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CONFESSION TIME: SOFT LIMITS What’s something that’s generally a “no” for you sexually but ...

demifeministgal comments on Jun 8, 2019:

I've never tried voyeurism or watching others have sex, but with the right person in a sex club, where the sex does not get too wild or kinky, I could watch. I might also be willing to do public stuff with very little chance of getting caught, such as in a car or in a secluded area where nobody goes or at a time at night where nobody would be around. The circumstances would not be any booze, but the very unlikely chance of getting caught.

Today was the release of the Murdered and Missing Indigneous Women report.

demifeministgal comments on Jun 8, 2019:

As in have police outside of Canada investigate the Highway of tears?? Why would they do that? As in, why would they care to do that? What would they gain from it? :s

This is something that triggers me.

demifeministgal comments on Jun 8, 2019:

I would say your first comment was okay, though your second comment was taking things too personally. I viewed her post as being a self-deprecating joke against herself, and you somehow took it personally. I mean, unless you meant that self-deprecating humour triggers you? :s I think we are allowed to make self-deprecating jokes and others don't get to police those kinds of jokes. That is just my opinion.

Andrew Scheer will win in the next federal election... Trudeau has messed Canada up to bad.

demifeministgal comments on Jun 8, 2019:

ughh I fckng hope not. Cons always fck things up and bring about so much cuts that fck over many people, except the wealthy and rich. I wish people would vote NDP more already. I mean they make one goddam mistake in history and are written off forever?! blegh

I'm just venting here.

demifeministgal comments on Jun 7, 2019:

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How does everybody keep their pet cool during the summer months walks?

demifeministgal comments on Jun 7, 2019:

My sister got Kirby a water bottle he can drink from. You fill the giant lid with water and he drinks from it like if it were a bowl of water. Also, he gets a summer cut really short.

Personal maintenance to look decent increases as we get older

demifeministgal comments on Jun 7, 2019:

I wear concealer now (acne prone skin blegh) and eyebrow liner because I like for my eyebrows to look thicker. I'd say you got away with being VERY minimalist under 40 compared to how many under 40s are right now. I think society has conditioned us to believe that womens' value rests on our appearance and this message is just further reinforced by our daily interactions with other men/women, who seem more interested the better we look. It is a shitty aspect of socialization women endure and makes aging harder for us in some respects. This looks nice too. Not like a bag lady AT ALL.

"How psychedelic therapies are making a comeback For years now a band of dedicated scientists has ...

demifeministgal comments on Jun 3, 2019:

No. I feel like causing me to hallucinate or trip or to disassociate would not improve the underlying issues and symptoms I have. It would just be a form of escapism I guess.

This is for the ladies who are in this group.

demifeministgal comments on Jun 3, 2019:

That he is too comfy using pet names with women he doesn't know and that comes across as disrespectful or if he is way older than me that he is talking down to me or talking to me as if I were his daughter. yughh.

How do you like this hunky man?

demifeministgal comments on May 31, 2019:

too many tattoos, dislike arm sleeves. plus too thin for my liking

We have forgotten the good old, patient friendly methods.

demifeministgal comments on May 30, 2019:

Except women would not be dressed in sexy corsets nowadays and the fat would just spill out all over and we would just be in bras and underwear

Anyone else have deal with a hyper critical parent?

demifeministgal comments on May 30, 2019:

Yes both parents were/are fckd up. Have you tried the approach used with narcs called grey rock method? "The Gray Rock Method gives you an option of blending in so that you no longer serve as a target for that person. Gray Rock provides a safe and effective way to dull the impact you have around these people, and they will eventually just leave you alone. If you can’t cut them out of your life completely, try separating yourself from them as much as possible. If you need to be in the same room as them, distract yourself with your phone. Don’t be present for conversations. Answer short answers and don’t engage in conversation. At first, they will become frustrated by your inaction, but they’ll eventually see that there is no getting ahead with you and they’ll move on to someone else. If they aren’t getting what they want: satisfaction from hurting other people or manipulating them, they’ll find another source of that satisfaction. When the person enters the room, do your best to just leave. Continue to remind yourself that what they think and do is not a reflection of you and that they can hold all the opinions and thoughts they want. You don’t have to give into any of it. You don’t have to allow them the space in your mind to take over your thoughts. You don’t even have to do much more than just smile and nod at them. You can keep your thoughts and feelings close to your chest – they won’t come looking for them anyway and you get out of the conversation unscathed and feeling like you were in control instead of feeling like you got railroaded by them." Hope the tips/method helps you! :)

This article popped up in my inbox today.

demifeministgal comments on May 30, 2019:

Good. Every fckng corporation selling and profitting off of that snake oil has blood on their hands and needs to face consequences.

What is your favorite junk food?...

demifeministgal comments on May 30, 2019:

chocolate most brands; favourite are what the industry calls premium chocolates: ferrero rocher, lindt, etc.

Sewing a new dress cost $12. Happy days!

demifeministgal comments on May 30, 2019:

Not to discredit your story, but I know stores where you can buy new, mass-produced dresses for $12 or less. Not that they will be any good quality or last long though. heh

Perfect advice for many people on this site:

demifeministgal comments on May 30, 2019:

Okay and? Can we not blame anything on capitalism? If there is not livable wages provided and there is a guaranteed unemployment rate in the labour market, how can life choices possibly help with either of those? Not everyone can be a doctor or lawyer or successful trades person after all. We NEED food service workers and other low paid jobs because SOMEBODY has to do those jobs. Why not pay those people a livable wage to keep up with inflation?? How come inflation has continuously increased and wages have not? Wage stagnation is a problematic feature of capitalism to ensure companies' profits say high.

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demifeministgal comments on May 29, 2019:

Certainly not the catholic community. Those pedo fckers prefer blaming homosexuals and the homosexual agenda for the fckery in their churches. ughh

Some days I'm doing okay.

demifeministgal comments on May 29, 2019:

I will give you a tip that I have yet to properly apply myself. Get a box and fill it with stuff that brings you joy or happiness; it can be your favourite food or snacks, favourite song(s), fav pictures/paintings, awards or medals or trophies or accolades you received from school or work, a favourite toy or blanket or object that brings you happiness, a letter or card someone wrote you that brought a smile to your face, etc. etc. Decorate the outside of the box with nice wrapping paper or colour the outside with your favourite colours so it stands out from other boxes. When you are feeling depressed and at your worst, retrieve this box of hapiness/comfort to help you along. Hope this helps you with your journey/struggles! :)

Have you ever been annoyed by just the sight or voice of a person?

demifeministgal comments on May 28, 2019:

I don't know about sight. But the voice? most definitely! Especially women that have vocal fry or baby voices or end everything they say like a drawn out question??

Who will win?

demifeministgal comments on May 28, 2019:

I don't know. We shall see. Raptors have a bad history of choking when they need to be at their best. Hence this being a historic moment for them to make it to the finals. I wouldn't be surprised if they choked in the finals as well. And I am not a warriors fan or raptors fan. Just looking at historical trends here.

I have been with a pathalogical liar and narcissist the past 10 years.

demifeministgal comments on May 28, 2019:

I would say make sure to trust your gut instincts. And if you have a history of prior abuse, work out any residual issues related to that. As often abuse victims/survivors tend to be targets for these pathological fckers.

Met someone.

demifeministgal comments on May 27, 2019:

That is a rare find indeed. I would love to find a guy in my age range that does not turn the first or 2nd date convo towards sex and is just flirty. I mean learn to read your audience dude. If she's not enthusiastic about said chat or changing the topic don't try to force the topic on her.

Today's Minneapolis Star Tribune - headlines - "Persecuted Online For Her Abortion" - the ...

demifeministgal comments on May 27, 2019:

fckng sharia religious fckers doxxing women for no good reason. Their sadistic sky daddy would be proud. :/

Hell Introduces 13 New Varieties Of Pineapple Pizza

demifeministgal comments on May 24, 2019:

where's a gag or vomit emoji when you need one?! NO NO NO! Kill them with fire!

I have just talked to my good friend from Barbados.

demifeministgal comments on May 24, 2019:

Perhaps he sees how it will reflect poorly on him or on other black women. Unfortunately, visible minorities or POC in the states still tend to be seen as a monolith, rather than individuals acting out. So, he may believe, that if she gets angry, racists will use that as proof to paint all black people as irrational, angry and hot-tempered. The problem is not with her reaction, it is with idiots and the stpd media that paint minorities as a monolith.

What is this?

demifeministgal comments on May 24, 2019:

Based on porn, I'd say it is for a dom's 2 subs so they can be attached to one another and easily lead around simultaneously?

I had hot sex with my beautiful lady but this was different I fell asleep we both were there and ...

demifeministgal comments on May 24, 2019:

So what you are saying is, you both fell asleep? I don't think you repeated it enough for me to understand. XD

This kitty proves cats can sleep comfortably in any position.

demifeministgal comments on May 24, 2019:

Some dogs can too. For example, my sister's dog sleeps similarily to this with his body twisted; his upper half facing sideways and his lower half facing upwards. Animals are weird sleepers. :p

Can anyone tell me how to combat a control freak supervisor?

demifeministgal comments on May 24, 2019:

@Toolguy any tips?

Hey guys, do i have a girl for you!

demifeministgal comments on May 23, 2019:

This may be a weird thing to notice, but one of her boobs seems bigger than the other which makes her chest look uneven.

So, I've been on a few dates with a guy but I'm just not feeling any attraction for him.

demifeministgal comments on May 23, 2019:

For some people it may work, in that the halo effect comes into play and the more close you get to someone the more attractive they become (it happened to me even with friends in the past). However, it is not a guarantee and if it doesn't happen for you on your end then you may have wasted his time.

Last time I dated a vegan I lasted about 10 days.

demifeministgal comments on May 22, 2019:

ooh man I wouldn't last. Especially during PMS when I am in constantly starving mode no amount of grains and veggies would suffice! Give me my meat or give me death! :p

How do you manage thick hair?

demifeministgal comments on May 21, 2019:

I thought mine was bad. Never has it been so heavy that it hurt to put behind my ears. Nor is it resistant to water. But it does get frizzy and it is wavy and annoys me. What I do is what your daughter does to be honest and once I entered the work world upped my game from a ponytail to a hair bun.

A ridiculously good questions to ask.

demifeministgal comments on May 21, 2019:

I will say one of my best memories is before the toxicity fckd me up and I was able to find simple pleasures in life... so my sister and mother went to visit my grandparents while I was alone with my dad (he fell asleep). So finally it was my chance to do what I saw on cartoons... learn how to fly!! So for those few hours before they came home I kept jumping off of the couch arm and flapping my arms hoping to fly. It didn't work. :p When they came home, I got a doll that my grandma brought back for me from Europe. I still have that doll and that memory to this day.

I haven't fallen of the face of the earth.

demifeministgal comments on May 21, 2019:

sorry? handing what out? books? scholars? ;p

You know it!

demifeministgal comments on May 21, 2019:

It needs to be ammended to it's better than some kinds/types of sex, then.

Just dyed my hair blue.. You like :) This is in the day light so.. How about now

demifeministgal comments on May 21, 2019:

It's a very faint blue, was that intentional? :s

Chilling with My Son in Las Vegas. Life is Good! Can't have a Better Wingman!

demifeministgal comments on May 21, 2019:

He is rather handsome, if i do say so myself. :)

Oh Dayum! Freeze!

demifeministgal comments on May 17, 2019:

LOL nice. XD

Well, my day started out by slipping in a patch of mud and having to go back in the house and change...

demifeministgal comments on May 17, 2019:

Be safe out there! Dam sketchy mud patches. >.> :p

Update on my dream guy.

demifeministgal comments on May 17, 2019:

Congrats to you. And way to be an awesome stepmom. I don't have good experiences with potential step-parents so I like hearing stories of good step-parent stories. :)

[washingtonpost.

demifeministgal comments on May 17, 2019:

I have suggested to American friends online that perhaps a type of underground railroad needs to be built for women from these red states to safely flee from these christian sharia law states to blue states where they can access reproductive rights and bodily autonomy.

My boss just came in and threw the pamphlet I made at me.

demifeministgal comments on May 17, 2019:

I know how you feel. At my last temp job I was trying to find client information on the software my supervisor barely trained me on and clicked on this section which was apparently where refunds were made (she never bothered to explain this to me prior of course) and she threw a goddam hissy fit. She yelled at me not to click there and who told me to click there?! And slammed my mouse on the desk hard! I do not do well with sudden loud noises (thanks shitty fam) and was triggered into a fear type of anxiety the rest of the shift. :( I just got through the shift as best as possible then bitched about it with the great IT coworker who also hated her. He calmed me down. :)

How about this dude

demifeministgal comments on May 17, 2019:

cowboys make me think of the south or alberta.. noooope.

how do you define success?

demifeministgal comments on May 16, 2019:

I say we need to stop measuring success in the ways capitalism would have us measure it-- based purely on money and assets. Is that all there is to life? For me personally success is related to my education, my employment and if I have helped others and helped make society a better place. Not related to assets or finances at all, even though I have savings and a great credit score. meh

This member's pic is on my current feed. Aint he purdy?

demifeministgal comments on May 16, 2019:

not for me... HATE or strongly dislike arm sleeves (aka full arm tattooed).

I’ve just been reflecting on what it is that makes some men more attractive to us than others.

demifeministgal comments on May 14, 2019:

He doesn't do it for me. I am not into white guys. #sorrynotsorry

I love chatting with someone for a few hours and then they drop a line like "lets do some shots and ...

demifeministgal comments on May 14, 2019:

Guys have tried to get me to drink but at most I will have one drink and milk it and if I am not into them, no way do I makeout and just hug em or let em kiss me on the cheek. I guess I'm an old turd as well. XD heh

This guy was abandoned, with his litter mates in a nearby field.

demifeministgal comments on May 14, 2019:

Such a cutie! :)

It goes beyond barbaric

demifeministgal comments on May 14, 2019:

Soo is America great again yet? And, great for who?? :/

Feminism is destroying the west.

demifeministgal comments on May 9, 2019:

It has hurt families you say? And the entire west? You sound like a conservaturd christian or religious person. Be gone silly boy.

I have a question.

demifeministgal comments on May 9, 2019:

In my case, it is because on many profiles I do not have a pic up. But on dating sites where I do have or have had pics I think they want a candid pic to verify I look like my pictures and they are not outdated pics. Some guys are terrified of dating or meeting a chubby or overweight lady and need to know I am actually slim. Idiots.

"Anxiety Muffin" that would be my horse....

demifeministgal comments on May 9, 2019:

Sad salad. meh

The “heartbeat” bills that could ban almost all abortions, explained [vox.com]

demifeministgal comments on May 8, 2019:

You know what scientists have created a beating heart with stem cells, so why give so much importance to heart beats anyways? Plus, isn't a person technically considered dead once they are brain dead? So the development of the brain should be a greater threshold for cutoffs not a bloody heartbeat.

When is it okay to say "I love you"?

demifeministgal comments on May 8, 2019:

In my experience EVERY time a man has said it too early to me he was being manipulative either in an emotional way to make me believe he cared for me more than he did (or at all with the last one), or in a way to try and manipulate sex/sexual intimacy out of me. I only believed it when it was said to me by my long term ex of 5 years. I could tell it was genuine and heartfelt by how he said it and how he didn't expect anything in return. Some months later I said it back to him as I felt it too. :) Hence my skepticism with guys that say it too soon. Although my bullshit detector has always been spot on with this. With my first high school bf he said it to me while he was aroused (we had not had sex yet) and he said it in spanish, when the boy was not a spanish speaker. A way to distance himself from the words perhaps? I laughed out loud at that one as I knew what he was doing. :)

Look what I got today! Sexy, huh?

demifeministgal comments on May 8, 2019:

Can you do something in place of hiking in the interim since you love being active? Like water aerobics or lifting weights?

I am with my family for the weekend, for my younger brother's graduation.

demifeministgal comments on May 7, 2019:

immature asshats. :/

When is it okay to say "I love you"?

demifeministgal comments on May 7, 2019:

That sounds like love bombing to me. I had an ex that started talking about our future and if we were to be exclusive and about the future after just 1 date. It seemed bizarre then, but he was using it as a manipulative tool since he was a narc. Now I would be leery of any man that professed seriousness so soon. :$

So, an acquaintance that you run into every week posts THIS; "Muslims HATE pork, beer, bikinis, ...

demifeministgal comments on May 7, 2019:

I tend to unfollow the religious nutters on my fbook feed otherwise I suspect I'd have fewer fbook friends and be in never ending debates/arguments with fragile christians. I say fragile because curse words, unlike bigotry against other humans, gravely offends them. Yet homophobia and other types of bigotry is A-okay. heh

How Can We Create Inclusive Community?

demifeministgal comments on May 7, 2019:

I would say many of them/us have a right to be bitter, especially if the religious doctrines were used as a form of abuse or control and the religious treated us horribly. Sure sure notallreligious, but certain wounds take longer to heal than others. Not to mention, there are bitter and belittling religious people too so I think you will find that kind of mentality in any community you go to.

Oh my dog has some winter weight to walk off. My vet says he's a chunky monkey

demifeministgal comments on May 7, 2019:

Kirby got slightly overweight for a bit so my sister changed his diet to be more lean and we had to give him less treats and go on slightly longer or more active walks. He is in the healthy weight range now. :)

Thought, in relationships, men put up all the effort(or at least are expected to) while women only ...

demifeministgal comments on May 5, 2019:

Seems like you've reduced relationships to nothing more than early stage dating there. You are aware that marriages, common-law relationships and other LTRs where this type of thing is not common exist, right?

On a date at Hooters (her choice) and I'm absolutely bored.

demifeministgal comments on May 5, 2019:

Well maybe you get a good meal or develop a new friendship out of this? who knows?

Why do men lash out at women after a polite rejection?

demifeministgal comments on May 4, 2019:

LOL stupidness?! Is that even a word? Is it not stupidity? :S

When I talk to people who don't really like sex.

demifeministgal comments on May 3, 2019:

I would say medications and health reasons are huge impacts of low sex drive as well. Just sayin'.

I check my spam folder fairly often and keep it cleaned out.

demifeministgal comments on May 3, 2019:

MY bigger question to you is: WHY have I received ads for viagra or erectile dysfunction pills in the past?! :o

I live in Ontario where Climate disaster is denied. What about you?

demifeministgal comments on May 3, 2019:

Well, we live in the same province, sooo I guess we share the same numbers! ;p

Would you date someone ten years younger than you?