For those people in polyamorous relationships, I'm curious to know if you were poly right from the ...

graceylou comments on Jul 25, 2018:

I don't know if either of those categories fits me. I was already poly before being with my SO, and I continue to be so. It wasn't something he and I planned.

So something has been bothering me the past couple of days.

graceylou comments on Jul 24, 2018:

I am poly as well and in a similar situation like you. But I chose not to select “interested in meeting men” because I can see how some might think I’m misleading them. Being here for community has led to many friendships, a lot of flirts, sharing of fantasies. I have crushes, yes, but the likelihood of actually meeting up is minuscule. Since you’re honest and upfront, I can’t see how you can be said to manipulate. That requires deception. Being poly is hard to explain so may be he’s just not getting it.

What's the worst accidental injury you've given yourself?

graceylou comments on Jul 23, 2018:

Oh, ouch. I had had pneumonia that was a complication of my asthma, which was misdiagnosed by my doctor until I almost recovered (about 4 weeks). I coughed constantly for most of that time, and developed a fever of 105F. Worst accident I gave myself though was a broken little toe. Running too fast around a corner where there's a small table, and someone had put a metal tool box right in front of it. Caught my little pinky toe on it and snap!!! Took about 2 years to completely heal because they could do nothing much about broken toes so I never bothered to have it looked at by a doctor and I just went about life as I normally would (even danced with my broken toe). Another would be when I put myself in a compromising position while trying to load a scaredy horse into a trailer. She was going in finally but I had to remove a lead rope from inside the trailer and that spooked her. My hand got caught between the lead rope she was on and the jagged metal side of the trailer window. Tore up my hand and broke my pinky finger, which again I didn't get seen by a doctor and it healed twisted and crooked. But I'd live.

My last post made me think of something, the next time I saw my older coworker I was already seeing ...

graceylou comments on Jul 22, 2018:

Love the weight of a man on me, especially the bigger guys.

Have you ever been attracted to someone in a position of authority, over you?

graceylou comments on Jul 22, 2018:

I did have a huge crush on a couple of TA’s at the university. I went to their office hours and hung out where I would run into them. But I didn’t really pursue anything further. It was painful for awhile but then I lost interest. When I was a TA I had several guys who would hang around after classes I taught. One I really liked too. We hung out now and then as friends but we knew we liked each other for more than just friendship. We never did cross the line though. Where I worked awhile back, my boss, the owner of the business, used to like hanging around me and chatting me up whenever he came by to check on things. He was always complimenting something. It was a little uncomfortable but I did like the attention. He was always pissy with everyone else but always all smiles to me. If he initiated something more I would likely have gone for it. Again, lines were not crossed.

What do you "think" of - Open Relationships?

graceylou comments on Jul 22, 2018:

I would never survive a monogamous relationship. It would feel entirely unnatural and restrictive to me. There is always some level of openness to my relationships although I’m not interested in connecting with others only for sex.

Do you have activities, art, health routines, social responsibilities that just get put on the back ...

graceylou comments on Jul 21, 2018:

I have to put dance in the back burner while I'm working to open my business. It's been hectic and all the funds have to go into my business for now. When life settles I will go back to dance again. It's my lifeline. Without dance I will go insane.

Just look at this ratato! He thinks all ratties live in a house with chef catered meals and a queen...

graceylou comments on Jul 21, 2018:

Rats are so cute and smart. Sadly, they are illegal to have as pets where I live.

Beyond Meat Triples Production Footprint - This is HUGE!

graceylou comments on Jul 21, 2018:

As much as I’m scared the Beyond Burger would taste like meat, I might actually try it this weekend at A&W (the entire burger as it is is not vegan but you can ask them to not add mayo and sauce I think). I just hope I can eat it and get past the fact that many people can’t tell it apart from meat.

We don't "own" "pets".

graceylou comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I always say they own me. They all get taken care of before I even sit down to eat in the morning.

What was your favorite subject in High School?

graceylou comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Biology.

What kind of animal would you be?

graceylou comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Some might say I'm a cougar. Don't ask.

Only one word.☺

graceylou comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Coffee

What are body parts you find sexy and feel are underappreciated?

graceylou comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Earlobes. Love to nibble them. And on darker skinned men, I’m crazy about that separation between the darker back of the hand and the lighter palm.

Do you ever feel that no one "gets" you?

graceylou comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I prefer that people don’t get me. The things that I do and my lifestyle have some people worry that I might become a social outcast. And I would think, “What’s so bad about that?”

Caption ? Anyone?

graceylou comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Yes, I’m the one responsible for all those missing socks.

Is there a tattoo you wanna get?

graceylou comments on Jul 19, 2018:

My next tattoo will be a dragonfly on my belly upper abdomen area. It’s a ticklish sensitive area for me so I’ve left it bare all this time. My next one after that will be one or more starfish on my elbow continuing my shark half sleeve ocean scene. The elbow is supposed to be one of the most painful places for a tattoo. But I’m ready for it.

TATTOOS ... what do you think of tattoos?

graceylou comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I LOVE tattoos. I have 12 of them myself and will definitely get more (always planning for the next one). Never regretted any of them. Everyone I work with has at least one tattoo, and one girl has more than I do. Workwise, you can always get a tattoo in a place that can be covered up. No big deal. Most tattoos are very personal anyway so people you know may have tattoos in less visible places and you might not even know it. I don't worry about health risks because I go to reputable tattoo studios only, and most of my tattoos were done by an artist I trust. Also, you get what you pay for. Tattoos are ungodly expensive to get here, so you must really want a tattoo and have put a lot of consideration into it before getting a tattoo. I don't care if some people don't like tattoos, as long as they don't mock those who want/have tattoos. There are some misconceptions out there about tattoos that get spread around by those who don't like tattoos and those really bother me.

How important is having the same taste in music for a relationship?

graceylou comments on Jul 18, 2018:

For me it’s less the genre of the music but more individual songs whatever the genre. So I have quite an eclectic music collection with random songs most people probably have never heard of. It’s not likely that I wouldn’t like at least some of the music the other person listens to. A friend of mine has been trying to get me to like the heavy metal bands he loves. Granted most of them I couldn’t listen to for more than a minute. But one I just fell in love with and I’ve become obsessed with their music.

Gross on any level ...

graceylou comments on Jul 18, 2018:

We don’t have that chain in Canada and I’ve never seen their commercials. But that just sounds horrible.

Anyone else getting creeped out because there's loads of older men hovering over your profile ????

graceylou comments on Jul 17, 2018:

I've accidentally hovered so many times I feel like apologizing everytime I do that. Ooops. I've even hovered myself. Although I wouldn't mind older men hovering over me, just saying. LOL. Didn't know I could turn off hover mode. Just did and it feels such a relief not to deal with accidental hovers.

Which door will you open?

graceylou comments on Jul 17, 2018:

No. 2 for sure. I could fund a lot of my projects with it, including my business, animals shelters, farm sanctuaries. Don't need no. 1. A good business partner or partner in crime, sure; soulmate nope. No. 3, I wouldn't know what to do with it.

Would you like to?

graceylou comments on Jul 17, 2018:

Sure why not. I’ve been known to do crazier things.

How to beat the heat in a healthy way! :-)

graceylou comments on Jul 16, 2018:

My SO makes his own frozen dessert with frozen ripe bananas, coconut almond milk, coconut sugar, and vanilla extract. He makes me mine with frozen mangoes, almond milk, maple syrup, and vanilla extract (because I cannot have bananas). My formerly carnivorous SO is now a connoisseur of plant-based frozen desserts!!!

What length of hair do you prefer on your significant other?

graceylou comments on Jul 16, 2018:

I don't actually really care what hairstyle they choose. But I do have a thing for shaved/bald heads. Still, hairstyle isn't all that important to me.

The sign at one of the churches in town says “God loves you whether you like it or not”.

graceylou comments on Jul 16, 2018:

This is the only church in town that puts up signs with sayings other than just worship times and special events. Some of the things that they put up make irate. They get pretty aggressive, and some are somewhat sexist in my opinion (something to do with men are this and women are that, or mothers are this and fathers are that). Unfortunately, I have to drive past this church on the way to and from work. UGH.

Let's get personal: What is your worst vice? Mine is smoking cigarettes and eating sugar.

graceylou comments on Jul 15, 2018:

Men and animals.

From a 42-year-old man I didn't get a chance to have children.

graceylou comments on Jul 15, 2018:

My father had me when he was 41, my younger brother when he was 43. Is there a right time for a man to have children? I don't know. As a woman I don't ever feel the need to have children, and at 47 happily child free.

If I go to Canada and declare that our President is killing this country, of which I am a citizen, ...

graceylou comments on Jul 15, 2018:

For a small fee, I can go ask him for you. Eh?

I have never been known for my self control, especially when it comes to food.

graceylou comments on Jul 15, 2018:

Are you allergic to tree nuts? If not may be try nut butters like almond butter or cashew butter (and treats made with these). Obviously not exactly peanuty tasting but somewhat similar. There are nut free and allergy safe candies out there too that are quite delicious.

I just need to rant.

graceylou comments on Jul 14, 2018:

Thank you everyone. I think my older brother and I have a plan of sorts. I’m also going to talk to my younger brother. I’m tired today so I will put all that in the back burner until Monday.

I just need to rant.

graceylou comments on Jul 14, 2018:

Thanks for the comments everyone. I have to work early this morning so I can't get to everybody's comments. Just to clarify further, this is now an urgent matter for a number of reasons. The main reason is that my sister-in-law decided to take over care of my parents and is forcing rushed changes that she thinks my parents need but they don't actually want. She claims knowledge and background in mental health and elder issues and she thinks she knows what's best for my parents, MY parents. She is trying to convey to social services and medical authorities that my brothers (including her husband) and I do not care enough or are neglecting our parents, and it could be a very dangerous situation if we lost control over the care of our parents. The fact is, we the children know our parents best and know what they are comfortable and not comfortable with, and we know what can or cannot be done due to finances. I'm trying to make sure that the things that are done for their care is what they want, and whether we think it's the best for them or not comes second. My sister-in-law seems to indicate that she will report us to the authorities for neglect if we don't agree with the changes that she wants to force on my parents now. We agree there needs to be changes but we need to go slower and give my parents time. So, this is the biggest issue right now: my sis in law's urgency and threats against me and my older brother, with my younger brother basically just going along with his wife.

Save me. I'm surrounded by narcissists ?

graceylou comments on Jul 13, 2018:

I grew up with narcissists, my mother and older brother. I know how you feel. Family, unfortunately, you can't ever really get away from.

Does “size"matter?

graceylou comments on Jul 13, 2018:

I'm a smidgen over 5'3, so shorter men would have to be quite short. I don't really care about height, not really. There was a man shorter than I am that I found very attractive and we got along well. Those I've been with range from 5'7 to 6'2. Generally, I tend to be most attracted to men who are 5'10 or taller.

Question of the day: What are you craving?

graceylou comments on Jul 13, 2018:

A nice juicy pineapple.

Bohemian Rhapsody New movie about QUEEN coming in IMAX [youtu.be]

graceylou comments on Jul 13, 2018:

That looks really good. And you know I love Queen!!

I am an Arabic language teacher at a major university in Detroit, the idea that the Arabic language ...

graceylou comments on Jul 13, 2018:

That’s so interesting. I learned a little bit of Egyptian Arabic because I’m a belly dancer. I listen to some Arabic pop music also.

Penises.

graceylou comments on Jul 12, 2018:

What? Who are these women who hate penises? Mmmm. I think penises go great with my morning coffee.

I always hate going to places where I have to give them my age or date of birth.

graceylou comments on Jul 11, 2018:

I don’t mind if someone says I look young for my age but looking good for my age I take as a different thing. It implies may be I should not look “good”. Or those my age can’t look good normally. And for professionals in their professional position should not even comment. I will be turning 50 in 3 years. That should be a lot of fun!!!

I've been a Vegan for over 2 decades.

graceylou comments on Jul 11, 2018:

Oh yeah, I have been thinking about this recently. I'm not infallible and at my age have several health issues that are minor compared to most people around the same age. But I mention I have to see my doctor about this or that or have to have a procedure done, and people always comment, Oh, is it because you're vegan? My reply is, No, it's because I'm vegan that I'm not worse. My health is better than most people my age. Fortunately, my doctor is nor averse to plant-based diet. My iron level is just an itsy bit lower than the expected normal range this time around (everything else is perfect), but that is common for women around my age. One of my friends, and my sister in law, are both low iron, though both are fully omnis. My doctor says it's probably why I feel tired all the time and fatigued. Ummmm, did I ever say I feel tired all the time and fatigued? Hell, no, I'm bouncing off the walls as it is and have the energy of a 25 year old. He wants to put me on prescription iron pills, at least try it for one month. I refused (mostly because I don't know if the pills are vegan), and told him I would just eat more green leafy veggies. Done!!!

Where does HGTV find these people?

graceylou comments on Jul 11, 2018:

They'd probably need extra room for the 9-person live-in cleaning crew for a house that size. Even if the house is 2000 sq. ft, it's still a massive amount of space for 2 adults and a child. My house is 1800 sq. ft (two storeys, so total of 3600 sq. ft. of living space), 6 bedrooms, 2 baths, plenty of space for two humans and 53 indoor critters.

Who should make the first move?

graceylou comments on Jul 10, 2018:

May be try not to overthink it too much. There is no formula I’m afraid. Go with your gut. Definitely hint at interest before messaging though.

What's your favorite name?

graceylou comments on Jul 10, 2018:

Madeline-just a pretty antebellum sort of name Richard-sounds very regal But just for fun, I also love Leia and Kylo. One of my dogs is named Leia. I have a stuffie yorkie named Kylo.

Please help pay for the children I can't afford but want anyhow so I can raise them in poverty and ...

graceylou comments on Jul 10, 2018:

Kinda reminds me of all those people who want free puppies or dogs because they can't afford to buy one, and they want the dogs to come with food and beds, and to be delivered to their home because they don't have a vehicle. Except kids are much more expensive.

Do you watch it?

graceylou comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Hah! I’m obsessed with ANW. I say one day, that is my goal. Don’t laugh.

Do you sleep with your bedroom door open or closed?

graceylou comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Open partly so the dogs and cats and come and go as they want, partly because despite having 5 large windows in the bedroom, none of them could be opened, so it gets stifling hot in there in the summertime if the doors were closed. And, I'm claustrophobic so I leave doors open anywhere if I could.

It's Monday morning. Why aren't you at work?

graceylou comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I work elsewhere on weekends and work at my own place on my property the rest of the week. Technically I’m always at work.

Math phobia?

graceylou comments on Jul 9, 2018:

My mom did the same to me. Didn’t understand how I could possibly not get math. I was locked up in a room a lot to do extra math exercises. Until 4th grade. Suddenly math dawned on me and I learned it like it was the easiest thing. Started taking the more challenging classes and later in life tutored students in math and sciences. Now I love math and I find joy in math. I find joy in helping students learn math and not fear it anymore. I used to have a math teacher who’s motto was “Math is fun”. I believe it now.

What devices and/or services do use to watch tv?

graceylou comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Satellite TV. Nothing else available out here in the boonies. Anything streaming doesn't really work well. But I don't watch TV that much anyway.

[facebook.com] nudibranch

graceylou comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Nudies are so wonderful!!!

Down from 237 to 209 now.

graceylou comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Right on, John. I hope you keep going on the right track. We will all be here to lend support.

What kind of person are you a sucker for?

graceylou comments on Jul 7, 2018:

Charming intelligent nerdy puppy dog types.

It sure is hot out there but at least it isn't snowing.

graceylou comments on Jul 7, 2018:

Shhhhh, don't jinx it.

I have a frilled neck lizard and a black cap conure anyone have any similar pets here

graceylou comments on Jul 7, 2018:

No birds at this time but had them in the past (including a mynah). I do have 16 snakes, 5 geckos, and 4 tarantulas. And a whole assortment of mammalians.

[facebook.com] I need one of these

graceylou comments on Jul 7, 2018:

Well, it does look and act a bit dog-like. I wonder if my groomer would notice.

10 Disgusting Facts About Fast Food-Do You Eat It?

graceylou comments on Jul 7, 2018:

Nope. I don't eat fast food. I don't go to fast food restaurants. Nope.

What Is one thing I can do to improve or to make my profile more appealing to women? : ) thanks!

graceylou comments on Jul 7, 2018:

John, tell us what appeals to you, and that would appeal to women who share your passions. I know you love music and movies. You include that in your profile but you should focus on those things you love. Passion and love for things are contagious. Be contagious. Then everything else doesn’t matter. None of us is perfect; we all have our shortcomings. But it’s what you make with your life no matter what that really tells us who you are. From what I’ve known of you, you are a good kind man. Show us what makes you happy, that’s all I’m saying. That smile in your profile pic. That is a good start. Go with that. (And I just noticed what you added to your profile ?)

I can see the shirt in my not so distant future!

graceylou comments on Jul 6, 2018:

It will go very fast. Post us a pic when the t-shirt arrives.

What non-materialistic things do you do to increase your happiness?

graceylou comments on Jul 6, 2018:

Reading. Dancing. Playing with my animals. Cooking and baking vegan meals and treats.

Sparked by another member's question: what are your thoughts on girls calling their guys "daddy"?

graceylou comments on Jul 5, 2018:

None of my business what people call each other in relationship. I’ve been in that type of relationship in the past and what went on between us was nobody else’s business.

Does anyone else love their pet fish?

graceylou comments on Jul 4, 2018:

I loved my betta Viggo. He was more like a dog than a fish. He was always so happy when I was around. He had anxiety and was a tail biter. He needed everything to stay the same so I tried to put everything exactly as it was when I cleaned his tank decor. He hated me being away. I left the TV on when I left the house. I had to leave a light on in the hallway because he hated total darkness at night. After Viggo passed away I got another betta. Vaako really hated me. He was probably the angriest betta I know. But I loved him anyway. He was quite a character.

Why do men want younger women?

graceylou comments on Jul 4, 2018:

I don't know, but I'm glad they do. I adore much older men. But younger men have pursued me as well, and they tell me they prefer mature women. Now I've got one of each and that makes me a happy woman.

Going back to being Canadian

graceylou comments on Jul 4, 2018:

We always like to rock your boat.

I as a retired older gentleman, I see fun and sarcasm in everything ! I am sarcastic and make fun ...

graceylou comments on Jul 4, 2018:

I don’t think it’s realistic to expect all to have the same attitude as you but so far I haven’t seen anything you posted or commented as “crossing the line” and worth reporting. Some people are a little too sensitive and a little too trigger happy with the report/flag button. I think you make light of things rather than make fun of things. Some of your comments may be off colour but how offensive I guess that’s subjective. Younger generation? There’s a younger generation here? I barely notice.

My sister had her cat shaved for the summer LOL poor Kitty

graceylou comments on Jul 4, 2018:

That looks like a lion cut. It’s a close cut but not bald so I don’t think it’s detrimental to the cat especially if matting was an issue. Their hair grows back quickly enough.

I have a second home on my farm and I am thinking of making much needed repairs and then putting it...

graceylou comments on Jul 3, 2018:

Go for it. Sounds like you might have to put quite a bit into the repairs but it’s a good investment in the long run. People do seek out rustic country getaways. Although not me because I live on farmland in the country with my horses LOL. I seek out big cities for my vacation. But there is a lot of general appeal in country/farm getaways. I do have a business on my property but I “rent out” to dogs for their country getaways. LOL.

Beyond Meat Triples Production Footprint | Blog | Beyond Meat

graceylou comments on Jul 3, 2018:

I have seen how Beyond Meat products are presented as meals, and actually my stomach turns because they could look so much like the real thing. They're not for me (I make my own bean burgers) but it's good that this is available more widely for others. From what I heard, a lot of restaurants always sell out of Beyond Meat burgers, etc.

If you were to go to a ComicCon like convention, what superhero, cartoon character etc.

graceylou comments on Jul 3, 2018:

Nyssa al Ghul (as interpreted on the Arrow TV show). But I dressed up as a Ninja Turtle instead to meet the Arrow himself (because he starred in the NinjaTurtles movie).

What's your favorite tattoo?

graceylou comments on Jul 3, 2018:

I really admire those Japanese style tattoos that cover the back or even an entire body. We had some Japanese artists visiting at the last tattoo convention I went to and their work was phenomenal. There is no way I would have the patience to sit through several sessions for such a tattoo but I can still admire them. My artist does some Japanese style tattoo work. One day, may be.

Advice for a first time dog owner. Go!

graceylou comments on Jul 3, 2018:

Do not name your dog Cujo. No really. Names can affect how a dog is perceived by others and in turn this can affect your dog’s behaviour. I work with dogs. I’ve worked with hundreds of dogs. Training is important from early on. There are so many dogs that are out of control. Appropriate amount of exercise for high energy breeds is important. Look into doggy daycare if you must leave a high energy active dog for long hours. Establish a good relationship with a vet and have regular checkups and vaccinations done. Get pet insurance that fits your needs and budget. When of appropriate age, spay/neuter your dog.

Does age matter to you when it comes to love or dating?

graceylou comments on Jul 3, 2018:

Nope, not at all. There could be issues sure but issues can arise from many other sources. I have experience with very large age gaps.

Baby lizards or a water park. Pick one.

graceylou comments on Jul 3, 2018:

Baby lizards, no question.

What is something you have never done?

graceylou comments on Jul 3, 2018:

I have never smoked a cigarette or done drugs. I have never found the treasure at the end of the rainbow. I have never found awesome people on Agnostic.com. Oh wait, sorry, I have!!!!

O.K., I am a true Canadian, and I don't get it

graceylou comments on Jul 2, 2018:

That’s the North American house hippo. From the commercials about how you should not believe everything you see on television.

I don't often use the "c" word.

graceylou comments on Jul 2, 2018:

I almost didn't open the link. These days I find it hard to look at, read, watch anything that relates to horrifying things people do to animals. I'm sure most people are outraged at the killing of this beautiful wild animal then they would go gorge on chicken wings and bleeding steaks.

Just had to share this with everyone more hypocrisy I was talking to customer the other day and said...

graceylou comments on Jul 2, 2018:

Since we're all here, let's have a massive orgy, immoral heathens!!

Does anyone get offended by the term selfish being used describe them and their decision not be a ...

graceylou comments on Jul 2, 2018:

Yeah, I don't get the selfish thing. How is not having something be considered selfish? I think creating extra people to be a burden on the government, social welfare, the education system, infrastructure, etc. because I want to pass on my genetics and have little monsters around is the selfish choice. My mother likes to point out to other people (especially if they have children) that I don't have kids, like it's a malady. She herself doesn't like children in my opinion and always blames us for ruining her figure. We were a bother to her most of our lives.

All I can say is WOW ?

graceylou comments on Jul 2, 2018:

Well, people do pee in both.

Being an "animal lover" means ALL animals.

graceylou comments on Jul 2, 2018:

Well I do have to take the life of plants but as vegans we take fewer plant lives than non-vegans.

I applaud all restaurants that have gone "child free".

graceylou comments on Jul 2, 2018:

When I flew recently at the airport bathroom a mom was changing a toddler and he was being upset and beating her up. Outside a couple laden with luggage and strollers had to deal with three screaming crying little children. I was so glad I was only traveling with my stuffy monkey.

What’s the worst or most boring job you’ve ever had?

graceylou comments on Jul 1, 2018:

Dipping wire ends in flux at an electronics assembly factory (or I think that was what I was doing). My brother worked on their computers there and got me the job to make extra money to pay for undergrad courses, so I put up with it.

Are Autistic people are more likely to hold atheistic views?

graceylou comments on Jul 1, 2018:

My friend’s adult son is autistic, quite high functioning. He goes to church and hangs out with friends from his church groups. His parents don’t go to church. I’m not quite sure if he really gets the concept of God and religion but he enjoys the company of his friends. He’s quite social for an autistic individual.

My cat loves me. I'm definitely his human. (Husband took this picture this morning)

graceylou comments on Jul 1, 2018:

He looks like my Vinny. Though it’s my Tiger who demands love in the morning.

If you are vegan/vegetarian, is it important that your partner is too?

graceylou comments on Jun 30, 2018:

In the past it didn’t bother me if the other person was an omni. Now, I would not be able to eat with them at the same table. If they want meat dishes they will have to cook them themselves. I cook only vegan dishes. They are welcome to eat what I cook or they can make something else. Normally I don’t eat at a formal dining table to eat anyway.

Making your own fresh fruit/herb water drinks is better than drinking the store bought brands which ...

graceylou comments on Jun 30, 2018:

Those look so refreshingly delicious (though anything with citrus fruits I can only admire from afar). I make a lot of my own foods because I know what I put in them. I really enjoy making my own fruit jams. Easy 3 ingredient jams. Just fruits (fresh is best), chia seeds, and whatever sweetener you like, which can be optional. Yesterday I saw a video on FB on making homemade nut butters. They look so good. I will be making some once I get a better food processor.

So when you stare at a woman, for five seconds, and they say you are sexually harrasing them,then ...

graceylou comments on Jun 29, 2018:

There was a video, I think a UK one, that a friend shared on FB. It was about a woman in a bus and a man sitting a bit aways looking at her. Not like crazy ogling but that looking a bit longer than just a glance. The woman looked distressed. And another man was thinking whether he should do something. And he did; he blocked the other guy's view of her. REALLY!!! I feel it goes too far. It makes women look like weaklings and potential victims needing men and society's protection. Being stared at, whistled at, honked at, or even followed by a vehicle on a busy street during the daytime never bothered me. I can fend for myself thank you. There are real cases of harassment and abuse. I would prefer resources are directed at these cases rather than making a big deal of some guy staring at a woman in a bus. If it's at night, she's alone, and he follows her out of the bus and down the street, that's something else.

My beloved mutt, Nigel. dogs

graceylou comments on Jun 29, 2018:

So cute and happy.

Some memes to use.... feel free to share/post on social media :-)

graceylou comments on Jun 29, 2018:

Don’t you just love it when omnis complain that vegans feel superior to others, when it is because we don’t feel superior to others that we choose this lifestyle.

Only in Canada you say?

graceylou comments on Jun 29, 2018:

I see double double.

Once upon a time there was a beautiful virgin princess in an ivory tower.

graceylou comments on Jun 28, 2018:

I think I would prefer naked and in chains.

I’m from Michigan. Can we please make Michigan part of Canada?

graceylou comments on Jun 28, 2018:

Check out Kananaskis Country and the Canmore area just outside of Banff. It’s less touristy than Banff itself but still very close to Banff. As far as I know I’m the only one here from Alberta. I could be wrong though.

yeah vegans!

graceylou comments on Jun 27, 2018:

WootWoot!!!

CAUTION! Something Ugly and mortal this way comes! Sorry didn't mean too hurt your eyes.

graceylou comments on Jun 27, 2018:

The tiny pic on my phone, before I actually clicked to open this post, I thought was of a meerkat. I’m not sure if that is a compliment or not. I like meerkats.

This is my zucchini bread recipe that is super simple and I've shared over in the Garden Group ...

graceylou comments on Jun 27, 2018:

Would apple sauce work instead of banana paste? Usually in baking (or making pancakes/waffles) I use apple sauce instead of banana because of my banana allergy. I want to make zucchini bread so badly.

Site is dropping the word S U G A R .

graceylou comments on Jun 27, 2018:

This site does mysterious things. Random words go missing despite being edited back so many times. It gets frustrating.

My 16 year old called me at 11:30 because he locked his keys in his car.

graceylou comments on Jun 27, 2018:

Awwww. Poor baby. Thank you for trying to help. Generally baby wild bunnies don’t make it without mom. They are extremely delicate. You did all you could.

Just wondering about veganism- because of a really zealous and super opinionated new friend of ...

graceylou comments on Jun 27, 2018:

Vegan 8 years and never looked back. What got me making the change was the inconsistency in the thinking that it’s wrong to eat cats and dogs but ok to eat pigs and cows. They are all animals. Are we so arrogant as to label some animals companions and others food based on our arbitrary desires. I did not become vegan for health reasons. But I am healthier, stronger, full of energy. It takes time to learn to live vegan (it’s not just about food) but once you get the hang of it, it’s a joyous way of life. I do not crave any meats, dairy, eggs, or any animal products. I don’t really push veganism to my friends but I think it’s fair to share facts and research materials on my social media pages. I also love to share recipes of delicious easy to make vegan foods to show one can enjoy a variety of wonderful dishes without using animal products. It can be challenging for new vegans but there is a lot of support from longtime vegans and a lot of resources available for those interested.

Can you be an Atheist/Agnostic and have a Conservative stance?

graceylou comments on Jun 26, 2018:

I know many conservative-leaning people who are non-religious and liberal-leaning people who are religious. I simply would avoid discussions of politics (or social issues politicized) among my friends and coworkers. I am way way way left leaning I might as well be horizontal but I have conservative minded friends. Best to avoid the slippery slope. We all have the right to vote and should use it. Of course, I’m Canadian as well. Religion as you said is not part of politics as much as in the States.

This is a dessert... yes it is: [laughingsquid.com]

graceylou comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Have you seen the one that looks like a cat litter box?

Your movie title? Mine is, The starry killer whale from deep space. Lol

graceylou comments on Jun 25, 2018:

The Starry Detective of the Sausage. That makes no sense whatsoever. Perhaps a surrealist slightly pornographic B movie straight to video.