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I am here for community only. I would like to meet new people for friendship and discussions. I'm not interested in hookups or relationships although meeting local friends for coffee or lunch is a possibility.

I'm an animal lover and a vegan. I love to dance, and have danced many different styles over the years. I enjoy traveling, reading, photography, listening to music, and being active in general. My taste in everything is eclectic. I would enjoy discussing any topic other than politics.

Currently, everything is on the back burner because I'm growing my business. I own and run a pet boarding facility, which just opened recently. Although my background is in academia, I find myself enjoying working with animals a whole lot more.

I'm pretty easy going, so say hi if you like.


What’s the big deal about bras?
graceylou comments on Sep 7, 2018:
I hate bras. They are off as soon as I get home. I can get away with no bra most of the time but understand women with large heavy breasts need the support. I like sports bras for exercise and dance. I wear some styles of bras like push up ones to enhance if I wear dressy clothes. But I can get away with tops and dresses with light padding for the breasts and find those most comfortable.
Don't move. There's a spider crawling up your leg oh and that bee What do you do? ?
graceylou comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Probably nothing. Bee won’t sting me unless I try to hurt it. Spider crawling up my leg isn’t an issue for me. If needed I will gently shoo the bee so it will fly off. Then let the spider crawl on my hand and I will take it to a safe place where it will not get hurt.
Speaking of orgies, anyone else here a fan of the TV show Versailles? I'm still catching up on the ...
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e9WTU_33Ank Here is the trailer for Season 1. There are 3 seasons. And yes, it's a historical drama with intense action scenes as well, not just a giant sex orgy.
Speaking of orgies, anyone else here a fan of the TV show Versailles? I'm still catching up on the ...
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
And this is, Alberta born Evan Williams as Chevalier de Lorraine, lover of Louis XIV's brother, Phillipe d'Orleans.
Please help settle this very important issue before it tears my family apart ??
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Mayo. But only vegan mayo.
They could be cumming for you at any time!
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Since the original quote was written by someone by the name of trannyfem, I think it was meant to be cynical or sarcastic. I don't know if trannyfem identifies as bisexual but it's not likely she would be anti bisexual people or people with sexual preferences and identities that are often not accepted by the general mainstream population. I think she is making fun of people who assume bisexual people are on the hunt for everyone.
What is a motivating incentive for you?
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Animals in need. Need for perfection. I'm not motivated by money, reward, praise, etc. Though I could be motivated by avoidance of criticism or punishment.
DO YOU HAVE A SECRET CRUSH HERE? Part of the mission of this site is to act as an interface for ...
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
A crush, yes. Secret, probably not.
I saw somebody ask if, as religion fades, polyamory will overtake monogamy as the dominant practice....
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
To me, there is no necessary and absolute connection between religion, polyamory, and orgies, whether public or not. This is a strange question.
So I got replies... sorta? What's up wiff dis?
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
It's been happening for several days. A bug that needs to be dealt with still. I haven't seen it on my posts and comments lately though.
Where did he get this idea that he is a pet [globalnews.ca]
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
As much as I would love to pet and snuggle lion, I feel so sad for this poor guy. A safari where the "wild" animals are not natural wildlife of the area is just a ridiculous idea. It's basically just a tour of the zoo.
What pets can I have?
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Snakes are great but yes you do need to feed them furry creatures although I don’t know if frozen/thawed feeders would cause a flare up. If you like reptiles, what about geckos (or other lizards). They eat insects. Some are omnivorous and can be fed a powdered smoothie type mix (mix of powdered fruits, vitamins, and sometimes insect protein). Leopard geckos have quite the personality. I miss my Grover I had for 12 years.
Whats one unique thing about the area you live in that would make someone want to visit there?
graceylou comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Absolutely nothing.
Just before my bedtime my favourite Norwegians, a-ha....Move to Memphis. This was when Morten was ...
graceylou comments on Sep 5, 2018:
He’s got to be one of the most beautiful men that has ever lived (and extremely talented). The hair is nice but kinda hides his gorgeous face a bit too much.
CAT CALLS -- Everyone who has ever owned a cat and a dog, know the main differences between the two....
graceylou comments on Sep 5, 2018:
My cats all know their names and come when called. Unless they know I’m taking them to the vet. Dog forbid, you’re making a sandwich. Must have an audience of 5 or more cats.
How do you relax?
graceylou comments on Sep 5, 2018:
Hobby I enjoy that keeps my mind occupied, like working on dance choreography or cross stitch or doing other crafts.
For those of you in the polyamorous lifestyle, how many partners are you able to maintain?
graceylou comments on Sep 5, 2018:
For me usually 2-3 would be the norm, although it could be infinite if I wanted to. In many poly relationships, there's a primary partner, and may be both of these primary partners "maintain" the third partner, so you are not alone in "maintaining" all the others. Or all the partners in the relationship can "maintain" each other in different combinations or all altogether. It might be easier to maintain the relationships in these cases. I'm not in one of these situations though. Currently it is 3 for me, with one primary, but I'm possibly nurturing more.
It goes without saying you can't change the past . But did you have something beautiful in your life...
graceylou comments on Sep 5, 2018:
For me it’s the opposite of that. I wish I hadn’t been with some I had relationships with. But I really regret nothing. I can’t fix those mistakes; all I can do is learn from them and move on.
I think I need this shirt
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
I think I might qualify for two of those on the list.
Continue the game with your name!
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
I’m Grace, but not of god.
What is your favorite restaurant? Where would you most likely take someone on a date once you get ...
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
I would take the person to my favourite place to eat, my home. I don’t go to restaurants much because I prefer to cook and eat my own food. I would cook up a storm of amazing delicious dishes.
No! No cats on the counter! Rigby hasn't learned the house rules yet.
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
Like the say, you can teach a cat to do something but you can’t teach them to not do something. Well, you can teach them but they just ignore you. My cats are allowed just about anywhere. Places they aren’t allowed into have the doors closed.
OK, instead of word association. Let give it a tweak. What is the first thing that comes to mind ...
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
You can have that. Where's the rest of the pinapple?
Scottish singer Susan Boyle became an overnight success at almost 50 after appearing on Britain’s ...
graceylou comments on Sep 4, 2018:
I got this album when it first came out.
Ethical non-mongamy. I'm single but I've always been happiest with myself and my relationship when ...
graceylou comments on Sep 3, 2018:
I’m poly. I think I’ve probably always known monogamy is not for me and would be very suffocating if I were stuck in a monogamous relationship. I’m not into open relationships in the sense that I don’t simply look for partners for sex but I’m open to exploring new relationships with new persons I form connections with. I’m in a relationship with several men whom I love and respect, who value me in the same way. I know other people who are in poly relationships and I don’t care who knows that I’m poly. In the Internet age, we realize there are many just like us out there. I doubt ethical non-monogamy would be accepted fully ever but then again nothing not mainstream would be either. The book looks interesting. I might suggest it for my book club.
if someone outside of this group were to call you a pervert. Would you take that as an insult or a ...
graceylou comments on Sep 3, 2018:
I think they're just reading what it says on my T-shirt.
Ridiculous Rumors
graceylou comments on Sep 3, 2018:
The rumour mill started early for me. When I was 5 I was hanging around with my younger brother who was 3. We were yapping about kid stuff while leaning on the door to our parents' bedroom (no idea why). Suddenly he ran like an idiot, tripped, and bashed his head on the corner of my parents' bed's footboard. Blood was everywhere. He needed stitches above his eyebrow (he still has a scar there). No one saw what happened except the two of us, so since then the story that has gone around to all my relatives and family friends is that I pushed my brother because I was jealous of him (my older brother is first born son, my younger brother is the baby, and I'm the nothing middle female child). To this day, everyone believes I did it no matter how much I deny it. And my younger brother was too young to even remember what happened.
What has been your favorite travel destination and why?
graceylou comments on Sep 2, 2018:
New Orleans, for the history, culture, and weirdness. London, England, probably for the same reasons. And I have to add Gamboa, Panama, because Panama is just beautiful. And Tofino, on Vancouver Island, for the spectacular whale watching.
My daughter just sent these pictures to me... dressing her cat ? for Halloween
graceylou comments on Sep 2, 2018:
Very cute.
Something your cats might like.???
graceylou comments on Sep 1, 2018:
My cats get empty boxes. LOL. I’ve spent way too much on special cat gear and they prefer boxes those come in.
It's Saturday everyone, what you guys doing tonight? I'm staying home, gonna relax with some...
graceylou comments on Sep 1, 2018:
Same thing I do everyday. Work.
Morten Harket, Norwegian Superstar!.....His light shines brightly everywhere but the USA.....here he...
graceylou comments on Sep 1, 2018:
He hasn’t toured Canada either that I know of. At least not more recently. I can only wish.
Winter warning . … maybe
graceylou comments on Sep 1, 2018:
I could’ve predicted that. Would it be any different any year?
What was the worst gift you've ever received? (My ex gave me a step stool for Christmas, because I'm...
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
Jumper cables for Christmas. Like who could live in this dogforsaken winter hell and not already have a dozen of those. Chocolate sprinkles. My aunts from the Netherlands always brought over chocolate sprinkles as gifts. I guess Dutch chocolate sprinkles are special but really it’s all junk ingredients except in a foreign language.
What kind of art do you enjoy most?
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I don’t think anyone needs to ask me that. LOL. Dance, of course. But I also design and sew costuming and clothing. I draw. I write dark poetry. I had enjoyed some improv theatre in the past.
Fanatics I need your help! My new rescue kitty Rigby is giving me trouble. His claws are insanely ...
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
My groomer does nail trims for $10-15 (and that's Canadian!!!). It might be worth it to save you time and grief, and possible injuries to both parties. For some cats, putting a cloth over their heads (over, not wrapped) might calm them.
Anyone seen the film The Foreigner? It's so awful it's embarrassing to watch!
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I saw it and I actually really liked it.
Do you prefer someone who makes demands of you to do it aggressively and with force, or someone who ...
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
About 90% of the time, just take, throw, shove, use, force. For the rest, gently and firmly and with passionate sexuality would be acceptable.
What animal are you?(according to the Kama Sutra) Photo proof desired.
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
I'm only seeing roosters and camels.
I thought I'd share this with my dirty minded kin folk
graceylou comments on Aug 31, 2018:
My neighbour’s house is a mile away. But their cows are close by. Will they do?
Can sex be fantastic even if you don't have an orgasm?
graceylou comments on Aug 30, 2018:
Of course.
Should I switch out my barbells for rings in my nipples? The barbells seem a little to wide.
graceylou comments on Aug 30, 2018:
I said yes because when I had my nipple piercings I kept getting the barbells caught on things. And that damned hurt. I changed to rings. Size wise, with the barbells, gotta have room for when the nipples swell.
Women how do you like today's Style with men with shaved or cropped hair and long beards? Or do you ...
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
I love shaved heads. Also love beards (or any facial hair). But I can be attracted to men of any style. What I don't like are men who look expensive and high maintenance.
I see lots of people talk about not liking being alone. Never bothered me. Right now I'm soaking up...
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
I love being alone too. On occasion I might spend time with others but I enjoy my alone time. I like going shopping alone, and I prefer traveling alone. I don’t have to wait for others, I can go at my pace, I don’t have to do things I don’t want to do.
What kind of act would you really love to try on/with a partner that you've never preformed before?
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
Have a decent conversation. With some partners that’s never happened before.
Is this fair to do? I'm trying to help a friend promote her new "book". It's not, you know, classic ...
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
For those of you who don’t have a kindle, if you have a tablet (iPad or any other) you can download the kindle app and you can download any kindle books from Amazon. I will check to see if this is available on Amazon.ca.
Oh no! The "shooter of cats in your profile pictures" has blocked me! ;-)
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
Now I don’t see that post either. Did I finally get blocked? I did report the post as promoting violence.
Veggies you like
graceylou comments on Aug 29, 2018:
Mangoes, pineapples, grapes, blueberries, raspberries, melons. Spinach, asparagus, mushrooms, broccoli, potatoes sweet potatoes, onions, garlic, bell peppers. Being vegan I eat a whole variety of fruits and vegetables whether I really like it or not. I hated coconuts and avocados but have learned to accept consuming them. I can’t stand cherries and would never eat pickles.
Ever spent time around someone who was a perfectionist?
graceylou comments on Aug 28, 2018:
Spent my whole entire life with one. Me. It can be excruciating. Stressful. Everything takes so long to do or it never gets done because it’s not perfect. My parents are perfectionists so I grew up expected to be perfect and was always criticized or humiliated for not being perfect. I never did anything right.
CHOICES LIMIT US Every time we make a choice, we're giving up the other choices..picking a mate ...
graceylou comments on Aug 28, 2018:
I own a standard donkey and two Arabian horses. My donkey is very easy to care for compared to my horses. She does have a tendency to break out of the fencing but she's easy to catch as she's like a dog and wants to be with people. She's easy with hoof trims, unlike my crazy horses. She can be pretty noisy but since all my neighbours have livestock including horses and donkeys, nobody cares. Donkeys are also a great alarm system and protector of outside pets and livestock.
I don't dislike babies, but YES.
graceylou comments on Aug 28, 2018:
So me. Except I wouldn’t even touch or hold a baby. In my mind babies are slimy.
I've always loved spiders. They do there job and just kinda hang out. This one lives above my light ...
graceylou comments on Aug 28, 2018:
I love spiders!!!
I'm very fortunate to say this is never happened to me. But question .....Men and women if you are ...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
I have never climaxed during intercourse in my entire life. I just am not able to. A man would have to keep going until he’s blue in the face if he keeps trying. I would prefer he gets there even if I don’t get to climax at all during the whole thing.
Longest held note in music history....20.4 seconds (Guinness Record). A-ha “Summer Moved On” ...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
Sheesh. I was so in love with Morten Harket when I was a teenager. He's still a good looking guy even now. Amazing voice.
Maroon 5 feat. Cardi B - "Girls Like You" [youtu.be] Catchy little tune. I especially liked ...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
I just watched it for Adam Levine. Yummy.
What/ where is your happy place? What things can you think of to turn your mood around?
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
When I'm dancing wherever it might be.
When did you first realize you were deviant? What was it that got you so hard or wet that you were ...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
I was in my twenties. Chat sites were new thing, and I joined one (adults only, open to kinks, lots of members from the BDSM community). Totally opened the world to me. I met Daddy there and found I liked that sort of relationship, although it was mostly online until I was in my 30s when I flew thousands of miles to see Daddy.
Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit? Which are your least favourite? What cities/towns do...
graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:
Looks like some of you list New Orleans as one of your favourites (a few of you not a fan). Party time in NOLA, folks? I have to say that I don’t know if I particularly like New Orleans even but I can’t help myself in needing to go back again. Something mysterious is just drawing me back there. I don’t normally drink but I probably drank more while there than in my entire life. I’m just not quite myself when I’m there. May be that is actually the real me and I live someone else’s life when I’m not there.
McDonald's or Burger King? Pepsi or Coke? These are two things which are very similar, yet ...
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
I don’t go to fast food restaurants. I rarely go to restaurants. I prefer to cook my own meals. If I’m out there and need to get something to eat and drink I would find a Starbucks and check online for a list of their items that are vegan (not all available at all locations). I rarely drink pop, but if I had to choose between Coke and Pepsi it would be Coke (diet). Besides, Diet Pepsi is not vegan. My preferred pop is ginger ale but I don’t drink it much at all. These days I only drink coffee (my vice; black mostly or latte with almond milk if at Starbucks) and water, with the occasional kombucha tea (the only kind of tea I can drink). I’m trying to be good but I still have a few vices.
Opportunity bless my soul
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
I’ll back that.
What made you smile today?
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
Hearing from a particular someone from here ?
Weed. For or against? Why? And where? How much? Just kidding. Thoughts on the subject?
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
No interest in it for recreational or medicinal. It will be legal here nationwide in October. I don't care to try or use it. Everyone else pretty much already does so it's just a matter of the government making money out of it. I don't particularly care if other people use it, as long as they use it responsibly.
I went out of my comfort zone twice last night! Wanted to see a band but didn’t have anyone to go ...
graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:
I think if you go alone to places you’re more likely to meet new people. That’s been my experience anyway. Sounds like you had a great time.
Some people who have difficulties becoming intimate with a possible lover do so as a result of body ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I used to be extremely body conscious although I have never been overweight. But having been with men who have been nothing but appreciative of my form reassures me that it’s ok to let go of those insecurities. None of us is perfect and it’s ok to accept yourself and others as unique and to just enjoy those unique selves together. And, I love ALL body types!!!
My Sir/Daddy had play time today. Pictures to com, if he approves.
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Sigh. It’s been awhile since I had a Daddy. Fun times.
What for you is the single (meaning ONE) most enjoyable part of sexual relations generally across ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Having a braingasm.
How would you handle unsolicited touching?
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I would have probably done what you did and nothing more unless he grabs me and tries to take me somewhere. If I had punched him, I would have been arrested. That is just how it is in this country. Someone breaks into your house and you hurt him in some way, you would be charged with assault. There's a possibility I might report the guy touching to the police but chances of anything happening to the guy is probably slim. Unless I was physically hurt or dying, that is.
I just realized "... is not an active member at this time" means I've been blocked. Lol, I ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I had been chatting with another member and thought we were getting along well. Until one day he was not on my following list, all his messages are gone, etc. I searched for his name and it came up and when I tried to see his profile it says he’s not an active member at this time. I can’t imagine a reason for blocking me as we never got into an argument or disagreement. If he needed a break he could’ve told me he would be away for awhile. Who knows. I can’t control what other people do. It was just weird. That’s all.
[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Equal opportunity? https://www.amazon.ca/yaode-Animals-Squeeze-Miniature-Decoration/dp/B07BWBG4GT/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8=1535225214&sr=8-1=ding+ding+squishy
Do you "dress your age"? Exactly what does that actually mean anyway? What does that mean to you? Do...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Just to clarify. I don't give the slightest fuck about what other people think or say about how I dress. I don't ever give a rat's ass about what other people think about anything that I do or don't do. If they think I don't dress appropriately, they can shove their opinion up where it don't shine. If I'm not in my casual practical attire, I tend to wear rather bizarre clothing anyhow just because that's what I like. I am a non-conformist. One thing I don't do, however, is dress sloppy when I go out (I may wear comfy grubby clothes at home as I please).
This is a question for women. Does it creep any of you out to have a bunch of men following you ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Not at all. Sometimes I'm just curious why. I'm not that interesting.
Too unique to be understood or even loved. Does anyone else feel this way? My beliefs, politics,...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I find being unique seems to attract people not the opposite (believe me, I'm super weird). The question is more, do I want them as friends? I'm rather anti-social anyway. Unless you want to debate social issues or politics with your partners all your life, may be avoid those subjects that divide people. That tends to be what I do. There are a billion other subjects to talk about.
Anybody feel like fasting makes you more whole?
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Nope. I don't ever fast, on purpose. I do the small meals throughout the day. Basically eat whenever my body tells me I need to eat and also what it tells me I need to eat at the time. I eat 100% plant-based, making sure I get balanced nutrition, not cutting out any nutrients (not low carb, low fat, low anything). I don't do diets.
Have you ever picked up a total strange on a wim and had sex...when done said...goodbye without ...
graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Nope. Would not be interested in that at all.
Woman’s blasphemy conviction in Indonesia sparks backlash, intensifies concerns - The Washington ...
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
That is my country of birth where I spent the first 12 years of my life. I was also of the ethnic-Chinese minority (hated because we tended to be better educated and wealthier and non-Muslims). There is no religious freedom in a country that requires you (by law) to have a religion and only one of 5 (I don’t know where they get 6 in the article) approved. God forbid you claim to be atheist or agnostic there. The targeting of non-Muslims was the reason my family moved to Canada.
I just `reached Level 7. Seemed like forever.
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
A lot of us are stuck in level 7. I finally got to 7.3 this afternoon, after all this time. Yay!
What is it that you would prefer to be doing tonight?
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
I'd like to work on my dance choreography for the festival. Instead I'm doing some PR work for my business.
Have a sexy Friday!
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
I’m working on this outfit. Does that count?
What music could you...?
graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:
Duran Duran (I've got tattoos of their logos/symbols; and JT has been the love of my life for over 30 years) Godsmack (total obsession) Bryan Adams (my favourite vegan) CCR (all time favourite band) Queen (how can you not love them)
This one...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
I’m partially covered in tattoos. I’m not that nice. Especially to judgmental people.
What does it mean to identify as "spiritual," to an atheist/agnostic? The two ideas seem ...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
It puzzles me too. Their definition of "spiritual" must not be the same as mine if they list being atheist or agnostic as well.
Do you like to play outside in the winter? Summer? I love snow and being outside in the winter. ...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
I'm more of a winter person than a summer person, although I would prefer something in between like spring and fall. Around here, if you aren't out and about in winter, you are simply holed out in your home. It can be winter conditions up to 6 months out of the year (not unusual to get snow in June). It can be drastically cold (a few years ago we reached -58C, and was the second coldest place on the planet next to Siberia). Generally, most of us here live normal active lives even when it's in the -30s C.
Have you ever sat down to think for a second how petty you may look in the sight of the bee when ...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
I don't eat honey so no I don't think about that.
In high school my AP English teacher was phenomenal. Passionate, creative, etc. She had us do some ...
graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:
Prufrock is my favourite poem!!! I love Eliot’s other poems as well. Old Possum’s Book of Practical Cats is like a “bible” to me. As are my Complete Works of Shakespeare and of Edgar Allen Poe.
How old would you be? I would be 26 ?
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I've been very diverse in companion choices, marriages, boyfriends, dates over my lifetime. Age, ...
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I would imagine there would be some, but my experience has been the opposite. I've been approached here mostly by younger men. Age hasn't really mattered much at this site.
I was so tired today that I passed out soon after my post-work shower. Dinner (past 1 a.m.) is this ...
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
Looks yummy. Way more than I could put together at 1 am.
What color is your vehicle?
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
Blue, sort of on the dark side.
Just curious about your groups.
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I belong to 22 groups but own none.
Who do you get along with better? The people the same gender, the opposite, or a mix? I find I get...
graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I get along better with males. I grew up with only brothers. I’m civil with women but don’t form as close connections with them.
What is your favorite way to be woke up?
graceylou comments on Aug 21, 2018:
Hmmmm. I don't think I would say it in a public forum. But my least favourite is to have a cat shove his paw in my mouth to wake me up for cuddles.
It seems that I resemble a skinny duck..... haha
graceylou comments on Aug 21, 2018:
I sing like a dead buzzard. Yup, that's pretty accurate for me.
Asian girl. Who like Asians?
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Did somebody say Asians?
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
They do have mixed almond coconut milk. I usually drink and use almond milk. I might bake with coconut milk. My SO drinks an almond coconut mix. I like the taste of soy milk but can't tolerate it too well. There are other milks out there as well, including pea milk, oat milk, rice milk, cashew milk. Give them all a try. I think we all have different preferences. There is also lactose free dairy milk, but I would never recommend that since I'm vegan, but it's out there.
So I wonder why Satanism isn't more popular ?
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Many people aren’t able to see past the label without having preconceived ideas about the figure of Satan and Satanism itself based on Christian doctrine and media portrayals. While I do follow the tenets of atheistic Satanism, I still would prefer not to commit to any religion of any kind. If I were to allow myself to adopt a somewhat structured religion, my views would be most aligned to LaVeyan Satanism.
Are you a dog person or a cat person? (I'm a cat person)
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Dog person but I have more cats than dogs (because I rescue cats). But really, I’m more a snake and tarantula person.
Flight or invisibility? If you could choose one, which would it be and why.
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Flight because it might come in handy, though I'm afraid of heights. Invisibility, nope. I'm already practically invisible in society.
What's your favorite way to celebrate your birthday? :) My birthday is in exactly two weeks... ...
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Nothing. I don't celebrate my birthday. Last one, I worked. For my 40th, I didn't have a celebration, go to dinner, or anything like that. But I had a fundraiser. Instead of gifts or dinner or lunch, I asked my friends and family to donate to an animal shelter/rescue, either one of the ones listed on my fundraiser page or their favourite shelter/rescue. I guess my favourite thing to do on my birthday is to do something nice for someone else. Besides, my birthday is in the dead of winter so I don't like planning anything and not be able to go due to weather conditions. No one wants to go out when it's -31C.
Food for thought Have you ever used food in the bedroom? I'm not talking about bananas or ...
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Had ice cream put on me before. Never again. It was cold coming on then melted and was wet and sticky all over. Yeah nope.
there is something really magical about Santa Fe. it's a 6 hour roadtrip south from Denver, and no ...
graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:
I was there a few years ago. Excellent place for photography.


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