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Dead fish photos. A turnoff?

LucasfromGR comments on Sep 11, 2019:

I am the same with posting mountain selfies. If god wanted me to be there, he would have made it flat or at least stairs;)

demifeministgal replies on Sep 12, 2019:

@LucasfromGR how so? So basically anyone posting pics of themselves engaging in hobbies then?

Creepiest church memory: I was at a prayer meeting w/my grandma.

Puzzlement comments on Sep 11, 2019:

Are you sure he was a criminal or just your wild imaginary thoughts. Did kindness and love scare you. What is your problem?

demifeministgal replies on Sep 12, 2019:

if you honestly think a man staring creepily at a girl and giving her $20 was for purely altruistic reasons.... you have lead a very sheltered life.

As is the custom now on receipt, on reaching level 8.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 10, 2019:

soo it'll take me 2 years of being here to get that bloody shirt... well it's coming up! 23000-ish points to go! blah :(

demifeministgal replies on Sep 12, 2019:

@Gwendolyn2018 does it depend on the level of trust and intimacy established? Because i am not comfortable with such physical affection early on in relationships but when in a committed relationship, have no issue with it.

Been a while since I made a post here.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 11, 2019:

did you ultimately breakup because you were tired of it? Or did she breakup with you when she realized she wouldn't be able to convert you?

demifeministgal replies on Sep 11, 2019:

@DavidGreen1 I suppose it could not be communicated about and worked through? It happens... best of luck in your next relationship :)

Ok, so from before.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 10, 2019:

Those who use their services can be sure no human rights violations or trafficking is happening... which is an issue with sex workers that were forced or coerced or sold into the work... also no issues with fckng a minor either unknowingly since they would just be robots. I think in those respects ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

@Fryan but is sentience guaranteed in AI? :s

What's she doing with that?

bobwjr comments on Sep 10, 2019:

Describing what size she takes

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

the post is asking you to compare your dck to a vegetable or fruit... silly guy XD

We had nothing in common.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 10, 2019:

I wasn't looking for a soulmate but already knew a fair bit about NPD from a fam member and was kicking myself for not being able to spot a subtler, nicer type of narc :/

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

lucky for me we only dated 4 months before I kicked him to the curb... it could have been MUCH worse!

As is the custom now on receipt, on reaching level 8.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 10, 2019:

soo it'll take me 2 years of being here to get that bloody shirt... well it's coming up! 23000-ish points to go! blah :(

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

@Gwendolyn2018 googles who Samson is supposed to be :s

Question regarding a covert narcissist (CN.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 10, 2019:

This has never happened that they isolated themselves completely to the point of being alone and having nobody to use or be energy vampires towards... they are quite manipulative and seek out their victims quite carefully and strategically; a weak willed person or a very giving person or people with...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

In some odd case that they have managed to isolate themselves, they seek out compassion from doctors, nurses, hospital staff, priests, pastors, religious figures, cops, lawyers, etc. etc.

This is the kind of bullshit thinking that I'm trying to recover from. [patheos.com]

VictoriaNotes comments on Sep 9, 2019:

Lori Alexander is quite mentally unstable. She promotes Michael and Debi Pearl’s book ‘To Train Up A Child’ that advocates horrific child abuse and has done it to her own children. The death toll from parents following Pearl’s teachings continues to mount. I'm so sorry you're having to ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

@nomorechristian You must have had a strong and good emotional relationship despite the physical abuse... often times in research kids report emotional/psychological abuse as being more harmful than physical abuse... I would agree personally.

That expression [reddit.com]

Hathacat comments on Sep 9, 2019:

"She's drunk and she is gonna dress me up next!"

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

pffft ain't nobody gotta be drunk to dress up a doggy ;) :p

I can't believe it!!!

ToakReon comments on Sep 9, 2019:

Aha! The use of 'they' as a singular, gender-neutral pronoun. Opinion is divided as to whether this is grammatically acceptable.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

Because women now can be trapped or terrified of marriage just as much a men.... welcome to the 21st century boys ;)

Question: What are your thoughts regarding breast augmentation?

Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 8, 2019:

Personally, I wouldn't do it nor do I need it... But if someone wants or needs it, and they are old enough, I don't see any problems with it...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

@Charlene I guess that is true... if a trans girl gets hormone blockers as a teen her development will be different than someone that transitioned later in life... Jazz comes to mind though I am not sure if her breasts are real or surgically placed.

'She Said' Tracks The Remarkable Reporting Leading To The Arrest Of Harvey Weinstein [n.pr]

JackPedigo comments on Sep 8, 2019:

The problem unless there are multiple women accusers it's just a matter of 'he said she said'. Women are also human and can falsely accuse someone (even other women) of things.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

@JackPedigo I never stated we shouldn't give people trials and presume innocence until proven guilty... how you got that meaning I will not understand. My point was to demonstrate to you that people rarely, if ever, bring up false accusations in any other crime beyond rape, and more specifically, rape of girls or women. Because with boys or men that come forward with rape accusations the kneejerk response is NOT to bring up false accusations. It is a double standard and it is a problematic response many have that is limited to female victims of rape/sexual assault.

This is the kind of bullshit thinking that I'm trying to recover from. [patheos.com]

VictoriaNotes comments on Sep 9, 2019:

Lori Alexander is quite mentally unstable. She promotes Michael and Debi Pearl’s book ‘To Train Up A Child’ that advocates horrific child abuse and has done it to her own children. The death toll from parents following Pearl’s teachings continues to mount. I'm so sorry you're having to ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 10, 2019:

@nomorechristian did you follow the crazy teachings from TTUAC or from the quiverful movement with your own daughter??

Question: What are your thoughts regarding breast augmentation?

Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 8, 2019:

Personally, I wouldn't do it nor do I need it... But if someone wants or needs it, and they are old enough, I don't see any problems with it...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 9, 2019:

@Charlene it's gonna be a completely different story for trans women as most are not born with their own breasts... so yea that makes sense :)

'She Said' Tracks The Remarkable Reporting Leading To The Arrest Of Harvey Weinstein [n.pr]

JackPedigo comments on Sep 8, 2019:

The problem unless there are multiple women accusers it's just a matter of 'he said she said'. Women are also human and can falsely accuse someone (even other women) of things.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 8, 2019:

except that only 2-8% of reports are false accusations, which is in line with other false accusations of crimes... but we rarely, if ever, see people bringing up false accusations in cases of theft or assault or other crimes.... hmmmm wonder why -_-

For all of us that have built harmful or useless patterns or survival coping mechanisms.

Magister comments on Sep 8, 2019:

One should never forget that coping mechanisms usually have a valid basis for their existence and care needs to be exercised, if they are dismantled completely, lest it leaves one vulnerable to whatever these coping strategies were initially established to protect one from. It should always be ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 8, 2019:

okaaay you seem very defensive of this statement when I specifically stated harmful or (now) useless coping mechanisms... meaning the threat is not coming back ever again.

Question: What are your thoughts regarding breast augmentation?

Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 8, 2019:

Personally, I wouldn't do it nor do I need it... But if someone wants or needs it, and they are old enough, I don't see any problems with it...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 8, 2019:

I wouldn't say anyone needs it beyond perhaps breast cancer survivors that had mastectomies.

Eat your hearts out, peons.

TheInterlooper comments on Sep 6, 2019:

It took you long enough. Congratulations.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 7, 2019:

@Gwendolyn2018 that assumes it ever went away ahem ;)

10 Valuable Things Extroverts Can Learn from Introverts

demifeministgal comments on Sep 6, 2019:

People need to learn the term AMBIVERT and stop calling themselves extroverted introverts or introverted extroverts dangit. :p

demifeministgal replies on Sep 7, 2019:

@AmelieMatisse silly goose.... you must be thinking of ambien ;) :p

10 Valuable Things Extroverts Can Learn from Introverts

demifeministgal comments on Sep 6, 2019:

People need to learn the term AMBIVERT and stop calling themselves extroverted introverts or introverted extroverts dangit. :p

demifeministgal replies on Sep 7, 2019:

@Holysocks cuz words have meanings? And if one is an equal mix of both there's a word for that

[agnostic.com] Just to get it out in the open...

demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:

This is what happened, just in case CB didn't have the energy or desire to inform y'all... click on the link @mooredolezal @t1nick @LeighShelton @Wildflower

demifeministgal replies on Sep 7, 2019:

@t1nick It was because all 4 of you had inquired what had happened in cutie's leaving the group post so I tagged y'all here for reference... which just seemed to confuse the lot of ya heh

Eat your hearts out, peons.

TheInterlooper comments on Sep 6, 2019:

It took you long enough. Congratulations.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 6, 2019:

@Gwendolyn2018 Oh man if I had created an account here when I was a student in university I expect I'd be at level 9 now!! procrastination is a helluva habit! XD

Eat your hearts out, peons.

TheInterlooper comments on Sep 6, 2019:

It took you long enough. Congratulations.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 6, 2019:

@Gwendolyn2018 I would have already been on level 8 but I didn't really start paying attention to and participating in this group until I found a group I could turn to for support and to vent and that changed my involvement... apparently I joined in 2017 but ofc I don't remember-- that was the year the matriarch finally died. >.>

Eat your hearts out, peons.

TheInterlooper comments on Sep 6, 2019:

It took you long enough. Congratulations.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 6, 2019:

@Gwendolyn2018 DON'T be cruel to level 7'ers! We are trying our best out here :(

I thought all atheists were skeptics! Wow.

LiterateHiker comments on Sep 6, 2019:

What does "MSM" stand for? Mainstream media? Men who have sex with men?

demifeministgal replies on Sep 6, 2019:

the first one :)

Eat your hearts out, peons.

vjohnson51 comments on Sep 5, 2019:

How do you get one of these?

demifeministgal replies on Sep 6, 2019:

@vjohnson51 I don't know... notice my level? XD @Gwendolyn2018 what say you?

Eat your hearts out, peons.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 5, 2019:

ughh STOP rubbing it in my face already!! gosh darn elitist level eighters :/ :( :p

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@Gwendolyn2018 Is this what my future self is destined for?! :o what shall become of me and my humble ways?! oh dear O_O

Eat your hearts out, peons.

vjohnson51 comments on Sep 5, 2019:

How do you get one of these?

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

when you reach level 8 in the group

I'm going to state something here because the discussion has left the g:681 group now.

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Sep 2, 2019:

I see my mug in the mirror more than enough times in the day so I use one of my late kitty photos as my avatar. I'm not being deceptive or lying, I just don't care to see my face on websites at every login.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@RavenCT ahh okay then makes sense... I tried to find that flame war room when you mentioned it but could not find it in a search... perhaps it was shut down? idk :s

My dads entire life he was an Atheist.

GordonWolters comments on Oct 14, 2017:

Well, she isn't right. You are right that it was for her piece of mind, but many people can't escape that mindset. They are victims themselves. Hope you can be a little forgiving.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@SunnySmiles Good... protect your son... that is your job as his mom... do not let people who have never had the misfortune of having to cut out toxic fam members shame or guilt you into breaking your no contact.... I support and sadly, understand your decision.

My dads entire life he was an Atheist.

puttinfool comments on Oct 10, 2017:

So many people do things that they think the person who is dying would "want" them to do. In reality, you are right;it was more for her peace of mind than his. This is wrong....wrong....and wrong......For a person to have suffered through the aches and pains of cancer, and then have someone over ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

I agree... I am agnostic and my sister believers in supernatural stuff but is not religious and we gave our mother (ugh) a catholic funeral by the book... we even had to rush it cuz catholics don't do funerals during easter time (idiots) and she died really close to Easter...We did not believe in what she did, but we honoured her belief system... which is more that I can say for her if the roles had been reversed and she had to plan a non religious funeral for either of us.

My dads entire life he was an Atheist.

Happygolucky comments on Oct 9, 2017:

You are right to be upset for what your mom did to your dad...poor man.....people are so brainwashed on this subject it is hard to believe....just like religion....I don't know if you have talked this out with your mother....that should be done....you also need to consider your sons need for a ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

Kids don't have "needs" for grandparents... there are many kids out there who's grandparents are all dead or live overseas with no contact or are orphans of the state and never had parents, let alone grandparents. I think that belief is false.

New one from the fish site.

St-Sinner comments on Sep 5, 2019:

They are fishing for a victim to extract money... lol

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@St-Sinner I disagree... lack of self-control makes people do dumb things... those of us with self-control have hormones as well after all ;)

Will You Still Love You When You're No Longer Young and Beautiful?

demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:

what is an NPC?? :s And yea often gym rats or those primarily concerned with their looks tend to neglect their most powerful organ: their brains.... their bodies may be fit but their brains are out of shape, so to speak. It is those few gems that have found a good balance between working on their ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@darthfaja also money waster... consoles and games cost soo much damn money... it would hurt my frugal heart to be a gamer :o :(

Men have balls?

kasmian comments on Sep 5, 2019:

Well, my ovaries are bigger than yours 😜😂

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

PROVE IT! :p

I'm going to state something here because the discussion has left the g:681 group now.

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Sep 2, 2019:

I see my mug in the mirror more than enough times in the day so I use one of my late kitty photos as my avatar. I'm not being deceptive or lying, I just don't care to see my face on websites at every login.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@RavenCT Isn't that the group we get access to once we reach level 7? Perhaps it has another name :S

Will You Still Love You When You're No Longer Young and Beautiful?

demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:

what is an NPC?? :s And yea often gym rats or those primarily concerned with their looks tend to neglect their most powerful organ: their brains.... their bodies may be fit but their brains are out of shape, so to speak. It is those few gems that have found a good balance between working on their ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@darthfaja oooh yughhh that's why I didn't know it.... dislike gaming culture... sorry not sorry xD

Hello my canadian friends, Question: can a health card be renewed before the expiration date?

RoyMillar comments on Sep 5, 2019:

Yes it can just like your drivers livence and plates you can go probably up to 60 to 90 days ahead of time at Service Ontario,,they do everything there and if you are getting licence and health done they only take one pic now which is the same for both of them

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

I don't have a license/car so did not know that.... good to know! :)

Hello my canadian friends, Question: can a health card be renewed before the expiration date?

Science-guy comments on Sep 5, 2019:

Yes it can. I renewed mine at Service Ontario a couple of months before expiry. Note that it is Service ONTARIO not Service Canada. Health care is provincially administered.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

It was late when I made the post but I do know it is service ontario despite what my sleep med post would indicate otherwise about me ;)

New one from the fish site.

St-Sinner comments on Sep 5, 2019:

They are fishing for a victim to extract money... lol

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@Bobsuruncle well on paypal you have to link it to an email so perhaps they are hoping to hack your paypal account and they think you are dumb enough to give em the email you have linked to your paypal? idk

Birthday e-card and gift from a man I met 15 years ago. Why?

Bobbyzen comments on Sep 3, 2019:

Happy birthday Kathleen!!! 🎂🎂🌈🌈💙💙🎊🎊 My birthday is March 7. I take Venmo and PayPal 😂

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

Happy Birthday... my birthday is sooner on Sept 27... I am limited to paypal though :p

Human Sexuality at Baylor University

Bobsuruncle comments on Sep 4, 2019:

Just because you are different does not make you useful. Needing a "crutch" is a bad thing for an education.....or real life. Once you throw your sexuality out there it becomes a crutch. Same as being religious or a Satan worshiper. It would be the same as me screaming in the middle of the day room ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@Bobsuruncle you would be a losing better then... because studies already demonstrate that people "Read" as female or non-white or gay are treated and regarded differently. think of the stereotypical flamboyant gay guy... he doesn't have to declare anything to anyone his mannerisms or clothing or tone of voice speak for him.

I'm going to state something here because the discussion has left the g:681 group now.

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Sep 2, 2019:

I see my mug in the mirror more than enough times in the day so I use one of my late kitty photos as my avatar. I'm not being deceptive or lying, I just don't care to see my face on websites at every login.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@RavenCT I did not mean for my comment to come across a lashing out... I know it may feel that way cuz of all the piling on you are getting atm... I genuinely was trying to understand your reasoning and convey the reasoning of people on this side of the aisle. Yes you are free to report or bring attn to the senate and admins as you see fit. Was not trying to stop you from doing so.... I suppose others have here idk.

I've been getting notifications on a post in this group with many comments reading, 'you're a ...

BitFlipper comments on Sep 4, 2019:

It is a human characteristic to see the world through our personal experiences. The experience of men in this situation is: (1) we approach, (2) the woman says "no", (3) repeat. After repeating the procedure enough times, a woman may say "yes". This resembles a Saturday morning at the ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 5, 2019:

@BitFlipper I would say many more women are choosing to initiate contact or express an interest in sex, especially since the hippy sexual revolution all the way until now. Mind you, men still do this more often, but women are stepping up to the plate. I imagine if puritanical religions were not instructing women/girls to be demure and passive and to let the men chase and approach them, and society was less harsh to women initiators aka there wasn't a double standard at play, we'd see the levels of initiation leveling out. But alas... societies suck XD

Will You Still Love You When You're No Longer Young and Beautiful?

Ms_McSteven comments on Sep 4, 2019:

I love myself more now that I'm older, scarred, wrinkled, and crabby. I was always smart and funny, inventive and resilient, thoughtful and generous...but when I was also built like a brick house, with long hair and big tits, my character mattered to no one. Now it does.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@Ms_McSteven I am looking forward to the day I become invisible and am no longer street harassed or sexually harassed online and become ignored.

Will You Still Love You When You're No Longer Young and Beautiful?

moonmaid comments on Sep 4, 2019:

I love myself more now than i did when i young. I never considered myself beautiful so got by on my merits.. Now that beauty, by sociocultural norms, is no longer a possibility i don't even have to regret the unfortunate genetics i inherited...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

Same here... I consider myself of avg intelligence and rely on my hard work and merits/skills to get by in life... not to mention, even if I was considered hot, I would be doing myself and my gender a disservice by using my sex appeal and objectifying myself to get ahead.... that's just my opinion though

My loving and caring parents are actively trying to pass down Christianity to my little, ...

skado comments on Sep 4, 2019:

Would your "loving and caring parents" really kick you out for believing differently from them?

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

I think they would... often the most vile hateful people end up being "loving christians" the moment they find out about your non belief or hear you criticizing their religion. blegh

College Care Package

demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:

I would get her essentials like body wash, soap, shaving cream, etc. etc. and maybe her favourite snack(s) thrown in.... but then I prefer pragmatic gifts myself heh

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@Donotbelieve I liked the idea of an external charger. my bloody phone always dies and if I ever remembered to actually charge my external chargers, they'd be quite handy! :p heh oops

I'm going to state something here because the discussion has left the g:681 group now.

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Sep 2, 2019:

I see my mug in the mirror more than enough times in the day so I use one of my late kitty photos as my avatar. I'm not being deceptive or lying, I just don't care to see my face on websites at every login.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@RavenCT I don't really get anything from her but I have been accused and harassed of being a fake account or spam account online by people for not having my real pic up, be it on here or on other social media... so when others make posts like yours against us non-real pic users I get defensive cuz I know how that feels like... it doesn't feel good at all... women should be able to use social media without being harassed... and if the ONLY way to do so is without including our real pics, so be it.... I never see people throwing fits or demanding men post their real pics... why the double standard? probably because women are judged on our looks first and everything else as secondary cuz society is that fckd up.... but that's not your fault, it is a failure of society...

I'm going to state something here because the discussion has left the g:681 group now.

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Sep 2, 2019:

I see my mug in the mirror more than enough times in the day so I use one of my late kitty photos as my avatar. I'm not being deceptive or lying, I just don't care to see my face on websites at every login.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@RavenCT I asked her publically in the general and hellos post and was told she did not want to make her pic public and found a pic of someone's face online that closely resembled her own... so it was a way to show herself without actually having to show herself. Personally, I would not go to all that trouble and would prefer not to give people even a whiff of what I look like, but to each their own. As for the newborn thing, I have known people in my life who have newborns and are online alot because their business is mainly done online... it is not uncommon for millenials to be online even when we are busy multi-tasking... I do not doubt that my generation of moms can do that just as women from older generations could be on the phone or watch tv with a newborn.

Isn't it immoral for a woman not to have an abortion after becoming pregnant resulting from a rape?

Cherie4444 comments on Sep 4, 2019:

Personal choice. Some may not want to go through a pregnancy from rape, some may be able to set that aside for an innocent child. Again, choice.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

But then who's to say that women won't end up resenting or neglecting or abusing said child? Especially if it looks like its rapist father? There are waaay worse things in life than abortions imo... especially if it saves a potential being from a crappy life

Could this be the underlying problem with dating on this site? 🤔

Tomaf comments on Sep 4, 2019:

How many young people, especially young girls/women, think every boyfriend they get is their soul mate, until they break up, and onto their next soul mate?

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

Not as many as media depictions would have you think >.>

So apparently, if I don't feel like having sex for one night, I'm less of a man.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:

sometimes women will lash out and use gendered stereotypes as a weapon when our esteem or self-worth is hurt... it is not an okay coping mechanism but the rejection hurts so we can lash out at the guy and try to hurt him back. humans suck :p

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@kasmian I think eventually she will have a good esteem level and not resort to such pettiness but in the interim, men would do wise to avoid her because she seems to be too fragile to rejection XD So it is a bullet dodged on your end... kudos to you :)

Hey all.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 3, 2019:

I'd recommend checking out if your school offers a counselling department... many colleges or universities have counselling services covered in the tuition and thus "free" for all students to use... it is worth looking in to I think.... I know it can be quite helpful and finding affordable therapy ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@Decieven sometimes we have to force ourselves to make time for self-care and prioritize it... in order to prevent future burnout or a mental breakdown... but do what is best for you of course :)

[agnostic.com] Just to get it out in the open...

demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:

This is what happened, just in case CB didn't have the energy or desire to inform y'all... click on the link @mooredolezal @t1nick @LeighShelton @Wildflower

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@Wildflower the link CB posted in this post

I'm going to state something here because the discussion has left the g:681 group now.

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Sep 2, 2019:

I see my mug in the mirror more than enough times in the day so I use one of my late kitty photos as my avatar. I'm not being deceptive or lying, I just don't care to see my face on websites at every login.

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@RavenCT I thought it was a picture of her. Had no idea it was a porn star. I simply asked her why she decided to use a porn star's pic and she said it was an image of someone that looked closest to her. It was a matter of privacy not showing her real face but a likeness of it, if you will. I see no issue with what she did tbh because I don't like using my real pic on social media either because it gets me treated differently, either harassed more or sexually harassed by men in groups. I prefer being treated like a human being first rather than a potential fleshlight and hiding my real pics has achieved that for me.

Profile pic honesty The recent brouhaha over accurate representation of ones self regarding ...

MrPKitty comments on Sep 4, 2019:

My profile pic is totally makeup free

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

My picture is au naturel as well! No makeup necessary for that super CUTE face. :D

So apparently, if I don't feel like having sex for one night, I'm less of a man.

demifeministgal comments on Sep 4, 2019:

sometimes women will lash out and use gendered stereotypes as a weapon when our esteem or self-worth is hurt... it is not an okay coping mechanism but the rejection hurts so we can lash out at the guy and try to hurt him back. humans suck :p

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@kasmian ooh I know was just trying to give you an insight into the why of her behaviour... not that it excuses it... I just like human psychology so it may be more of interest to me than to you admittedly XD :$

Thoughts?

Lillyfield41 comments on Sep 3, 2019:

You do what you need to do to get your needs met. if he's there with you when he is done and you are not, go to town on yourself. maybe he will get the message. and if not, you will at least orgasm with a possible side effect of intimacy? it sounds like you have said in no uncertain terms that ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@BitFlipper well in my case it is not a matter of being in the hookup culture, it is a matter of being in a relationship or having a FWBs situation. I do not think I am representative of all or most women though xD

I've been getting notifications on a post in this group with many comments reading, 'you're a ...

BitFlipper comments on Sep 4, 2019:

It is a human characteristic to see the world through our personal experiences. The experience of men in this situation is: (1) we approach, (2) the woman says "no", (3) repeat. After repeating the procedure enough times, a woman may say "yes". This resembles a Saturday morning at the ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

In fact many men have standards on who they will have sex with, even casually, (ie no fat chicks or ugly chicks), and so women that do not fit their criteria luck out. If our sample focuses on gorgeous women and desperate men, OF COURSE it seems like any woman can get laid. But once our sample includes men with standards and conventionally unattractive women, the true reality comes out.

Thoughts?

Lillyfield41 comments on Sep 3, 2019:

You do what you need to do to get your needs met. if he's there with you when he is done and you are not, go to town on yourself. maybe he will get the message. and if not, you will at least orgasm with a possible side effect of intimacy? it sounds like you have said in no uncertain terms that ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 4, 2019:

@BitFlipper I will have to take your word for it... since I started having it I have never had to go without... YET. XD

FTW, an exchange between a supervisor and a former intern (from 2011) "Just as some background ...

dkp93 comments on Sep 3, 2019:

Wow, what an arrogant dick to write such a hateful, self obsessed letter. My favorite part was "until the commencement of your employment the summer prior to the one upcoming." Normal people would say "until you started last summer."

demifeministgal replies on Sep 3, 2019:

@dkp93 listen we are just women of inferior intelligence do not sully the good name of the ruler of corporate america now! harumph

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Lillyfield41 comments on Sep 3, 2019:

You do what you need to do to get your needs met. if he's there with you when he is done and you are not, go to town on yourself. maybe he will get the message. and if not, you will at least orgasm with a possible side effect of intimacy? it sounds like you have said in no uncertain terms that ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 3, 2019:

@Marcie1974 hmm I guess once I made the choice to not have mediocre sex ever again I decided zero sex is better than non orgasmic sex... at that point I'd be better off finishing myself sans lousy sex partner ;)

I’d like to hear from those of you who have a FWB, or have had one in the past.

BrentMBA2004 comments on Sep 3, 2019:

If we define FWB as strictly sexual, without a established relationship outside of sex dating, several times. IMO, the greater the passion the more likely feelings towards the person will increase. Conversely, if the sex is blah, then the plateau is pretty low for the relationship. Now, I have ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 3, 2019:

I think what you are describing are fck buddies... I take FWBs to mean the two people are actually friends or can be friends and engage in friend like activities outside of sex.

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Lillyfield41 comments on Sep 3, 2019:

You do what you need to do to get your needs met. if he's there with you when he is done and you are not, go to town on yourself. maybe he will get the message. and if not, you will at least orgasm with a possible side effect of intimacy? it sounds like you have said in no uncertain terms that ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 3, 2019:

@brainyactress I thought it was cuz he's a cuddler and she craves cuddling time with him.

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Burner comments on Sep 3, 2019:

Its kinda hard to screen for prospective dates/buddies with questions like"what's your philosophy on sex and pleasure" without attracting guys who think a woman who can talk about sex, wants to have sex right now, with him. But... Even though it will mean some wasted time and energy, you will get ...

demifeministgal replies on Sep 3, 2019:

@Marcie1974 And feel free to say no or not today or not right now as well. He is NOT entitled to a BJ every time just cuz he suggests or asks.... he's a grown adult not a child that has to get his way every time... just sayin'

If there have been people in Canada for about 15,000 years then why are there no mega-structures ...

demifeministgal comments on Aug 28, 2019:

Probably because many Aboriginal groups were nomadic and building such things would be futile if you moved from place to place constantly. Also, their relationship with nature and respecting it and not wanting to cause any undue or Unnecessary damage to mother earth. Those are my guesses if what you...