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After the orgy and why I love going to the dentist.
callmedubious comments on Aug 26, 2019:
why would someone need NO for a teeth cleaning? except to get off, that is.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 26, 2019:
@callmedubious If you are prone to anxiety and tell them as much, and then ask for NO, they may offer it. I personally do not want NO as I do not want to experience a tripping lack of control sensation, so I said no. Just pain killers for me
After the orgy and why I love going to the dentist.
callmedubious comments on Aug 26, 2019:
why would someone need NO for a teeth cleaning? except to get off, that is.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 26, 2019:
I was told that if I am anxious at the dentist I can be given nitrous oxide for my wisdom tooth extraction... so it is still used for given situations/people.
I don't know what to do... my mother died years back and my grandparents (her parents) had ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 23, 2019:
To be clear, I am not worried about straining my relationship with my grandparents, they will die soon anyways.... I am worried about my sister... that they will go to her guilt more money out of her and she will resent me and only me for having to pay more. Just like she seems to resent me and only...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 24, 2019:
@Davekp Because anxiety and having a tiny support network has you overthinking and worried you will lose what lil support people you have left by making a choice purely out of emotions :( :$
Today a potential date asked me "would you say life has been fair to you?" I thought it a great ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 23, 2019:
Not just those, but the genetic lottery and plain good luck; if you were born to healthy or stable/mature parents and not living in poverty your life will be way more fair than those that did not have those advantages. Just sayin'
demifeministgal replies on Aug 24, 2019:
@moonmaid ooh of course but gotta take baby steps with people here before trying to introduce various hierarchies of privilege.
Question: You have a high possibility of ending up in bed with someone you've never had sex with ...
Mofo1953 comments on Aug 21, 2019:
At that point in time it's better always to say what you think.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 24, 2019:
@Mofo1953 typo... meant MANY not maybe...
Why do we desire and seek a romantic, intimate relationship with the opposite sex full well knowing ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 19, 2019:
well first of all not all people do: there are bisexuals and pansexuals and homosexuals. And because we are social creatures and thus mentally healthy people (excluding antisocial people) seek bonds and social unions with other humans. And not all relationships lead to heartache as not all ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 24, 2019:
@arizonajerry69 Cure all regarding heart ache you mean? Or literally cures all? Because I have known terminally ill people that are dead that would disagree with the sex cures all line. >.>
I don't know what to do... my mother died years back and my grandparents (her parents) had ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 23, 2019:
To be clear, I am not worried about straining my relationship with my grandparents, they will die soon anyways.... I am worried about my sister... that they will go to her guilt more money out of her and she will resent me and only me for having to pay more. Just like she seems to resent me and only...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 24, 2019:
@citronella I think I will come to a compromise and give some of the money and that is all. So then I can say hey I contributed this amount when I had no money to spare... give me some credit. But I refuse to for various reasons, one being I despised my breeder, to pay such a high amount for something I feel she doesn't deserve. Yes she is deserving of an unmarked grave and worse treatment than a pet because no doggy has caused me the harm/damage she did.
Question: You have a high possibility of ending up in bed with someone you've never had sex with ...
ToakReon comments on Aug 22, 2019:
How sure can I be that this girl isn't married to a martial arts cage-fighter?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 23, 2019:
that's oddly specific... there must be a story behind this >.>
Question: You have a high possibility of ending up in bed with someone you've never had sex with ...
Mofo1953 comments on Aug 21, 2019:
At that point in time it's better always to say what you think.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 23, 2019:
@Our_existence stop chasing size queens then! Many women are avg down there and you are average as well so the pieces fit well!
Good morning honey... WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING? 😊😍😘😄 At the request of ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 21, 2019:
LOL at my request?!? hahaha if it were truly at my request he would have way more melanin ;)
demifeministgal replies on Aug 23, 2019:
@Cutiebeauty ahem... hairless and black or latino >.>
I'm all out of solo man pics... I took this pic of my friend, but this attention hound stepped in ...
UrsiMajor comments on Aug 22, 2019:
With all of these new gender-identity trends, I'm relying on you to tell me who's a woman and who's a man at this point! I prefer the one on the right. I'm still straight, right? :) :)
demifeministgal replies on Aug 23, 2019:
Just to be clear, someone's identity is not a trend... just like someone's sexuality is not a trend.
I don't know what to do... my mother died years back and my grandparents (her parents) had ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 23, 2019:
To be clear, I am not worried about straining my relationship with my grandparents, they will die soon anyways.... I am worried about my sister... that they will go to her guilt more money out of her and she will resent me and only me for having to pay more. Just like she seems to resent me and only...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 23, 2019:
Maybe I shouldn't care but she is the only family I have left that I want to maintain a relationship with if I lose her I have nothing no friends no family and then what's the point of it all if I am all alone? :'(
Why do we desire and seek a romantic, intimate relationship with the opposite sex full well knowing ...
St-Sinner comments on Aug 19, 2019:
Intimacy is generally referred to as physical intimacy. Emotional closeness is not generally referred to as intimacy. You can have an emotional bond, closeness. We often mix it together to make it more difficult than it needs to be. You can have one without the other. Both are mutually ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 21, 2019:
@St-Sinner You missed my point, which was that religious teens are somehow smarter than avg person. Also, aggression and anger ARE ALSO EMOTIONS. And if men tend to be more aggressive and angry, they are also quite emotional beings too. You just stigmatize some emotions that you consider girly over others, that is all.
Latest update on my online dating. Have had a couple. 1 sends a like on POF. I send a message. ...
St-Sinner comments on Aug 20, 2019:
Have you heard of scam artists online?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 21, 2019:
@Bobsuruncle you can do a google image search for his pic to see where that pic comes from... just so ya know
My Leather Chariots.... What's your fetish? Ha, he, he, ha, he, he.... Packing... heading back to ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 19, 2019:
you have waay more shoes than me.... I will have to point you out the next time someone says all women have lots of shoes... ill be like nu uh there was this guy from agnostic...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 20, 2019:
@GipsyOfNewSpain We all have our own vices I suppose... I have never been one for luxury brands myself but it definitely is a status marker... I hope toxic women in your life were not driving you to alcoholism :(
Sex... do I miss it? I think so but it's been so long that I don't give it the amount of thought I ...
NoPlanetB comments on Aug 19, 2019:
Sex is good for lots of things. It's good for you, good for human connection through intimacy, good for your heart, good for your boys and the lovely indorphins make you feel good too. You sound jaded, maybe with good reason but if it didn't bother you then why post about it. You dont have to ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 19, 2019:
@MsDemeanour obviously my most pressing issues are not typos if you have EVER bothered to read any of my posts or comments... I felt like making a typo comment the way many other old members here have made a type comment and not be called out.... but only old people get to call out typos it seems. *eye roll*
Just got back from the dentist and need to get expensive extractions done... the dentist said in his...
AncientNight comments on Aug 17, 2019:
This may be related to your situation. So, please, read the whole thing. Back in 1985, I lived near one of those farm and garden supply places that got hit by Lightning and caught fire. In the warehouse of this place were all kinds of pesticides, insecticides, herbicides, homicides, genocides and...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 19, 2019:
@AncientNight I've never done hard drugs in my life... at most I have done weed rarely.
Why do we desire and seek a romantic, intimate relationship with the opposite sex full well knowing ...
St-Sinner comments on Aug 19, 2019:
Intimacy is generally referred to as physical intimacy. Emotional closeness is not generally referred to as intimacy. You can have an emotional bond, closeness. We often mix it together to make it more difficult than it needs to be. You can have one without the other. Both are mutually ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 19, 2019:
@St-Sinner It sounds like you are projecting... just because intimacy confuses you doesn't mean it confuses others.... I mean religions that prioritize emotional intimacy over physical intimacy teach about it... for example catholic schools we were taught about intimacy in the emotional sense cause obviously physical intimacy was not allowed until marriage... and this was in high school.... are you telling me that the avg human is dumber than a catholic high schooler?? >.>
Sex... do I miss it? I think so but it's been so long that I don't give it the amount of thought I ...
NoPlanetB comments on Aug 19, 2019:
Sex is good for lots of things. It's good for you, good for human connection through intimacy, good for your heart, good for your boys and the lovely indorphins make you feel good too. You sound jaded, maybe with good reason but if it didn't bother you then why post about it. You dont have to ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 19, 2019:
*endorphins.... that is all
Real exchange... you deviants might not be the right folks to ask 😁
Buttercup comments on Aug 18, 2019:
After only three days, you should both be on your best behavior, too soon? For her obviously, if it's a deal breaker, move on. It's also to soon for her to be critical and mean spirited, she may be bitter or disillusioned with men. A polite but firm, "I don't like that" and accepting your apology ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 19, 2019:
From this very brief exchange and of her simply stating she is not into something how were you even able to conclude: critical and mean spirited, she may be bitter or disillusioned with men??
I've heard on the radio this morning, there is a petition to change Trump tower street name to ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 16, 2019:
He is from old wealth so the reason he was able to develop anything was thanks to daddies money and to screwing over workers by not paying them and them having to take him to court to sue him for their wages.... also apparently he was not actually a billionaire but he kept saying that he is and ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 19, 2019:
@AnneWimsey I think you knew exactly what I meant... that he is not some poor boy from the streets that made a fortune but was handed his money/empire.
How not to be used
RavenCT comments on Aug 18, 2019:
That self-worth one can be tricky for folks because if your parents didn't give it to you - you might still be searching for it. It can be learned however - I've seen it. My parents gave me all the self-worth in the world thankfully. That doesn't mean you never have some self doubt. ;-)
demifeministgal replies on Aug 19, 2019:
And how exactly is it learned for those people?? Asking for a friend >.>
Just got back from the dentist and need to get expensive extractions done... the dentist said in his...
AncientNight comments on Aug 17, 2019:
This may be related to your situation. So, please, read the whole thing. Back in 1985, I lived near one of those farm and garden supply places that got hit by Lightning and caught fire. In the warehouse of this place were all kinds of pesticides, insecticides, herbicides, homicides, genocides and...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 19, 2019:
@AncientNight I don't think I have. Unless you are implying everyone has through virtue of eating foods with pesticides on them? :s
Condoms....
t1nick comments on Aug 17, 2019:
Depends upon your ultimate goal. If your goal is to procreate, then it's definitely counterproductive. If your goal is sex, and sex alone, your position seems a selfish, self-centered position. A condom is much less an inconvenience than deciding whether or not to terminate or follow through ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 17, 2019:
as do women??
Condoms....
oldFloyd comments on Aug 16, 2019:
You left out the lawyers for the finalization of the paperwork involving consensual sex agreements. 🤔
demifeministgal replies on Aug 17, 2019:
@oldFloyd No that is NOT what it has come to... you struggle with consent so you think it is this tricky tightrope to walk... yet literally communicating with your sexual partners and getting the green light from em is all that is needed... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8
Just got back from the dentist and need to get expensive extractions done... the dentist said in his...
AncientNight comments on Aug 17, 2019:
This may be related to your situation. So, please, read the whole thing. Back in 1985, I lived near one of those farm and garden supply places that got hit by Lightning and caught fire. In the warehouse of this place were all kinds of pesticides, insecticides, herbicides, homicides, genocides and...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 17, 2019:
I don't think I have ever been exposed to arsenic but thanks for the info nonetheless... perhaps someone else has had a similar situation like yours and will benefit from the info you have shared here :)
Just got back from the dentist and need to get expensive extractions done... the dentist said in his...
AnonySchmoose comments on Aug 16, 2019:
I'm currently struggling with several physical health things, which are expensive. But I feel encouraged by looking forward to how I'll feel with those issues resolved. Instead of looking back on how good things used to be, I'll be able to enjoy my blessings in the here and now. Taking on the ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 16, 2019:
I guess it's cuz I didn't really get a looking back phase... I did not know to appreciate my health before I turned 9 and ever since then it's been one crapshoot piled on to another one... I'd just like some consistent relief once and for all rather than gaps of neutrality... :(
Just got back from the dentist and need to get expensive extractions done... the dentist said in his...
HippieChick58 comments on Aug 16, 2019:
I'm so sorry. This getting older stuff sucks. One of my kids just had to have a tooth pulled after they did the root canal that wasn't needed. She got her dad's teeth. Is dental covered in Canada? In the US we pay lots for dental even with insurance.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 16, 2019:
Sadly it is not covered and dentists overcharge for everything it seems :/
Ok, I have an Internet date for tomorrow night. These first dates are always a bit nervous! P.S. - ...
LiterateHiker comments on Aug 16, 2019:
The quickest and best way to ruin the good and fun times is to load them up with expectations in advance. Most often, I don't recognize the man I'm meeting. Here's what usually happens: I arrive early at a cafe' for a first meeting, dressed nicely to honor the occasion. "Kathleen!" I ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 16, 2019:
Not even old photos anymore... now there is so much photoshopping and editing of images being done that you meet someone who looked waaay better in his professionally edited/taken pic than IRL xD
I'm feeling really pleased with myself. I know it is trivial, but I went to an 'Escape Room' with ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 15, 2019:
sometimes it is the small victories yea? good for you getting out of your comfort zone... I, too, need to get out of my comfort zone more often :$
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
@Antidronefreeman they CAN play a giant role... but the childfree elders with no access to kids have happiness too :)
I'm feeling really pleased with myself. I know it is trivial, but I went to an 'Escape Room' with ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 15, 2019:
sometimes it is the small victories yea? good for you getting out of your comfort zone... I, too, need to get out of my comfort zone more often :$
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
@Antidronefreeman No it is about her overcoming this: "despite my anxiety, claustrophobia, and not really liking game playing, I got on fine and quite enjoyed it." From her own post.
I'm feeling really pleased with myself. I know it is trivial, but I went to an 'Escape Room' with ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 15, 2019:
sometimes it is the small victories yea? good for you getting out of your comfort zone... I, too, need to get out of my comfort zone more often :$
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
@Antidronefreeman but the post is not about that... so kindly spew your agenda elsewhere mmkay?
I found this on facebook and found it hilarious and needing to be shared ;)
RavenCT comments on Aug 15, 2019:
Sure that's not a kielbasa? :-D
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
@RavenCT you mean write a novel like this post was written to make a point?? By the way have you ever heard of the facebook page Man who has it all?? It is a satirical page I think you would enjoy :)
I'm feeling really pleased with myself. I know it is trivial, but I went to an 'Escape Room' with ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 15, 2019:
sometimes it is the small victories yea? good for you getting out of your comfort zone... I, too, need to get out of my comfort zone more often :$
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
@Antidronefreeman ummm one NO almost anyone and everyone can have kid(s) it is not a victory whatsoever but parents love to tell themselves that to console themselves two the victory was getting out of her comfort zone and dealing with her anxiety and claustrophobia head-on. Do not misrepresent my point please
Do you look like anyone 'famous'?
Wenepai comments on Aug 14, 2019:
I've been compared to Lupita, Janelle Monae, and Kerry Washington.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
yup definitely with a different hairstyle you could be kerry washington's stunt double ;)
I found this on facebook and found it hilarious and needing to be shared ;)
RavenCT comments on Aug 15, 2019:
Sure that's not a kielbasa? :-D
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
I preferred they didn't call it a kielbasa it'd make me think of polish guys yughh (it's okay they are "my people")
For the last time, don't ask a stranger "What are you?"
demifeministgal comments on Aug 14, 2019:
If you didn't tell me she was mixed, I would think she was just a tanned white chick. XD
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
@LiterateHiker I'm a millenial :)
Mixed signals, I may have disappointed as many women by not responding than for being too offensive....
Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 15, 2019:
Haha some guys are clueless or scared of rejection
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
Then others have such low self esteem or self image issues they do not think any woman would be interested... I know my best friend periodically has stories about women hitting on him and him not realizing it until they just ask him what's wrong with him... they were hitting on him and he acted like he didn't care... when he just thought they were being nice. XD
What is the difference of significant importance between a handshake and having protected vaginal ...
chucklesIII comments on Mar 10, 2019:
You can't have protected vaginal sex in public.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
@zesty And let's keep it that way for hygienic reasons and not to force people to see that against their consent
I'm starting to reach the conclusion that empathy does not come naturally for many and they need to ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 14, 2019:
I have read the opposite that empathy is an evolutionary trait we inherited, with exceptions like sociopaths and psychopaths.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
@powder but the white colonialists did not apparently. thanks to them denying rights to women or visible minorities who they deemed what was it? 3/5ths of a person? If that is not absence of empathy, than what is?
Yes, I did. "What are you interested in?" My reply, "Someone that can get their head out of ...
Rustee comments on Aug 14, 2019:
That is excellent!! I was 'friended' recently on FB, and the person wanted to chat. One of his first questions was "What's your name?" .... Really???
demifeministgal replies on Aug 15, 2019:
@lookinhard because why else would her reply be REALLY?! context cues ma dude.... if someone asked me for my actual name it'd make sense and I would never act like they were dense.
I'm starting to reach the conclusion that empathy does not come naturally for many and they need to ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 14, 2019:
I have read the opposite that empathy is an evolutionary trait we inherited, with exceptions like sociopaths and psychopaths.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 14, 2019:
@powder yes but they did not extend empathy to minorities or women soo I don't think the increased materialism reduces empathy per se... especially since millenials have to work 2-3 jobs just to get by :(
Yes, I did. "What are you interested in?" My reply, "Someone that can get their head out of ...
Rustee comments on Aug 14, 2019:
That is excellent!! I was 'friended' recently on FB, and the person wanted to chat. One of his first questions was "What's your name?" .... Really???
demifeministgal replies on Aug 14, 2019:
@lookinhard she must use her real name on facebook, that is why
I'm starting to reach the conclusion that empathy does not come naturally for many and they need to ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 14, 2019:
I have read the opposite that empathy is an evolutionary trait we inherited, with exceptions like sociopaths and psychopaths.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 14, 2019:
@powder why more so for the me generation than the generation before the civil rights and womens rights movements... if anyone needed to be taught empathy it was old(er) generations.
I found this on facebook and found it hilarious and needing to be shared ;)
Jolanta comments on Aug 14, 2019:
Yeah, they all have certain insecurities.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 14, 2019:
Not about insecurities about needlessly sexualizing a man's movements as he does mundane tasks like get out of bed and go to the washroom
Lately i have read ar least a dozen posts on here talking about "gawd", AS IF one exists. The posts...
Athena comments on Aug 14, 2019:
I haven't noticed. Would someone please share an example of this?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 14, 2019:
@Athena Contemporary historians? I'd like to see your sources... it just sounds like conservative rhetoric atm to be honest.... colour me skeptical
Lately i have read ar least a dozen posts on here talking about "gawd", AS IF one exists. The posts...
Athena comments on Aug 14, 2019:
I haven't noticed. Would someone please share an example of this?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 14, 2019:
@Athena I don't trust the historians... I trust the archaeologists more who have stated there is no contemporary evidence for a jesus figure.... and I say if there was a man performing miracles, supposedly god, surely he would be written about when alive, no? Which historians have you read claiming he existed?? :S Were they religious themselves?? Was their work in peer reviewed journals??
Lately i have read ar least a dozen posts on here talking about "gawd", AS IF one exists. The posts...
Athena comments on Aug 14, 2019:
I haven't noticed. Would someone please share an example of this?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 14, 2019:
I think I spoke to one, either a theist or has some delusional disorder going on.
For the last time, don't ask a stranger "What are you?"
demifeministgal comments on Aug 14, 2019:
If you didn't tell me she was mixed, I would think she was just a tanned white chick. XD
demifeministgal replies on Aug 14, 2019:
@LiterateHiker It's gonna be a generational divide... women from my generation call themselves bitches and sl*ts to try and reclaim those words... your daughter is gorgeous... I always think mixed/bi racial people look amazing.
For the last time, don't ask a stranger "What are you?"
demifeministgal comments on Aug 14, 2019:
If you didn't tell me she was mixed, I would think she was just a tanned white chick. XD
demifeministgal replies on Aug 14, 2019:
@LiterateHiker I have heard women called way worse.. if you bristle at chicks then the c-word must give you an aneurysm XD
Would you as an agnostic or atheist marry a Christian?
Byrdsfan comments on Aug 13, 2019:
Not sure. Put up some photos.......
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
Only if you have her consent to do so, that is...
I'm exhausted. I have been having major health problems and it is just wearing on me and causing a ...
GreenAtheist comments on Aug 13, 2019:
Some questions leading to healing and stress reduction: can you bicycle? Walking to classes or appointments takes time away from study and a bike speeds up fresh air into your lungs ....5 minutes here 10 minutes there is time saved getting you in class earlier and rested more attentive to ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
@PiperMckenna You can also take a reduced course load... that's another strategy I used when taking stats and living in a toxic envt :$ it will delay things a bit OR you can take your other elective courses over the summer :)
I'm exhausted. I have been having major health problems and it is just wearing on me and causing a ...
Freedompath comments on Aug 13, 2019:
...’start classes strong’.., sometimes the very best we have is just ‘showing up!’ Forget about failure and work through your anxiety...which means facing forward and ‘showing up!’ Then you can work on the material from there! Fear and anxiety will block your absorption of the ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
@PiperMckenna Keep in mind you can also repeat classes a 2nd or 3rd or however many times. I know that costs money of course, but it is always an option to deal with failure... I had a senior lady in my class with a disability (she had a trained support dog she walked with) and she had to take the intro level stats 2 times at least (she may had to have done it a 3rd cuz from what I overheard she was failing her 2nd go at it too, but maybe she pulled it together and aced the final exam). No need to drop your chosen field just because of ONE difficult mandatory course.
I'm exhausted. I have been having major health problems and it is just wearing on me and causing a ...
Freedompath comments on Aug 13, 2019:
...’start classes strong’.., sometimes the very best we have is just ‘showing up!’ Forget about failure and work through your anxiety...which means facing forward and ‘showing up!’ Then you can work on the material from there! Fear and anxiety will block your absorption of the ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
@PiperMckenna stats classes were a pain in the rear... luckily my intro stats prof was amazing and she got us to buy this book that dumbed down stats so any idiot could get it (NOT that you are an idiot, just that it made it easily digestible). If you want, I could give you the name and author of that book.... it may or may not be helpful if your degree is in hard sciences though. Making friends in your stats classes so you can copy their notes for when you have absences and forming or joining study groups is a good strategy too.
I'm exhausted. I have been having major health problems and it is just wearing on me and causing a ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 13, 2019:
I think you should consider consulting the mental health office and finding the accommodations office in your school... they can provide accommodations so you can hand in assignments later or not have to do 2 exams or more the same day (sometimes that kind of scheduling will happen). Of course, the ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
@PiperMckenna IT is your RIGHT as a student experiencing physical and mental health issues to get accommodations... you would either need to get an accommodation form from the accommodations office at your school or they would have you fill one out prior. Talk about that with the doctor too and have her include the mental health issues as well as the surgery issues. You can get temporary accommodations for the surgery and full-time or extended time accommodations for the mental health issues. Good to know and explore your options. :D
I'm exhausted. I have been having major health problems and it is just wearing on me and causing a ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 13, 2019:
I think you should consider consulting the mental health office and finding the accommodations office in your school... they can provide accommodations so you can hand in assignments later or not have to do 2 exams or more the same day (sometimes that kind of scheduling will happen). Of course, the ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
The accommodations will be a great stress reducer as the stress increases due to school stressors and the counsellors, PAID FOR BY YOUR TUITION in most schools, will help in other areas you need help with. IF you are comfortable listing your school here, I can research it for you. :)
Has anyone here ever had family or friends/colleagues doubt your insomnia??? And think they have all...
Stevil comments on Aug 13, 2019:
Everybody that sleeps easily has all the answers. I feel each of us insomniacs are different and all of us have our own unique solutions and problems. Too many people have the "cure" mindset where one pill or food or something will make sleep easy. My former girlfriend could fall asleep in less ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
Yup... my father can fall asleep easily in any envt... in front of a loud tv, on a bus, sitting while eating, with a fire alarm blaring, etc. etc... yet he thinks me staying up late is the cause of my insomnia rather than the insomnia causing the staying up! Couple that with being a light sleeper and you have the perfect storm.
I just need support, no advice: feeling emotionally exhausted... my father (aka sperm donor) went...
Freedompath comments on Aug 13, 2019:
First off...you made it clear at the onset that you didn’t need advice! So what do you want from us? When people step up and give advice it is not meant to be taken to heart at that moment. It is just an outsiders ideas on what you might do differently. But, from your words you already have ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
LOL the poster literally said they wanted support... reading comprehension is important :)
A bit worried about my status. Since 1998 I have had a US greencard. Both my sons are US citizens ...
davknight comments on Aug 13, 2019:
Can a UK visitor use their UK national health insurance benefits in Canada? If so, perhaps you could get your meds refilled in Canada, before entering the US?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
Don't think she could. But I could be wrong. She may have to pay out of pocket for meds here.
Does anyone else here feel frustrated by the dating options out there when you are a person that ...
Allena comments on Aug 13, 2019:
Age != logic and wisdom. The world is full of old fools.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 13, 2019:
Ain't that the truth! And this stereotype of being older equaling wisdom is what old fools (like trump and others like him) shield themselves with to hide their dumbassness
Got my T shirt and pen!
Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 12, 2019:
Congratulations! Doesn't it feel great!!
demifeministgal replies on Aug 12, 2019:
@hippydog LOL! because what woman doesn't want to see a good plumber's butt?! ladies amirite? :p
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
ldheinz comments on Aug 10, 2019:
Men deserve the right to not be interested as well.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 12, 2019:
@ldheinz "so sexism is fine as long as you're the one doing it" Nope. Cool strawman though. My point is that physical violence, including killing, is obviously worse than psychological manipulation. So much so, that we have laws against physical abuse and murder of various degrees, but not so much against emotional abuse. If you disagree, think if you would rather be manipulate or be killed.
Got my T shirt and pen!
Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 12, 2019:
Congratulations! Doesn't it feel great!!
demifeministgal replies on Aug 12, 2019:
@hippydog LOL just for that I may need to crop out my rear XD
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
mooredolezal comments on Aug 10, 2019:
I don't see any religious aspect to this response. First of all he is nonsensical, stating that he "holds value in a women" and then the next sentence, "they hold no value to me". In addition to his grammatical ineptitude, he is excusing the fact that he cannot get laid by placing the blame on ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 12, 2019:
@mooredolezal ahh I see. I cannot speak to those as I am more on the introverted side and was focusing on my health for a couple years now :$ sorry to be of no help here. heh XD
Got my T shirt and pen!
Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 12, 2019:
Congratulations! Doesn't it feel great!!
demifeministgal replies on Aug 12, 2019:
@hippydog I think if I ever get this t-shirt I will take a pic and post it as my profile pic for a bit... but from the back though XD
Got my T shirt and pen!
demifeministgal comments on Aug 11, 2019:
aww no bloody fair!! I want it too! :'( sharing is caring? ;) :p
demifeministgal replies on Aug 12, 2019:
@hippydog that's sweet :) :$
If you have good any outstanding debt with a Chase card, you don't have to pay. In Mar of 2018 they ...
RoyMillar comments on Aug 12, 2019:
have no card and did not hear about it but happy to hear that
demifeministgal replies on Aug 12, 2019:
@RoyMillar Yup it is a good way to go... although when I had a balance on both my credit cards one month (the stupid banks did not provide updates to creditors) my credit score jumped up. WTF is that about? When I have zero balances my credit score doesn't budge but as soon as I carry a balance it increases?? pfft
Today's hike: scary dirt bikes and looming rain
demifeministgal comments on Aug 12, 2019:
Do dirt bikers harass women on trails or try to run hikers over?? I am just wondering why the fear of dirt bikers... perhaps they are an aggressive subculture in the US?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 12, 2019:
@LiterateHiker Well because of this statement: "Throw yourself into fallen trees or sharp boulders? Plunge down a cliff? They were too fast. Luckily, there were only four dirt bikers." So with such extreme options I was wondering why be terrified. I don't hike so really do not know about the dangers or hassles of dirt bikers.
Oh look- got my sonogram today.
Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 11, 2019:
You like puppies but not kids ? Lol
demifeministgal replies on Aug 11, 2019:
Yes. Puppies are superior to kids in every way :D
Got my T shirt and pen!
sandrarocks83 comments on Aug 11, 2019:
I’m never gonna reach level 8 😢
demifeministgal replies on Aug 11, 2019:
you get stuck on level 7 and then it jumps to needing 50000 points that one can never reach :(
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
ldheinz comments on Aug 10, 2019:
Men deserve the right to not be interested as well.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 11, 2019:
@ldheinz Again, statistical trends trump your anecdotal experiences... sorry not sorry but that is just the way it is. Sure you have found the outliers, good for you. But I challenge you to find the data on women KILLING MEN for being rejected and then we can have an honest discussion.
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
mooredolezal comments on Aug 10, 2019:
I don't see any religious aspect to this response. First of all he is nonsensical, stating that he "holds value in a women" and then the next sentence, "they hold no value to me". In addition to his grammatical ineptitude, he is excusing the fact that he cannot get laid by placing the blame on ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 11, 2019:
@mooredolezal I dislike the cold weather and the windyness soo the weather/climate sucks and there are areas of improvement necessary but overall still better than the USA. Sadly, we have a conservaturd in power at the moment and he is making neoliberal cuts wherever he can... cannot wait till his dumbass is voted out
I guess sleep just doesn't like me anymore
IamNobody comments on Aug 10, 2019:
Get a bad book...two pages tops, you're out 😁😁
demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:
@Huskygirl4ever I have heard/read that writing down everything that is running through your mind half an hour or hour before bed is supposed to help with that. I am not sure myself as I have gone the sleeping pill route, but it is worth a try
I bet most folks with an allergy have a story a little similar to this one - but this woman's ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 9, 2019:
My grandparents took some time to acknowledge my sisters' allergies... luckily hers were not fatal just caused upset stomach and restroom issues... but my granny would sneak in or encourage my sister to eat foods she had an intolerance or allergy to until very recently. :/ I don't know why old ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:
@AncientNight I would say it's a combination of old and uneducated on my grandparents' parts both of whom are older than you btw ;)
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
MrBeelzeebubbles comments on Aug 10, 2019:
Oooh, I've had fun with the joy that is Veteran229 before. Isn't he a charmer? Haven't seen this level of misogynistic nastiness before, though. I wouldn't say religious, per se. Dogmatic, narcissistic, lacking in empathy skills, fearful and a perfect exemplar of the Dunning-Krueger effect, for ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:
IT went worse one time we were debating and he was OBVIOUSLY outwitted and losing so he proceeded to tell me my shelf-life as a woman was coming up and I better get a man as quick as possible because in 7 years time I will become invisible and undesirable to men. because, ya know, womens' value lies solely in our fuckability yet also, as seen here, our chastity as well. fckng douchebro he is
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
kasmian comments on Aug 9, 2019:
The world is full of assholes... If you engage him, give him facts and nothing else emotionally based, otherwise let him talk all he wants... I believe there's an American expression that fits this situation... "digging his own grave" is it?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:
@kasmian It is emotional for sure.... my point was one can be logical and pissed off at the same time... I can provide definitions, provide evidence/date, spell facts, and still tell a sexist fcker to fck off while doing so. The logic is not erased or made null and void just because some emotion is peppered in. ;)
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
mooredolezal comments on Aug 10, 2019:
I don't see any religious aspect to this response. First of all he is nonsensical, stating that he "holds value in a women" and then the next sentence, "they hold no value to me". In addition to his grammatical ineptitude, he is excusing the fact that he cannot get laid by placing the blame on ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:
LOL I live in Ontario and wow I've never actually read the tattoos on his fingers :O Didn't know they spelled that out! good eye!
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
Cherie4444 comments on Aug 10, 2019:
I’ve run into him. 🙄
demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:
I am sorry you and I have shared that unfortunate experience... *hugs*
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
ldheinz comments on Aug 10, 2019:
Men deserve the right to not be interested as well.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:
Yes except women tend to internalize rejection and men will become aggressive or violent with rejection. Look into the statistical trends: who is doing the killing and abuse for being rejected? Primarily men. It is not an equal thing yet.
I was watching a report on racism at the UK football/ soccer matches and they also said that ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 10, 2019:
I would say it is a combination of unconscious (or conscious) biases, othering, and plain old bigotry... I am not sure there is any evidence or data to support that your average everyday human is trying to use hate to thin out the herd to horde or conserve resources... For those that are interested,...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:
@girlwithsmiles I honestly don't know if most people are that deep and think that wide... I wonder if most just care about their immediate families and communities and do not look at the world at a global scale. I mean we've had this tribalism long before we were an overpopulated planet... perhaps it is an evolutionary trait we developed? And it is manifesting itself in ugly bigotted ways these days.
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
kasmian comments on Aug 9, 2019:
The world is full of assholes... If you engage him, give him facts and nothing else emotionally based, otherwise let him talk all he wants... I believe there's an American expression that fits this situation... "digging his own grave" is it?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 10, 2019:
@kasmian meh I can be factual and logical and emotional aka pissed off... men do it all the time, so I will as well. That's the socially acceptable emotion for men to display after all anger and/or aggression.
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
freeofgod comments on Aug 9, 2019:
WTF? On this site??
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
Unfortunately yes... in response to a post I made in the General and Hello's section
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
MizJ comments on Aug 9, 2019:
Puritanical, misogynistic, and likely poorly endowed.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@kasmian not buzzwords he is misogynistic or at least espouses misogynistic opinions... he told me my value would disappear when I am in my 30s because that is when women lose our value (aka he does not find em fuckable anymore) and that I need to grab a man quick before none will look at me anymore. I mean if that ain't some type of sexist nonsense, then what is?!
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Archeus_Lore comments on Aug 9, 2019:
This can work both ways too . . . women often will say they have the right to change their mind, but when a guy changes his mind, some of them are not so gracious.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Archeus_Lore I have not claimed what about the women?! or women experience this too! when men post about issues they face (ie male infant circumcision). Nice try
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
motrubl4u comments on Aug 9, 2019:
He's a prick. Ignore him. Little man syndrome.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
It is a genuine hatred of women from all of the comments I have had the displeasure of receiving from him about women... we are nothing more than fleshlights to him or wet holes as he would put it.... yet HE is the true one to value women here, especially the women that do not value themselves! haaa! He wouldn't know how to value any human, let alone a woman.
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Archeus_Lore comments on Aug 9, 2019:
This can work both ways too . . . women often will say they have the right to change their mind, but when a guy changes his mind, some of them are not so gracious.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Archeus_Lore As was yours, if we are being honest. if you want to have discussions about men and their issues, why not bring them up on their own. Why ONLY bring them up when women are talking about womens issues?? Think about it to yourself... some introspection on your part is necessary here.
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
kasmian comments on Aug 9, 2019:
The world is full of assholes... If you engage him, give him facts and nothing else emotionally based, otherwise let him talk all he wants... I believe there's an American expression that fits this situation... "digging his own grave" is it?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
But if you provide them with facts and nothing emotional but he refuses to click on links or read replies that are too long, what is the point? I just blocked him cuz he was like a preacher repeating what he believed to be facts or his own reality and ignoring the *actual reality or facts because it went against his confirmation biases. His cognitive dissonance was impenetrable!
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Archeus_Lore comments on Aug 9, 2019:
This can work both ways too . . . women often will say they have the right to change their mind, but when a guy changes his mind, some of them are not so gracious.
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
mmkay but I am talking about men that cannot handle rejection atm... you can make a post about women if you'd rather talk about that
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 9, 2019:
That sounds like veteran...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Buttercup can't name names so this post doesn't get removed but y'all have keen eyes ;)
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
Cutiebeauty comments on Aug 9, 2019:
That sounds like veteran...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
;) it does, doesn't it
what do y'all think of this remark? Does this sound like someone that has internalized religious ...
Wildflower comments on Aug 9, 2019:
That is an incel. It doesn't matter if he has internalized religious shaming or is just a conservative neanderthal. No progress will happen with a guy like this. What group was this in?
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
He's a member of agnostic but I am not sure which groups he is in... it was under my post in general and hellos
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Veteran229 comments on Aug 9, 2019:
No man really cares. There is plenty of Horizontal Oriented Entertainers who say yes. Those women teach the pool of men in the area what to expect. Now you will say " but they are liberated". Yes they are and they are setting a low standard, that is effecting those who have standards. The ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Veteran229 anybody here that can read our exchange can see I have addressed your points and then some and you have just not bothered to read it... oh well. enjoy your unfounded confirmation bias.
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Veteran229 comments on Aug 9, 2019:
No man really cares. There is plenty of Horizontal Oriented Entertainers who say yes. Those women teach the pool of men in the area what to expect. Now you will say " but they are liberated". Yes they are and they are setting a low standard, that is effecting those who have standards. The ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Veteran229 So you are too intellectually lazy to read or you have serious reading comprehension problems... because just because you repeat a lie to yourself repeatedly like a preacher, does not make it true. I literally told you I hold shitty women accountable to which you are blocking your eyes and yelling lalalalala.... that cognitive dissonance must be rough for ya.
I bet most folks with an allergy have a story a little similar to this one - but this woman's ...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 9, 2019:
My grandparents took some time to acknowledge my sisters' allergies... luckily hers were not fatal just caused upset stomach and restroom issues... but my granny would sneak in or encourage my sister to eat foods she had an intolerance or allergy to until very recently. :/ I don't know why old ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@RavenCT my granny doesn't use google though my grandpa does... when I said lack of education I meant they were farmers and got at best a gr8 to early high school education.
Reminder for the butthurt out there and/or the buddies of the butthurt out there, yea rejection ...
Cherie4444 comments on Aug 9, 2019:
I actually had some guy on here tell me, on calling him out for sending me nudes, “You didn’t tell me not to”. Seriously. 🙄
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
what a fcking copout... shuda sent him some disturbing stock nudes back or some disgusting image back and been like hey... you didn't tell me not to! sometimes these pricks need a taste of their own medicine
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Veteran229 comments on Aug 9, 2019:
No man really cares. There is plenty of Horizontal Oriented Entertainers who say yes. Those women teach the pool of men in the area what to expect. Now you will say " but they are liberated". Yes they are and they are setting a low standard, that is effecting those who have standards. The ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Veteran229 FYI most of my experiences of this came from strangers as I am going about my business going to school/work/home... why you assumed this is my experience in the dating world is beyond me... my personal experience with shitty men has mainly come from street harassment and from an experience in catholic high school, NOT in the dating scene. Try again?
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Veteran229 comments on Aug 9, 2019:
No man really cares. There is plenty of Horizontal Oriented Entertainers who say yes. Those women teach the pool of men in the area what to expect. Now you will say " but they are liberated". Yes they are and they are setting a low standard, that is effecting those who have standards. The ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Veteran229 "First of all, the choice arguments are fundamentally flawed because they assume a level of unmitigated freedom for women that simply doesn’t exist. Yes, we make choices, but these are shaped and constrained by the unequal conditions in which we live. It would only make sense to uncritically celebrate choice in a post-patriarchal world. Second, the idea that more choices automatically equate to more freedom is a falsehood. This is essentially just selling neo-liberalism with a feminist twist. Yes, women can now work or stay at home if they have children, for example, but this “choice” is fairly hollow when child-rearing continues to be constructed as “women’s work”, there is insufficient state support for childcare, and childless women are decried as selfish. Third, the focus on women’s choices as the be-all and end-all of feminism has resulted in in a perverse kind of victim-blaming and a distraction from the real problems women still face. If you’re not happy with the way things are, don’t blame misogyny and sexism, the pay gap, entrenched gender roles, women’s lack of representation on boards or in parliament, or an epidemic of violence against women. Blame yourself. You obviously made the wrong choice. As sociologist Natalie Jovanovski points out in her Freedom Fallacy chapter, it is not surprising this kind of liberal feminism has risen to prominence. In privileging individual choice above all else, it doesn’t challenge the status quo. It doesn’t demand significant social change, and it effectively undermines calls for collective action. Basically, it asks nothing of you and delivers nothing in return" http://theconversation.com/no-feminism-is-not-about-choice-40896
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Veteran229 comments on Aug 9, 2019:
No man really cares. There is plenty of Horizontal Oriented Entertainers who say yes. Those women teach the pool of men in the area what to expect. Now you will say " but they are liberated". Yes they are and they are setting a low standard, that is effecting those who have standards. The ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Veteran229 Read my next reply about how you hold men and women to different standards in the hookup culture then... it is on topic. Also, you have no idea what I personally do with women. I will be among the first to call out an abusive cunt of a woman, even if she calls herself a feminist. I have no tolerance for shitty humans, and I have told other women that choice feminism is a crock of shit anyways.
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Veteran229 comments on Aug 9, 2019:
No man really cares. There is plenty of Horizontal Oriented Entertainers who say yes. Those women teach the pool of men in the area what to expect. Now you will say " but they are liberated". Yes they are and they are setting a low standard, that is effecting those who have standards. The ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Veteran229 Yes yes we already know you are a sexist old fart and view women as nothing more than wet holes... and more likely than not, you do not hold men to the same standards you do women. So that men can be slutting and whoring around, but the moment a woman does it, she needs to be shamed. Why not shame all the sluts/whores of the world, if that is your true intention?? Womens' value neither lies in how many or how few sexual partners we have. You would know as much if you were not still brainwashed by your religious or conservative fckd up teachings about women. Sad. So very sad you are. :/
Any woman who has had to deal with an insufferable twat who could not accept rejection without ...
Veteran229 comments on Aug 9, 2019:
No man really cares. There is plenty of Horizontal Oriented Entertainers who say yes. Those women teach the pool of men in the area what to expect. Now you will say " but they are liberated". Yes they are and they are setting a low standard, that is effecting those who have standards. The ...
demifeministgal replies on Aug 9, 2019:
@Veteran229 https://denison.edu/academics/womens-gender-studies/feature/67969

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