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>Philosophically agnostic (can't know for sure).
>Culturally atheist (don't care and it's a waste of time to consider).
>Recognize the Myers-Briggs and Zodiac signs as equal in their scientific uselessness.
>Shared custody parent of an awesome, brave, funny, smart, and silly little girl.
>BA in Philosophy.
>MA in Counseling.
>Like bullet points.
>Geek/nerd and into sci-fi and urban fantasy.
>Politically progressive. A lot.
>In a hierarchical, kitchen-table style polyamorous relationship.
>Hierarchical means having a primary partner.
>Kitchen-table means everyone's partners are friends.
>Kink type is Daddy Dom.
>Shibari rigger.

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Prostitutes
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
Ha ha ha ha ha! Nice one :D
Tattoo don't lie...
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
No Babie's what? Who is Babie?
Hangry people are funny people. More keto hilarity.
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
That last one reminded me of "bring me another smurf". I'm going to post that one now for those who haven't seen it.
Selfish day I am being selfish this evening, yes. Cause it's my b-day. I feel good, upbeat, ...
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
Happy Birthday!
What are you reading currently? Recommend it?
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
I'm reading the second book in *The Dark Choir* series by J.P. Sloan. It's an urban fantasy series akin to *The Dresden Files* by Jim Butcher. Fun brain candy. https://www.amazon.com/Curse-Merchant-Dark-Choir/dp/1620075512 Before that I read a FANTASTIC book about female sexuality called *Come As You Are* by Emily Nagoski. I can't recommend it enough. For everyone. Seriously. www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090
Does anyone have any thoughts on heuristics versus strong induction?
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
Well, strong induction is preferrable if you have the overhead to burn, but I think the reason we have heuristics is for sheer efficiency (and evolution is a notoriously parsimonious 'designer'). This may be why AI ends up surpassing us, because if we can get over the energy and speed requirements, they can use strong induction every time instead of relying upon heuristics.
Is Christianity kind of the same as Capitalism?
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
This is a great observation, since Western-style capitalism is highly influenced by Calvinism. You may want to check out *The Protestant Ethic and the Spirit of Capitalism* by Max Weber. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Protestant_Ethic_and_the_Spirit_of_Capitalism
Any wine lovers?
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
Yup! Wine lover here. These days I'm mostly into Pinot Noirs and Malbecs. There's such a wonderful variety, even at the $10 and under level. There's one I tried from our local Costco liquors recently called Line 39 that was like $8 and was reasonably tasty. Have to let it breathe a while first though, as with many Pinots.
Trump orders Expulsion of 60 Russians, 15 of which are Intelligence Officers, Over Poison Attack in ...
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
Yeah, or just a ploy for Trump to look as if he is not being controlled by Putin.
I haven't dated or been in a relationship for years so I’d have to say I’m an unintentional ...
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
So fellas, have you not heard of any of the wonderful kink events hosted in most metro areas? "Lifestyle" often refers to being a member of a public kink scene. The events in these places are often a great way to make friends and possibly even meet play partners or relationship partners. You may also be interested to know that many BDSM communities or venues tend to frown on actual intercourse or sex in public (depending: some do, some don't) and for those, it's mostly about doing power exchange, rope play, fire play, electro play, impact play, bondage play, etc. Make sense?
Kinky
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
Yup! We have a group for us: https://agnostic.com/group/KinkyLife I know for me, it took me a long time to get past my religious (Roman Catholic) upbringing and accept my sexual self. But once I got over the speed bumps, I never looked back!
His B.O. must be ferocious!!!... [facebook.com]
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
People are so...
What's your take on Fetish and kinky life styles and their craziness? Are you into fetish and kinky ...
ejbman comments on Mar 26, 2018:
My take on Fetish and kiny life styles is as much as I can get! LOL. I'm a Daddy Dom in a semi-open relationship with my babygirl. Couldn't be happier with finally finding my sexual niche. It's taken me years. Sadly, early religious upbrining hindered me quite a bit in finding out who I am, but, better late than never.
Sorry, political
ejbman comments on Mar 25, 2018:
Worth it.
Gotta loose that weight man. Whatever it takes.
ejbman comments on Mar 25, 2018:
Yeah, if you take off the extra H, you'll lose a lot of weight drinking it! (Note: do not try at home).
Fruit is good for you...
ejbman comments on Mar 25, 2018:
You go girls!
Darth knows what's up.
ejbman comments on Mar 25, 2018:
I find people's lack of standards of evidence disturbing.
So does anything other than missionary position qualify as kink? I have beautiful feet.
ejbman comments on Mar 25, 2018:
Jsyk
Can't believe he hasn't hung himself yet!... [facebook.com]
ejbman comments on Mar 25, 2018:
If that's real... No. I cannot accept that possibility. I just can't.
AsianChick/DoneCrushed! [facebook.com]
ejbman comments on Mar 25, 2018:
Damn! That was badass!
Hello! I am not a mental health professional, but I do use counseling services a lot. Many times ...
ejbman comments on Mar 25, 2018:
Thanks for that link. I had actually not been aware of the Secular Therapy Project before another member posted in here the other day. I just registered myself after seeing that post. Sorry you've had trouble finding a counselor who can meet your needs. In my area, there's a closed Facebook group for counselors to refer clients to one another or find resources, and there are about 1,500 on there of every stripe. Sometimes there's a request for a secular therapist or Christian counseling or what have you. I wonder if you called around your area whether one or more of the counselors are part of something like that in your area and could help you locate someone who is a better fit for you (I'm thinking, in addition to the seculartherapy.org website). In any case, thanks again for the link, and I wish you luck in getting what you need!
How many and which languages do you speak?
ejbman comments on Mar 24, 2018:
English, German and Sarcasm ;-)
I'm not even mad...
ejbman comments on Mar 23, 2018:
*rushes to computer to type up Atheist bible to sell on Amazon ala P.T. Barnum*
New Orleans by nightfall or bust. [youtu.be]
ejbman comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Little Red Riding Hood! Reminded me of the band Devotchka for some reason. One their better know pieces: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EYqSe6DTMHE
I think these nudists are stoned
ejbman comments on Mar 23, 2018:
That one on the left has some stones for sure!
What percentage of your relationships are you “out” as an atheist? For me, my family is ...
ejbman comments on Mar 23, 2018:
I can't think of anyone who doesn't know. I suppose there might be a handful of people at my day job who don't know, only because they haven't been around when I talk about it. I don't think there's anyone from whom I've made an effort to hide it.
For Game of Thronese fans 2
ejbman comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Peter Dinklage is awesome. I saw his Tweet about the GoT calendar. He said something like: "You put my picture in February. The shortest month. This will be remembered."
For Game of Thrones Fans
ejbman comments on Mar 23, 2018:
That's so much fun to see again. Thanks for sharing!
I detest a mansplainer.
ejbman comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Just one?
Delicious
ejbman comments on Mar 22, 2018:
Liberte' !!!
So u ladez wun' mo'?
ejbman comments on Mar 22, 2018:
Bah ha ha ha! Kill or be Kilt? Ah ha ha!
Porn Tech Support... [youtube.com]
ejbman comments on Mar 22, 2018:
Ah ha ha! Savage!
Makes perfect sense to me!
ejbman comments on Mar 22, 2018:
Ha ha ha!
Have you ever met a "flat earther"?
ejbman comments on Mar 22, 2018:
I met one in an online forum. It was incredibly frustrating to try and converse with this person because there were no reasonble standards of evidence we could agree upon. Everything was a conspiracy or secret collusion to hide the truth to this guy. Very disappointing.
Hello World! New to the site. A friend referred me to it and I am pretty glad he did. So far it ...
ejbman comments on Mar 22, 2018:
Hurray! Glad you made it here, my friend. I clearly underplayed my geek/nerd identity, as it appears we are in good company!
Learned something new today.... There's a wide selection of high quality hand-baskets on aisle 6 ...
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Ha ha ha!
All in your head.
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Ha ha ha!
I need 3 points to hit 500. How much is this post worth?
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Ha ha ha
Has anyone watched 'Hysterical Literature'? I found it to be an oddly intriguing, classy and ...
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Going to watch this later: http://hystericalliterature.com
Hi..just found y'all..happy to be here..any questions just ask..into group play..mild bdsm, ...
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Welcome!
Is anyone on here also on fetlife? Just curious
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Yup
Aah my virgin post, you only get 1 and this one is mine. I felt odd putting spiritual in my bio not ...
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
You might be interested in a book by Sam Harris (no less than one of the "four horsemen of atheism") who wrote: WAKING UP: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion. He is very much against belief in anything supernatural but definites spirituality as something like varieties of conscious experience. It's worth a read.
I deleted all my adopted family off Facebook beside my mom...they all disowned me when I came out as...
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
That's got to be tough and heartbreaking, but they are definitely in the wrong for failing to accept you. Here's hoping you enjoy warm, close friendships with people who like, appreciate, and accept you for who you are. Seems like you are getting lots of support from folks here. Adding my hugs and support!
There is no agnostic vs. atheist! The peeve I have...
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
As you may see from my profile, I identify as philosophically agnostic (can't know for sure) but culturally atheist (not worth my time to consider gods). So there's my reconciliation of the two ;-) It's sort of like my attitude towards Bigfoot: I suppose it's possible that there's one out there, but I just don't feel compelled to spend any time looking, because I've got better things to do with my life.
Dating a believer
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
I have had successful relationships with people who are spiritual but not religious, and who accept me as I am as well. My current relationship falls in this category. It's not something we discuss very much, and it's just not a big part of our lives. That seems to work just fine.
Hello I'm new and want to get to know people
ejbman comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Hi there! I just found this site as well, and am looking to meet folks. Glad to see there is a space for us to meet and chat.

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