What made you smile today?

graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Hearing from a particular someone from here ?

Weed. For or against? Why? And where? How much? Just kidding. Thoughts on the subject?

graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:

No interest in it for recreational or medicinal. It will be legal here nationwide in October. I don't care to try or use it. Everyone else pretty much already does so it's just a matter of the government making money out of it. I don't particularly care if other people use it, as long as they use it responsibly.

I went out of my comfort zone twice last night! Wanted to see a band but didn’t have anyone to go ...

graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:

I think if you go alone to places you’re more likely to meet new people. That’s been my experience anyway. Sounds like you had a great time.

Some people who have difficulties becoming intimate with a possible lover do so as a result of body ...

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I used to be extremely body conscious although I have never been overweight. But having been with men who have been nothing but appreciative of my form reassures me that it’s ok to let go of those insecurities. None of us is perfect and it’s ok to accept yourself and others as unique and to just enjoy those unique selves together. And, I love ALL body types!!!

My Sir/Daddy had play time today. Pictures to com, if he approves.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Sigh. It’s been awhile since I had a Daddy. Fun times.

What for you is the single (meaning ONE) most enjoyable part of sexual relations generally across ...

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Having a braingasm.

I just realized ".

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I had been chatting with another member and thought we were getting along well. Until one day he was not on my following list, all his messages are gone, etc. I searched for his name and it came up and when I tried to see his profile it says he’s not an active member at this time. I can’t imagine a reason for blocking me as we never got into an argument or disagreement. If he needed a break he could’ve told me he would be away for awhile. Who knows. I can’t control what other people do. It was just weird. That’s all.

[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Equal opportunity? https://www.amazon.ca/yaode-Animals-Squeeze-Miniature-Decoration/dp/B07BWBG4GT/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8=1535225214&sr=8-1=ding+ding+squishy

Do you "dress your age"?

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Just to clarify. I don't give the slightest fuck about what other people think or say about how I dress. I don't ever give a rat's ass about what other people think about anything that I do or don't do. If they think I don't dress appropriately, they can shove their opinion up where it don't shine. If I'm not in my casual practical attire, I tend to wear rather bizarre clothing anyhow just because that's what I like. I am a non-conformist. One thing I don't do, however, is dress sloppy when I go out (I may wear comfy grubby clothes at home as I please).

This is a question for women.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Not at all. Sometimes I'm just curious why. I'm not that interesting.

Too unique to be understood or even loved. Does anyone else feel this way?

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I find being unique seems to attract people not the opposite (believe me, I'm super weird). The question is more, do I want them as friends? I'm rather anti-social anyway. Unless you want to debate social issues or politics with your partners all your life, may be avoid those subjects that divide people. That tends to be what I do. There are a billion other subjects to talk about.

Anybody feel like fasting makes you more whole?

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Nope. I don't ever fast, on purpose. I do the small meals throughout the day. Basically eat whenever my body tells me I need to eat and also what it tells me I need to eat at the time. I eat 100% plant-based, making sure I get balanced nutrition, not cutting out any nutrients (not low carb, low fat, low anything). I don't do diets.

Have you ever picked up a total strange on a wim and had sex.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Nope. Would not be interested in that at all.

Woman’s blasphemy conviction in Indonesia sparks backlash, intensifies concerns - The Washington ...

graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:

That is my country of birth where I spent the first 12 years of my life. I was also of the ethnic-Chinese minority (hated because we tended to be better educated and wealthier and non-Muslims). There is no religious freedom in a country that requires you (by law) to have a religion and only one of 5 (I don’t know where they get 6 in the article) approved. God forbid you claim to be atheist or agnostic there. The targeting of non-Muslims was the reason my family moved to Canada.

I just `reached Level 7. Seemed like forever.

graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:

A lot of us are stuck in level 7. I finally got to 7.3 this afternoon, after all this time. Yay!

What is it that you would prefer to be doing tonight?

graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:

I'd like to work on my dance choreography for the festival. Instead I'm doing some PR work for my business.

Have a sexy Friday!

graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:

I’m working on this outfit. Does that count?

What music could you...?

graceylou comments on Aug 24, 2018:

Duran Duran (I've got tattoos of their logos/symbols; and JT has been the love of my life for over 30 years) Godsmack (total obsession) Bryan Adams (my favourite vegan) CCR (all time favourite band) Queen (how can you not love them)

This one...

graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I’m partially covered in tattoos. I’m not that nice. Especially to judgmental people.

What does it mean to identify as "spiritual," to an atheist/agnostic?

graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:

It puzzles me too. Their definition of "spiritual" must not be the same as mine if they list being atheist or agnostic as well.

Do you like to play outside in the winter?

graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I'm more of a winter person than a summer person, although I would prefer something in between like spring and fall. Around here, if you aren't out and about in winter, you are simply holed out in your home. It can be winter conditions up to 6 months out of the year (not unusual to get snow in June). It can be drastically cold (a few years ago we reached -58C, and was the second coldest place on the planet next to Siberia). Generally, most of us here live normal active lives even when it's in the -30s C.

Have you ever sat down to think for a second how petty you may look in the sight of the bee when ...

graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I don't eat honey so no I don't think about that.

In high school my AP English teacher was phenomenal.

graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:

Prufrock is my favourite poem!!! I love Eliot’s other poems as well. Old Possum’s Book of Practical Cats is like a “bible” to me. As are my Complete Works of Shakespeare and of Edgar Allen Poe.

How old would you be? I would be 26 ?

graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:

74

I've been very diverse in companion choices, marriages, boyfriends, dates over my lifetime.

graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:

I would imagine there would be some, but my experience has been the opposite. I've been approached here mostly by younger men. Age hasn't really mattered much at this site.

I was so tired today that I passed out soon after my post-work shower.

graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:

Looks yummy. Way more than I could put together at 1 am.

What color is your vehicle?

graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:

Blue, sort of on the dark side.

Just curious about your groups.

graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:

I belong to 22 groups but own none.

Who do you get along with better?

graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:

I get along better with males. I grew up with only brothers. I’m civil with women but don’t form as close connections with them.

What is your favorite way to be woke up?

graceylou comments on Aug 21, 2018:

Hmmmm. I don't think I would say it in a public forum. But my least favourite is to have a cat shove his paw in my mouth to wake me up for cuddles.

It seems that I resemble a skinny duck..... haha

graceylou comments on Aug 21, 2018:

I sing like a dead buzzard. Yup, that's pretty accurate for me.

Asian girl. Who like Asians?

graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:

Did somebody say Asians?

Vegetarianism

graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:

They do have mixed almond coconut milk. I usually drink and use almond milk. I might bake with coconut milk. My SO drinks an almond coconut mix. I like the taste of soy milk but can't tolerate it too well. There are other milks out there as well, including pea milk, oat milk, rice milk, cashew milk. Give them all a try. I think we all have different preferences. There is also lactose free dairy milk, but I would never recommend that since I'm vegan, but it's out there.

So I wonder why Satanism isn't more popular ?

graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:

Many people aren’t able to see past the label without having preconceived ideas about the figure of Satan and Satanism itself based on Christian doctrine and media portrayals. While I do follow the tenets of atheistic Satanism, I still would prefer not to commit to any religion of any kind. If I were to allow myself to adopt a somewhat structured religion, my views would be most aligned to LaVeyan Satanism.

Are you a dog person or a cat person? (I'm a cat person)

graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:

Dog person but I have more cats than dogs (because I rescue cats). But really, I’m more a snake and tarantula person.

Flight or invisibility? If you could choose one, which would it be and why.

graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:

Flight because it might come in handy, though I'm afraid of heights. Invisibility, nope. I'm already practically invisible in society.

What's your favorite way to celebrate your birthday?

graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:

Nothing. I don't celebrate my birthday. Last one, I worked. For my 40th, I didn't have a celebration, go to dinner, or anything like that. But I had a fundraiser. Instead of gifts or dinner or lunch, I asked my friends and family to donate to an animal shelter/rescue, either one of the ones listed on my fundraiser page or their favourite shelter/rescue. I guess my favourite thing to do on my birthday is to do something nice for someone else. Besides, my birthday is in the dead of winter so I don't like planning anything and not be able to go due to weather conditions. No one wants to go out when it's -31C.

Food for thought Have you ever used food in the bedroom?

graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:

Had ice cream put on me before. Never again. It was cold coming on then melted and was wet and sticky all over. Yeah nope.

there is something really magical about Santa Fe.

graceylou comments on Aug 20, 2018:

I was there a few years ago. Excellent place for photography.

What do you do on Sundays?

graceylou comments on Aug 19, 2018:

I work everyday. Sunday is just another day.

So, who's going out tonight to party, it's Saturday night?

graceylou comments on Aug 19, 2018:

Pulled a tendon on my arm and in agony. Nope not going anywhere.

What kind of reptile species scare you?

graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:

None. I love them all, especially snakes.

If you would do anything for Love but you won’t do “that” sexually, what is “that” for ...

graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:

There seems to be the idea that the opposite of monogamy is all out fuck anyone you want. There are many types and degrees of non-monogamy. Some of us have bonded and committed relationships with more than one person. I’m not against swingers or those in open relationships, but I couldn’t do any of that. I can’t do monogamy either but hey if that’s your thing then good for you. We should respect others for their relationship choices whatever it happens to be.

Just a friendly reminder: read someone's profile before messaging them.

graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I don’t mind being hit on or if someone flirts with me. It’s fun. What bothers me is if someone wants more from me but isn’t accepting of my lifestyle and gets angry or pushy. Just because I’m “here for community” doesn’t mean I just want to chat about the weather.

I remember distinctly, starting around 12 years old, how when walking past boys or men i ...

graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I'm definitely not scared to show some skin. I have a denim bib overall skort outfit I wear with my John Deere T-shirt (I live in rural country). It's cute and a bit naughty. I love short dresses too, though I don't get to wear them much. At our age (I'm 47), I think we've found the confidence to flaunt what we've got and not worry too much about it.

Am I the only one who is a little bit exhibitionist and like to show himself for fun and ...

graceylou comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Some here can testify whether I am or am not an exhibitionist.

What album did you listen to the most as teenager? I wore the grooves off of the Beatles Abby Road

graceylou comments on Aug 17, 2018:

The Phantom of the Opera musical soundtrack. I was obsessed. I knew every word of every song.

What decade is your favorite music from?

graceylou comments on Aug 17, 2018:

It would be the 80s for me, my pre-teen and teenage years.

The chat room is so lonely right now ?

graceylou comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I feel the same. I get lost in there.

How does one go about hiring a gigolo? Asking for a friend .....

graceylou comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I was going to say, just post here. And I was right.

Ok, since politics is annoying me here is a random silly post.

graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:

I’ve had hair down to my bum all the way to pixie. I change my hair when I feel like it. When men tell me they prefer my hair long, I tell them, nobody asks you!!! I had a short bob not too long ago streaked with burgundy fuchsia. It was fun. I find with short styles I feel sporty. Unfortunately my hair grows fast and shorter styles disappear quickly. Longer hair is easier to deal with for me, more or less wash and wear.

I love a man in a suit! What about you?

graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Nope. I prefer them in muscle shirts or biker outfits. Or in nothing at all, clad only in my skin wrapped around them.

Go vegan! Now!

graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:

OK!!!

The troll of human nature.

graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:

As a vegan and recycling/reusing nut I get that all the time, people being reactive and defensive right off the bat without me saying anything more than stating that I am vegan, etc. I had a massive argument with my father because he claimed I pushed my beliefs on other people during my visit for their 50th anniversary party. All I did was answer people who asked me why I don't eat meat with "I'm vegan". People tend to get defensive and would give me reasons why they eat meat and dairy and I barely said anything. The reasoning that's been given for this behaviour is that people think they are morally good people who have lived a kind and respectful life, and hearing something that makes them question their morality puts them on the defensive position. My take on this is that if they react that way then it gets them thinking. May be they will go away and re-examine their beliefs and actions and decide to make changes. They might look like they are resisting because they don't want to admit that you might be right but you will see that some would start to make changes on their own after that. Keep being an example to other people, is all that you can do.

I do like dogs - not as much as cats - but it's some dogs owners I have a problem with.

graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Sadly, in these cases the dogs and other people are the ones paying for the irresponsibility of dog owners. When I lived in the city, some dogs were left loose in the yards and they followed and harassed people walking by. I used to walk my own dogs and encounter loose dogs. I called bylaw and all they did was give the owners a call and left a message. They were still loose after that. I called again and bylaw said they would go visit these people. Nothing happened. I had to walk elsewhere. Now living in the country, all the farmers let their dogs roam free. A couple of dogs recently killed someone's chickens. Dogs are often found sitting around in the middle of the road you're trying to drive on. Dog forbid you hit them, then you're an ass for not driving carefully. If you complain about roaming dogs, they tell you you shouldn't live in the country. I love dogs. I work with dogs. I work with hundreds of dogs of all kinds. I know they are animals still and can act unpredictably. I make sure mine are kept indoors or in my fenced yard, leashed when out. My cats too are all indoor cats (because roaming cats can cause issues as well). Oh, and yes, domestic cats can and do attack for no reason sometimes. I work in boarding and have encountered regular kitty customers that run to you and attack you when you aren't doing anything.

I've noticed a distressing lack of sugar mamas in my life.

graceylou comments on Aug 16, 2018:

Well, my baby boy does like to call me Mommy sometimes. Years ago I was in a relationship with a Daddy for 12 years.

Her: You have no idea what it's like to be overweight and suffer from fibromyalgia, IBS, and ...

graceylou comments on Aug 15, 2018:

I worked with people like this. Of all the coworkers, I was the only one who is fit. I'm in fact the oldest, with the rest in their 20s and 30s. I'm a tiny 5'3 but I'm stronger and have more endurance than the rest of them. I can go on all day on running on my feet with no breaks and no eating while at work. One of them kept telling me how she's on the keto diet avoiding all the carbs and eating tons of meat and cheese. Another one was always at some steak house or another on her days off and she complains about not losing weight. They all know I'm vegan. Yet they just dismissed it as some sort of a weird special dietary preference. To me, if you want to be fit, ask a person who is fit on how to do it. I like to follow vegan athletes and learn from them.

I remember my husband would have me use his dick to teach me the gears for stick shift.

graceylou comments on Aug 14, 2018:

Ah man, I must be missing something for never have learned to drive manual vehicles.

I find it strange.

graceylou comments on Aug 14, 2018:

It sounds like you have already achieved your full potential, finding a man who matches your ideals and goals and shares your life's passions would just be a bonus, icing on the cake.

As part of my effort to create a tight-nit inner circle loyal only to me so that I may rule this ...

graceylou comments on Aug 14, 2018:

Congrats!! Now you have minions at your bidding!!! Wait, if we don't obey the mandatory thing, will you bring out the chains and the whip (or the silk ties, the blind fold, and the feather)? Let me reconsider.

My baby boy!!

graceylou comments on Aug 14, 2018:

Handsome guy!!! Sneks are so adorable and lovable. Love all 16 of mine!!!

Who do you look like?

graceylou comments on Aug 13, 2018:

Growing up everyone always said I look like my Dad. When I went to my parents’ 50th anniversary party, everyone (who didn’t know who I was) was surprised I’m my parents’ daughter. They said I look nothing like my parents or my brothers. I guess I look like nobody but myself.

How are you using Agnostic.com?

graceylou comments on Aug 13, 2018:

I’m using the site to help me relax. I like browsing posts on different topics and looking at group posts. They are always entertaining. I might comment on a few, vote in the polls. I’ve met a few I’ve gotten to know well and I have private chats with them. I’m here for friends, flirts, and whatever kind of trouble I can get myself into.

Please people please don't kill spiders just have fun capturing them with a cup and a piece of paper...

graceylou comments on Aug 13, 2018:

Like some people have said, leave the spiders alone. They are beneficial in the house (unless they are deadly venomous of course). If you must move house spiders, move them to the basement or a storage room or garage, some place away from people, if you aren't comfortable with them around. I'm a lover of all spiders and would do no harm to any of them.

Congrats to new group owner, @JeremyTaylor.

graceylou comments on Aug 12, 2018:

Woohoo. May be we should ummm celebrate hey Jeremy ?

Girls only respond: Have you ever been tied on a bed?

graceylou comments on Aug 12, 2018:

Of course. I've been tied to many things.

Have you ever made love in a barn full of hay?

graceylou comments on Aug 12, 2018:

I have a barn full of hay and I wouldn't want to make love on that prickly stuff.

At what age did you have your first sexual activity?

graceylou comments on Aug 12, 2018:

I was 25 when I lost my virginity to a guy who was 33. I had liked boys before but more concerned about school and winning scholarships that I didn’t care much about going out with boys or having boyfriends. I just thought that was a distraction I didn’t need and there was no boy smart enough for me. I had a few guys in university who asked me out but since I was top of class and they barely made average grades, no thanks.

Relationships-dating topic Spending time with your date or partner. Cuddle or need space?

graceylou comments on Aug 12, 2018:

Both. If I haven't seen them for awhile and I only have a short time with them, then I would want to be close most of the time, cuddle or something else. If they're around me all the time, I would need my own space at least part of the time.

My first post, took me a lot to even join up.?

graceylou comments on Aug 11, 2018:

I think many who know me would think I would be into swapping, but I don't have any interest in that at all. Never interested in swinging either. I'm not against any of that for other people of course. If you're curious, the only way to find out is to try it out and see how you feel. Like others have said, discuss it thoroughly with your husband and set ground rules. Since I'm non-monogamous, I have plenty of spice in my relationship already. But hey, if you like the idea of swapping, go for it.

Vegan Seafood Is About To Become Big Business--And Not A Moment Too Soon

graceylou comments on Aug 10, 2018:

I have trouble getting excited when new processed fake meats and dairy alternatives are introduced. I know they are great for new vegans and people transitioning into more plant based diets who love meats and dairy. My SO gets excited over this kind of thing as he’s about 90% plant based and is looking to increase that. He even talks to his friends, all big macho guys in trades, to make the transition using vegan alternatives. I don’t complain and I include some in my meals but honestly if I want burgers I make bean patties that look and taste nothing like meat. There are some uses of these alternatives in my cooking but I don’t like depending on them for food. A lot of non-vegans think this stuff is what “vegan food” is and they go yuck they’d never eat that. Omnis don’t realize they already eat vegan food, like fruits, veggies, beans, nuts, grains. And they actually like it.

Good Morning Girls and Boys.

graceylou comments on Aug 10, 2018:

Jason Statham (of course) Vin Diesel (I love my muscle guys) Shemar Moore (yes, I am into shaved heads) Lucas Till (ok, so he's young, but legal, and he turns 28 today, and usually I'm not into blonds) Katrina Law (just throwing her in the mix, cause she's hot!!!)

Plant-Based Foods Are Finding an Omnivorous Customer Base - BloombergQuint

graceylou comments on Aug 8, 2018:

I'm happy to have gotten rid of animal-based milks in my household. I've always hated the taste and I'm lactose intolerant anyhow, but my SO loved it. Now I'm an almond milk girl (I use some coconut milk in baking) and my SO is an almond/coconut milk guy.

Passive aggressive cross stitch masterpiece!! [awkward.com]

graceylou comments on Aug 8, 2018:

Subversive Cross Stitch has a whole bunch of patterns like this. My friend loves doing them. https://shop.subversivecrossstitch.com/collections/all-kits

You can't call yourself an environmentalist and still consume dead animals.

graceylou comments on Aug 8, 2018:

Yup. My friends are concerned about plastic straws, plastic shopping bags, micro beads in beauty products but then they go have a triple cheese burger at a fast food place.

Do you like to dominate your partner or to be dominated?

graceylou comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Be dominated. But yet I tend to top from the bottom. I can switch if asked but I prefer not to be in a Dominant position. In other aspects of my life though I’m very dominant.

OK here's a question for the men: If you had a choice of watching the superbowl uninterrupted or ...

graceylou comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Definitely the trip. Though I’d probably go by myself. Don’t need to be bogged down by other women and their needs. Sex with anyone I can have anytime if I wanted it.

Hi girls and boys.

graceylou comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Ohhhh brought back some lovely memories.

Ladies. What's the ultimate length /size for you?

graceylou comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Yes.

Why did you join this website?

graceylou comments on Aug 5, 2018:

I just thought it might be an interesting place to have intelligent conversations with like-minded people. I was a little apprehensive at first because I wasn't sure if it's supposed to be a dating site because I'm not looking for a relationship, other than friendship and community. Then I saw the non-dating option for those here only for community and I felt a little more relieved. I've been enjoying the ride so far. Nothing really deep in my intentions and reasons. Many times I come here to read posts and comments as entertainment in place of newpapers or TV.

What are two foreign languages that you are interested or least interested in learning?

graceylou comments on Aug 4, 2018:

I'd like to learn Portuguese. I am least likely to want to learn German.

333...I'm only half evil.

graceylou comments on Aug 4, 2018:

I had that on my Belle's dog tag. LOL. She's an adorable Boston Terrier mix but is rather hellish with other dogs.

What is the ONE thing that makes you the happiest?

graceylou comments on Aug 3, 2018:

Just one thing? That’s not easy. I would say the answer to no. 1 would be animals and dance although if I had to choose it would be animals. One thing I wish I had in my life? More time to dance and choreograph. Just more time to devote to dance I guess is what I meant.

What’s the origin of your Agnostic.com name?

graceylou comments on Aug 3, 2018:

Well, my name is Grace. Some call me Gracey (not Gracie). I go by Graceylou when I’m being silly. It sounds like a hick country girl name. I’m a city girl living in the country pretending to be a country girl.

Get rid of religion and become Vegan - would solve a lot of the worlds problems don’t you think?

graceylou comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Yup, those would definitely help a whole heck of a lot. I'm sure most here know how the first relates to solving the world's problems but few would understand how the second solves A LOT of the world's problems.

What is your strangest talent? How did you discover it?

graceylou comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I can impersonate cats and chickens.

Has anyone else had an issue with the messenger today?

graceylou comments on Aug 1, 2018:

It’s been messed up all morning. I had to send messages through the message button in the profiles.

Location envy.

graceylou comments on Aug 1, 2018:

New Orleans. Not really because some members live there or near there although yes I’m envious. No place has drawn me to it like NOLA. I’ve been there twice and it’s drawing me back, tugging at me to go back. I just feel like I belong there. The anything goes attitude I love that. I might retire there in the far future.

So out of boredom . Do you like to sleep in the nude or pajamas or underwear?

graceylou comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I sleep in the nude. Unless I’m at a hotel and alone. Or visiting my parents. It just feels weird to be naked in bed in those places.

This is something I deal with daily: Those of you who have your real name known on here, are ...

graceylou comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I used to hate being called Gracey. Nobody ever called me Gracey except for a now ex-boyfriend. He knew I didn't like it but he kept calling me that, saying that it sounded cute. It made me feel rather immature. But I've changed my mind about it. I now like it. But I insist that it's spelled Gracey not Gracie. When I feel like being silly, I sign myself as Gracey Lacey or Graceylou.

When parents allow their kids to leave pets at their house.

graceylou comments on Jul 30, 2018:

But you gotta admit, hognoses are so darn cute.

I love hanging out in my garage making and fixing things.

graceylou comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I have a sewing room, which has been taken over by my geckos (and tarantulas) so now it's the gecko room, although I still sew there now and then.

What famous person do people think you look like?

graceylou comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Hmmmm. Any random Asian actress or whatever. Cause you know, we all look alike. Dressed in one of my dance outfits, a friend’s daughter said I looked like Mulan.

A woman changing her surname 2 her husband's after marriage; is it constitutional, religious, ...

graceylou comments on Jul 27, 2018:

Customary and traditional but yes outdated, but it’s up to each individual to choose whichever form. I chose a hyphenated last name. My mother never changed hers though people called her by my dad’s last name.

Pros and cons about having a tattoo/tattoos?

graceylou comments on Jul 27, 2018:

Pro: Having amazing art applied to your skin as canvas, having an expression of something that have special meaning to you always with you Con: as have been mentioned, tattoo healing and aftercare can be a pain, especially the itching; allergies, if you are allergic to metals you may want to rethink certain colours (I’m allergic to black, blue, and green) I’m not sure if the fact that tattoos are addictive is a pro or a con. I have 12 tattoos and I won’t stop until I’m pretty much all covered except for my face.

Hakkim, Qadir, Jabbar, Rashid...these are some of the men I know from the Middle East...

graceylou comments on Jul 26, 2018:

I had a middle eastern friend in high school named John. All his friends called him John the Terrorist. I realize now how mean that was but he didn't mind. We were all good friends.

Do you like it when your partner is the dominant one in bed, or do you prefer leading things?

graceylou comments on Jul 26, 2018:

I’m a switch but I prefer to be submissive. In other aspects of my life I’m dominant. In intimate situations I take on the opposite position. Tell me what you want me to do. Tell me what you want me to do to you. Hell, just use me. Mmmmm hmmm. If I’m asked to dominate I can easily do that as well.

Newcomer here.... hi all

graceylou comments on Jul 25, 2018:

Hi. I was born in Indonesia. Welcome.

So, the postman delivers 3 boxes to your door.

graceylou comments on Jul 25, 2018:

Large-a snake, medium-a lizard, small-a tarantula. But I would be suspicious of the postman delivering to my door because I can’t get mail here.

So at what age did you suddenly realise you were getting old me happened at 51 when everything ...

graceylou comments on Jul 25, 2018:

When I was 36 I learned that 36 was the median age of the population. That meant that half the population was younger than I was. That kinda made me feel old. But now at 47 I am in better shape and am stronger and healthier. I feel sort of younger because I can do what some of my younger friends and colleagues aren't capable of doing.