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I am here for community only. I would like to meet new people for friendship and discussions. I'm not interested in hookups or relationships although meeting local friends for coffee or lunch is a possibility.

I'm an animal lover and a vegan. I love to dance, and have danced many different styles over the years. I enjoy traveling, reading, photography, listening to music, and being active in general. My taste in everything is eclectic. I would enjoy discussing any topic other than politics.

Currently, everything is on the back burner because I'm growing my business. I own and run a pet boarding facility, which just opened recently. Although my background is in academia, I find myself enjoying working with animals a whole lot more.

I'm pretty easy going, so say hi if you like.


Continue the game with your name!
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
I’m Grace, but not of god.
What is your favorite restaurant? Where would you most likely take someone on a date once you get ...
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
I would take the person to my favourite place to eat, my home. I don’t go to restaurants much because I prefer to cook and eat my own food. I would cook up a storm of amazing delicious dishes.
No! No cats on the counter! Rigby hasn't learned the house rules yet.
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
Like the say, you can teach a cat to do something but you can’t teach them to not do something. Well, you can teach them but they just ignore you. My cats are allowed just about anywhere. Places they aren’t allowed into have the doors closed.
OK, instead of word association. Let give it a tweak. What is the first thing that comes to mind ...
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
You can have that. Where's the rest of the pinapple?
Scottish singer Susan Boyle became an overnight success at almost 50 after appearing on Britain’s ...
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
I got this album when it first came out.
Ethical non-mongamy. I'm single but I've always been happiest with myself and my relationship when ...
graceylou comments on Sep 3, 2018:
I’m poly. I think I’ve probably always known monogamy is not for me and would be very suffocating if I were stuck in a monogamous relationship. I’m not into open relationships in the sense that I don’t simply look for partners for sex but I’m open to exploring new relationships with new persons I form connections with. I’m in a relationship with several men whom I love and respect, who value me in the same way. I know other people who are in poly relationships and I don’t care who knows that I’m poly. In the Internet age, we realize there are many just like us out there. I doubt ethical non-monogamy would be accepted fully ever but then again nothing not mainstream would be either. The book looks interesting. I might suggest it for my book club.
if someone outside of this group were to call you a pervert. Would you take that as an insult or a ...
graceylou comments on Sep 3, 2018:
I think they're just reading what it says on my T-shirt.
Ridiculous Rumors
graceylou comments on Sep 3, 2018:
The rumour mill started early for me. When I was 5 I was hanging around with my younger brother who was 3. We were yapping about kid stuff while leaning on the door to our parents' bedroom (no idea why). Suddenly he ran like an idiot, tripped, and bashed his head on the corner of my parents' bed's footboard. Blood was everywhere. He needed stitches above his eyebrow (he still has a scar there). No one saw what happened except the two of us, so since then the story that has gone around to all my relatives and family friends is that I pushed my brother because I was jealous of him (my older brother is first born son, my younger brother is the baby, and I'm the nothing middle female child). To this day, everyone believes I did it no matter how much I deny it. And my younger brother was too young to even remember what happened.
What has been your favorite travel destination and why?
graceylou comments on Sep 2, 2018:
New Orleans, for the history, culture, and weirdness. London, England, probably for the same reasons. And I have to add Gamboa, Panama, because Panama is just beautiful. And Tofino, on Vancouver Island, for the spectacular whale watching.
My daughter just sent these pictures to me... dressing her cat ? for Halloween
graceylou comments on Sep 2, 2018:
Very cute.
Something your cats might like.???
graceylou comments on Sep 1, 2018:
My cats get empty boxes. LOL. I’ve spent way too much on special cat gear and they prefer boxes those come in.
It's Saturday everyone, what you guys doing tonight? I'm staying home, gonna relax with some...
graceylou comments on Sep 1, 2018:
Same thing I do everyday. Work.
Morten Harket, Norwegian Superstar!.....His light shines brightly everywhere but the USA.....here he...
graceylou comments on Sep 1, 2018:
He hasn’t toured Canada either that I know of. At least not more recently. I can only wish.
Winter warning . … maybe
graceylou comments on Sep 1, 2018:
I could’ve predicted that. Would it be any different any year?
What was the worst gift you've ever received? (My ex gave me a step stool for Christmas, because I'm...
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
Jumper cables for Christmas. Like who could live in this dogforsaken winter hell and not already have a dozen of those. Chocolate sprinkles. My aunts from the Netherlands always brought over chocolate sprinkles as gifts. I guess Dutch chocolate sprinkles are special but really it’s all junk ingredients except in a foreign language.
What kind of art do you enjoy most?
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I don’t think anyone needs to ask me that. LOL. Dance, of course. But I also design and sew costuming and clothing. I draw. I write dark poetry. I had enjoyed some improv theatre in the past.
Fanatics I need your help! My new rescue kitty Rigby is giving me trouble. His claws are insanely ...
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
My groomer does nail trims for $10-15 (and that's Canadian!!!). It might be worth it to save you time and grief, and possible injuries to both parties. For some cats, putting a cloth over their heads (over, not wrapped) might calm them.
Anyone seen the film The Foreigner? It's so awful it's embarrassing to watch!
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I saw it and I actually really liked it.
Do you prefer someone who makes demands of you to do it aggressively and with force, or someone who ...
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
About 90% of the time, just take, throw, shove, use, force. For the rest, gently and firmly and with passionate sexuality would be acceptable.
What animal are you?(according to the Kama Sutra) Photo proof desired.
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I'm only seeing roosters and camels.
I thought I'd share this with my dirty minded kin folk
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
My neighbour’s house is a mile away. But their cows are close by. Will they do?
Can sex be fantastic even if you don't have an orgasm?
graceylou comments on Aug 30, 2018:
Of course.
Should I switch out my barbells for rings in my nipples? The barbells seem a little to wide.
graceylou comments on Aug 30, 2018:
I said yes because when I had my nipple piercings I kept getting the barbells caught on things. And that damned hurt. I changed to rings. Size wise, with the barbells, gotta have room for when the nipples swell.
Women how do you like today's Style with men with shaved or cropped hair and long beards? Or do you ...
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
I love shaved heads. Also love beards (or any facial hair). But I can be attracted to men of any style. What I don't like are men who look expensive and high maintenance.
I see lots of people talk about not liking being alone. Never bothered me. Right now I'm soaking up...
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
I love being alone too. On occasion I might spend time with others but I enjoy my alone time. I like going shopping alone, and I prefer traveling alone. I don’t have to wait for others, I can go at my pace, I don’t have to do things I don’t want to do.
What kind of act would you really love to try on/with a partner that you've never preformed before?
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
Have a decent conversation. With some partners that’s never happened before.
Is this fair to do? I'm trying to help a friend promote her new "book". It's not, you know, classic ...
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
For those of you who don’t have a kindle, if you have a tablet (iPad or any other) you can download the kindle app and you can download any kindle books from Amazon. I will check to see if this is available on Amazon.ca.
Oh no! The "shooter of cats in your profile pictures" has blocked me! ;-)
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
Now I don’t see that post either. Did I finally get blocked? I did report the post as promoting violence.
Veggies you like
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
Mangoes, pineapples, grapes, blueberries, raspberries, melons. Spinach, asparagus, mushrooms, broccoli, potatoes sweet potatoes, onions, garlic, bell peppers. Being vegan I eat a whole variety of fruits and vegetables whether I really like it or not. I hated coconuts and avocados but have learned to accept consuming them. I can’t stand cherries and would never eat pickles.
Ever spent time around someone who was a perfectionist?
graceylou comments on Aug 28, 2018:
Spent my whole entire life with one. Me. It can be excruciating. Stressful. Everything takes so long to do or it never gets done because it’s not perfect. My parents are perfectionists so I grew up expected to be perfect and was always criticized or humiliated for not being perfect. I never did anything right.
CHOICES LIMIT US Every time we make a choice, we're giving up the other choices..picking a mate ...
graceylou comments on Aug 28, 2018:
I own a standard donkey and two Arabian horses. My donkey is very easy to care for compared to my horses. She does have a tendency to break out of the fencing but she's easy to catch as she's like a dog and wants to be with people. She's easy with hoof trims, unlike my crazy horses. She can be pretty noisy but since all my neighbours have livestock including horses and donkeys, nobody cares. Donkeys are also a great alarm system and protector of outside pets and livestock.
I don't dislike babies, but YES.
graceylou comments on Aug 28, 2018:
So me. Except I wouldn’t even touch or hold a baby. In my mind babies are slimy.
I've always loved spiders. They do there job and just kinda hang out. This one lives above my light ...
graceylou comments on Aug 28, 2018:
I love spiders!!!
I'm very fortunate to say this is never happened to me. But question .....Men and women if you are ...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
I have never climaxed during intercourse in my entire life. I just am not able to. A man would have to keep going until he’s blue in the face if he keeps trying. I would prefer he gets there even if I don’t get to climax at all during the whole thing.
Longest held note in music history....20.4 seconds (Guinness Record). A-ha “Summer Moved On” ...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
Sheesh. I was so in love with Morten Harket when I was a teenager. He's still a good looking guy even now. Amazing voice.
Maroon 5 feat. Cardi B - "Girls Like You" [youtu.be] Catchy little tune. I especially liked ...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
I just watched it for Adam Levine. Yummy.
What/ where is your happy place? What things can you think of to turn your mood around?
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
When I'm dancing wherever it might be.
When did you first realize you were deviant? What was it that got you so hard or wet that you were ...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
I was in my twenties. Chat sites were new thing, and I joined one (adults only, open to kinks, lots of members from the BDSM community). Totally opened the world to me. I met Daddy there and found I liked that sort of relationship, although it was mostly online until I was in my 30s when I flew thousands of miles to see Daddy.
Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit? Which are your least favourite? What cities/towns do...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
Looks like some of you list New Orleans as one of your favourites (a few of you not a fan). Party time in NOLA, folks? I have to say that I don’t know if I particularly like New Orleans even but I can’t help myself in needing to go back again. Something mysterious is just drawing me back there. I don’t normally drink but I probably drank more while there than in my entire life. I’m just not quite myself when I’m there. May be that is actually the real me and I live someone else’s life when I’m not there.
McDonald's or Burger King? Pepsi or Coke? These are two things which are very similar, yet ...
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
I don’t go to fast food restaurants. I rarely go to restaurants. I prefer to cook my own meals. If I’m out there and need to get something to eat and drink I would find a Starbucks and check online for a list of their items that are vegan (not all available at all locations). I rarely drink pop, but if I had to choose between Coke and Pepsi it would be Coke (diet). Besides, Diet Pepsi is not vegan. My preferred pop is ginger ale but I don’t drink it much at all. These days I only drink coffee (my vice; black mostly or latte with almond milk if at Starbucks) and water, with the occasional kombucha tea (the only kind of tea I can drink). I’m trying to be good but I still have a few vices.
Opportunity bless my soul
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
I’ll back that.
What made you smile today?
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
Hearing from a particular someone from here ?
Weed. For or against? Why? And where? How much? Just kidding. Thoughts on the subject?
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
No interest in it for recreational or medicinal. It will be legal here nationwide in October. I don't care to try or use it. Everyone else pretty much already does so it's just a matter of the government making money out of it. I don't particularly care if other people use it, as long as they use it responsibly.
I went out of my comfort zone twice last night! Wanted to see a band but didn’t have anyone to go ...
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
I think if you go alone to places you’re more likely to meet new people. That’s been my experience anyway. Sounds like you had a great time.
Some people who have difficulties becoming intimate with a possible lover do so as a result of body ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I used to be extremely body conscious although I have never been overweight. But having been with men who have been nothing but appreciative of my form reassures me that it’s ok to let go of those insecurities. None of us is perfect and it’s ok to accept yourself and others as unique and to just enjoy those unique selves together. And, I love ALL body types!!!
My Sir/Daddy had play time today. Pictures to com, if he approves.
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Sigh. It’s been awhile since I had a Daddy. Fun times.
What for you is the single (meaning ONE) most enjoyable part of sexual relations generally across ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Having a braingasm.
How would you handle unsolicited touching?
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I would have probably done what you did and nothing more unless he grabs me and tries to take me somewhere. If I had punched him, I would have been arrested. That is just how it is in this country. Someone breaks into your house and you hurt him in some way, you would be charged with assault. There's a possibility I might report the guy touching to the police but chances of anything happening to the guy is probably slim. Unless I was physically hurt or dying, that is.
I just realized "... is not an active member at this time" means I've been blocked. Lol, I ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I had been chatting with another member and thought we were getting along well. Until one day he was not on my following list, all his messages are gone, etc. I searched for his name and it came up and when I tried to see his profile it says he’s not an active member at this time. I can’t imagine a reason for blocking me as we never got into an argument or disagreement. If he needed a break he could’ve told me he would be away for awhile. Who knows. I can’t control what other people do. It was just weird. That’s all.
[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Equal opportunity? https://www.amazon.ca/yaode-Animals-Squeeze-Miniature-Decoration/dp/B07BWBG4GT/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8=1535225214&sr=8-1=ding+ding+squishy
Do you "dress your age"? Exactly what does that actually mean anyway? What does that mean to you? Do...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Just to clarify. I don't give the slightest fuck about what other people think or say about how I dress. I don't ever give a rat's ass about what other people think about anything that I do or don't do. If they think I don't dress appropriately, they can shove their opinion up where it don't shine. If I'm not in my casual practical attire, I tend to wear rather bizarre clothing anyhow just because that's what I like. I am a non-conformist. One thing I don't do, however, is dress sloppy when I go out (I may wear comfy grubby clothes at home as I please).
This is a question for women. Does it creep any of you out to have a bunch of men following you ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Not at all. Sometimes I'm just curious why. I'm not that interesting.
Too unique to be understood or even loved. Does anyone else feel this way? My beliefs, politics,...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I find being unique seems to attract people not the opposite (believe me, I'm super weird). The question is more, do I want them as friends? I'm rather anti-social anyway. Unless you want to debate social issues or politics with your partners all your life, may be avoid those subjects that divide people. That tends to be what I do. There are a billion other subjects to talk about.
Anybody feel like fasting makes you more whole?
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Nope. I don't ever fast, on purpose. I do the small meals throughout the day. Basically eat whenever my body tells me I need to eat and also what it tells me I need to eat at the time. I eat 100% plant-based, making sure I get balanced nutrition, not cutting out any nutrients (not low carb, low fat, low anything). I don't do diets.
Have you ever picked up a total strange on a wim and had sex...when done said...goodbye without ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Nope. Would not be interested in that at all.
Woman’s blasphemy conviction in Indonesia sparks backlash, intensifies concerns - The Washington ...
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
That is my country of birth where I spent the first 12 years of my life. I was also of the ethnic-Chinese minority (hated because we tended to be better educated and wealthier and non-Muslims). There is no religious freedom in a country that requires you (by law) to have a religion and only one of 5 (I don’t know where they get 6 in the article) approved. God forbid you claim to be atheist or agnostic there. The targeting of non-Muslims was the reason my family moved to Canada.
I just `reached Level 7. Seemed like forever.
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
A lot of us are stuck in level 7. I finally got to 7.3 this afternoon, after all this time. Yay!
What is it that you would prefer to be doing tonight?
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
I'd like to work on my dance choreography for the festival. Instead I'm doing some PR work for my business.
Have a sexy Friday!
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
I’m working on this outfit. Does that count?
What music could you...?
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
Duran Duran (I've got tattoos of their logos/symbols; and JT has been the love of my life for over 30 years) Godsmack (total obsession) Bryan Adams (my favourite vegan) CCR (all time favourite band) Queen (how can you not love them)
This one...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
I’m partially covered in tattoos. I’m not that nice. Especially to judgmental people.
What does it mean to identify as "spiritual," to an atheist/agnostic? The two ideas seem ...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
It puzzles me too. Their definition of "spiritual" must not be the same as mine if they list being atheist or agnostic as well.
Do you like to play outside in the winter? Summer? I love snow and being outside in the winter. ...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
I'm more of a winter person than a summer person, although I would prefer something in between like spring and fall. Around here, if you aren't out and about in winter, you are simply holed out in your home. It can be winter conditions up to 6 months out of the year (not unusual to get snow in June). It can be drastically cold (a few years ago we reached -58C, and was the second coldest place on the planet next to Siberia). Generally, most of us here live normal active lives even when it's in the -30s C.
Have you ever sat down to think for a second how petty you may look in the sight of the bee when ...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
I don't eat honey so no I don't think about that.
In high school my AP English teacher was phenomenal. Passionate, creative, etc. She had us do some ...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
Prufrock is my favourite poem!!! I love Eliot’s other poems as well. Old Possum’s Book of Practical Cats is like a “bible” to me. As are my Complete Works of Shakespeare and of Edgar Allen Poe.
How old would you be? I would be 26 ?
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I've been very diverse in companion choices, marriages, boyfriends, dates over my lifetime. Age, ...
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I would imagine there would be some, but my experience has been the opposite. I've been approached here mostly by younger men. Age hasn't really mattered much at this site.
I was so tired today that I passed out soon after my post-work shower. Dinner (past 1 a.m.) is this ...
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
Looks yummy. Way more than I could put together at 1 am.
What color is your vehicle?
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
Blue, sort of on the dark side.
Just curious about your groups.
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I belong to 22 groups but own none.
Who do you get along with better? The people the same gender, the opposite, or a mix? I find I get...
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I get along better with males. I grew up with only brothers. I’m civil with women but don’t form as close connections with them.
What is your favorite way to be woke up?
graceylou comments on Aug 21, 2018:
Hmmmm. I don't think I would say it in a public forum. But my least favourite is to have a cat shove his paw in my mouth to wake me up for cuddles.
It seems that I resemble a skinny duck..... haha
graceylou comments on Aug 21, 2018:
I sing like a dead buzzard. Yup, that's pretty accurate for me.
Asian girl. Who like Asians?
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Did somebody say Asians?
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
They do have mixed almond coconut milk. I usually drink and use almond milk. I might bake with coconut milk. My SO drinks an almond coconut mix. I like the taste of soy milk but can't tolerate it too well. There are other milks out there as well, including pea milk, oat milk, rice milk, cashew milk. Give them all a try. I think we all have different preferences. There is also lactose free dairy milk, but I would never recommend that since I'm vegan, but it's out there.
So I wonder why Satanism isn't more popular ?
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Many people aren’t able to see past the label without having preconceived ideas about the figure of Satan and Satanism itself based on Christian doctrine and media portrayals. While I do follow the tenets of atheistic Satanism, I still would prefer not to commit to any religion of any kind. If I were to allow myself to adopt a somewhat structured religion, my views would be most aligned to LaVeyan Satanism.
Are you a dog person or a cat person? (I'm a cat person)
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Dog person but I have more cats than dogs (because I rescue cats). But really, I’m more a snake and tarantula person.
Flight or invisibility? If you could choose one, which would it be and why.
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Flight because it might come in handy, though I'm afraid of heights. Invisibility, nope. I'm already practically invisible in society.
What's your favorite way to celebrate your birthday? :) My birthday is in exactly two weeks... ...
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Nothing. I don't celebrate my birthday. Last one, I worked. For my 40th, I didn't have a celebration, go to dinner, or anything like that. But I had a fundraiser. Instead of gifts or dinner or lunch, I asked my friends and family to donate to an animal shelter/rescue, either one of the ones listed on my fundraiser page or their favourite shelter/rescue. I guess my favourite thing to do on my birthday is to do something nice for someone else. Besides, my birthday is in the dead of winter so I don't like planning anything and not be able to go due to weather conditions. No one wants to go out when it's -31C.
Food for thought Have you ever used food in the bedroom? I'm not talking about bananas or ...
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Had ice cream put on me before. Never again. It was cold coming on then melted and was wet and sticky all over. Yeah nope.
there is something really magical about Santa Fe. it's a 6 hour roadtrip south from Denver, and no ...
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
I was there a few years ago. Excellent place for photography.
What do you do on Sundays?
graceylou comments on Aug 19, 2018:
I work everyday. Sunday is just another day.
So, who's going out tonight to party, it's Saturday night? I'm staying in with some bloody Mary ...
graceylou comments on Aug 19, 2018:
Pulled a tendon on my arm and in agony. Nope not going anywhere.
What kind of reptile species scare you?
graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:
None. I love them all, especially snakes.
If you would do anything for Love but you won’t do “that” sexually, what is “that” for ...
graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:
There seems to be the idea that the opposite of monogamy is all out fuck anyone you want. There are many types and degrees of non-monogamy. Some of us have bonded and committed relationships with more than one person. I’m not against swingers or those in open relationships, but I couldn’t do any of that. I can’t do monogamy either but hey if that’s your thing then good for you. We should respect others for their relationship choices whatever it happens to be.
Just a friendly reminder: read someone's profile before messaging them. The whole profile. If ...
graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I don’t mind being hit on or if someone flirts with me. It’s fun. What bothers me is if someone wants more from me but isn’t accepting of my lifestyle and gets angry or pushy. Just because I’m “here for community” doesn’t mean I just want to chat about the weather.
I remember distinctly, starting around 12 years old, how when walking past boys or men i ...
graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I'm definitely not scared to show some skin. I have a denim bib overall skort outfit I wear with my John Deere T-shirt (I live in rural country). It's cute and a bit naughty. I love short dresses too, though I don't get to wear them much. At our age (I'm 47), I think we've found the confidence to flaunt what we've got and not worry too much about it.
Am I the only one who is a little bit exhibitionist and like to show himself for fun and ...
graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Some here can testify whether I am or am not an exhibitionist.
What album did you listen to the most as teenager? I wore the grooves off of the Beatles Abby Road
graceylou comments on Aug 17, 2018:
The Phantom of the Opera musical soundtrack. I was obsessed. I knew every word of every song.
What decade is your favorite music from? What age were you in your favorite music decade? For me ...
graceylou comments on Aug 17, 2018:
It would be the 80s for me, my pre-teen and teenage years.
The chat room is so lonely right now ?
graceylou comments on Aug 17, 2018:
I feel the same. I get lost in there.
How does one go about hiring a gigolo? Asking for a friend .....
graceylou comments on Aug 17, 2018:
I was going to say, just post here. And I was right.
Ok, since politics is annoying me here is a random silly post. I am thinking of cutting my hair. If ...
graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:
I’ve had hair down to my bum all the way to pixie. I change my hair when I feel like it. When men tell me they prefer my hair long, I tell them, nobody asks you!!! I had a short bob not too long ago streaked with burgundy fuchsia. It was fun. I find with short styles I feel sporty. Unfortunately my hair grows fast and shorter styles disappear quickly. Longer hair is easier to deal with for me, more or less wash and wear.
I love a man in a suit! What about you? What styles are your favorites? Why is this deviant? ...
graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:
Nope. I prefer them in muscle shirts or biker outfits. Or in nothing at all, clad only in my skin wrapped around them.
Go vegan! Now!
graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:
The troll of human nature. I had a conversation with a customer I like immensely the other day. We...
graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:
As a vegan and recycling/reusing nut I get that all the time, people being reactive and defensive right off the bat without me saying anything more than stating that I am vegan, etc. I had a massive argument with my father because he claimed I pushed my beliefs on other people during my visit for their 50th anniversary party. All I did was answer people who asked me why I don't eat meat with "I'm vegan". People tend to get defensive and would give me reasons why they eat meat and dairy and I barely said anything. The reasoning that's been given for this behaviour is that people think they are morally good people who have lived a kind and respectful life, and hearing something that makes them question their morality puts them on the defensive position. My take on this is that if they react that way then it gets them thinking. May be they will go away and re-examine their beliefs and actions and decide to make changes. They might look like they are resisting because they don't want to admit that you might be right but you will see that some would start to make changes on their own after that. Keep being an example to other people, is all that you can do.
I do like dogs - not as much as cats - but it's some dogs owners I have a problem with. Just this ...
graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:
Sadly, in these cases the dogs and other people are the ones paying for the irresponsibility of dog owners. When I lived in the city, some dogs were left loose in the yards and they followed and harassed people walking by. I used to walk my own dogs and encounter loose dogs. I called bylaw and all they did was give the owners a call and left a message. They were still loose after that. I called again and bylaw said they would go visit these people. Nothing happened. I had to walk elsewhere. Now living in the country, all the farmers let their dogs roam free. A couple of dogs recently killed someone's chickens. Dogs are often found sitting around in the middle of the road you're trying to drive on. Dog forbid you hit them, then you're an ass for not driving carefully. If you complain about roaming dogs, they tell you you shouldn't live in the country. I love dogs. I work with dogs. I work with hundreds of dogs of all kinds. I know they are animals still and can act unpredictably. I make sure mine are kept indoors or in my fenced yard, leashed when out. My cats too are all indoor cats (because roaming cats can cause issues as well). Oh, and yes, domestic cats can and do attack for no reason sometimes. I work in boarding and have encountered regular kitty customers that run to you and attack you when you aren't doing anything.
I've noticed a distressing lack of sugar mamas in my life. Do you guys think that if we all pooled ...
graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:
Well, my baby boy does like to call me Mommy sometimes. Years ago I was in a relationship with a Daddy for 12 years.
Her: You have no idea what it's like to be overweight and suffer from fibromyalgia, IBS, and ...
graceylou comments on Aug 15, 2018:
I worked with people like this. Of all the coworkers, I was the only one who is fit. I'm in fact the oldest, with the rest in their 20s and 30s. I'm a tiny 5'3 but I'm stronger and have more endurance than the rest of them. I can go on all day on running on my feet with no breaks and no eating while at work. One of them kept telling me how she's on the keto diet avoiding all the carbs and eating tons of meat and cheese. Another one was always at some steak house or another on her days off and she complains about not losing weight. They all know I'm vegan. Yet they just dismissed it as some sort of a weird special dietary preference. To me, if you want to be fit, ask a person who is fit on how to do it. I like to follow vegan athletes and learn from them.
I remember my husband would have me use his dick to teach me the gears for stick shift. I had to ...
graceylou comments on Aug 14, 2018:
Ah man, I must be missing something for never have learned to drive manual vehicles.


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