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What do you do to look better in photos? Apart from turning your back.
graceylou comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Not show myself smile with my teeth visible. I look pretty creepy and sometimes downright scary.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
@Sticks48 Seriously, I can look like a maniacal serial murderer crossed with a banshee succubus.
When AI and Android tech gets sophisticated enough to mimic your dream partner what will happen to ...
graceylou comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Why not? Would work well for people who freak out at real human touch, like me.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
@Sticks48 Because they aren’t real humans. Some people like me with OCD have trouble with being touched. By people. I’ve worked hard to get to the point of being ok touching or being touched by people I’m comfortable with. May be it's easier for me when they are not humans even if they appear and act humanlike.
One of the classiest and sexiest ladies on the planet, in my opinion.
Science-guy comments on Oct 20, 2018:
“(Pic changed to avoid further drama which some people just have to start)” What? WOW! Some people need to get a life.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
No kidding eh?
What is the most embarrassing style you've ever worn/had?
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Being a teenager in the 80s, I think it was all embarrassing. I did the Madonna style thing with lace everything. Had my lace headband, socks, gloves, tops. And all the neon colours I could get my hands on.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
@StrongHappySilly Yippee. Car pool!!! I’ll take the back seat.
What is the most embarrassing style you've ever worn/had?
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Being a teenager in the 80s, I think it was all embarrassing. I did the Madonna style thing with lace everything. Had my lace headband, socks, gloves, tops. And all the neon colours I could get my hands on.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
@GipsyOfNewSpain Not really. Some of my classmates were more into heavy metal and dressed appropriately for that genre.
One of the classiest and sexiest ladies on the planet, in my opinion.
Olnoseven comments on Oct 20, 2018:
She's great but that costuming as an Egyptian thing is distasteful as hell. Echoes of when people like Elizabeth Taylor dressing up as Cleopatra when actual dark skinned people weren't allowed to be in such roles on TV.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
This is similar to most costumes people wear for dressing up today. Heck, I've dressed up similarly as well for a previous Halloween. I'm sure some people would be offended by some costuming choices for whatever reason. Sexy nun costumes? I'm sure that would ruffle some feather.
One of the classiest and sexiest ladies on the planet, in my opinion.
Anonbene comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Who is it?
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
See below. I will add a note to my post.
One of the classiest and sexiest ladies on the planet, in my opinion.
Cutiebeauty comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Who dat?
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
Monica Bellucci, Italian actress.
I can relate...
graceylou comments on Oct 20, 2018:
That is so me. LOL.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
@Sticks48 Close is nice. Too close is suffocating. Distance isn’t always a bad thing and I keep long distance relationships well. I’ve travelled as far as England. One of my partners would travel from Ontario. I would likely travel to NYC in the near future.
BDSM - BD/DS/SM - Thoughts this morning .
graceylou comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Mmmmm. Mind fuck. Yesssss. I think I’m a lot like you. Pain, bondage, and toys and tools are secondary to the special connection. Some degree of humiliation I do need, I would say. But I completely get what you are saying.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
@FlippantLlama Confidence is a big one. I would go as far as arrogance, as long as there is substance to back it up. Curve balls thrown in my path. Desire to explore our raw base animal nature without social inhibitions. And many elements that can’t be put into words.
I can relate...
graceylou comments on Oct 20, 2018:
That is so me. LOL.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
@Sticks48 I do and I have others too but most of the time I’m just alone and feel lonely. Though if others come too close I tend to push them away.
I think I'm getting off here. Anyone want to cum along?
kmdskit3 comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Would Smackover (Arkansas) get you there sooner so you could be a Screamer (Alabama)? http://mentalfloss.com/article/502251/funniest-town-name-all-50-states
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
I think I would prefer Rough and Ready (California). But I draw the limit at Slickpoo (Idaho).
What is the most embarrassing style you've ever worn/had?
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Being a teenager in the 80s, I think it was all embarrassing. I did the Madonna style thing with lace everything. Had my lace headband, socks, gloves, tops. And all the neon colours I could get my hands on.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
@StrongHappySilly I’m taking a whole load...of people with me.
What is the most embarrassing style you've ever worn/had?
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Being a teenager in the 80s, I think it was all embarrassing. I did the Madonna style thing with lace everything. Had my lace headband, socks, gloves, tops. And all the neon colours I could get my hands on.
graceylou replies on Oct 20, 2018:
@StrongHappySilly I was more into the early Madonna style, the Like a Virgin look.
This one has been practically and literally attached to me lately.
OldGoat43 comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Bobby is my orange Manx who just turned eight years. Last month he jumped out of the third floor window and since then he has lost half his body weight and a lot of his fur. He wants to cling to me all the time, climbing up my clothes to be hugged. He's eating twice as much as usual and gaining some...
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@OldGoat43 could have neurological issues. Or anxiety may be too.
This one has been practically and literally attached to me lately.
OldGoat43 comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Bobby is my orange Manx who just turned eight years. Last month he jumped out of the third floor window and since then he has lost half his body weight and a lot of his fur. He wants to cling to me all the time, climbing up my clothes to be hugged. He's eating twice as much as usual and gaining some...
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
I have an orange manx too, Vinny. He demands attention too but he doesn't usually snuggle or sleep with me. He usually bugs me when I'm on my laptop.
What is the most embarrassing style you've ever worn/had?
Donotbelieve comments on Oct 19, 2018:
No pic, but I went through a goth phase.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Donotbelieve I guess I would have to (given that grace is my name).
What is the most embarrassing style you've ever worn/had?
Donotbelieve comments on Oct 19, 2018:
No pic, but I went through a goth phase.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Donotbelieve Oh I don't know. I'm kinda old now. LOL. But if the mood strikes....
What is the most embarrassing style you've ever worn/had?
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Being a teenager in the 80s, I think it was all embarrassing. I did the Madonna style thing with lace everything. Had my lace headband, socks, gloves, tops. And all the neon colours I could get my hands on.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@TristanNuvo Oh my gosh. Stirrups pants, oversized t-shirt with those big hideous assymmetrical belts, pastel or neon colours, shoulder pads. Yikes.
This one has been practically and literally attached to me lately.
Booklover comments on Oct 19, 2018:
I used to have one that way, I used to call him my little Klingon because he always wanted to stick to me, cling on. Lol
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Booklover LOL. Sometimes people don't believe I have any cats at all, and I have 15!!!! They would disappear completely when I have guests. A few might come out eventually. Most were feral or strays so I can understand they don't trust strangers.
What is the most embarrassing style you've ever worn/had?
Donotbelieve comments on Oct 19, 2018:
No pic, but I went through a goth phase.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
I went through a goth phase too!!! Wore all black all the time. Dark make up, dark lipstick. Actually, now and again I still dress like that.
Which was your first cell phone? ( mine was 16) ??
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
No. 18. I was late getting onto the cell phone bandwagon.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Sheannutt I told people that I didn't want to be disturbed by calls when I'm not at home. Now, I freak out if I don't have my cell with me at all times. It's my only phone now (other than the wireless home phone lines for my business).
Hi just got a beautiful cat at the Mohawk-Hudson Animal Shelter in Albany, NY Today.
Booklover comments on Oct 19, 2018:
beautiful, beautiful, tux cat. Boring name though how many cats with white feet are named Boots or Mittens. Lol. She looks young to me.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Booklover Mittens was feral. Her feral mom we called Frosty because it was a cold frosty day when we first saw her. Then I found a kitten in the dog house dying of cold, so we took him in. I called him Popsicle. Then we found Frosty had two other kittens and we called them Mittens and Muffs. We managed to trap the kittens but never got the mom; she disappeared. Popsicle and Muffs were adopted by friends. No one was interested in the mostly black cat, so we kept Mittens.
This one has been practically and literally attached to me lately.
Booklover comments on Oct 19, 2018:
I used to have one that way, I used to call him my little Klingon because he always wanted to stick to me, cling on. Lol
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
He'd snuggle with anybody. My friends come over and he's been snuggled with them, even if he doesn't know them. My cat Smokey, who's now passed away, was a stray cat who lived on my property since before I moved here. I just wanted to get him neutered and return him outside but he was too cuddly and he ended up being an indoor cat at my house. He would be on anyone's lap in an instant.
Hi just got a beautiful cat at the Mohawk-Hudson Animal Shelter in Albany, NY Today.
Booklover comments on Oct 19, 2018:
beautiful, beautiful, tux cat. Boring name though how many cats with white feet are named Boots or Mittens. Lol. She looks young to me.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
Haha. My tuxedo with white feet is named Mittens.
I lost my first friend on here - they blocked me without telling me why, even after we'd had many ...
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Do you know you’re blocked or might they just be taking a break from the site? I had to take a break from the site and paused my account. It removed all my comments from posts. I know I had a few friends thinking I blocked them.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Sticks48 I know. And I had thought someone blocked me too but he just took a break from the site.
I lost my first friend on here - they blocked me without telling me why, even after we'd had many ...
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Do you know you’re blocked or might they just be taking a break from the site? I had to take a break from the site and paused my account. It removed all my comments from posts. I know I had a few friends thinking I blocked them.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@PolyWolf Sorry to hear that. Happens to all of us.
This one has been practically and literally attached to me lately.
Mokvon comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Poor baby. I hope she is feeling better soon.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
He’s feeling fine. He just likes to snuggle.
This one has been practically and literally attached to me lately.
Sheannutt comments on Oct 19, 2018:
? Pretty Kitty hope she/he gets to feeling better soon.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
Oh he’s perfectly fine. It’s just his nature to want to snuggle close.
This one has been practically and literally attached to me lately.
Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Oct 19, 2018:
At least its not fatal.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
It’s only a benign growth.
Start a new fad.
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Can you be sexy just by being naked?
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Sticks48 I can help you keep it up.
Start a new fad.
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Can you be sexy just by being naked?
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Sticks48 Now who’s the tease?
Start a new fad.
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Can you be sexy just by being naked?
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Sticks48 LOL. Yes it does. Sometimes you have to be careful what you type or you might end up with unintentional emoji.
Start a new fad.
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Can you be sexy just by being naked?
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Sticks48 Slow isn’t always a bad thing.
Start a new fad.
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Can you be sexy just by being naked?
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Sticks48 You never know. ?
Start a new fad.
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Can you be sexy just by being naked?
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Sticks48 There’s a lot of dress up I didn’t include in the pics.
Start a new fad.
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Can you be sexy just by being naked?
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@Sticks48 Oh I don’t know about that. Besides, I like playing dress up.
Start a new fad.
graceylou comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Can you be sexy just by being naked?
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@HardBlues69 Only with the right attitude.
Who's your Celebrity Crush or crushes?
graceylou comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Jason Statham, Vin Diesel, Jason Momoa, Shemar Moore, David Giuntoli (of Grimm), Luke Evans. Lucas Till.
graceylou replies on Oct 19, 2018:
@tacomaa6 I’m not sure. May be they are more into the intellectual types. I like my muscled eye candies. Not saying these guys aren’t intelligent. I like action movies and shows so I tend to go for the actors in them.
Happy Canada pot day! Today Canada will become the largest country in the world ...
graceylou comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Legalization of cannabis in Canada is a jackpot (no pun intended) for the government. Now the government controls the sale and use of marijuana and collects a hefty tax on it. There are so many regulations and they differ province to province and municipality to municipality. People are going to be ...
graceylou replies on Oct 18, 2018:
@JackPedigo And each city and town also decides further what their regulations are. Travel across the border to the US will be a mess as well. The US is already talking about not allowing Canadians who work in the cannabis industry to come across the border.
Ever wish you could be the life of the party, the person everyone wants to get close to?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
Would it help if I were naked while I do this?
graceylou replies on Oct 16, 2018:
@TheAstroChuck If they interacted with me may be they would wish they didn’t. I don’t think I fit with them like best buddies but for the most part we all get along.
Ever wish you could be the life of the party, the person everyone wants to get close to?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
Would it help if I were naked while I do this?
graceylou replies on Oct 16, 2018:
@TheAstroChuck I don’t see why. I have little in common with the farmer and rancher folks. But I do run a business so I have to remain relatively civil.
Ever wish you could be the life of the party, the person everyone wants to get close to?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
Would it help if I were naked while I do this?
graceylou replies on Oct 16, 2018:
@TheAstroChuck I live about 45 min east of the city in rural Beaver County. I lived in the city about 8 years ago. It just got too crowded over the years so I moved out here where I have almost 20 acres. I had always been more of a loner even in the city. I stayed home mostly or I go places alone. I do have a few friends I might go out with a couple of times a month. I danced more as well back then. After moving out here I’ve become more of a recluse. I have no close neighbours. I only go out when it’s needed mostly for groceries and mail (no mail delivery to my place). I might go to a few events in the city but events in town are too hick for my tastes. I’ve met quite a few people around here and they are nice enough but not people I would hang out with. I still see my friends from the city but since it’s a bit of a drive we rarely get together anymore. My book club seems to be defunct at the moment. There are only 4 members in the book club so it’s a pretty cozy little gathering. All that said, I’m actually good with people. Meaning I have good people skills. Most would say I’m very friendly and personable. I think they would be surprised if you tell them I’m a recluse or a loner.
Ever wish you could be the life of the party, the person everyone wants to get close to?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
Would it help if I were naked while I do this?
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@TheAstroChuck Considering those living near me are rednecks I will happily stay home.
Ever wish you could be the life of the party, the person everyone wants to get close to?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
Would it help if I were naked while I do this?
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@TheAstroChuck Ummmm no. Those who know me know I’m a recluse. I’d probably never be found at such a party to begin with.
Ever wish you could be the life of the party, the person everyone wants to get close to?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
Would it help if I were naked while I do this?
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@TheAstroChuck WOW. So that’s the real secret. I know how to be popular now.
Cannabis in Canada: Who wins and who loses under new law - BBC News
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
Personally, being Canadian, I see at least the next few years to be a complete clusterfuck. Even though the law is federal, each province and municipality decide what the regulations are individually. The regulations for public workers and emergency service workers are also different from other ...
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@UrsiMajor Recreational cannabis is not legal federally in the US though.
Q for fellow vegans: vegan about two years, vegetarian for 5, I use fortified cereals and ...
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I would suggest if possible getting bloodwork done before adding a supplement to see if you are low on anything. I use a complete vegan supplement powder added to a smoothie a few times a week. I do take an additional B12 supplement seeveral times a week. In terms of B12, the consensus seems to be ...
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@ArdentAtheist I have been vegan long enough to have gone through all the good and bad about the lifestyle. I've read up just about everything I can on health and nutrition information pertaining to vegans. I went vegetarian then vegan for the animals and the environment so I didn't know much about nutrition and health when I started out. I don't claim to know everything but feel free to ask me if you have questions. Be mindful though that B12 supplements come in different dosages. Most pharmacies carry only the very low doses like 250-500 mcg. Amazon carries I believe up to 5000 mcg. Generally vegans would take about 2000 mcg per week, but the amount is best determined by a doctor or pharmacist. Too much of any vitamins can be dangerous. I would suggest a lower dosage first until you can talk to a doctor and have your bloodwork done.
Do you like being spontaneous or planning ahead?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I’m a planning freak. Plan vacations 5-12 months ahead. Start packing a month ahead. All excursions booked and tickets purchased. But I leave room for unplanned and spontaneous activities as well. Food is always planned ahead because I can’t just eat anything anywhere. For events coming up, ...
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@thinktwice As soon as I leave my house to go away for a few days I miss my animals. I guess I kinda miss my human too a little bit.
Do you like being spontaneous or planning ahead?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I’m a planning freak. Plan vacations 5-12 months ahead. Start packing a month ahead. All excursions booked and tickets purchased. But I leave room for unplanned and spontaneous activities as well. Food is always planned ahead because I can’t just eat anything anywhere. For events coming up, ...
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@thinktwice Hahaha. These are MY pets and they are not up for adoption. From my tiniest baby tarantula to my 1000 lb horses. When I go on vacation I write up a thick manual for care for the petsitter.
Do you like being spontaneous or planning ahead?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I’m a planning freak. Plan vacations 5-12 months ahead. Start packing a month ahead. All excursions booked and tickets purchased. But I leave room for unplanned and spontaneous activities as well. Food is always planned ahead because I can’t just eat anything anywhere. For events coming up, ...
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@thinktwice Sometimes I wish I could be. But it's not something I need to have or to be. It's fine that other people are the way they are. I think my anxiety would be through the roof if I decide to be more spontaneous.
Do you like being spontaneous or planning ahead?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I’m a planning freak. Plan vacations 5-12 months ahead. Start packing a month ahead. All excursions booked and tickets purchased. But I leave room for unplanned and spontaneous activities as well. Food is always planned ahead because I can’t just eat anything anywhere. For events coming up, ...
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@thinktwice Eeek. I can never do that. I have a household with 56 pets and a needy human. Plus now I run a practically 24/7/365 business on my property. Just hopping on a plane and go somewhere would never happen for me. Not having a cell phone would kill me because I would need to know what’s happening at home (though I know you can get pay as you go phones abroad). I also don’t go too far now for vacations or conventions. If there’s an emergency at home I need to be able to get back home in a few hours.
Do you like being spontaneous or planning ahead?
graceylou comments on Oct 15, 2018:
I’m a planning freak. Plan vacations 5-12 months ahead. Start packing a month ahead. All excursions booked and tickets purchased. But I leave room for unplanned and spontaneous activities as well. Food is always planned ahead because I can’t just eat anything anywhere. For events coming up, ...
graceylou replies on Oct 15, 2018:
@thinktwice I don’t like wasting time deciding or figuring things out last minute. I often travel alone and need to plan what works best for a lone female traveler.
How much is gas where you are? This pic was today at Costco (cheapest in the area) Lutz, FL
Jnei comments on Oct 14, 2018:
If gas (or petrol, as we say!) was sold at that price in the UK, people would fill everything they owned that could possibly contain it. The average price here is £1.31 per litre (https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-21238363) and there are 4.55 litres in a gallon - so we pay £5.96 per gallon, ...
graceylou replies on Oct 14, 2018:
@Jnei That is pretty insane. Our price is ridiculous due to the fact that we are in oil country here in Alberta. We produce this stuff. It’s just our taxes and fees are crazy.
How much is gas where you are? This pic was today at Costco (cheapest in the area) Lutz, FL
Jnei comments on Oct 14, 2018:
If gas (or petrol, as we say!) was sold at that price in the UK, people would fill everything they owned that could possibly contain it. The average price here is £1.31 per litre (https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-21238363) and there are 4.55 litres in a gallon - so we pay £5.96 per gallon, ...
graceylou replies on Oct 14, 2018:
US gallons are not the same as Imperial gallons. 1 US gallon = 3.7854 liters. Here in Canada we usually just say a gallon is roughly almost 4 liters. Still, that is quite expensive gas where you are.
Apologies for not responding for a little bit.
graceylou comments on Oct 14, 2018:
Jason Momoa. RRAAWWWWRRRR. To think I almost met him because he was supposed to be at the local Fan Expo but he cancelled. SIGH.
graceylou replies on Oct 14, 2018:
@PolyWolf I can't disagree with you there.
These are my ferals, or former ferals.
orange_girl comments on Oct 13, 2018:
You are totally awesome at naming cats! They’re adorable.
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
@orange_girl I met some of the cast of Grimm at a Fan Expo (David Giuntoli, Bitsie Tulloch, and Sasha Roiz). I told David Giuntoli about my Grimm cats. He wanted me to post pictures of Juliette, Nicky, and Renard on his Facebook page. Interestingly, the three Grimm cats still living with me are the ones named after these three actors’ characters.
These are my ferals, or former ferals.
orange_girl comments on Oct 13, 2018:
You are totally awesome at naming cats! They’re adorable.
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
Hahaha. I named Colin and Morgan with highbrow names. The other cat from the same colony was fostered by someone else but he ended up with me. The lady named him Rupert. The three names kinda go together well. Breeze came to us on a particularly windy day. She was pregnant and had her kittens about 4-5 days later. I named them Moose, Tiger, Chipmunk, and Mouse. I tend to name littermates with a theme so I remember which litter they came from. They all got adopted but Tiger came back to us because the adopter turned out to be an ass. I named Juliette after a character from the TV show Grimm, and the kittens she came with also were named after characters in the show. They are Nicky, Monroe, Griffin, and Renard. Nicky and Renard never got adopted so they live with me. Turtle got her name from being a Torbie (Tortie/tabby mix). She was pregnant when I trapped her, and she had 5 babies I named after cities: Sydney, Salem, London, Paris, and Phoenix. I kept Sydney and Salem because of their health issues. I lost Sydney last year at age 4. Salem is doing well, with his health issue under control.
These are my ferals, or former ferals.
Ray13 comments on Oct 13, 2018:
That is so great that you have adopted those cats. There is one feral cat at the Feline Sanctuary were I volunteer that will hiss and growl if you get close to her. And if you get within her reach "look out!"
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
Yeah, originally I just planned on sort of fostering them but I realize nobody would want them as house cats. Adult ferals are very difficult to socialize. Most people want cuddly kitties to pet and snuggle with. These guys may rip your face off if you try to hug them. I've invested so much money out of pocket to feed, vet, and fix these guys I'm not risking letting them live outside with predators and traffic.
These are my ferals, or former ferals.
OldGoat43 comments on Oct 13, 2018:
It looks like you've done a very good job of getting them to accept you as a member of their group. Wonderful.
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
They've been with me 5-6 years now. They're used to all the routines. They have this room, which is THEIR room, and during the day they also get my bedroom until I go to bed. If I let them out in gen pop with my other critters, they would be scared and hide all day long. In these rooms, they can hang out and relax. They feel safe. I'm impressed that they all get along so well having come from different places. They've become their own colony.
Well.
graceylou comments on Oct 13, 2018:
Awesome. I'm teaching myself Arabic as well. For some reason, one of the phrases I had to learn was "I drink mineral water". LOL. But I don't drink mineral water.
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
@PolyWolf I'm not learning to write it at this time. I'm learning so I can understand music lyrics because I listen to a lot of Arabic language music, mostly from Egypt.
Well.
graceylou comments on Oct 13, 2018:
Awesome. I'm teaching myself Arabic as well. For some reason, one of the phrases I had to learn was "I drink mineral water". LOL. But I don't drink mineral water.
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
@PolyWolf I started with Pimsleur, which I liked but it's not an app. It's mostly aural/oral for conversational purposes. I'm now playing around with Mondly. I don't know, I just found it randomly and decided to try it out. But I think I want to continue with Pimsleur later because I really liked it. The Pimsleur is Egyptian Arabic though, which is more useful for me.
These are my ferals, or former ferals.
dalefvictor comments on Oct 13, 2018:
We have been hosts to several feral cats, they come to our door and wee let them in. The want out we let them out, find them to take a while to get used to us but one, Jack is the most polite cat we have. Another had kittens and stayed with us for 17 years along with all the kittens, three Maine ...
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
Except for Turtle, everyone else came from other properties. Rupert, Colin, and Morgan came from one colony and they got to me from sort of a rescue effort. Juliette and Breeze are sisters and they came from a friend’s property. Turtle is the only one that I trapped on my property myself. She was pregnant and I didn’t want a colony of ferals on my property. All the girls came to me either pregnant or with kittens. They are all fixed now (the boys too). Some of the kittens live here but others have been adopted out.
These are my ferals, or former ferals.
PolyWolf comments on Oct 13, 2018:
I just want to curl up in the leopard-print bed in the back and go to sleep with that one. This picture is much too cute.
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
@PolyWolf I swear I didn’t give them catnip.
These are my ferals, or former ferals.
PolyWolf comments on Oct 13, 2018:
I just want to curl up in the leopard-print bed in the back and go to sleep with that one. This picture is much too cute.
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
That bed is somehow squashed down and I couldn’t unsquash it. But they can still get in there.
These are my ferals, or former ferals.
Hathacat comments on Oct 13, 2018:
They got the good life now, thanks to you!
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
They have lived here 5-6 years now so this is home to them. The black and white cat, Morgan, is the most people friendly and can be petted just not picked up. Rupert, the grey tabby, after all these years now would let me pet him for a bit. He was originally one of the most fearful. Turtle and Colin sometimes would let you pet them. Juliette and Breeze will not let you touch them. But otherwise they are calm and relaxed and no one wants to run away or escape.
Still hilarious.
graceylou comments on Oct 12, 2018:
I work with dogs. Met a lot of different breeds. Pugs are adorable but they can be little monsters. I can never clip my boston terrier mix's nails. Best leave it to the groomer.
graceylou replies on Oct 13, 2018:
@yanic I like all dogs I suppose. But I prefer large and giant breeds. My favourite is German shepherd. My Boston terrier mix is sort of accidental because she had nowhere else to go. Otherwise my others are big dogs.
The more I hang out (no pun intended, well, may be pun intended) in online forums and participate in...
KateZilla comments on Oct 12, 2018:
Should have put this in Introverts unite group ;-) https://agnostic.com/group/HappilyIntroverted
graceylou replies on Oct 12, 2018:
Well, I’m not entirely an introvert. Not entirely an extrovert.
I’m not a big makeup person, but I do enjoy it.
graceylou comments on Oct 11, 2018:
I love e.l.f. products though I usually have to buy them online. I especially love their waterproof mascara. I would also recommend Pacifica. I love their shampoos and face cleansers. Essence is quite nice but you have to look up which ones are vegan (if you want vegan, like I do). They have...
graceylou replies on Oct 11, 2018:
@DaphneDarling Pacifica can be a bit pricy though not excessively but I love their Coconut Power shampoo and conditioner and cactus face cleanser. I’ve spent a lot on different mascaras and i love e.l.f. cheapo mascara the best. I’m also allergic to many mascaras so if I find one I’m not allergic to I stick with it.
I’m not a big makeup person, but I do enjoy it.
graceylou comments on Oct 11, 2018:
I love e.l.f. products though I usually have to buy them online. I especially love their waterproof mascara. I would also recommend Pacifica. I love their shampoos and face cleansers. Essence is quite nice but you have to look up which ones are vegan (if you want vegan, like I do). They have...
graceylou replies on Oct 11, 2018:
@DaphneDarling I won’t spend too much on make up. Heck, I won’t spend too much on just about anything.
I am going to be traveling to London for the first time in April.
graceylou comments on Oct 10, 2018:
London is quite expensive for North Americans but it can be done on a budget definitely as others have mentioned. I stayed mostly at B&B's. The first time I went I was just a child with my parents. The second time I just finished high school and went with a classmate. We were really on a tight ...
graceylou replies on Oct 10, 2018:
@foxycontin I found Londoners walk fast and can be impatient with slow moving tourists. LOL. They get pretty irate if they have to wait 1-2 minutes for a train. I found that amusing. I guess being Canadian I’m too laid back. I’m used to waiting 15 minutes for a train or 20-30 minutes for a bus. London is great though. One of my favourite cities to visit.
Hi, I’ve always found children highly annoying.
graceylou comments on Oct 10, 2018:
I don’t like kids and everyone around me knows that. People know I don’t hold back. I especially can’t stand babies. It makes me crazy when they cry. I don’t worry about being an outsider. I prefer it that way.
graceylou replies on Oct 10, 2018:
@SkyBlue_Crayon Noise wouldn’t be my issue. I have 4 large dogs and I work with more dogs (sometimes up to 50 at one time). I have to deal with barking, whining, howling all the time and I’m totally fine with that. Give me one crying baby or child and I want to tear my hair out.
I have noticed that a few religious person have joined.
graceylou comments on Oct 6, 2018:
There are many groups for religious people out there, why are they here? I come here to escape them. Then I'm told that I must accept them here because they have as much right to be here. WTF. If they message me, I tell them off, then block them.
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@JimG Well I don’t want them here. I’m allowed to want a place where I don’t have to deal with them. Since I don’t want them here, I don’t have to talk to them. If they have the right to be here then I have the right to choose not to communicate with them.
Would You Sacrifice Yourself For A Stranger?
graceylou comments on Oct 6, 2018:
I would do it for an animal (the non-human kind). Humans, no, stranger or not.
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@kensmile4u I don't like people.
Would You Sacrifice Yourself For A Stranger?
graceylou comments on Oct 6, 2018:
I would do it for an animal (the non-human kind). Humans, no, stranger or not.
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@kensmile4u NOPE Especially NOT for a family member.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
brownH50 comments on Oct 6, 2018:
That was very nice of you. If they walk him in that area, I'm sure he will remember and visit you!
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@brownH50 I don't know what's better, tied up but safe from roaming or being allowed to roam but can face dangers. I watch my own dogs like a hawk. I also own and run a pet boarding facility and safety is always the most important.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
brownH50 comments on Oct 6, 2018:
That was very nice of you. If they walk him in that area, I'm sure he will remember and visit you!
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@brownH50 Yup. If you ask people around here, they would all say that's perfectly fine. Very redneck attitude. Granted some dogs are better suited to live outdoors like some of the working breeds. He's a collie so he's probably a working dog.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
StrongHappySilly comments on Oct 6, 2018:
Meow! I like your new profile pic btw
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
Thanks.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
birdingnut comments on Oct 6, 2018:
The photos only show the top of the dog's head, but it seems to be cute! We used to get occasional traveling beagles at our eastern Kentucky farm, near Morehead, KY. We'd keep them for a while until they decided to move on and pulled off an escape. Some owners, familiar with wandering beagle ...
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
That's interesting. Were they strays? Stray dogs are not a major issue around here. But farmers let their dogs roam free. Occasionally, some would pass by my place or they get on the roads just hanging out so we all have to be careful driving rural roads. All my dogs are indoors though I live on farmland, and they have a fenced area to go out to. No way would I let them roam free and chance having them hurt by people or wild animals or getting hit by a car on the highway. Most people around here let their cats and dogs roam free but when they run into the highways and get hit, the owners get mad at motorists for not being careful enough.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
StrongHappySilly comments on Oct 6, 2018:
Awww! I bet it was hard not to keep him, but you're a good person
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
No, I don't want to keep him. I have 4 dogs of my own and look after other people's dogs as well. I don't need one more.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
brownH50 comments on Oct 6, 2018:
That was very nice of you. If they walk him in that area, I'm sure he will remember and visit you!
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
They won't walk him. It's all farms out here and he's a farm dog. He stays outside on a chain. He used to be free roaming but he went to another farm and killed their chickens, so now he's chained up. I presume it's a long chain that allows him a bit of movement around his farm.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Oct 6, 2018:
Lovely boy......you may see him again by the sounds of it.
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@Lilac-Jade One of mine escaped (heavy wind blew my fence gate open; now it has a lock on it) and was out there for 7 hours. It happens. I found her myself though.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
JeremyTaylor comments on Oct 6, 2018:
I can't say I blame him...I wouldn't want to leave you either.
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor Only if you are on all fours and bark.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Oct 6, 2018:
Lovely boy......you may see him again by the sounds of it.
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@Lilac-Jade when I lived in the city I had this cocker spaniel that kept escaping to my house from across the alley. i practically had his owner’s number on speed dial.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
Sticks48 comments on Oct 6, 2018:
Awwwww! He is a good looking guy. You would have made a cute couple. ?
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@Sticks48 It’s tough. They can probably advertise. It’s easy to do these days.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Oct 6, 2018:
Lovely boy......you may see him again by the sounds of it.
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
@Lilac-Jade He has escaped a few times. Last time he killed someone’s chickens so his owners had to pay to replace those chickens. At least I know how to contact the owner if he comes here again.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Oct 6, 2018:
Lovely boy......you may see him again by the sounds of it.
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
It’s possible. He lives about a couple of miles away. He was actually trying to dig into my fenced yard (of my business on property).
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
Sticks48 comments on Oct 6, 2018:
Awwwww! He is a good looking guy. You would have made a cute couple. ?
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
His people might want to rehome him because he keeps escaping. He’s bored being left alone. Since I already have 4 dogs, I’m not looking to add more.
This good looking guy came visiting my place all by himself today.
JeremyTaylor comments on Oct 6, 2018:
I can't say I blame him...I wouldn't want to leave you either.
graceylou replies on Oct 6, 2018:
They keep him outside on a chain. If he were with me he would sleep on my bed like my other dogs.
Is there any kind of animal/pet you would not want in your home?
LetzGetReal comments on Oct 2, 2018:
Hedge Hog? Nah, they are cute and have a soft under belly... I don't know much about ferrets. I didn't think I would like a white rat till I held one and they were fine. Have seen them be sweet with young children; teaches a child to hold a small creature, gently. So, don't think I would keep a ...
graceylou replies on Oct 2, 2018:
@LetzGetReal I rescued a one year old African Pygmy hedgehog from a family who got bored with him. Poor thing was neglected and was not friendly despite my efforts to socialize him. He hated me til the day he died. Nail trimming a hateful hedgie was never fun. Tarantulas are awesome. I either rescue them as adults or raise them from tiny slings. I have absolute love for them.
Is there any kind of animal/pet you would not want in your home?
graceylou comments on Oct 2, 2018:
I will take in anything, except humans. I'm not a huge fan of ferrets or birds (but I have had birds before) but I will take them in if they need a home or are injured.
graceylou replies on Oct 2, 2018:
@LetzGetReal Considering I live with 56 pets, 53 of which live in my house (only 3 equines live outdoors but have shelters), I do KEEP a lot of the animals I take in. I’ve taken in or rescued others but I found adoptive home for them. Some just are not adoptable and have nowhere else to go. And some have been too far gone to save, like a coyote that was shot in the leg and left to die on my property.
Is there any kind of animal/pet you would not want in your home?
ipdg77 comments on Oct 2, 2018:
As long as it's in a secure box, cage, container then anything can stop by. If I'm expected to cuddle a tarantula forget it :-)
graceylou replies on Oct 2, 2018:
It’s not safe, for the tarantula, to be cuddled anyway. They are fragile. Otherwise I would definitely cuddle my four tarantulas.
Tom helping me shovel our 15 cm of snow. Lol ?
graceylou comments on Oct 2, 2018:
And I grumbled when I saw half an inch of frost/snow on my lawn and car. Until I saw pics of Calgary....
graceylou replies on Oct 2, 2018:
@Ladydiana Edmonton area
Tom helping me shovel our 15 cm of snow. Lol ?
graceylou comments on Oct 2, 2018:
And I grumbled when I saw half an inch of frost/snow on my lawn and car. Until I saw pics of Calgary....
graceylou replies on Oct 2, 2018:
@Ladydiana NNnnooooooo, thank you. You guys always get more snow than us anyway. You can keep it.
So it was my initial (probably naive) thought that this place was basically comprised of agnostics ...
SukiSue comments on Oct 2, 2018:
I come here to avoid this. You can have the entire rest of the world.
graceylou replies on Oct 2, 2018:
Yes!!! I come here to avoid having to debate religious non-sense. I don't mind if members share their past experiences in a religious community, their experiences leaving religion, or their emotional issues relating to these.
Unpopular Opinions I know you got 'em, what are they?
graceylou comments on Oct 1, 2018:
I'm vegan (for ethical reasons). That is enough for people to bring out their blessed crosses and holy water to exorcise me.
graceylou replies on Oct 1, 2018:
@boatdude87 Interestingly, it is possible to do vegan keto. So being vegan and being keto are not mutually exclusive. However, keto is a diet and being vegan is an ethical stance and a way of life (not just what I eat).
My big boy Spencer.
ronin73 comments on Sep 28, 2018:
He looks like he's having fun. It's great to see dogs able to get out and run.
graceylou replies on Oct 1, 2018:
@AnneWimsey We have barely straw (not hay) but it doesn't really matter anyway. It's a man made pond that just collects drainage water from the surrounding fields. He doesn't need to swim it. With the weird weather we have had lately, the pond has been more of a swamp. I just leave it for the migrating waterfowl.
My big boy Spencer.
ronin73 comments on Sep 28, 2018:
He looks like he's having fun. It's great to see dogs able to get out and run.
graceylou replies on Oct 1, 2018:
@AnneWimsey I know how to clean ears. I dry him thoroughly after his swim. I think the last few years there’s something growing in the pond that isn’t good.
I've seen a few long-term members leaving lately.
graceylou comments on Sep 28, 2018:
I joined this site because I want to participate in discussions with other non-believers. I was reluctant to become a member at first. I wasn't sure if this site was a dating site or a community site. I didn't want to participate in a dating site. I read in the site description that it is a ...
graceylou replies on Sep 30, 2018:
@Marionville I will stay for Morten!!! Hahaha. I'm staying but may be spend less time here for awhile. I may need a break, like with most other social media sites I suppose. I've probably come into more confrontations with other people here than anywhere else EVER. So many members here have the same attitude as religious people.
The votes are in and 24/7 wins by a landslide! As of this post the chat will run from 4:00 AM ...
graceylou comments on Sep 29, 2018:
Enjoy. I prefer private chats anyway. You know, cause I'm shy.
graceylou replies on Sep 29, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor They need a stick my tongue out emoji. I just don't like the chatroom format here. It's so ancient and confusing. I do chat in public elsewhere with a much better format.

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