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This super christian guy at my job asked once if I was Christian.

Davesnothere comments on Nov 22, 2019:

Ethics tempered by Empathy. It scares me that a lot of believers do not use this, but instead determine good and evil by what others tell them.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

And then there's the dumb fcks (sadly I know some personally) that refuse to believe a non-believer can have any morals without religion.... to them non-believers are unethical and immoral by default..... ughhh

Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?

Kayladad1 comments on Nov 24, 2019:

Seems to me that there isn’t much difference in the behaviors of all organized religions. Most are intent on foisting their beliefs on others, as if to absolve them of having to hold themselves accountable. To my view.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@JohnnyQB you keep talking but you look like this to anyone that follows this thread...

Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?

Kayladad1 comments on Nov 24, 2019:

Seems to me that there isn’t much difference in the behaviors of all organized religions. Most are intent on foisting their beliefs on others, as if to absolve them of having to hold themselves accountable. To my view.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@JohnnyQB reading comprehension your shitty public education did not teach you that.... so again So discussing the history of a nation, before it was engrossed by religious nutfuckery, is akin to defending a religious ideology?

Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?

Kayladad1 comments on Nov 24, 2019:

Seems to me that there isn’t much difference in the behaviors of all organized religions. Most are intent on foisting their beliefs on others, as if to absolve them of having to hold themselves accountable. To my view.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@JohnnyQB So discussing the history of a nation, before it was engrossed by religious nutfuckery, is akin to defending a religious ideology? Well then, we can never discuss American history then! heh

A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...

Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:

What's FWB ?

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@Moravian I am not sure. I imagine some people are in open style FWBs dynamics in which case they have a primary FWB, but both parties or one party is still sleeping with others. Then there are other ones, like mine, where we only sleep with one another and if either of us starts dating someone (beyond a couple of dates) we break it off completely and revert to just platonic friends. I think our dynamic have lower STD odds than the ones that sleep around and have a FWB.

A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...

Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:

What's FWB ?

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@OwlInASack ahh okay I see. I did not know there was a personal element to this whole thing for you.... I thought it was just an older guy terrified of change of the youngins as per that trope of old people scared of the new ways. XD I think your son will eventually learn to be in a healthy long-term relationship.... if he was in a FWBs dynamic he clearly was not ready, be it psychologically or financially or career-wise, for a serious relationship. As for falling in love, these things require a type of maturity and lots of introspective thinking and self-awareness. One needs to be honest with themselves and determine if they are getting in to a FWBs for the right reasons. If your son honestly cared for that girl/woman and so settled for FWBs or he was soo lonely he could not bear to be alone, those were terrible reasons to agree to a FWBs. If it kind of snuck up on him, the falling in love thing, he needed to be honest with her and decide how to proceed from there... either end it himself or be prepared for her ending things (if she is a decent lady) once he was honest. These things work out best if both parties are open and honest (heck honest with their damn selves) and communicate about the arrangement frequently.

Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?

Kayladad1 comments on Nov 24, 2019:

Seems to me that there isn’t much difference in the behaviors of all organized religions. Most are intent on foisting their beliefs on others, as if to absolve them of having to hold themselves accountable. To my view.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@Krish55 history is hard for xenophobic nationalists like him.... he laughs off the facts of Iraq and Iran historically not being such oppressive Islamic nations, because it gets in the way of his alt-right agenda and thinking is hard... we should pity him and try to ignore his ilk.

Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?

Geoffrey51 comments on Nov 24, 2019:

Only if they are happy for Americans to be kept out of everywhere as well. Deport those pesky Yanks!

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

yup... I made a satirical comment to nationalist Muricans after Trump was elected.... we need to build a wall, paid for by the American govt, to keep Americans out of Canada. They tried to come in in droves after that oompa loompa degenerate was voted in. XD

Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?

Beowulfsfriend comments on Nov 24, 2019:

Do you realize that Sharia law is simply another term for Abrahanic law. So by your question we should keep out all Jews and Christians as well. Is that what you want?

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@phoenixlives hell there are modern day christian terrorists in the world... not sure if they are specifically cutting off heads but they are terrorists nonetheless. For example the Lord's Resistance Army is one in Africa. https://www.salon.com/2015/04/07/6_modern_day_christian_terrorist_groups_our_media_conveniently_ignores_partner/

New achievement unlocked last night: E-stim dildo and Hitachi combo after a good caning.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Nov 22, 2019:

Never have tried the E-stim dildo, what did she think of it?

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@BassManSpaceMan you crazy kids and your adrenaline ways :o :p

Should the USA try to keep Muslims out of their country?

demifeministgal comments on Nov 25, 2019:

Nah.... Quit the bigotry.... christians and ex christians still brainwashed by their faith, loove to portray their former beliefs as this benign gentle loving religion.... TRUTH IS most of your crazed alt-right wingers and alt right killers are christians.... not to mention to this day in modern ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

https://www.salon.com/2015/04/07/6_modern_day_christian_terrorist_groups_our_media_conveniently_ignores_partner/

A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...

Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:

What's FWB ?

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@Moravian I am not sure what you are asking? Are you asking if the FWBs can be hooking up with other people themselves? Or if both parties can be hooking up with multiple sex partners? Or something else.

Tonight is date number three with a woman I met on the Okay Little Winged Guy site.

demifeministgal comments on Nov 23, 2019:

Yay... hope she is being honest and y'all can continue for longer and that y'all are compatible aka she is not secretly religious ;) Enjoy your date :D

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@Bobbyzen I meant compatible in terms of values as I have read numerous times the best longest relationships are those with good honest communication and shared values (ie religiosity, politics, outlooks on life, etc.).

New achievement unlocked last night: E-stim dildo and Hitachi combo after a good caning.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Nov 22, 2019:

Never have tried the E-stim dildo, what did she think of it?

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@Mermaidfantasy @BassManSpaceMan ooh man edge play sounds dangerous and scary.... please be super careful and safe all of you! :o

A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...

Moravian comments on Nov 25, 2019:

What's FWB ?

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

@OwlInASack lol it's no more scary or unhealthy than serial monogamists, that jump from one relationship or marriage to the next because they cannot bear to be single. ;) Just sayin'

A best friend I've known for years said he ended his FWB relationship cause she was falling in love,...

SeaGreenEyez comments on Nov 24, 2019:

No, I've never had that fear. If I've friend-zoned someone, they will **never** be moved into the romantic zone. On the other hand, I have friends that were relocated to that zone from romantic relationship zone, but that's an entirely different thing. (And yes, it is different. I would ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 25, 2019:

Agreed same here. I do not call it friend zone though. I just compartmentalize my male friends as eternal platonic friends and do not even attempt to cross boundaries with them, like flirting.

New achievement unlocked last night: E-stim dildo and Hitachi combo after a good caning.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Nov 22, 2019:

Never have tried the E-stim dildo, what did she think of it?

demifeministgal replies on Nov 23, 2019:

@Mermaidfantasy electric stimulation?!! :o As in it provides a current of electric shock to users to their genitals?! geeeze

Ya know, getting ghosted by the first attractive woman you've seen on an online dating service who ...

demifeministgal comments on Nov 23, 2019:

I kinda know what you mean.... I finally find a non-believer MOC on the interracial site and he messages me and then disappears forever.... perhaps my taste in music was a dealbreaker idk XD because he asked me about my favourite music in his message XD

demifeministgal replies on Nov 23, 2019:

@JayOleck38 WTF is that about? why would she even do that?! Unless it was a fake account and not a real she? people are so dumb sometimes XD

Dating disasters: why bad grammar could stop you finding love online | News | The Guardian

BitFlipper comments on Nov 20, 2019:

My spelling and grammar are impeccable. I have seen no evidence that women give a shit about it.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 21, 2019:

Women in your generation seem to care a lot about it... soo keep it up! ;) :p

Today I was traveling with a friend to a few wineries.

Cinco comments on Nov 18, 2019:

I would have felt a twinge of guilt - freedom of speech and all. But this would qualify as propaganda for sure. And quite harmful to so many.Not sure what I would of done but glad at least one less batch is in circulation. Well done. I have to giggle at the thought that when they return to the ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 21, 2019:

@BobLoblah she literally did not force her way of thinking... it is the equivalent of interjecting or stopping a religious nutter from forcing their beliefs on to other.... distinct difference.

Have any of you guys used the female condom or had a partner that did. What did you think?

Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 20, 2019:

No condoms for me... Those things stop baby making!

demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:

well one day maybe you will rejoin the birth control community ;) Unless you plan on going Full Duggar Mom with it XD heh

I made a smoothie for my sweetheart , she said and I quote “ this will be my dinner tonight “ ,...

demifeministgal comments on Nov 20, 2019:

My partner of sorts gets annoyed when I take/sample food off of his plate too.... not that I have a tiny non-existent meal and then am starving for his food.... more so I have my food and his looks good too so I sample some of his. heh

demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:

@Outsideit67 I see you said something about men being territorial with food.... I must have one of those males then XD ;) :p

I made a smoothie for my sweetheart , she said and I quote “ this will be my dinner tonight “ ,...

demifeministgal comments on Nov 20, 2019:

My partner of sorts gets annoyed when I take/sample food off of his plate too.... not that I have a tiny non-existent meal and then am starving for his food.... more so I have my food and his looks good too so I sample some of his. heh

demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:

@Outsideit67 well then your annoyance is more understandable than the annoyance I face XD heh

Sometimes you just can't help but laugh at something.

UrsiMajor comments on Nov 20, 2019:

John Legend does remind me a little of Pee Wee Herman for some reason. But sexy is in the eye of the beholder.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:

OMG I googled it and he does look like him! haha

Dating disasters: why bad grammar could stop you finding love online | News | The Guardian

1of5 comments on Nov 19, 2019:

To bad the study was so limited in scope, although age demographics would be particularly interesting/relevant.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:

@IAJO163 It was not a dig at you and older generations it was just expanding on 1of5's point that research that controls for age variables would be interesting. :) LOL you assume that Gen Z'ers are not already annoying me ;) :p

I feel like a total failure right now.

demifeministgal comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Your mental disorder is lying to you... at the very least, you are an IT director, which is an impressive accomplishment in and of itself. I do not know what other accomplishments you have in your life, as I do not know you, but perhaps you can list them out for us here or for yourself personally. ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:

@Freedompath And sometimes a person just needs medication, be it short or long term, to stabilize themselves. That is an important recommendation too many americans shy away from--- probably because your healthcare system overcharges for medication. I mean hopefully that is why and not stigma against medication(s).

Personal maintenance to look decent increases as we get older

demifeministgal comments on Jun 7, 2019:

I wear concealer now (acne prone skin blegh) and eyebrow liner because I like for my eyebrows to look thicker. I'd say you got away with being VERY minimalist under 40 compared to how many under 40s are right now. I think society has conditioned us to believe that womens' value rests on our ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:

@LiterateHiker It's a bit of an old post, I will need to re-read it for a refresher :$

Dating disasters: why bad grammar could stop you finding love online | News | The Guardian

1of5 comments on Nov 19, 2019:

To bad the study was so limited in scope, although age demographics would be particularly interesting/relevant.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 20, 2019:

definitely... I would guess older generations (Gen X'ers and Boomers) care about proper grammar waaay more than millenials and Gen Z. :)

I feel like a total failure right now.

demifeministgal comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Your mental disorder is lying to you... at the very least, you are an IT director, which is an impressive accomplishment in and of itself. I do not know what other accomplishments you have in your life, as I do not know you, but perhaps you can list them out for us here or for yourself personally. ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 19, 2019:

@Stenz okay so I was provided with some resources you may consider checking out when you feel up to it: https://www.spiceworks.com/ https://stackoverflow.com/ But there are forums you can post your IT questions to, perhaps in a way that you do not reveal private data, especially if you signed an NDA of sorts, and the community can help you. That's what my IT friends do. Worth a shot. Good luck to you. :)

I feel like a total failure right now.

demifeministgal comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Your mental disorder is lying to you... at the very least, you are an IT director, which is an impressive accomplishment in and of itself. I do not know what other accomplishments you have in your life, as I do not know you, but perhaps you can list them out for us here or for yourself personally. ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 19, 2019:

@Stenz IS there a higher up or coworkers you can ask for help? I don't know what type of IT you do, but my ex BIL is in IT and there were online forums and communities he would consult that would guide him or give him code to use or whatever else when he was stuck--- his boss gave useless instructions or guidance and he had to figure things out on his own. I can ask him about which platforms or sites he uses if you want?

Content warning: Suicide.

citronella comments on Nov 17, 2019:

It is hard to find a loving partner if you have convinced yourself you are not worthy of/don't deserve love. I agree with the other comments that encourage you to find meds/therapies that help you untangle everything that is affecting you. Additionally, I want to point out that being alone is not ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

@Sansdeus I wonder if you became the scapegoat of the family and your brother the golden child. As defined here: https://lynnenamka.com/narcissism/scapegoating-insidious-family-pattern/ https://medium.com/@OwnYourReality/scapegoat-golden-child-how-and-why-narcissists-assign-these-roles-and-not-just-in-the-family-f78fe568dfa7 No need to apologize for sharing or ranting.... that's what this group is for. :) And good for you for not perpetuating the cycle with your own kids and family. :)

Content warning: Suicide.

citronella comments on Nov 17, 2019:

It is hard to find a loving partner if you have convinced yourself you are not worthy of/don't deserve love. I agree with the other comments that encourage you to find meds/therapies that help you untangle everything that is affecting you. Additionally, I want to point out that being alone is not ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

@Sansdeus Were you trying to get her to acknowledge his abuse of you? :s I think it is important not to minimize any abuse just cuz another was more severe... I make sure to acknowledge all family members' abusive or toxic behaviours even though the mothers was in fact the worst.

"What about black-on-black violence?"

PinkyandtheBrain comments on Nov 16, 2019:

You are very mistaken. There a huge difference in crime rates. Also a large difference in IQ. 70% of black children are born out of wedlock.its a sad mess. Message me and I will tell you why.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

@PinkyandtheBrain there are many criticisms against the validity of IQ tests.... a better measure of intellgence would be Gardner's multiple Intelligences. https://www.verywellmind.com/gardners-theory-of-multiple-intelligences-2795161

"What about black-on-black violence?"

demifeministgal comments on Nov 16, 2019:

I already knew this since it is a tired line used by Murican racists in every fbook group I am in (majority of members are Americans) and someone once stated this fact. Ever since then, I always reply to the person and what about white on white crime? The majority of whites are killed by other ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

ooh look someone already brought up intelligence in the form of IQ tests, to put his subtle racism on display.... predictable ain't they? ;)

Women In Their 40's Give Advice To Their 20-Something Selves, And It's Worth The Read

RonWilliam53 comments on Nov 17, 2019:

Actually many of these tips are good for 20 y/o males too. Especially the one about not plucking your eyebrows.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

@RonWilliam53 Not to mention, most city dwelling people in my age range cannot afford to live alone... that may have been possible for boomers or Gen X'ers but my generation is fckd.... we need roomates or to live with family much longer than previous generations. :( :/

Women In Their 40's Give Advice To Their 20-Something Selves, And It's Worth The Read

RonWilliam53 comments on Nov 17, 2019:

Actually many of these tips are good for 20 y/o males too. Especially the one about not plucking your eyebrows.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

@RonWilliam53 what are squirrels? :S

Content warning: Suicide.

citronella comments on Nov 17, 2019:

It is hard to find a loving partner if you have convinced yourself you are not worthy of/don't deserve love. I agree with the other comments that encourage you to find meds/therapies that help you untangle everything that is affecting you. Additionally, I want to point out that being alone is not ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

@Sansdeus Your mother was wrong and toxic.... it is cr@ppy "mothers" like ours that makes me think there should be licenses given to people to be able to breed.... some people should never have had kid(s) as they caused more harm and damage than any good by having them. I also had a cruel mother and thankfully she is dead, but the wounds she has caused seem to not be healing, or if they are, are healing rather slowly. In all honesty, I think she was projecting.... she felt like nobody loved her and so she shifted that on to you and told ya you would never be loved.... fck her and her stupid comment..... excuse the language, but toxic moms frustrate me for personal reasons. :$

Content warning: Suicide.

Freedompath comments on Nov 17, 2019:

For starters it seems clear to me that you are more afraid to live than you are to die? And, living can be a real challenge for a lot of us. I think that professional help would be beneficial...on an on-going basis. And temporary (if not long term) meds could help! You just need to find what ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

@Sansdeus I am in the same position in regards to treatment as you.... I think it is VERY stupid that meds prescribed for anxiety or depression can CAUSE suicidal ideation.... it seems to defeat the purpose of taking them in the first place! I know for me I have to, once again, switch them and hope to find one that finally works for me without having such unsavoury side effects (ie suicidal thoughts, constipation, weight gain, etc.). Perhaps you need to do the same thing if you have passed that first 2-3 week transition into your meds.

Australian firefighters pose shirtless with cats for a good cause.

Freespirit64 comments on Nov 18, 2019:

Maybe it's just me...but the tats are turning me off. Never mind that muscular body, lol....

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

not just you I have voiced it multiple times in this group about finding tats yucky :p

Women In Their 40's Give Advice To Their 20-Something Selves, And It's Worth The Read

RonWilliam53 comments on Nov 17, 2019:

Actually many of these tips are good for 20 y/o males too. Especially the one about not plucking your eyebrows.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 18, 2019:

pffft fck that... pluck allll the eyebrows >: D :p

So.

BitFlipper comments on Nov 15, 2019:

I learned a long time ago to be careful because hitting the cervix too hard is painful.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 16, 2019:

@whiskywoman different strokes for different folks... I am not into pain, be it sexual or not. Pain free sex is the best kind imo :D

All I got is Wtf?!?

webspider555 comments on Nov 14, 2019:

Have you got the right group ,this isn’t sexy classy pics

demifeministgal replies on Nov 16, 2019:

nothing classy about this pic.... as for sexy, it's all subjective XD

On your third date, and she tells you about her FWB

TomMcGiverin comments on Nov 15, 2019:

Better that she told you early on than later. Personally, I would not continue seeing someone who was so casual about sex that she was already having a continued FWB while also meeting and dating other men, but I'm sure some other men wouldn't really mind or let that hold them back from continuing ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 16, 2019:

It does not mean one is casual about sex just because they have a FWBs..... what if that is the only man she is having sex with and not having sex with other guys, does not make her casual about sex.... she'd be more safe with sex than serial monogamists or those in the hookup culture.

Goodnight! We've made it to the weekend... celebrate with a friend...

Infoguy211 comments on Nov 15, 2019:

Happy weekend! Sleep well 💤 Between not sleeping last night, and being offered the job that I interviewed for on Wednesday, it should be a good night for me.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 15, 2019:

ooh my finally :D good job

"Exercise keeps Mr. Happy excited."

UrsiMajor comments on Nov 14, 2019:

I thought Tinder was well-known as a one-night-stand meat market. I've been having similar experiences on Plenty of Fish. I've met some pretty interesting characters on this website as well. It's pretty much the same thing meeting people at bars. I don't think I've meet one interested member of the ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 15, 2019:

@UrsiMajor lol those men are stupid and best avoided.... like nothing has to be wrong with one's libido to not have sex with someone else... masturbation and sex toys are a thing.... once these men are super old and cannot get laid by anyone they will understand.... not that they cannot get laid due to being old, but I think women make allowances for them cuz they are still young enough, which will not be extended to them once they are very old.

So.

BitFlipper comments on Nov 15, 2019:

I learned a long time ago to be careful because hitting the cervix too hard is painful.

demifeministgal replies on Nov 15, 2019:

@whiskywoman well yea but maybe you are a masochist or turned on by pain.... and hence are not representative of most women ;)

"Exercise keeps Mr. Happy excited."

MakeItGood comments on Nov 14, 2019:

You joined Tinder....the app that is now culturally known to be a hookup app....expecting to find a serious relationship? I mean...sure it's possible...but the type of members has shifted for that app. Pardon the puns. There are other apps like coffee meets bagel or even bumble that likely ...

demifeministgal replies on Nov 15, 2019:

@JohnnyQB aaah classic knee jerk reaction about something you know nothing about.... just rant rant rant like a dunning kruger fool..... until you are educated your little paragraphs are useless as they are uninformed.... go back to an incel or MRA forum with that uneducated crap... they may pat you on the back.... and don't ever tell a woman that she has never been victimized when you don't know crap about her life and what she has gone through.... the vast majority of women, the world over, has been street harassed in our lifetimes not to mention too many of us are sexually harassed or abused or raped by men. But sure, keep your head in the sand if it makes you feel better. LMFAO you honestly think there are female privileges that are denied to men? what like the dumbass draft that has not been used in the 70s and is a moot talking point. Because men are not denied privileges or rights by virtue of being men. Nice try.

"Exercise keeps Mr. Happy excited."

UrsiMajor comments on Nov 14, 2019:

I thought Tinder was well-known as a one-night-stand meat market. I've been having similar experiences on Plenty of Fish. I've met some pretty interesting characters on this website as well. It's pretty much the same thing meeting people at bars. I don't think I've meet one interested member of the ...