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Another boring date in the books. I wish there was a dating site for interesting people only.

demifeministgal comments on Aug 6, 2019:

For me if there is an intellectually stimulating exchange it is a good date. Sadly, guys my age group are more concerned with being funny than being smart so many of my past dates have sucked as well.

Been chatting with a man on a dating site.

demifeministgal comments on Aug 6, 2019:

excuse m curiosity, but who is Izzard? :s

A worry I have.

demifeministgal comments on Aug 6, 2019:

Feel free to join @MentalHealthSupport to post your worries.... you do NOT need to have a mental illness to join but it's a good supportive community that lends an ear and offers advice.

I've got this craving...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 4, 2019:

too many tattoos I dislike sleeves yugh

Has anyone had sex in Dr. office?

demifeministgal comments on Aug 4, 2019:

You either switch doctors since you seem to be wanting to cross boundaries you should not be as a patient or you maintain self-control and say and do nothing and act professionally in that setting. You are projecting your desires for her onto her. She may not feel the same way and if you subject her to sexual harassment or anything sexual she does not CONSENT TO, you are a dirtbag.

Saw this and wondered other folks thoughts Dear cheater Do you know what your doing do you ...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 4, 2019:

Sounds legit.... the member here that boasts about having a wife and a gf he loves should be reading this. xD

So some guy made an inappropriate comment to a cashier and I am wondering if it was his kink to make...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 2, 2019:

Update: I've been considering asking to speak with a manager and bringing up the incident and asking what their protocal is for sexual harassment leveraged at the female cashiers. And if the person flips it on me and says it is the customers' responsibility to report, making them feel like dumbasses for not having a policy in place for such situations... what do y'all think? Good or bad idea?

Your dog ever do this

demifeministgal comments on Aug 2, 2019:

whenever I do doggy voice with another dog or another creature (rodents or chinchilla) kirby's tale starts wagging... he is such a narcissist he thinks he's the only good boy around who I use animal voice with XD

So the post about a dog that isn't friendly and wanted to add a dog to her home was removed because ...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 1, 2019:

Well, your ego and pride were clearly hurt. What clique? Do you think the admin or mod of this group removed the post? :s Is it not just possible that the poster got all the advice she wanted/needed and was sick of notifications, so removed it? Why make a big thing over it as if she personally insulted you?? CALM DOWN!

Here's a man in a wet t-shirt! Woohoo! How do you like that?! 😋😊

demifeministgal comments on Jul 31, 2019:

His eyes are creeping me out... WTF is wrong with them?! :o

Totally agree with this.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2019:

So then, in your opinion boys raised by lesbian couples and girls raised by gay couples are being raised at a deficit? Would it be better if they were in the foster system or raised by abusive/neglectful hetero parents? Just something for you to ponder

This seems about right.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2019:

Thank goodness I live in an urban city area and not the country, bug infested ass areas of Canada.... yikes!

Cute doggos

demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2019:

daww doggy buddies :D

Sooo many people text.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2019:

Why should people engage in what you call "exploratory hookups" if they are not attracted to the person or do not engage in hookups? Why must everyone conform to your wants and adapt themselves to your demands to be deemed worthy of intimacy?? Rather limited and narrow-minded views you have here man.

Dat ass....

demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2019:

looks malformed and badly photoshopped... just my 2 cents

What’s the deal when women post a kissy poochy face photo?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2019:

LOL welcome to the duck face selfis generation/timeline... enjoy your stay ;) aka GET USED TO IT FOR NOW

So here's a question.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2019:

hmm not sure this has happened beyond a guy asking for extended foreplay... for sex I am the one that controls how long and guy I am with usually knows as much. What would I do? well if I am in pain or tired tell him so and then tell him we gotta go back to just foreplay with him jerking off or a hand job because I cannot anymore. If I could still keep going and there was no issues just keep going I guess. It's all contextual

Dogs should be banned from stores except for certified, seeing-eye dogs.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 29, 2019:

Nope you are wrong. There are people with dogs that need them to alert someone if they are having a stroke or heart attack or having a seizure. If anyone thinks having a health condition makes one weak, they are a privileged healthy c*nt *and seriously need to check their privilege. If you have never experienced something traumatic in your life or have not been negatively impacted by something traumatic, it is not your place to speak of weaknesses. Again, speaking from a place of ignorance and of privilege. As for doggies in general, I would say allow doggies in if you carry them in a carrier or put a muzzle on them and ensure they go potty outside before entering the store. Leaving dogs in hot cars can kill them and tying badly behaved dogs outside stores will have its own set of problems. Were that dog to be tied outside, it would still lunge at you.

Question: Does the size of a penis really matter?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 28, 2019:

I don't think there would ever be an issue with too small... but for many women too big is a problem as it will be too painful or impossible to do anything xD

Would you allow your child to attend a catholic college on a full scholarship with no concerns?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 27, 2019:

Once they are 18, can you really stop your adult child from doing what he/she wants, within the law? I mean if they are living with you while they study at most you can kick them out or demand rent, but the choice where they study is entirely theirs. You can voice your opinions and concerns of course though.

Do you think it is dysfunctional when 50 YO kids and their parent(s) spend nearly all their free ...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 27, 2019:

I would not say dysfunctional per se. I would wonder do the parents or kids not have any friends or spouses to occupy their time with? Are the parents dying or in poor health so the adult kid(s) have decided to spend as much time as they can with them before they die? Or are the adult kid(s) the care givers of their sick parent(s)? I would wonder why myself tbh.

Woman charged after stealing someone elses dentures, wearing them to her probation meeting

demifeministgal comments on Jul 27, 2019:

ewww. you don't know where that mouth has been or what it has been doing... as fckng gross as using a strangers toothbrush. :/

Tibetan Mastiff. The world's largest dog. (According to the picture)

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

He's such a big guy... how does one control such a dog if it chooses to bolt or sprint away somewhere? :s

Did anyone else lose their virginity to a fellow virgin?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

Yes I did. And he was my first love too. :D

Another one for my book.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

Perhaps he had a foot fetish and wanted to get your toe nails done and put into a shoe he likes for his satisfaction? That's my guess heh

I REALLY need to ask this question.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

soo there is a fckd up power dynamic at play here: not only can minors not consent to sex with an adult (statutory rape) but the position of power and authority the teacher has over them makes consent very problematic too. I would say today's boys are FINALLY being taught about consent and their rights and just as young girls that done the line realize they were groomed or manipulated into sex as a minor AND IT WAS WRONG on the predator's part, so too are boys realizing this. Except, clearly, the stigma for speaking out for boy rape victims is still higher than it is for girl rape victims.

I just got laid off from my job. I'm reeling.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 26, 2019:

Hopefully you can use one of your bosses or coworkers as reference. Did they say why you were being laid off?

This is a post in response to another thread where someone was accused of being an ableist for ...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 25, 2019:

I get butthurt white bros (because the logical ones don't care and move on) telling me or whining at me that I MUST hate myself or hate my race or, the fckd up one, be a race traitor (haa!) because I don't date white guys. Like move the fck on man. Would you truly want me to fake date you and treat you like a friend because there was no attraction there? Lead you on like that? Have some goddam self-respect.

Pretty depressed.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 25, 2019:

I think you should document what she is doing as evidence if you have to file a police report. Take pictures or videos, especially if you can capture her doing said things. These are criminal offenses and one should NOT just ignore criminal stalkers. You may need to one day file a restraining order against her. Start collecting evidence is what I say.

Sometimes when your going through old hard drives (10 megs total size) you find things it was ...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 25, 2019:

real men like all body types, both big and small and everything in between.

My relatives, when they find out I'm an atheist:. "Do you worship the devil?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 24, 2019:

LMAO you call your relatives corn-fed?? ahh if I had the courage to call my fam members hicks.... maybe on their death beds XD

How do you motivate yourself to exercise?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 24, 2019:

I don't because I don't. XD I think I would need an external motivator like someone being on my case to join them for a class/session we signed up for or a health condition that was killing me. My internal motivations come for intellectual or humanistic pursuits, not so much physical excercise. :$

Question: For women - guys cumming in you is old hat.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 24, 2019:

does on himself or towards himself count? haha

What do y'all think?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 24, 2019:

I'm not gay/a man, but if I were either, I'd prefer natural. Sure she'd be nice to look at but not as nice to touch XD

Question: When you start love making, do you prefer to start slowly, clothed?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 24, 2019:

It's all about building that anticipation and that spark... jumping straight to things is for the impatient or too thirsty folks... they need to slow it down and delay gratification to see how sweet that can be ;) Just my 2 cents

Question: When you are really down, hot, dirty and fucking each others brains out, and your partner ...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 23, 2019:

never had it happen intentionally but if it did my thoughts would be ouch! that's my hair! And i'd tell the guy ow! don't pull my hair it hurts! I am pain avoidant! :D :$

UPDATE: Apparently, my friend and I had a massive misunderstanding.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 23, 2019:

LOL he also sounds entitled. You did not owe him sex. Sadly it worked out better online than it did in person. I have been on the receiving and giving end of that-- especially if a person posts a super photoshopped pic that looks nothing like them!

So, by accident I stumbled upon a movie called The Dead Lands last night, a New Zealand action movie...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 22, 2019:

I would not have known he was maori if you had not said so. He could easily pass as a latino... I like his look :)

Polish Catholic Church expects 'wave' of child sex abuse reports after release of film on ...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 21, 2019:

As a former catholic pole I am surprised that the archbishop actually issued an apology and secondly I think the believers will consider this false news or think they were setup to lie to beesmirch the integrity of the church. I have heard the tales of too many dumbass alex jones sounding polish catholics to think they'd side with the victims rather than deny it or victim blame.

Question: Do you like your butt cheeks played with? Clothed, not clothed...how?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 21, 2019:

mmhmm. Either through clothes or not clothed... whichever helps him get a better grip ;)

Rare $0.05 cent Canadian bill found in U.K.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 20, 2019:

LMFAO omg they are so cute.... it literally says canadian tire could nobody google that to see it was a store?! silly humans

How many of you feel as if your lack of any sort of religious or spiritual belief system has ...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 20, 2019:

Well, I have found it truly difficult to find men I am attracted to that are not religious. In my experience, minority men tend to be more religious than white guys... so the struggle to find a non-believer is harder than it should be. But I persist... ;)

Sorry,but I'm thinking there's too much hate here. .

demifeministgal comments on Jul 20, 2019:

Where? On general and hellos? On agnostic.com? Some other group you meant to post this under? :s

In Kanesetake, in the north eastern suburb of Montreal, an angry Mohawk threatens and forces a TV ...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 19, 2019:

okaaay... why was he angry? was the reporter trying to get involved in or film a "sacred" ceremony? Were they asked to leave countless times and didn't get the hint? Reporters cannot take a clue and will get offended for some goddam reason if you don't want to be filmed -_- This needs more context imo

Ex wife has been with two different people in two weeks, a month after the divorce was finalized.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Out of curiosity, how do you know she's been with said people? Has she told you? Or have you been following her or having her followed? :s

I wonder what would happen if Twitter banned Trump from posting tweets.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 17, 2019:

I actually do not watch news in the mornings and my local news does not follow trump's every tweet anyways... win for me :D No imagination necessary on my part.

Anybody ever end a relationship and feel both good and bad about doing it?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 17, 2019:

Thus far I have ended all of my relationships and I have only felt somewhat bad about the long term one. Though it had to be done and was a looong time coming, it still made us both cry as I did it. :(

Below is what came with the picture.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 17, 2019:

oh my! that dog weighs more than me! :o If he decided to bolt or run he'd literally drag me along :o

My apologies if this has come up before. Is there such a person as a soulmate?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 17, 2019:

I don't think so. I think there are handfuls of people one may be perfectly compatible with and their values perfectly alligned, but that does not mean they are "the one". That just means you have a very good compatibility with this person, in all respects intellectually, emotionally, sexually, physically, psychologically (ie temperaments, conflict resolution styles), etc.

This is a rant .

demifeministgal comments on Jul 17, 2019:

TOO many men, especially middle aged and young adult males, need to read and heed your advice. That way I'd have less dumbass christian men contacting me when I literally state it won't work and I am not interested in my profile.

Growing up in a secular family, I was not indoctrinated into any religious or theistic beliefs.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 17, 2019:

umm you found a way to make a positive thing into a woe is me thing. Being shunned by one's family or loved ones or even community is not as fun and exhilarating as you may think. But why take it from someone that was indoctrinated into that fckery and constantly has to deal with family members trying to convert me back? This is truly the life! wheee *heavy sarcasm* -_-

I've had a nice little break and I'm back. I missed a few of you.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 16, 2019:

Only a few huh? :(

What are some of the early signs that someone is being abused..?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 16, 2019:

manipulation (saying or doing certain things to get one's way think crying to get one's way or threatening suicide), belittling, undermining one's self esteem or confidence, alienating or isolating a person from their healthy friends and/or family members, and gaslighting about doing all of the above.

Question: After you have been on on a one night stand, and your balls aren't blue anymore or your ...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 16, 2019:

*shrugs* Cannot say. Have never had a one night stand.

I have yet to experience this 😞

demifeministgal comments on Jul 16, 2019:

I have found this in a friend from America and I also thought i would never find it with the piss poor quality of friends I had in the past. Once you find it, treasure and cherish it and don't fck it up, is my advice ;)

Lily starting hanging out under my desk during the July 4th fireworks.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 16, 2019:

Kirby lies under the computer desk when his hooman is working from home as well. Can't trust these shifty humans not to get the sudden urge to leave him home alone again, after all.

Question: How overtly sexual have you been in a public place. A mall as example. How far did you go?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 16, 2019:

public usually involved night time or dark place (ie movie theater, stairwell in middle of the night or a secluded area in a park in middle of the night). farthest has been foreplay and manual sex. Though two guys wanted to do oral and would have if I had allowed it. heh :$

Question for women: Have you ever experienced a spontaneous orgasm when not having sex?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 16, 2019:

LMAO that is a thing? Must be very rare indeed.

What if.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 16, 2019:

I disagree. You can have both people deluded, neither one deluded, or your version of a relationship. Relationships come in a variety of forms across a broad spectrum. Yours or the ones you have personally witnessed the most are but one form along that spectrum.

If someone is recovery from surgery and is high on pain killers and they tell you they love you, how...

demifeministgal comments on Jul 15, 2019:

Not much at all especially if those drugs have that effect on patients and they are telling everyone around em they love em.

After crying myself to sleep, the last thing I really wanna do is get out of bed and go to work.

demifeministgal comments on Jul 13, 2019:

Perhaps take a sick day, if you can?

What am I do?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 13, 2019:

I had a ex that was okay with the same routine and did not want to spice things up. I communicated with him about it, open and honestly, on several occassions and told him what I wanted to try. Now, he did not try everything but he made minor changes. On the other hand, initially he did not want to try at all. That is the worst imo if you communicate your needs and your partner is like meh, fck it. Good luck with those needs. :/ Hopefully your partner is more willing to satisfy your needs once it is discussed and pondered about on her end.

Question: What kind of porn is your biggest turn on?

demifeministgal comments on Jul 13, 2019:

cartoon porn... then anything I watch, even if fckd up, I am okay with cuz it is just drawings or animations and no people involved/harmed :)

I’m SO proud of myself! I was driving on the freeway to Portland, Or to volunteer at a MommyCon...