complicit in the disaster befalling Venezuela and Sachs documents the USA ...
demifeministgal comments on May 1, 2019:
Not disagreeing and excuse my ignorance, but how is Canada complicit? Are we trade partners? Did we fund the authoritarian govt there? :s
I feel like a bad, miserable person and I don’t fully understand why. Just got home from vacation...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 11, 2019:
perhaps you have anxiety or depression? I know that anxiety causes alot of negative self talk and criticism in oneself... worth looking into: https://www.verywellmind.com/negative-thinking-patterns-and-beliefs-2584084
I'm in the chat. Five twenty pm..
demifeministgal comments on Oct 3, 2019:
you should put which time zone you are in (ie EST DST) so people know what time it is for them.
I've been broken up with my ex for about 4 months now. My question is when will the depression ...
demifeministgal comments on Mar 22, 2019:
If I may ask, how long were you two together? were you in love?
Halloween...what a fun time of year!! Furbaby costumes are groovy!
demifeministgal comments on Oct 24, 2019:
Small doggies love doggy clothing, my best friend's dog did not want her dragon costume taken off.... other doggies HATE anything on their bodies, even leashes.... such as kirby who tries to roll around and take off his Xmas neck bow and pulls off his winter booties (when it gets -30C PLUS windchill here and he can barely walk for a few minutes)
This felt like the safest place to share this. Here goes… I’ve turned around a lot of things ...
demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2018:
I know you did not ask for advice but sometimes you can do focus groups for a little spare money. I am sure there must be ones in New Jersey that you could even apply to through facebook groups. I found this site: https://focusgroups.org/newjersey/
I feel like a bad, miserable person and I don’t fully understand why. Just got home from vacation...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 11, 2019:
"Negative thought replacement is a method for reducing the amount of depressive thoughts in a person’s mind. In the first article of this series, you learned about becoming more aware of your negative thought patterns. In the next article, you learned about letting go of these negative thoughts as they came to you. Now, you’ll learn about the final step — replacing negative thoughts with more realistic and positive thoughts. Introducing New Positive Thoughts As you acknowledge and release the negative thoughts about your finances, you can start introducing new thoughts in your mind. First, consider some of the positive changes or actions you and your spouse have taken because of the job loss. Maybe you have gotten creative with your budget, put out lots of resumes, or changed some purchasing habits. When you release a negative thought about your bills, say something new to yourself like, “I’m feeling more in control because we have cut down some of our bills,” or, “We are finding ways to use our money more wisely and it is helping.” Use the positive information you have learned from this difficult situation to stay encouraged. Keep Practicing Positive Thought Replacement You may not quite believe yourself at first since you may be used to your negative thoughts driving everything. If your thoughts are reasonable and encouraging, continue saying them to yourself. Instead of predicting disaster, your newer, more positive thoughts will now pave the way for solutions you may have never considered before. Your problem has become an opportunity. Images and sounds can also be very influential for some people’s minds. If you know you respond to these, you may conjure up a particular image with your positive thoughts to give them weight — perhaps a color that is calming to you, or an objectr that represents contol or strength to you. Words spoken aloud also can have a profound effect on the mind. A recent study highlighted in Psychology Today describes how speaking aloud helps create two forms of memory. You remember the words both from reading them and from hearing them aloud. Change the Direction Of Your Mind with Positive Thoughts Let’s take one last look at our example of financial worries. You identified the chief concern underneath the negative thoughts about your money, which was a lack of control. When you do something that makes you feel more in control, you take the fuel out of your negative thoughts. You feel less threatened by the negative statements you hear in your mind because your emotions are calmed by your actions. “We’re never going to make it out of this money mess” has less power when you get job interviews from putting out resumes. And now, you are starting to put better more ...
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demifeministgal comments on Mar 9, 2019:
I didn't know that princess one was a thing. :o It sounds pretty nice. :)
Do you think it is dysfunctional when 50 YO kids and their parent(s) spend nearly all their free ...
demifeministgal comments on Jul 27, 2019:
I would not say dysfunctional per se. I would wonder do the parents or kids not have any friends or spouses to occupy their time with? Are the parents dying or in poor health so the adult kid(s) have decided to spend as much time as they can with them before they die? Or are the adult kid(s) the care givers of their sick parent(s)? I would wonder why myself tbh.
Posing with my shirt!! Thanks!
demifeministgal comments on Oct 16, 2019:
Oh wow it comes in black?! :o I've only ever seen it here in purple.... does it also come in blue?? :)
Help! I need advice. I found someone on here I really like, but he's married. I've been reading ...
demifeministgal comments on Feb 14, 2019:
To be clear, how do you KNOW he is such a great guy?? I have found that people can devise online personas where they are this awesome loving nice guy, but in reality, they are not the nice guy their persona would have you believe. Is it not possible that you have fallen for his online presence/persona and the idea you have of him as a person? Rather than the undoubtedly flawed human being (all humans are flawed) that he is? Food for thought @nixjoiner
I haven’t been very active in this group but I’m really struggling tonight. I know I can’t ...
demifeministgal comments on Mar 7, 2019:
If that works for you, that is fantastic! Unfortunately for others we believe the negative we were taught and any new negatives thrown our way and disregard or do not believe the positives. Gotta love negative reinforcements :/
My new puppy Gigi, a miniature Chijuajua.
demifeministgal comments on Apr 16, 2019:
OMG its sooo cute I could die! <3 :D :D :D


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