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I haven't had luck in any dating site...of course I'm only in 3😊.......anyway...men my age ...
St-Sinner comments on Dec 5, 2019:
Really, men of your age want women half your age? I am surprised. That is not the impression I get when I talk my men friends. Maybe you got a particular sample. Making stereotypes is real out there.... women thinking that men want sex, want younger women and men think women want to be saved and are...
demifeministgal replies on Dec 5, 2019:
middle aged and senior old fcks are the ones I get hit on the most when going about my daily life, so it is not surprising that some of those same creepers have dating sites to try to increase their odds of landing a younger woman.
New toy review: Violet Wand! So while I was with family having a long and slow and wholesome holiday...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 4, 2019:
Edge play will forever seem crazily and unnecessarily risky to me... y'all enjoy living on the edge though ;)
demifeministgal replies on Dec 4, 2019:
@BassManSpaceMan Anything that can cause someone unnecessary bodily harm and if done unsafely, can even kill someone.... so it includes electric play, "breath" play, fire play, knife play, blood play and other types of play. I read an article about the various categories.... will have to try and locate it
What does it mean when someone relies to messages, but has never initiated contact? A couple of ...
AnneWimsey comments on Dec 4, 2019:
Why wait for them to initiate?
demifeministgal replies on Dec 4, 2019:
@CrazyQuilter If you are only looking for deep and intellectually stimulating discussions, not everyone is capable of those, or they may have jobs or lives that require them to do too much of that, so they actually prefer their down time to be idle chatter or small talk..... it is all about finding the right person to meet your communicative and intellectual needs.
What do you think about 'intuition?' In many situations, I had a feeling something wasn't right. ...
demifeministgal comments on Dec 2, 2019:
I think that it is based on past experiences either we learned through direct experience, or we learn through observing others' experiences, either in person or on TV or some other medium. That knowledge is in our subconscious and then we have the gut feeling because we KNOW, deep down, that ...
demifeministgal replies on Dec 3, 2019:
@CallMeDave And? Is that a bad thing? :S
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
demifeministgal comments on Nov 25, 2019:
Nah.... Quit the bigotry.... christians and ex christians still brainwashed by their faith, loove to portray their former beliefs as this benign gentle loving religion.... TRUTH IS most of your crazed alt-right wingers and alt right killers are christians.... not to mention to this day in modern ...
demifeministgal replies on Dec 2, 2019:
@K9Kohle789 Muslims created a "30 year plan to destroy America from within, softly, quietly in our gov't and educational institutions" Do you have any data or evidence for this? :S
freshly minted ex-facebooger: I just deactivated my Facebook account. it's something I never ...
Sgt_Spanky comments on Nov 30, 2019:
I once tried an experiment with FB; I made a simple post that said *"I really like popcorn."* Within mins, the whole right side feed was populated with ads for popcorn. FB is just a data mining site in the form of social media. They all are.
demifeministgal replies on Dec 2, 2019:
Their algorithms sometimes make no damn sense though... if I am making pro choice arguments in favour of abortion and am talking about being happily childfree and they come back advertising surrogacy services to me, aka trying to get me to be a surrogate, what kind of faulty algorithm is that?!
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
demifeministgal comments on Nov 25, 2019:
Nah.... Quit the bigotry.... christians and ex christians still brainwashed by their faith, loove to portray their former beliefs as this benign gentle loving religion.... TRUTH IS most of your crazed alt-right wingers and alt right killers are christians.... not to mention to this day in modern ...
demifeministgal replies on Dec 2, 2019:
@K9Kohle789 well I would argue that presented with evidence to the contrary, that christians are and have historically been, just as bad as muslims, I would say the OP fits the definition mighty well: obstinate devotion to one's own opinions and prejudices
I had this weird exchange recently with a member. Well, maybe his first line isn’t weird – maybe...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 27, 2019:
LOL ooh man I should try saying that to guys online... especially the ones from Europe or Africa that message me... like I have local guys using the same line as you... you gotta set yourself waaay apart if you expect me to make an exception for a long distance relationship.
demifeministgal replies on Dec 2, 2019:
@topdogcarl when I click the reply button to you, it automatically tags ya.... when you replied to me you tagged me and vice versa. It is so it is easier to distinguish who one is talking to or replying to in subthreads.
Hi Everyone, I'd like everyone's opinion here... if someone starts a conversation with you online...
Dancing comments on Nov 27, 2019:
I have had this happen before. I definitely ask them where they disappeared to. If the answer is iffy, I'm done. If it seems reasonable, I'll give another chance.
demifeministgal replies on Dec 2, 2019:
Update: Okay I received a very straightforward answer, I suppose I appreciate the honesty at the least. Him: I met someone and I don't talk to multiple people at once. But it didn't work out.
I had this weird exchange recently with a member. Well, maybe his first line isn’t weird – maybe...
demifeministgal comments on Aug 27, 2019:
LOL ooh man I should try saying that to guys online... especially the ones from Europe or Africa that message me... like I have local guys using the same line as you... you gotta set yourself waaay apart if you expect me to make an exception for a long distance relationship.
demifeministgal replies on Dec 2, 2019:
@topdogcarl My point was that if someone is long distance, they will have to do MORE to get my attention or get me to consider them, not less. I think long distance can work for people that started off committed at first and then became long distance for whatever reason (work, dying fam member needing care, etc.) and for those people that travel alot and one or both parties have enough disposable income to travel..... but for most people, travelling is beyond our financial reach, especially when one is younger. Nothing to do with being disposable, just not being able to do it financially and emotionally.
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
demifeministgal comments on Nov 25, 2019:
Nah.... Quit the bigotry.... christians and ex christians still brainwashed by their faith, loove to portray their former beliefs as this benign gentle loving religion.... TRUTH IS most of your crazed alt-right wingers and alt right killers are christians.... not to mention to this day in modern ...
demifeministgal replies on Dec 2, 2019:
@K9Kohle789 WTF are you even talking about? Why did you take my comment so personally? It was not directed at you.... I mean it seems like we are tending to agree but you felt the need to be defensive for no reason against me. :s
So its been a while. Back on here tonight after a hiatus mainly just because my thoughts are trapped...
dahermit comments on Nov 29, 2019:
"Most are just looking to get laid." Marriage and children are generally a woman's social construct...not men's. Without sex, why would a man have anything to do with a woman?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 29, 2019:
Interestingly the construct of marriage would have come from the church (controlled and lead by men) and be reinforced by layMEN throughout history, to ensure the progeny one was financially supporting was actually his child. But also, men have various relationships with women including as parents, siblings, cousins, coworkers, friends, best friends, lovers, partners, etc.... the fact you need this spelt out for you and cannot grasp why men would want anything to do with women, is sad.
So its been a while. Back on here tonight after a hiatus mainly just because my thoughts are trapped...
Happy_Killbot comments on Nov 29, 2019:
Welcome to the future. Single is the new normal. No one wants to truly understand what it is like to be anyone else, despite the fact that we are built to do specifically this we refuse. If you are unwilling to give up what and who you are you will be forever lonely. The unfortunate reality of ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 29, 2019:
@Lauraleigh39 I think he enjoys debating and being a contrarian for the sake of it.
Correcting Others Make You Look Bad
AtheistInNC comments on Nov 28, 2019:
I was on your side until you had to be immature and call him "short, fat ... who looked like a troll". You were right about the pronunciation, but you are a petty little troll yourself.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 28, 2019:
meh just dishing out pettiness to a toxic or nasty person.... some people have it coming.
Would you rather be in love or have someone be in love with you? Obviously most would prefer to ...
of-the-mountain comments on Nov 28, 2019:
Love can only be partially explained! Being in a mutual relationship that turned sour, can make you more than a little gunshy!!! I have had my share of stalkers who professed to love me! One of many reasons not to depend on mutual love, one of them always changes, not always for the better!...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 28, 2019:
Honestly waaay better than people with mental disorders be on medication that controls or treats their symptoms than to experience some of the crazies doing things cold turkey! Ever encounter an unmedicated schizophrenic or someone in a manic state? You wouldn't want to.
Art appreciation post... What are your thoughts 😍😘😄
demifeministgal comments on Nov 27, 2019:
I wanna see how nice the butt is.... turn around! :p Also, needs a bit of chest shaving :p
demifeministgal replies on Nov 28, 2019:
@Cutiebeauty we have no dollar bills here... I'd need to wave a $5 at him... woe is me :p
Hi Everyone, I'd like everyone's opinion here... if someone starts a conversation with you online...
BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:
There is a term “benching” where someone will keep you on the back burner, so to speak, in case things done work out with someone else. I’m not saying thats what’s happened here. I have gotten into some projects that keep me from normal chit chat for a while. Hard to know
demifeministgal replies on Nov 28, 2019:
Thank you for sharing that term I will have to do research and look in to it. :)
Hi Everyone, I'd like everyone's opinion here... if someone starts a conversation with you online...
Dancing comments on Nov 27, 2019:
I have had this happen before. I definitely ask them where they disappeared to. If the answer is iffy, I'm done. If it seems reasonable, I'll give another chance.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 27, 2019:
I asked and based on his answer will decide if to continue chatting.
Alone on Thanksgiving Day. How do you cope?
demifeministgal comments on Nov 26, 2019:
I cannot relate to your daughter or you... the concept of my parents together during the holidays putting their differences aside and having a mature holiday? haaa! I think perhaps she should be grateful for all the years it did happen... of course having something good for so long and then losing ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 27, 2019:
@LiterateHiker Because I've never had those positive experiences with holidays or my parents... the only way the holidays become halfway tolerable was to keep them apart and celebrate them with each separately. well now this is a downer my needs were not important at all it seems. heh :$
Hello, my fellow insomniacs. I had a hard time falling asleep last night, well what is new. ...
TheDoubter comments on Nov 27, 2019:
congrats
demifeministgal replies on Nov 27, 2019:
congrats on her dream?? hehe
My kind of hunk is handsome from the inside out, gray, wrinkles and paunch.
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 27, 2019:
Is that Jim Belushi in the first pic?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 27, 2019:
@Cutiebeauty OMG it's according to jim Jim! :o
I haven't met any women who wants to go all the way .
demifeministgal comments on Nov 26, 2019:
Then you need to invest in sex worker services XD
demifeministgal replies on Nov 27, 2019:
@Buzz Indeed going or trying bisexuality is always an option ;)
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
Geoffrey51 comments on Nov 24, 2019:
Only if they are happy for Americans to be kept out of everywhere as well. Deport those pesky Yanks!
demifeministgal replies on Nov 27, 2019:
@Grecio Nope I am obviously talking about Trump, or Drumpf as he should be called. XD And you have no idea how our immigration system or our welfare system works so I'd thank you not to comment on something you are so woefully ignorant about.
At last! I have found a label I didn’t know existed. I’m an anti-Natalist. Oh, you don’t ...
RavenCT comments on Nov 26, 2019:
You're against more babies? Or the population explosion? I'd say you aren't the only one.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
https://medium.com/@jenniferneal_39017/the-maternal-instinct-is-a-myth-and-weve-got-the-science-to-prove-it-de435786adbf
At last! I have found a label I didn’t know existed. I’m an anti-Natalist. Oh, you don’t ...
RavenCT comments on Nov 26, 2019:
You're against more babies? Or the population explosion? I'd say you aren't the only one.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@Geoffrey51 I've been reading up about it and it seems to be that it is not so much a drive (until after one has a baby of course) as it is groomed and socialized into us..... with that in mind, it makes sense why people with my ubringings would not experience this until we learned it through actual childrearing/pregnancy. Oh well. :)
At last! I have found a label I didn’t know existed. I’m an anti-Natalist. Oh, you don’t ...
RavenCT comments on Nov 26, 2019:
You're against more babies? Or the population explosion? I'd say you aren't the only one.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@K9Kohle789 Do you think those natural urges, as you put, are more prevalent or more common in the neurotypical community than the neurodivergent community? I am wondering because I did not have these strong urges in adolescence or even now and am happily childfree.... so what gives?? XD :s
"Distance doesn't matter in a relationship."
vjohnson51 comments on Nov 26, 2019:
I can relate, some guy on here who was from Portugal told me he loved me within 2 weeks of talking and asked if I wanted to be his girlfriend and make it official lol. We literally live across the world from each other!!!
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
yikes! Red flag alert! I am suspicious of anyone that claims love too soon.... they always end up being liars or love bombing their new target.... be careful!
I haven't met any women who wants to go all the way .
Jk1960 comments on Nov 26, 2019:
Bring more money
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@Jk1960 how is it better that you think everybody is a secret sex worker or low key hooker?! XD sounds like projection to me.... just cuz you and your friends can be bought does not mean everyone can be bought... just sayin'.... ;)
I am expecting a call for a (possible) job interview and I really need to get a job. The problem is,...
moosepucky comments on Nov 26, 2019:
Use speaker phone and think of them being in the room.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
what is speak phone?? :s
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:
What's FWB ?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@Moravian It's just if one restricts their sexuality until they've found the one, that is a very lonely existence.... and it is exactly what the fckng catholic church would love if I did, remained celibate until I found a husband! fck that and fck them! >:/
I haven't met any women who wants to go all the way .
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 26, 2019:
Wait, what? Are you saying that you're a virgin?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/communication-success/201410/how-increase-your-emotional-intelligence-6-essentials
I haven't met any women who wants to go all the way .
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 26, 2019:
Wait, what? Are you saying that you're a virgin?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@Cutiebeauty aah yes too busy plus low emotional intelligence or poor social skills will not be conducive to getting laid, especially for straight men for which it can be harder to get laid easily anyways! He needs to work on his EQ skills. @Blackatheist1985
I haven't met any women who wants to go all the way .
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 26, 2019:
Wait, what? Are you saying that you're a virgin?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
Either that or in his recent dating experiences, he cannot get laid... I blame christianity for that as it may be harder for him to find a non-christian if he only dates black women.
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:
What's FWB ?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@OwlInASack I think it is normal for Europeans not to make a big deal about booze, especially during holidays or celebrations.... everyone I know from a european background or european immigrant parents (like myelf) underage drinking is not seen as taboo and is allowed.
Alone on Thanksgiving Day. How do you cope?
Jolanta comments on Nov 25, 2019:
By the way the Sultan of Brunei has banned Christmas celebrations. If you do you can be stoned or put in jail. I wonder if he also would do it for Thanks Giving.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@Merseyman1 Also in Canada.... except in October rather than November
Alone on Thanksgiving Day. How do you cope?
1of5 comments on Nov 25, 2019:
Having been the product of divorce and being schleped around for multiple versions of the same holiday (both Xmas and thanksgiving) I'm more than happy to do nothing and not see family. Going out for Chinese food on thanksgiving. Gotta take mom and stepdad, but shouldnt be to bad. :)
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
I feel you on the first paragraph. :)
I haven't met any women who wants to go all the way .
Jk1960 comments on Nov 26, 2019:
Bring more money
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@Jk1960 only because you ASSume all women are secret sex workers/hookers.
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:
What's FWB ?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@OwlInASack you approached the sex topic very well then... I received a catholic styled "sex education" which really should be called fear mongering and an STD/STI education.... on the parental front a man WILL use me for sex and discard me OR a man WILL get me pregnant and leave me, so don't have sex before marriage! On the high school front.... LOOK AT ALL THESE STDs/STIs you WILL catch if you engage in premarital sex! So don't have sex before marriage.... no mention of condoms or preventative measures cuz ya know, marriage keeps our bodies safe from all those pesky STDs/STIs amirite? *sarcasm* On the drinking front it was more sane... could try a sip of wine or booze at xmas or on my bday as a kid/teen so there was no urge to drink... even to this day I dislike booze unless it is sweet hate bitter taste.
This super christian guy at my job asked once if I was Christian. I told him no, atheist. He ...
Sofabeast comments on Nov 22, 2019:
An ex of mine who was a devout evangelical Christian told me that no matter what 'good' a person does in their life, without taking Jesus into their heart, they and all their acts are evil and will go to hell. Same applies to Jews, Muslims and Catholics. She was well horny though... ah, depressing...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@Sofabeast So the only way one could take Jesus into their hearts is if they believed him to be the son of god?? That is some loophole specific dumbfuckery if I ever heard it. I am doubting her intelligence and thinking you may have succumb to a bit of the halo effect in which an attractive person is deemed to have positive traits, like intelligence, they may not actually possess. XD
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:
What's FWB ?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@Moravian I mean people are still human in the end.... we may not be ready for a relationship, but does that mean we are to go celibate and without human touch until we are?? Especially as a young-ish person? why? Because we didn't find the one for marriage/LTR as early as some others have? It could be soo much worse than a FWBs, one could be in the hookup culture and having reckless one-night stands.... this seems like a nice medium between sleeping around and being alone and celibate. ;)
"Exercise keeps Mr. Happy excited."
MakeItGood comments on Nov 14, 2019:
You joined Tinder....the app that is now culturally known to be a hookup app....expecting to find a serious relationship? I mean...sure it's possible...but the type of members has shifted for that app. Pardon the puns. There are other apps like coffee meets bagel or even bumble that likely ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@MakeItGood yes.... some are very overt with it and literally dedicate their profile to lecturing women how to date properly, aka to meet their specific needs, and ranting about how horrible all women are. They are outnumbered by the charming undercover creep/violent/harasser types. Think of it like this, too many people never suspect someone is a sociopath or psychopath or narcissist until they do something violent and fckd up.... well those same subgroup of men are trying to date and apply their sneaky ways in their romantic relationships as they do everyday situations.
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:
What's FWB ?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 26, 2019:
@OwlInASack that's good that you didn't stigmatize sex for him.... hopefully instructed him about STDs/STIs as well cuz that matters ;) This is why I think young teens or pre-teens are not ready to date and get into that complicated emotional mess.... but then, I did not start dating until the summer after I graduated high school so I guess I am not representative of the typical teen experience XD though for all of my friends that started dating early it did not work to their advantage and they did not have any edge over someone like me that waited, in fact it caused additional baggage that could have been avoided... ah well. I think she is overtly pushing him away because she is trying to give her new relationship a chance... I did that with my ex when I thought I might get serious with someone... not so much being mean just seriously distancing myself as a friend from him.... I would wager she is doing something similar except more inconsiderately sadly. I think he will find his way.... the only difference amongst my generation and older ones is that we have less marriages/divorces to contend with.... people were still doing unhealthy relationships with the wrong partners and having to deal with heartbreak with the addition of a costly divorce attached.... he has a broken heart but is saving much time and money not having to go through a divorce ;) the silver lining, you see ;)
This super christian guy at my job asked once if I was Christian. I told him no, atheist. He ...
Sofabeast comments on Nov 22, 2019:
An ex of mine who was a devout evangelical Christian told me that no matter what 'good' a person does in their life, without taking Jesus into their heart, they and all their acts are evil and will go to hell. Same applies to Jews, Muslims and Catholics. She was well horny though... ah, depressing...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
How was she able to apply that dumbfckery to catholics?? Or to Muslims? Both groups accept Jesus into their hearts; to the former Jesus is part of a holy trinity and is the son of god to the latter Jesus is considered a great prophet.... wtf was she babbling about? -_-
This super christian guy at my job asked once if I was Christian. I told him no, atheist. He ...
Davesnothere comments on Nov 22, 2019:
Ethics tempered by Empathy. It scares me that a lot of believers do not use this, but instead determine good and evil by what others tell them.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
And then there's the dumb fcks (sadly I know some personally) that refuse to believe a non-believer can have any morals without religion.... to them non-believers are unethical and immoral by default..... ughhh
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
Kayladad1 comments on Nov 24, 2019:
Seems to me that there isn’t much difference in the behaviors of all organized religions. Most are intent on foisting their beliefs on others, as if to absolve them of having to hold themselves accountable. To my view.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@JohnnyQB you keep talking but you look like this to anyone that follows this thread...
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
Kayladad1 comments on Nov 24, 2019:
Seems to me that there isn’t much difference in the behaviors of all organized religions. Most are intent on foisting their beliefs on others, as if to absolve them of having to hold themselves accountable. To my view.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@JohnnyQB reading comprehension your shitty public education did not teach you that.... so again So discussing the history of a nation, before it was engrossed by religious nutfuckery, is akin to defending a religious ideology?
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
Kayladad1 comments on Nov 24, 2019:
Seems to me that there isn’t much difference in the behaviors of all organized religions. Most are intent on foisting their beliefs on others, as if to absolve them of having to hold themselves accountable. To my view.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@JohnnyQB So discussing the history of a nation, before it was engrossed by religious nutfuckery, is akin to defending a religious ideology? Well then, we can never discuss American history then! heh
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:
What's FWB ?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@Moravian I am not sure. I imagine some people are in open style FWBs dynamics in which case they have a primary FWB, but both parties or one party is still sleeping with others. Then there are other ones, like mine, where we only sleep with one another and if either of us starts dating someone (beyond a couple of dates) we break it off completely and revert to just platonic friends. I think our dynamic have lower STD odds than the ones that sleep around and have a FWB.
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:
What's FWB ?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@OwlInASack ahh okay I see. I did not know there was a personal element to this whole thing for you.... I thought it was just an older guy terrified of change of the youngins as per that trope of old people scared of the new ways. XD I think your son will eventually learn to be in a healthy long-term relationship.... if he was in a FWBs dynamic he clearly was not ready, be it psychologically or financially or career-wise, for a serious relationship. As for falling in love, these things require a type of maturity and lots of introspective thinking and self-awareness. One needs to be honest with themselves and determine if they are getting in to a FWBs for the right reasons. If your son honestly cared for that girl/woman and so settled for FWBs or he was soo lonely he could not bear to be alone, those were terrible reasons to agree to a FWBs. If it kind of snuck up on him, the falling in love thing, he needed to be honest with her and decide how to proceed from there... either end it himself or be prepared for her ending things (if she is a decent lady) once he was honest. These things work out best if both parties are open and honest (heck honest with their damn selves) and communicate about the arrangement frequently.
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
Kayladad1 comments on Nov 24, 2019:
Seems to me that there isn’t much difference in the behaviors of all organized religions. Most are intent on foisting their beliefs on others, as if to absolve them of having to hold themselves accountable. To my view.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@Krish55 history is hard for xenophobic nationalists like him.... he laughs off the facts of Iraq and Iran historically not being such oppressive Islamic nations, because it gets in the way of his alt-right agenda and thinking is hard... we should pity him and try to ignore his ilk.
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
Geoffrey51 comments on Nov 24, 2019:
Only if they are happy for Americans to be kept out of everywhere as well. Deport those pesky Yanks!
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
yup... I made a satirical comment to nationalist Muricans after Trump was elected.... we need to build a wall, paid for by the American govt, to keep Americans out of Canada. They tried to come in in droves after that oompa loompa degenerate was voted in. XD
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
Beowulfsfriend comments on Nov 24, 2019:
Do you realize that Sharia law is simply another term for Abrahanic law. So by your question we should keep out all Jews and Christians as well. Is that what you want?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@phoenixlives hell there are modern day christian terrorists in the world... not sure if they are specifically cutting off heads but they are terrorists nonetheless. For example the Lord's Resistance Army is one in Africa. https://www.salon.com/2015/04/07/6_modern_day_christian_terrorist_groups_our_media_conveniently_ignores_partner/
New achievement unlocked last night: E-stim dildo and Hitachi combo after a good caning. And that ...
Mermaidfantasy comments on Nov 22, 2019:
Never have tried the E-stim dildo, what did she think of it?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@BassManSpaceMan you crazy kids and your adrenaline ways :o :p
Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?
demifeministgal comments on Nov 25, 2019:
Nah.... Quit the bigotry.... christians and ex christians still brainwashed by their faith, loove to portray their former beliefs as this benign gentle loving religion.... TRUTH IS most of your crazed alt-right wingers and alt right killers are christians.... not to mention to this day in modern ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
https://www.salon.com/2015/04/07/6_modern_day_christian_terrorist_groups_our_media_conveniently_ignores_partner/
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:
What's FWB ?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@Moravian I am not sure what you are asking? Are you asking if the FWBs can be hooking up with other people themselves? Or if both parties can be hooking up with multiple sex partners? Or something else.
Tonight is date number three with a woman I met on the Okay Little Winged Guy site. I wasn’t a ...
demifeministgal comments on Nov 23, 2019:
Yay... hope she is being honest and y'all can continue for longer and that y'all are compatible aka she is not secretly religious ;) Enjoy your date :D
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@Bobbyzen I meant compatible in terms of values as I have read numerous times the best longest relationships are those with good honest communication and shared values (ie religiosity, politics, outlooks on life, etc.).
New achievement unlocked last night: E-stim dildo and Hitachi combo after a good caning. And that ...
Mermaidfantasy comments on Nov 22, 2019:
Never have tried the E-stim dildo, what did she think of it?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@Mermaidfantasy @BassManSpaceMan ooh man edge play sounds dangerous and scary.... please be super careful and safe all of you! :o
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:
What's FWB ?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
@OwlInASack lol it's no more scary or unhealthy than serial monogamists, that jump from one relationship or marriage to the next because they cannot bear to be single. ;) Just sayin'
A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...
SeaGreenEyez comments on Nov 24, 2019:
No, I've never had that fear. If I've friend-zoned someone, they will **never** be moved into the romantic zone. On the other hand, I have friends that were relocated to that zone from romantic relationship zone, but that's an entirely different thing. (And yes, it is different. I would ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:
Agreed same here. I do not call it friend zone though. I just compartmentalize my male friends as eternal platonic friends and do not even attempt to cross boundaries with them, like flirting.
New achievement unlocked last night: E-stim dildo and Hitachi combo after a good caning. And that ...
Mermaidfantasy comments on Nov 22, 2019:
Never have tried the E-stim dildo, what did she think of it?
demifeministgal replies on Nov 23, 2019:
@Mermaidfantasy electric stimulation?!! :o As in it provides a current of electric shock to users to their genitals?! geeeze
Ya know, getting ghosted by the first attractive woman you've seen on an online dating service who ...
demifeministgal comments on Nov 23, 2019:
I kinda know what you mean.... I finally find a non-believer MOC on the interracial site and he messages me and then disappears forever.... perhaps my taste in music was a dealbreaker idk XD because he asked me about my favourite music in his message XD
demifeministgal replies on Nov 23, 2019:
@JayOleck38 WTF is that about? why would she even do that?! Unless it was a fake account and not a real she? people are so dumb sometimes XD
Another anonymous poster looking for advice: if you have anxiety/depression or anxiety/depressive ...
Freedompath comments on Nov 21, 2019:
I had this happen to me many times. Looking for a job was one of the hardest things that I ever had to do. One of the things that took me a long time to get down pat was...learning that it is all in the numbers! You will need to make many contacts and apply to many different business. And ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 21, 2019:
To add to this: if you have limited family/no family and limited/no friends, you can always reach out to us and other online communities and try to find support online as well in your local area..... a good place for that is meetup.com
Dating disasters: why bad grammar could stop you finding love online | News | The Guardian
BitFlipper comments on Nov 20, 2019:
My spelling and grammar are impeccable. I have seen no evidence that women give a shit about it.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 21, 2019:
Women in your generation seem to care a lot about it... soo keep it up! ;) :p
Today I was traveling with a friend to a few wineries. We stopped at a rest stop in North Carolina ...
Cinco comments on Nov 18, 2019:
I would have felt a twinge of guilt - freedom of speech and all. But this would qualify as propaganda for sure. And quite harmful to so many.Not sure what I would of done but glad at least one less batch is in circulation. Well done. I have to giggle at the thought that when they return to the ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 21, 2019:
@BobLoblah she literally did not force her way of thinking... it is the equivalent of interjecting or stopping a religious nutter from forcing their beliefs on to other.... distinct difference.
Have any of you guys used the female condom or had a partner that did. What did you think?
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 20, 2019:
No condoms for me... Those things stop baby making!
demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:
well one day maybe you will rejoin the birth control community ;) Unless you plan on going Full Duggar Mom with it XD heh
I made a smoothie for my sweetheart , she said and I quote “ this will be my dinner tonight “ ,...
demifeministgal comments on Nov 20, 2019:
My partner of sorts gets annoyed when I take/sample food off of his plate too.... not that I have a tiny non-existent meal and then am starving for his food.... more so I have my food and his looks good too so I sample some of his. heh
demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:
@Outsideit67 I see you said something about men being territorial with food.... I must have one of those males then XD ;) :p
I made a smoothie for my sweetheart , she said and I quote “ this will be my dinner tonight “ ,...
demifeministgal comments on Nov 20, 2019:
My partner of sorts gets annoyed when I take/sample food off of his plate too.... not that I have a tiny non-existent meal and then am starving for his food.... more so I have my food and his looks good too so I sample some of his. heh
demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:
@Outsideit67 well then your annoyance is more understandable than the annoyance I face XD heh
Sometimes you just can't help but laugh at something.
UrsiMajor comments on Nov 20, 2019:
John Legend does remind me a little of Pee Wee Herman for some reason. But sexy is in the eye of the beholder.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:
OMG I googled it and he does look like him! haha
Dating disasters: why bad grammar could stop you finding love online | News | The Guardian
1of5 comments on Nov 19, 2019:
To bad the study was so limited in scope, although age demographics would be particularly interesting/relevant.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:
@IAJO163 It was not a dig at you and older generations it was just expanding on 1of5's point that research that controls for age variables would be interesting. :) LOL you assume that Gen Z'ers are not already annoying me ;) :p
I feel like a total failure right now.
demifeministgal comments on Nov 19, 2019:
Your mental disorder is lying to you... at the very least, you are an IT director, which is an impressive accomplishment in and of itself. I do not know what other accomplishments you have in your life, as I do not know you, but perhaps you can list them out for us here or for yourself personally. ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:
@Freedompath And sometimes a person just needs medication, be it short or long term, to stabilize themselves. That is an important recommendation too many americans shy away from--- probably because your healthcare system overcharges for medication. I mean hopefully that is why and not stigma against medication(s).
Personal maintenance to look decent increases as we get older
demifeministgal comments on Jun 7, 2019:
I wear concealer now (acne prone skin blegh) and eyebrow liner because I like for my eyebrows to look thicker. I'd say you got away with being VERY minimalist under 40 compared to how many under 40s are right now. I think society has conditioned us to believe that womens' value rests on our ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:
@LiterateHiker It's a bit of an old post, I will need to re-read it for a refresher :$
Dating disasters: why bad grammar could stop you finding love online | News | The Guardian
1of5 comments on Nov 19, 2019:
To bad the study was so limited in scope, although age demographics would be particularly interesting/relevant.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:
definitely... I would guess older generations (Gen X'ers and Boomers) care about proper grammar waaay more than millenials and Gen Z. :)
I feel like a total failure right now.
demifeministgal comments on Nov 19, 2019:
Your mental disorder is lying to you... at the very least, you are an IT director, which is an impressive accomplishment in and of itself. I do not know what other accomplishments you have in your life, as I do not know you, but perhaps you can list them out for us here or for yourself personally. ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 19, 2019:
@Stenz okay so I was provided with some resources you may consider checking out when you feel up to it: https://www.spiceworks.com/ https://stackoverflow.com/ But there are forums you can post your IT questions to, perhaps in a way that you do not reveal private data, especially if you signed an NDA of sorts, and the community can help you. That's what my IT friends do. Worth a shot. Good luck to you. :)
I feel like a total failure right now.
demifeministgal comments on Nov 19, 2019:
Your mental disorder is lying to you... at the very least, you are an IT director, which is an impressive accomplishment in and of itself. I do not know what other accomplishments you have in your life, as I do not know you, but perhaps you can list them out for us here or for yourself personally. ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 19, 2019:
@Stenz IS there a higher up or coworkers you can ask for help? I don't know what type of IT you do, but my ex BIL is in IT and there were online forums and communities he would consult that would guide him or give him code to use or whatever else when he was stuck--- his boss gave useless instructions or guidance and he had to figure things out on his own. I can ask him about which platforms or sites he uses if you want?
Content warning: Suicide. I have a litany of mental health issues and I'm concerned that I will ...
citronella comments on Nov 17, 2019:
It is hard to find a loving partner if you have convinced yourself you are not worthy of/don't deserve love. I agree with the other comments that encourage you to find meds/therapies that help you untangle everything that is affecting you. Additionally, I want to point out that being alone is not ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
@Sansdeus I wonder if you became the scapegoat of the family and your brother the golden child. As defined here: https://lynnenamka.com/narcissism/scapegoating-insidious-family-pattern/ https://medium.com/@OwnYourReality/scapegoat-golden-child-how-and-why-narcissists-assign-these-roles-and-not-just-in-the-family-f78fe568dfa7 No need to apologize for sharing or ranting.... that's what this group is for. :) And good for you for not perpetuating the cycle with your own kids and family. :)
Content warning: Suicide. I have a litany of mental health issues and I'm concerned that I will ...
citronella comments on Nov 17, 2019:
It is hard to find a loving partner if you have convinced yourself you are not worthy of/don't deserve love. I agree with the other comments that encourage you to find meds/therapies that help you untangle everything that is affecting you. Additionally, I want to point out that being alone is not ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
@Sansdeus Were you trying to get her to acknowledge his abuse of you? :s I think it is important not to minimize any abuse just cuz another was more severe... I make sure to acknowledge all family members' abusive or toxic behaviours even though the mothers was in fact the worst.
"What about black-on-black violence?"
PinkyandtheBrain comments on Nov 16, 2019:
You are very mistaken. There a huge difference in crime rates. Also a large difference in IQ. 70% of black children are born out of wedlock.its a sad mess. Message me and I will tell you why.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
@PinkyandtheBrain there are many criticisms against the validity of IQ tests.... a better measure of intellgence would be Gardner's multiple Intelligences. https://www.verywellmind.com/gardners-theory-of-multiple-intelligences-2795161
"What about black-on-black violence?"
demifeministgal comments on Nov 16, 2019:
I already knew this since it is a tired line used by Murican racists in every fbook group I am in (majority of members are Americans) and someone once stated this fact. Ever since then, I always reply to the person and what about white on white crime? The majority of whites are killed by other ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
ooh look someone already brought up intelligence in the form of IQ tests, to put his subtle racism on display.... predictable ain't they? ;)
Women In Their 40's Give Advice To Their 20-Something Selves, And It's Worth The Read
RonWilliam53 comments on Nov 17, 2019:
Actually many of these tips are good for 20 y/o males too. Especially the one about not plucking your eyebrows.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
@RonWilliam53 Not to mention, most city dwelling people in my age range cannot afford to live alone... that may have been possible for boomers or Gen X'ers but my generation is fckd.... we need roomates or to live with family much longer than previous generations. :( :/
Women In Their 40's Give Advice To Their 20-Something Selves, And It's Worth The Read
RonWilliam53 comments on Nov 17, 2019:
Actually many of these tips are good for 20 y/o males too. Especially the one about not plucking your eyebrows.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
@RonWilliam53 what are squirrels? :S
Content warning: Suicide. I have a litany of mental health issues and I'm concerned that I will ...
citronella comments on Nov 17, 2019:
It is hard to find a loving partner if you have convinced yourself you are not worthy of/don't deserve love. I agree with the other comments that encourage you to find meds/therapies that help you untangle everything that is affecting you. Additionally, I want to point out that being alone is not ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
@Sansdeus Your mother was wrong and toxic.... it is cr@ppy "mothers" like ours that makes me think there should be licenses given to people to be able to breed.... some people should never have had kid(s) as they caused more harm and damage than any good by having them. I also had a cruel mother and thankfully she is dead, but the wounds she has caused seem to not be healing, or if they are, are healing rather slowly. In all honesty, I think she was projecting.... she felt like nobody loved her and so she shifted that on to you and told ya you would never be loved.... fck her and her stupid comment..... excuse the language, but toxic moms frustrate me for personal reasons. :$
Content warning: Suicide. I have a litany of mental health issues and I'm concerned that I will ...
Freedompath comments on Nov 17, 2019:
For starters it seems clear to me that you are more afraid to live than you are to die? And, living can be a real challenge for a lot of us. I think that professional help would be beneficial...on an on-going basis. And temporary (if not long term) meds could help! You just need to find what ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
@Sansdeus I am in the same position in regards to treatment as you.... I think it is VERY stupid that meds prescribed for anxiety or depression can CAUSE suicidal ideation.... it seems to defeat the purpose of taking them in the first place! I know for me I have to, once again, switch them and hope to find one that finally works for me without having such unsavoury side effects (ie suicidal thoughts, constipation, weight gain, etc.). Perhaps you need to do the same thing if you have passed that first 2-3 week transition into your meds.
Australian firefighters pose shirtless with cats for a good cause. ...
Freespirit64 comments on Nov 18, 2019:
Maybe it's just me...but the tats are turning me off. Never mind that muscular body, lol....
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
not just you I have voiced it multiple times in this group about finding tats yucky :p
Women In Their 40's Give Advice To Their 20-Something Selves, And It's Worth The Read
RonWilliam53 comments on Nov 17, 2019:
Actually many of these tips are good for 20 y/o males too. Especially the one about not plucking your eyebrows.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:
pffft fck that... pluck allll the eyebrows >: D :p
I am so sick of my father atm.... he criticizes every damn thing I do and expects a level of ...
Graham56 comments on Nov 16, 2019:
Maybe he is so unhappy with his life, that he takes it out on you
demifeministgal replies on Nov 16, 2019:
which is a fckd up thing to do.... If only they had licenses for parenthood the way they do for other important jobs.
So... another aspect of dick size. I think men worry about more than most women. In fact, I found...
BitFlipper comments on Nov 15, 2019:
I learned a long time ago to be careful because hitting the cervix too hard is painful.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 16, 2019:
@whiskywoman different strokes for different folks... I am not into pain, be it sexual or not. Pain free sex is the best kind imo :D
All I got is Wtf?!?
webspider555 comments on Nov 14, 2019:
Have you got the right group ,this isn’t sexy classy pics
demifeministgal replies on Nov 16, 2019:
nothing classy about this pic.... as for sexy, it's all subjective XD
On your third date, and she tells you about her FWB
TomMcGiverin comments on Nov 15, 2019:
Better that she told you early on than later. Personally, I would not continue seeing someone who was so casual about sex that she was already having a continued FWB while also meeting and dating other men, but I'm sure some other men wouldn't really mind or let that hold them back from continuing ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 16, 2019:
It does not mean one is casual about sex just because they have a FWBs..... what if that is the only man she is having sex with and not having sex with other guys, does not make her casual about sex.... she'd be more safe with sex than serial monogamists or those in the hookup culture.
Goodnight! We've made it to the weekend... celebrate with a friend...
Infoguy211 comments on Nov 15, 2019:
Happy weekend! Sleep well 💤 Between not sleeping last night, and being offered the job that I interviewed for on Wednesday, it should be a good night for me.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 15, 2019:
ooh my finally :D good job
"Exercise keeps Mr. Happy excited."
UrsiMajor comments on Nov 14, 2019:
I thought Tinder was well-known as a one-night-stand meat market. I've been having similar experiences on Plenty of Fish. I've met some pretty interesting characters on this website as well. It's pretty much the same thing meeting people at bars. I don't think I've meet one interested member of the ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 15, 2019:
@UrsiMajor lol those men are stupid and best avoided.... like nothing has to be wrong with one's libido to not have sex with someone else... masturbation and sex toys are a thing.... once these men are super old and cannot get laid by anyone they will understand.... not that they cannot get laid due to being old, but I think women make allowances for them cuz they are still young enough, which will not be extended to them once they are very old.
So... another aspect of dick size. I think men worry about more than most women. In fact, I found...
BitFlipper comments on Nov 15, 2019:
I learned a long time ago to be careful because hitting the cervix too hard is painful.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 15, 2019:
@whiskywoman well yea but maybe you are a masochist or turned on by pain.... and hence are not representative of most women ;)
"Exercise keeps Mr. Happy excited."
MakeItGood comments on Nov 14, 2019:
You joined Tinder....the app that is now culturally known to be a hookup app....expecting to find a serious relationship? I mean...sure it's possible...but the type of members has shifted for that app. Pardon the puns. There are other apps like coffee meets bagel or even bumble that likely ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 15, 2019:
@JohnnyQB aaah classic knee jerk reaction about something you know nothing about.... just rant rant rant like a dunning kruger fool..... until you are educated your little paragraphs are useless as they are uninformed.... go back to an incel or MRA forum with that uneducated crap... they may pat you on the back.... and don't ever tell a woman that she has never been victimized when you don't know crap about her life and what she has gone through.... the vast majority of women, the world over, has been street harassed in our lifetimes not to mention too many of us are sexually harassed or abused or raped by men. But sure, keep your head in the sand if it makes you feel better. LMFAO you honestly think there are female privileges that are denied to men? what like the dumbass draft that has not been used in the 70s and is a moot talking point. Because men are not denied privileges or rights by virtue of being men. Nice try.
"Exercise keeps Mr. Happy excited."
UrsiMajor comments on Nov 14, 2019:
I thought Tinder was well-known as a one-night-stand meat market. I've been having similar experiences on Plenty of Fish. I've met some pretty interesting characters on this website as well. It's pretty much the same thing meeting people at bars. I don't think I've meet one interested member of the ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 14, 2019:
@UrsiMajor yell at you?! really? what the fck did they say? asshats
"Exercise keeps Mr. Happy excited."
MakeItGood comments on Nov 14, 2019:
You joined Tinder....the app that is now culturally known to be a hookup app....expecting to find a serious relationship? I mean...sure it's possible...but the type of members has shifted for that app. Pardon the puns. There are other apps like coffee meets bagel or even bumble that likely ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 14, 2019:
@JohnnyQB then that would not be comparable to this at all because my response was very specific to dating apps whereas you are implying women are not good for advice about anything.
"Exercise keeps Mr. Happy excited."
MakeItGood comments on Nov 14, 2019:
You joined Tinder....the app that is now culturally known to be a hookup app....expecting to find a serious relationship? I mean...sure it's possible...but the type of members has shifted for that app. Pardon the puns. There are other apps like coffee meets bagel or even bumble that likely ...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 14, 2019:
@JohnnyQB I am not sorry to explain to you old man that systemic sexism (against women) is still a very real problem in north america. If you do not know what I mean, google systemic sexism and systemic oppression to understand what I mean... and no this is not something women wish to experience.... in fact we would prefer if there were not biases in our disadvantage but sadly there is. in fact, no country in the world, including scandinavian countries, has achieved social political and economic equality among the genders.
Hun ... chuckles
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Nov 14, 2019:
If this group is going into Bestiality... I am Out.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 14, 2019:
@Cutiebeauty Yes this comment I made was in regards to Jturn, the guy in the picture: I think he was trying to make a funny, and ignored the picture, and made a joke about gay guys. [simple.wikipedia.org]
Hun ... chuckles
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Nov 14, 2019:
If this group is going into Bestiality... I am Out.
demifeministgal replies on Nov 14, 2019:
@Cutiebeauty you know who Jturn is? :s Do you follow his posts?
Hun ... chuckles
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 14, 2019:
Flag.. I don't like this... Please delete...
demifeministgal replies on Nov 14, 2019:
@Cutiebeauty you don't even have to be in the scene, so to speak, I heard the term used on Modern Family XD And I googled it after I heard it used. I am sure it is used in other shows/movies too.... but one's viewership varies ;)
Hun ... chuckles
demifeministgal comments on Nov 14, 2019:
Bear is a gay slang term. It describes a hairy, heavy-set (sometimes muscular) gay or bisexual man. https://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bear_(gay_slang)
demifeministgal replies on Nov 14, 2019:
@FlippantLlama what's worse is the homophobia it inspired :/
I see intimacy as a derivative of three main components: intellectual connection, physical ...
St-Sinner comments on Nov 13, 2019:
Intimacy is physical intimacy. All other closeness is emotional and other closeness. There is a separate word in the dictionary for every feeling in that group. There is no religious intimacy, no friendship intimacy, no trust intimacy, no security intimacy. Romance is romance, it is not intimacy....
demifeministgal replies on Nov 14, 2019:
@St-Sinner But this is not about me.... it is about the way a word is defined and understood in broader society despite your or my personal understanding. duh

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