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graceylou comments on Sep 28, 2018:
I seem to come across many who think that being a submissive means you allow yourself to be a doormat. I'm told only the Dominant benefits from the relationship because He gets to use and order around the submissive. To want to be a sub, you must be a weak person with low self-esteem, one who needs ...
graceylou replies on Sep 29, 2018:
@Cutiebeauty There is no reason anyone has to be submissive. Any person of any gender can choose to be submissive, or dominant, or neither. The important thing is that it's your choice to follow your inclination. One of my female friends is a very strict Domme. I knew a male who was a slave who's very much into humiliation and degradation. Whatever makes them happy.
graceylou comments on Sep 28, 2018:
I seem to come across many who think that being a submissive means you allow yourself to be a doormat. I'm told only the Dominant benefits from the relationship because He gets to use and order around the submissive. To want to be a sub, you must be a weak person with low self-esteem, one who needs ...
graceylou replies on Sep 29, 2018:
@Cutiebeauty There is no reason anyone has to be submissive. Any person of any gender can choose to be submissive, or dominant, or neither. The important thing is that it's your choice to follow your inclination. One of my female friends is a very strict Domme. I knew a male who was a slave who's very much into humiliation and degradation. Whatever makes them happy.
It pisses me off that they have the main character in the new show God Friended Me be an atheist.
chalupacabre comments on Sep 28, 2018:
Lucifer was a likable enough character and had a decent run.
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
If you have Netflix you can catch Season 4 of Lucifer. The show has been resurrected.
chalupacabre comments on Sep 28, 2018:
Lucifer was a likable enough character and had a decent run.
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
If you have Netflix you can catch Season 4 of Lucifer. The show has been resurrected.
I'm thinking of switching the chatroom to being open 24 hours a day.
graceylou comments on Sep 28, 2018:
I would guess that if it's 24/7/365, most of the time the chatroom is not going to be monitored by an admin. I would prefer having an admin there while I chat. Then again, I don't participate in chat that much. I don't like crowds.
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
@Hendrix71 I'm saying that some participants may not have proper obedience training and may not play nicely.
graceylou comments on Sep 28, 2018:
I would guess that if it's 24/7/365, most of the time the chatroom is not going to be monitored by an admin. I would prefer having an admin there while I chat. Then again, I don't participate in chat that much. I don't like crowds.
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
@Hendrix71 I'm saying that some participants may not have proper obedience training and may not play nicely.
My big boy Spencer.
LeighShelton comments on Sep 28, 2018:
Here are my pets
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
Cute. I can't post all my pets because I have 56 of them!!! LOL.
LeighShelton comments on Sep 28, 2018:
Here are my pets
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
Cute. I can't post all my pets because I have 56 of them!!! LOL.
My big boy Spencer.
ronin73 comments on Sep 28, 2018:
He looks like he's having fun. It's great to see dogs able to get out and run.
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
@ronin73 Three of my dogs are 70-100 lbs fur monsters. Leia and Spencer are St. Bernard mixes. Star is a German shepherd mix. When it snows and -30C it’s impossible to get them back in. They love it. My Boston terrier mix on the other hand needs jackets and sweaters and takes a lot to get to go outside in cold weather.
ronin73 comments on Sep 28, 2018:
He looks like he's having fun. It's great to see dogs able to get out and run.
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
@ronin73 Three of my dogs are 70-100 lbs fur monsters. Leia and Spencer are St. Bernard mixes. Star is a German shepherd mix. When it snows and -30C it’s impossible to get them back in. They love it. My Boston terrier mix on the other hand needs jackets and sweaters and takes a lot to get to go outside in cold weather.
My big boy Spencer.
ronin73 comments on Sep 28, 2018:
He looks like he's having fun. It's great to see dogs able to get out and run.
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
I live on almost 20 acres. He's very good outside without a leash. He's also a very good swimmer and I used to let him swim in our pond but he's gotten ear infections from swimming lately so no more swimming. He totally LOVES the snow and extreme cold weather I can hardly get him inside.
ronin73 comments on Sep 28, 2018:
He looks like he's having fun. It's great to see dogs able to get out and run.
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
I live on almost 20 acres. He's very good outside without a leash. He's also a very good swimmer and I used to let him swim in our pond but he's gotten ear infections from swimming lately so no more swimming. He totally LOVES the snow and extreme cold weather I can hardly get him inside.
i love BDSM!
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 28, 2018:
@graceylou maybe we've been approaching this thing all wrong...
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
Not me. I’ve got one of those, only black. And he’s into this kind of BDSM.
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 28, 2018:
@graceylou maybe we've been approaching this thing all wrong...
graceylou replies on Sep 28, 2018:
Not me. I’ve got one of those, only black. And he’s into this kind of BDSM.
I have a question to get some insight on this thing that makes me feel ooky.
graceylou comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I’m not uncomfortable with those terms at all. As long as we are all adults and the terms are accepted by the parties involved there is no harm in it. Usually these terms are associated with ageplay but it could simply be something fun to call an older or more mature partner, like Sugar ...
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@Lillyfield41 It can be explained, such as age play, but why it appeals to someone, it could be different for different people or there is no particular reason. Why does someone like the colour orange or hate avocados? You may have to ask the person why they want to call you Mommy or they want you to call them Daddy. There may be a reason. There may be no particular reason at all; they just like it. Only they know. And you don’t have to participate in this sort of thing if you don’t feel comfortable.
graceylou comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I’m not uncomfortable with those terms at all. As long as we are all adults and the terms are accepted by the parties involved there is no harm in it. Usually these terms are associated with ageplay but it could simply be something fun to call an older or more mature partner, like Sugar ...
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@Lillyfield41 It can be explained, such as age play, but why it appeals to someone, it could be different for different people or there is no particular reason. Why does someone like the colour orange or hate avocados? You may have to ask the person why they want to call you Mommy or they want you to call them Daddy. There may be a reason. There may be no particular reason at all; they just like it. Only they know. And you don’t have to participate in this sort of thing if you don’t feel comfortable.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
SumWherNtheMidl comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Not that I'm comparing my dogs to humans but I'm a believer in collaring my dogs. It's a symbol of ownership, submission and security. And, over my lifetime, it seems to me, that my dogs have appreciated and cherished it.
As far as humans go, I actually find it an enduring gesture for a Dom to ...
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@dan325 my cats are all indoors with no collars. I had a terrible experience with a cat getting his collar caught on something and it turned into a lifelong medical issue. They don’t get out so I don’t worry. I don’t try to walk them. Now I definitely don’t own them. They own me. I should wear the collar.
SumWherNtheMidl comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Not that I'm comparing my dogs to humans but I'm a believer in collaring my dogs. It's a symbol of ownership, submission and security. And, over my lifetime, it seems to me, that my dogs have appreciated and cherished it.
As far as humans go, I actually find it an enduring gesture for a Dom to ...
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@dan325 my cats are all indoors with no collars. I had a terrible experience with a cat getting his collar caught on something and it turned into a lifelong medical issue. They don’t get out so I don’t worry. I don’t try to walk them. Now I definitely don’t own them. They own me. I should wear the collar.
have you ever seen someone that you just become instantly attracted to and you want to give them a ...
graceylou comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Instantly attracted to, sure. To spank them, no, not really.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor I’m not too big on spanking. I tolerate it.
graceylou comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Instantly attracted to, sure. To spank them, no, not really.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor I’m not too big on spanking. I tolerate it.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@zorialoki This whole discussion has nothing to do with cattle or any animals other than the human ones. You went there!!! And I live surrounded by cattle ranchers right in the heart of Alberta cattle country. Heck, there are even buffalo ranchers around me. I know cattle of any kind can cause injuries. You do your thing, but I don't care to know those things you do that has nothing to do with this thread. Obviously, a woman would not be endangering or goring any horse or humans in the same manner as a bull. Irrelevant. From your first post about choke chains, you are already judging the lifestyle or at least that is how you come across. You made it sound like all this is a joke.
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@zorialoki This whole discussion has nothing to do with cattle or any animals other than the human ones. You went there!!! And I live surrounded by cattle ranchers right in the heart of Alberta cattle country. Heck, there are even buffalo ranchers around me. I know cattle of any kind can cause injuries. You do your thing, but I don't care to know those things you do that has nothing to do with this thread. Obviously, a woman would not be endangering or goring any horse or humans in the same manner as a bull. Irrelevant. From your first post about choke chains, you are already judging the lifestyle or at least that is how you come across. You made it sound like all this is a joke.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@zorialoki Obviously, you are just trying to yank my chain (no pun intended) with a discussion that can't possibly be serious. None of those things can be done safely to a human being that is not a 2000 lbs bull. If putting a collar on someone in the context of BDSM isn't your cup of tea, then don't do it. There is no reason to put forward ridiculous hypothetical ideas in regards to something you don't understand or don't want to understand.
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@zorialoki Obviously, you are just trying to yank my chain (no pun intended) with a discussion that can't possibly be serious. None of those things can be done safely to a human being that is not a 2000 lbs bull. If putting a collar on someone in the context of BDSM isn't your cup of tea, then don't do it. There is no reason to put forward ridiculous hypothetical ideas in regards to something you don't understand or don't want to understand.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@zorialoki You will have to ask her. Who am I to define what her kinks and limits are?
I wouldn't do any of that to a bull for any reason because a bull cannot give me consent. You would rather do things like that to a creature that cannot give you consent than to a person who doesn't only give you consent but derives pleasure in it (I don't know if anyone would derive pleasure in that specifically but I don't tell people what they can or cannot do as long as it's legal and can be done safely enough). BDSM must be safe and sane.
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@zorialoki You will have to ask her. Who am I to define what her kinks and limits are?
I wouldn't do any of that to a bull for any reason because a bull cannot give me consent. You would rather do things like that to a creature that cannot give you consent than to a person who doesn't only give you consent but derives pleasure in it (I don't know if anyone would derive pleasure in that specifically but I don't tell people what they can or cannot do as long as it's legal and can be done safely enough). BDSM must be safe and sane.
Because I was asked, I’m reposting my BDSM test results that I posted under another thread ...
steve148 comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I don't understand what the test is. What are you supposed to do?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@steve148 Ooops.
https://bdsmtest.org/
steve148 comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I don't understand what the test is. What are you supposed to do?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@steve148 Ooops.
https://bdsmtest.org/
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@zorialoki Then she will just find another person to do it for her because you aren’t the right person for her kink.
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@zorialoki Then she will just find another person to do it for her because you aren’t the right person for her kink.
Hey deviants! Instead of eleventy hundred individual bdsm test posts maybe we could just have one ...
graceylou comments on Sep 27, 2018:
It started out that way until someone decided to make a separate post and others follow.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@Cutiebeauty Nah. Nobody is at fault and I’m not blaming anyone. It’s all in the spirit of fun. I enjoyed reading everyone’s results for whatever it’s worth.
graceylou comments on Sep 27, 2018:
It started out that way until someone decided to make a separate post and others follow.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@Cutiebeauty Nah. Nobody is at fault and I’m not blaming anyone. It’s all in the spirit of fun. I enjoyed reading everyone’s results for whatever it’s worth.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
SumWherNtheMidl comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Not that I'm comparing my dogs to humans but I'm a believer in collaring my dogs. It's a symbol of ownership, submission and security. And, over my lifetime, it seems to me, that my dogs have appreciated and cherished it.
As far as humans go, I actually find it an enduring gesture for a Dom to ...
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@dan325 I was going to say something similar. I collar my dogs in case they get out and get lost they will have ID on them. Otherwise, they don't need collars at all. I walk them on a leash for their safety from traffic and wildlife. Some of my dogs run free because I know I can trust them not to run after wildlife or get onto the road. My dogs are more like my children. It's not a dog's or a child's choice to consent to having a parent or pet parent to be a dominant figure. For their safety and in learning to navigate the world, dogs and children need to put their trust in a "parent" to lead them.
SumWherNtheMidl comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Not that I'm comparing my dogs to humans but I'm a believer in collaring my dogs. It's a symbol of ownership, submission and security. And, over my lifetime, it seems to me, that my dogs have appreciated and cherished it.
As far as humans go, I actually find it an enduring gesture for a Dom to ...
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@dan325 I was going to say something similar. I collar my dogs in case they get out and get lost they will have ID on them. Otherwise, they don't need collars at all. I walk them on a leash for their safety from traffic and wildlife. Some of my dogs run free because I know I can trust them not to run after wildlife or get onto the road. My dogs are more like my children. It's not a dog's or a child's choice to consent to having a parent or pet parent to be a dominant figure. For their safety and in learning to navigate the world, dogs and children need to put their trust in a "parent" to lead them.
This is so true!
graceylou comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Well, I wouldn't eat ANY part of a banana.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
In case anyone wonders, I'm allergic to bananas.
graceylou comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Well, I wouldn't eat ANY part of a banana.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
In case anyone wonders, I'm allergic to bananas.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
PinkyandtheBrain comments on Sep 27, 2018:
No bdsm I'm fragile
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
Physically or emotionally? You can always tune a D/s relationship to what suits the both/all parties. You don't have to go into extreme pain, bondage, humiliation, etc. if that isn't what all parties desire. Then again, BDSM isn't for everyone. For some people, it's a need, others it's for fun, some it's not for them at all, and those are all valid options.
PinkyandtheBrain comments on Sep 27, 2018:
No bdsm I'm fragile
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
Physically or emotionally? You can always tune a D/s relationship to what suits the both/all parties. You don't have to go into extreme pain, bondage, humiliation, etc. if that isn't what all parties desire. Then again, BDSM isn't for everyone. For some people, it's a need, others it's for fun, some it's not for them at all, and those are all valid options.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
Some subs and slaves might like it, I don't know.
zorialoki comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Depends on the collar. I use choke chains on my dogs when I walk them, I doubt I would use them on my lover
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
Some subs and slaves might like it, I don't know.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@JesseThompson Whatever. Stay ignorant if you like.
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@JesseThompson Whatever. Stay ignorant if you like.
Because I was asked, I’m reposting my BDSM test results that I posted under another thread ...
steve148 comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I don't understand what the test is. What are you supposed to do?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@steve148 Here's the link. It's really just for fun and the results are not necessarily accurate (some can be quite contradictory).
steve148 comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I don't understand what the test is. What are you supposed to do?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@steve148 Here's the link. It's really just for fun and the results are not necessarily accurate (some can be quite contradictory).
Because I was asked, I’m reposting my BDSM test results that I posted under another thread ...
steve148 comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I don't understand what the test is. What are you supposed to do?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@steve148 I will find the link and post it when I get to my laptop. You just go to the link and follow the instructions.
steve148 comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I don't understand what the test is. What are you supposed to do?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@steve148 I will find the link and post it when I get to my laptop. You just go to the link and follow the instructions.
Because I was asked, I’m reposting my BDSM test results that I posted under another thread ...
steve148 comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I don't understand what the test is. What are you supposed to do?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
It is a BDSM test. I think others have posted a link some place.
steve148 comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I don't understand what the test is. What are you supposed to do?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
It is a BDSM test. I think others have posted a link some place.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@JesseThompson You obviously will never understand the lifestyle so may be just leave it as not your thing. If a Dom takes advantage in that way then he isn’t a Dom who knows what he’s doing. Both Doms and subs go into the relationship knowingly and both get what they want out of it. If someone wants to be a sub and serve, and that makes her/him happy then she/he should be allowed. Nobody is in harms way in a D/s relationship. Limits are set and care is taken that both parties are safe and sane. Nobody forces another into submission. Both parties enjoy the relationship and get sexual pleasure out of it. There is no way a slave in the historical slave trade had this kind of experience with their owners. There are no parallels. A lot of BDSM couples are much happier than vanilla couples in traditional marriage.
Actually, it’s the fact that you steadfastly hold on to your beliefs and assumptions about other people’s choices that make you sound like a religious zealot. No matter how things are explained, you twist it in such a way that makes sense only to you. It’s not your thing, then just leave it as such. You don’t have a good grasp of the lifestyle to go further than that. And I’m not wasting any more time on a religios-like zealot.
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
@JesseThompson You obviously will never understand the lifestyle so may be just leave it as not your thing. If a Dom takes advantage in that way then he isn’t a Dom who knows what he’s doing. Both Doms and subs go into the relationship knowingly and both get what they want out of it. If someone wants to be a sub and serve, and that makes her/him happy then she/he should be allowed. Nobody is in harms way in a D/s relationship. Limits are set and care is taken that both parties are safe and sane. Nobody forces another into submission. Both parties enjoy the relationship and get sexual pleasure out of it. There is no way a slave in the historical slave trade had this kind of experience with their owners. There are no parallels. A lot of BDSM couples are much happier than vanilla couples in traditional marriage.
Actually, it’s the fact that you steadfastly hold on to your beliefs and assumptions about other people’s choices that make you sound like a religious zealot. No matter how things are explained, you twist it in such a way that makes sense only to you. It’s not your thing, then just leave it as such. You don’t have a good grasp of the lifestyle to go further than that. And I’m not wasting any more time on a religios-like zealot.
Because I was asked, I’m reposting my BDSM test results that I posted under another thread ...
TheDoubter comments on Sep 27, 2018:
happy with yourself?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
I wouldn’t want me any other way. This my BDSM profile. My more mundane mainstream everyday life has quite a different profile.
TheDoubter comments on Sep 27, 2018:
happy with yourself?
graceylou replies on Sep 27, 2018:
I wouldn’t want me any other way. This my BDSM profile. My more mundane mainstream everyday life has quite a different profile.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@JesseThompson And no, this type of thing is not going to appeal to everyone. Not everyone will understand the need of some to be in this type of relationship. If it’s not your thing, then it simply isn’t.
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@JesseThompson And no, this type of thing is not going to appeal to everyone. Not everyone will understand the need of some to be in this type of relationship. If it’s not your thing, then it simply isn’t.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@JesseThompson it doesn’t sound like religion to me at all. Religion has leaders who make up the rules supposedly given by an imaginary higher power and everyone else has to follow them. A committed D/s relationship is like any agreement between two or more people, with rules and guidelines set and agreed upon by all and with any member having the right to dissolve or leave the relationship if it doesn’t live up to the agreement.
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@JesseThompson it doesn’t sound like religion to me at all. Religion has leaders who make up the rules supposedly given by an imaginary higher power and everyone else has to follow them. A committed D/s relationship is like any agreement between two or more people, with rules and guidelines set and agreed upon by all and with any member having the right to dissolve or leave the relationship if it doesn’t live up to the agreement.
What do you think about this:
My results
hippydog comments on Sep 26, 2018:
The results make no sense on these things.. I would be more interested in how you answered the questions.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@hippydog I did in another previous post of someone from a few days ago.
hippydog comments on Sep 26, 2018:
The results make no sense on these things.. I would be more interested in how you answered the questions.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@hippydog I did in another previous post of someone from a few days ago.
Might as well lmao
== Results from bdsmtest.
Lillyfield41 comments on Sep 26, 2018:
that's a lot of percents... and what's a rope bunny????
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
Rope bunny is someone who likes being tied up/bound.
Lillyfield41 comments on Sep 26, 2018:
that's a lot of percents... and what's a rope bunny????
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
Rope bunny is someone who likes being tied up/bound.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@JesseThompson in a way a committed D/s relationship ensures “equality” between the partners because both make and agree upon the rules and limits of the relationship, both have the power to stop a behaviour that breaks the rules or pushes beyond agreed upon limits, and the various aspects of the relationship are not only consensual but are for the mutual satisfaction and happiness of both partners. Both partners hold their own power. There is no Dominant without a submissive having the power to give that submission, with rules and responsibilities attached, to the Dominant. Submissives have a lot of power. Submissives are not doormats that once you give away that key to your collar the Dominant can do what they want. Both parties have huge commitment to maintain the rules and responsibilities of the relationship and a collar solidifies that commitment. And always, safe and sane.
brainyactress comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It’s a difficult situation because I perceive it as being as committed as marriage (almost) and I can’t commit to be sub all the time. I’m with someone now who has the potential to be mutually collared but that’s way, way, way down the road.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@JesseThompson in a way a committed D/s relationship ensures “equality” between the partners because both make and agree upon the rules and limits of the relationship, both have the power to stop a behaviour that breaks the rules or pushes beyond agreed upon limits, and the various aspects of the relationship are not only consensual but are for the mutual satisfaction and happiness of both partners. Both partners hold their own power. There is no Dominant without a submissive having the power to give that submission, with rules and responsibilities attached, to the Dominant. Submissives have a lot of power. Submissives are not doormats that once you give away that key to your collar the Dominant can do what they want. Both parties have huge commitment to maintain the rules and responsibilities of the relationship and a collar solidifies that commitment. And always, safe and sane.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
Annitonn comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It meant more to me than my engagement. It went deeper than just “I love you”. It’s hard to explain to those who don’t understand. The one time I was collared it was incredible, I felt like I truly mattered to someone.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
I totally understand where you’re coming from. I’ve been there.
Annitonn comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It meant more to me than my engagement. It went deeper than just “I love you”. It’s hard to explain to those who don’t understand. The one time I was collared it was incredible, I felt like I truly mattered to someone.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
I totally understand where you’re coming from. I’ve been there.
COLLARING (in the context of BDSM). What is your take on it?
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Sep 26, 2018:
When I grow a tail... I will have a collar.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
You are into pony play?
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Sep 26, 2018:
When I grow a tail... I will have a collar.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
You are into pony play?
This defines deviant
graceylou comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Yay. Something I can actually eat for Halloween!!!
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor I might have to settle for some eye candy.
graceylou comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Yay. Something I can actually eat for Halloween!!!
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor I might have to settle for some eye candy.
What do you think about this:
My results
hippydog comments on Sep 26, 2018:
The results make no sense on these things.. I would be more interested in how you answered the questions.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
This test can be accurate for some and totally contradictory for others. I think it really depends on how well you know yourself and your experience when you choose your answers. Some people can end up contradicting themselves when they aren't really sure how to respond to the questions. I would say mine is quite accurate for me.
hippydog comments on Sep 26, 2018:
The results make no sense on these things.. I would be more interested in how you answered the questions.
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
This test can be accurate for some and totally contradictory for others. I think it really depends on how well you know yourself and your experience when you choose your answers. Some people can end up contradicting themselves when they aren't really sure how to respond to the questions. I would say mine is quite accurate for me.
Being a woman is worse than being a farmer
graceylou comments on Sep 26, 2018:
I live surrounded by farmers. Nope, I would rather be a woman than a farmer (although many of the farmers are women). I enjoy playing with makeup and it makes me feel good about myself. I don’t go overboard. I only spend half an hour or so and not everyday. I never do it for men or anyone else but...
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
AND, a lot of women (and men too) spend a lot of money and effort to look natural, anything from products to services like facial/skin and hair treatments, surgeries, whatever. Just because someone looks “natural” doesn’t mean they didn’t put a lot of money, time, and effort into being that way.
graceylou comments on Sep 26, 2018:
I live surrounded by farmers. Nope, I would rather be a woman than a farmer (although many of the farmers are women). I enjoy playing with makeup and it makes me feel good about myself. I don’t go overboard. I only spend half an hour or so and not everyday. I never do it for men or anyone else but...
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
AND, a lot of women (and men too) spend a lot of money and effort to look natural, anything from products to services like facial/skin and hair treatments, surgeries, whatever. Just because someone looks “natural” doesn’t mean they didn’t put a lot of money, time, and effort into being that way.
Do you need a hug today?
Don't worry. It's not from me.
[youtube.com]
marksam8484 comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Could I have both, please?
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
Group hug?
marksam8484 comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Could I have both, please?
graceylou replies on Sep 26, 2018:
Group hug?
Do you need a hug today?
Don't worry. It's not from me.
[youtube.com]
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 25, 2018:
But...I want the hug to be from you...?
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
I might make an exception.
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 25, 2018:
But...I want the hug to be from you...?
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
I might make an exception.
Do you need a hug today?
Don't worry. It's not from me.
[youtube.com]
graceylou comments on Sep 25, 2018:
Hahaha. I am not a hugger. I can barely touch people. Unless we are intimate in some way. I don’t even hug my friends. I don’t even hug my human family members But, I will hug any dog or other non-human critters even if they are muddy or smelly.
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
@Lilac-Jade Right? I would even share my fork with my dogs but if a human touches my fork off to the dishwasher it goes.
graceylou comments on Sep 25, 2018:
Hahaha. I am not a hugger. I can barely touch people. Unless we are intimate in some way. I don’t even hug my friends. I don’t even hug my human family members But, I will hug any dog or other non-human critters even if they are muddy or smelly.
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
@Lilac-Jade Right? I would even share my fork with my dogs but if a human touches my fork off to the dishwasher it goes.
Do you need a hug today?
Don't worry. It's not from me.
[youtube.com]
MissKathleen comments on Sep 25, 2018:
I need hugs every day. But not from a dog.
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
I would hug anything except a human.
MissKathleen comments on Sep 25, 2018:
I need hugs every day. But not from a dog.
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
I would hug anything except a human.
“Sound” advice, Padawan.
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 24, 2018:
Would work for me.
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor @hippydog I should consider this for comicon/fan expo next year. Weapons check would be pretty interesting.
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 24, 2018:
Would work for me.
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor @hippydog I should consider this for comicon/fan expo next year. Weapons check would be pretty interesting.
Can't stand constantly barking, hyper little dogs
Remi comments on Sep 25, 2018:
Not a huge dog fan either. Growing up on a farm, our dog was an outside dog. I don't get the big dog indoors thing. And holy gods I cannot stand the hovering. My cats hover enough.
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
@Gooniesnvrdie My 100 lbs St. Bernard mix, 80 lbs German shepherd mix, my 75 lbs boxer mix, and my 40 lbs Boston terrier mix are all indoor dogs. They are my babies and no way they live outside. They share the couch with me and my bed too. Humans can stay outside.
Remi comments on Sep 25, 2018:
Not a huge dog fan either. Growing up on a farm, our dog was an outside dog. I don't get the big dog indoors thing. And holy gods I cannot stand the hovering. My cats hover enough.
graceylou replies on Sep 25, 2018:
@Gooniesnvrdie My 100 lbs St. Bernard mix, 80 lbs German shepherd mix, my 75 lbs boxer mix, and my 40 lbs Boston terrier mix are all indoor dogs. They are my babies and no way they live outside. They share the couch with me and my bed too. Humans can stay outside.
Questions about: Sadism
This is for people who have any questions.
Our_existence comments on Sep 24, 2018:
Sadism.....something that comes from a dark place inside a person. It is NOT a pleasure thing, it is a release of anger in disguise.
graceylou replies on Sep 24, 2018:
@Our_existance I did mention that dark side in all of us that we can all dig into and bring out. And yes I believe we do have to go there in Sadism. But you are also saying it’s not a pleasure thing which I disagree with. I also disagree with it being anger in disguise. May be it’s just the way you say it that make it sound like it’s an avenue to get your anger out. To me it’s more using that part of a human being that we all have, the “dark” part, for pleasure shared with another in an S/M relationship.
Our_existence comments on Sep 24, 2018:
Sadism.....something that comes from a dark place inside a person. It is NOT a pleasure thing, it is a release of anger in disguise.
graceylou replies on Sep 24, 2018:
@Our_existance I did mention that dark side in all of us that we can all dig into and bring out. And yes I believe we do have to go there in Sadism. But you are also saying it’s not a pleasure thing which I disagree with. I also disagree with it being anger in disguise. May be it’s just the way you say it that make it sound like it’s an avenue to get your anger out. To me it’s more using that part of a human being that we all have, the “dark” part, for pleasure shared with another in an S/M relationship.
Questions about: Sadism
This is for people who have any questions.
Our_existence comments on Sep 24, 2018:
Sadism.....something that comes from a dark place inside a person. It is NOT a pleasure thing, it is a release of anger in disguise.
graceylou replies on Sep 24, 2018:
I think if you have those anger or other issues that come from a “dark” place, you should not even be involved in Sadism (or BDSM in general). If by “dark” you mean that aspect that we all have in our primal make up then that could make sense. But still the relationship between the Sadist and sub/slave must be for the mutual satisfaction and enjoyment of both parties. Anger should not come into play.
Our_existence comments on Sep 24, 2018:
Sadism.....something that comes from a dark place inside a person. It is NOT a pleasure thing, it is a release of anger in disguise.
graceylou replies on Sep 24, 2018:
I think if you have those anger or other issues that come from a “dark” place, you should not even be involved in Sadism (or BDSM in general). If by “dark” you mean that aspect that we all have in our primal make up then that could make sense. But still the relationship between the Sadist and sub/slave must be for the mutual satisfaction and enjoyment of both parties. Anger should not come into play.
We did breakfast for dinner for my moms birthday.
JackPedigo comments on Sep 24, 2018:
What do you use for an egg substitute?
graceylou replies on Sep 24, 2018:
@ArdentAtheist I found out ground chia is a great egg sub too. Accidentally bought ground chia instead of chia seeds. Made nice plump fluffy pancakes.
JackPedigo comments on Sep 24, 2018:
What do you use for an egg substitute?
graceylou replies on Sep 24, 2018:
@ArdentAtheist I found out ground chia is a great egg sub too. Accidentally bought ground chia instead of chia seeds. Made nice plump fluffy pancakes.
We did breakfast for dinner for my moms birthday.
graceylou comments on Sep 24, 2018:
That is one massive pile of pancakes!!!
graceylou replies on Sep 24, 2018:
@ArdentAtheist Honestly I can probably eat all that in one sitting. I’m quite a bit of a piggy.
graceylou comments on Sep 24, 2018:
That is one massive pile of pancakes!!!
graceylou replies on Sep 24, 2018:
@ArdentAtheist Honestly I can probably eat all that in one sitting. I’m quite a bit of a piggy.
When reading people’s profiles, I often see the word “Hovered “ , with the asterisk.
graceylou comments on Sep 23, 2018:
You can turn off hovering to prevent accidental hovers. I got tired of accidentally doing it I turned that function off completely.
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@TheDoubter Go to Settings then scroll down to Website Design Settings. It’s the second from the last on the list. Something to do with mini pop-ups.
graceylou comments on Sep 23, 2018:
You can turn off hovering to prevent accidental hovers. I got tired of accidentally doing it I turned that function off completely.
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@TheDoubter Go to Settings then scroll down to Website Design Settings. It’s the second from the last on the list. Something to do with mini pop-ups.
This site appears to have identity problems. Is it for dating or is it Facebook?
graceylou comments on Sep 23, 2018:
It’s a community and discussion site with a dating component for those interested in dating. Many of us, like me, are just here for community/discussion and are not participating in the dating aspects. It’s best to read members’ bios to see what it is they are looking for here.
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@birdingnut Oh I know. I’ve had my share of men wanting something I’m not offering, and obviously they don’t read profiles. I actually find the dating component of this site really annoying and gets in the way of my enjoyment of participating in discussions.
graceylou comments on Sep 23, 2018:
It’s a community and discussion site with a dating component for those interested in dating. Many of us, like me, are just here for community/discussion and are not participating in the dating aspects. It’s best to read members’ bios to see what it is they are looking for here.
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@birdingnut Oh I know. I’ve had my share of men wanting something I’m not offering, and obviously they don’t read profiles. I actually find the dating component of this site really annoying and gets in the way of my enjoyment of participating in discussions.
Past present or both... Describe your sex life using only a MOVIE TITLE..
graceylou comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Cast Away
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@hippydog You started it.
graceylou comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Cast Away
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@hippydog You started it.
Past present or both... Describe your sex life using only a MOVIE TITLE..
graceylou comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Cast Away
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@hippydog More likely I might put my hand print on them.
graceylou comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Cast Away
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@hippydog More likely I might put my hand print on them.
Past present or both... Describe your sex life using only a MOVIE TITLE..
graceylou comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Cast Away
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@hippydog Hmmmm. Well I do always talk to balls.
graceylou comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Cast Away
graceylou replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@hippydog Hmmmm. Well I do always talk to balls.
Why not just tell it like it is?
Is indeed still an active member, but has blocked you.
Sticks48 comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Too many to name. I can't keep up. My goal is to have everyone block me and then l can leave this site. I can't seem to pull the trigger on my own. ?
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
You are too nice and polite to block I’m afraid. You need to try harder. Ummm yeah, harder is always better.
Sticks48 comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Too many to name. I can't keep up. My goal is to have everyone block me and then l can leave this site. I can't seem to pull the trigger on my own. ?
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
You are too nice and polite to block I’m afraid. You need to try harder. Ummm yeah, harder is always better.
Blackadder...one of the funniest shows ever. Lord Flashheart’s Grand Entrance!
[youtu.be]
Cast1es comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Actually , I rather felt the period beard and mustache made him quite handsome looking .
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
I agree.
Cast1es comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Actually , I rather felt the period beard and mustache made him quite handsome looking .
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
I agree.
One of my favourite Middle Eastern rhythms and dance styles is BALADI.
dede18 comments on Sep 22, 2018:
my, she can SHIMMY ! lots of skill ... and that booty shake :-) Yes, very vigorous exercise ! I liked the rhythm
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
The more booty you have the better. I don’t have much of a booty unfortunately.
dede18 comments on Sep 22, 2018:
my, she can SHIMMY ! lots of skill ... and that booty shake :-) Yes, very vigorous exercise ! I liked the rhythm
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
The more booty you have the better. I don’t have much of a booty unfortunately.
One of my favourite Middle Eastern rhythms and dance styles is BALADI.
Marionville comments on Sep 22, 2018:
I would love to see you do this. Enjoyed the music and dance.
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
It takes years to learn this style and I've taken just a few classes and workshops. I would like to learn more in the future. It's not really my go to style as I usually do Tribal Fusion and Contemporary Fusion bellydance.
Marionville comments on Sep 22, 2018:
I would love to see you do this. Enjoyed the music and dance.
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
It takes years to learn this style and I've taken just a few classes and workshops. I would like to learn more in the future. It's not really my go to style as I usually do Tribal Fusion and Contemporary Fusion bellydance.
Any recommendations for good crime drama/detective series on TV?
graceylou comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Motive, a Canadian series. It’s no longer being produced but I still get reruns. Absolutely excellent series. You know the killer and victim from the beginning. The rest of the show is about how the detectives figure it out and piece together the motive.
Cardinal, limited series, Seasons 1 and...
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
@ValJ I hope you find it somewhere. It's a really well written smart sexy show with lots of twists and turns. You get the killer and victim introduced in the beginning and you wonder how the heck do these two seemingly unconnected people end up being killer and victim. I was so sad they cancelled the show because it's probably my favourite detective show ever!!!
graceylou comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Motive, a Canadian series. It’s no longer being produced but I still get reruns. Absolutely excellent series. You know the killer and victim from the beginning. The rest of the show is about how the detectives figure it out and piece together the motive.
Cardinal, limited series, Seasons 1 and...
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
@ValJ I hope you find it somewhere. It's a really well written smart sexy show with lots of twists and turns. You get the killer and victim introduced in the beginning and you wonder how the heck do these two seemingly unconnected people end up being killer and victim. I was so sad they cancelled the show because it's probably my favourite detective show ever!!!
What's a body part that you wouldn't mind losing, and why did you pick that one?
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
My uterus. I really want it gone. Never had much use for it.
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
@DenoPenno I have never had use for it and at my age I really don’t need it. Many women my age have issues with that part of our bodies. I wish they would remove it at birth. Totally useless bit.
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
My uterus. I really want it gone. Never had much use for it.
graceylou replies on Sep 22, 2018:
@DenoPenno I have never had use for it and at my age I really don’t need it. Many women my age have issues with that part of our bodies. I wish they would remove it at birth. Totally useless bit.
What's a body part that you wouldn't mind losing, and why did you pick that one?
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
My uterus. I really want it gone. Never had much use for it.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@VelociraptorRemy Nothing serious that’s why I haven’t had one now and my doctor isn’t recommending it. For now.
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
My uterus. I really want it gone. Never had much use for it.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@VelociraptorRemy Nothing serious that’s why I haven’t had one now and my doctor isn’t recommending it. For now.
What's a body part that you wouldn't mind losing, and why did you pick that one?
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
My uterus. I really want it gone. Never had much use for it.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@VelociraptorRemy I might get my wish soon.
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
My uterus. I really want it gone. Never had much use for it.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@VelociraptorRemy I might get my wish soon.
This is me.
What about you?
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 21, 2018:
Ta-da!
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat tamer
97% Dominant
97% Rigger
97% Primal (Hunter)
94% Non-monogamist
86% Master/Mistress
84% Owner
81% Daddy/Mommy
65% Degrader
59% Sadist
58% Experimentalist
53% Voyeur
51% Vanilla
41% Ageplayer
40% Exhibitionist
39% ...
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
I can be a brat, I think.
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 21, 2018:
Ta-da!
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Brat tamer
97% Dominant
97% Rigger
97% Primal (Hunter)
94% Non-monogamist
86% Master/Mistress
84% Owner
81% Daddy/Mommy
65% Degrader
59% Sadist
58% Experimentalist
53% Voyeur
51% Vanilla
41% Ageplayer
40% Exhibitionist
39% ...
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
I can be a brat, I think.
Where's the most public place you've ever been totally naked?
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
Yeah, just a secluded hotel pool for me. I’m not exhibitionist and I’m self conscious about my body.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor But you know sometimes I’m reluctant to show more unless I feel comfortable.
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
Yeah, just a secluded hotel pool for me. I’m not exhibitionist and I’m self conscious about my body.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor But you know sometimes I’m reluctant to show more unless I feel comfortable.
Where's the most public place you've ever been totally naked?
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
Yeah, just a secluded hotel pool for me. I’m not exhibitionist and I’m self conscious about my body.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@jamessmithwick Having suffered mental abuse growing up it will take a lifetime to fix myself.
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
Yeah, just a secluded hotel pool for me. I’m not exhibitionist and I’m self conscious about my body.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@jamessmithwick Having suffered mental abuse growing up it will take a lifetime to fix myself.
Where's the most public place you've ever been totally naked?
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
Yeah, just a secluded hotel pool for me. I’m not exhibitionist and I’m self conscious about my body.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@jamessmithwick I’ve dealt with BDD all my life (and OCD). I’ve been better at coping with it as an adult but now and again I feel the need to lock myself up so no one can see me as I feel hideous.
graceylou comments on Sep 21, 2018:
Yeah, just a secluded hotel pool for me. I’m not exhibitionist and I’m self conscious about my body.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@jamessmithwick I’ve dealt with BDD all my life (and OCD). I’ve been better at coping with it as an adult but now and again I feel the need to lock myself up so no one can see me as I feel hideous.
I know the subject of age difference has come up a few times here.
DenoPenno comments on Sep 21, 2018:
In my experience all my friends were married so it might have made me hurry to marry at 21 and the woman was 34 and had 4 kids. It worked for a couple of years. In the end we remained friends over the years. She's dead now and so are 2 of the kids.
Next I'm 24 and ran off with a 16 year old. ...
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
WOW. That’s quite a life story.
DenoPenno comments on Sep 21, 2018:
In my experience all my friends were married so it might have made me hurry to marry at 21 and the woman was 34 and had 4 kids. It worked for a couple of years. In the end we remained friends over the years. She's dead now and so are 2 of the kids.
Next I'm 24 and ran off with a 16 year old. ...
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
WOW. That’s quite a life story.
Why do young guys think sarcasm is positive?
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I’m not young and I’m not a man but I love being sarcastic. It’s part of my nature and why I get called a smartass all the time. I guess I don’t care if people like me. Most of the time it’s better that they don’t.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Piece2YourPuzzle Since I’m only limited to 7 characters on the vanity license plate including spaces I can’t have it spell SMARTASS or SMART ASS. But SMART S reads the same as those. An alternative might be SMRTASS.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I’m not young and I’m not a man but I love being sarcastic. It’s part of my nature and why I get called a smartass all the time. I guess I don’t care if people like me. Most of the time it’s better that they don’t.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Piece2YourPuzzle Since I’m only limited to 7 characters on the vanity license plate including spaces I can’t have it spell SMARTASS or SMART ASS. But SMART S reads the same as those. An alternative might be SMRTASS.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex The weather is always gloomy, wet, depressing. There’s a lot of crime and poverty. It’s very crowded, traffic is horrible. Housing prices are insane most people can’t afford to buy homes. For the price I paid for my almost 20 acres and 3600 sq ft home here, I would get a shed in Vancouver. The focus on trendiness is a bit sickening. There is a lot of sadness and suffering in Vancouver that just get shoved under the rug so tourists don’t see them and only see the pretty mountains and ocean and trendy shops.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex The weather is always gloomy, wet, depressing. There’s a lot of crime and poverty. It’s very crowded, traffic is horrible. Housing prices are insane most people can’t afford to buy homes. For the price I paid for my almost 20 acres and 3600 sq ft home here, I would get a shed in Vancouver. The focus on trendiness is a bit sickening. There is a lot of sadness and suffering in Vancouver that just get shoved under the rug so tourists don’t see them and only see the pretty mountains and ocean and trendy shops.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex My former home, yes. Actually, I hate Vancouver period!!! I hate going back there when I visit family and friends.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex My former home, yes. Actually, I hate Vancouver period!!! I hate going back there when I visit family and friends.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex UGH. Canucks are my most hated team!!!! And I'm from there. LOL.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex UGH. Canucks are my most hated team!!!! And I'm from there. LOL.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex Hmmmmm. I can't help you with that one. But may be you will be ok, as long as you're not a Flames fan.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex Hmmmmm. I can't help you with that one. But may be you will be ok, as long as you're not a Flames fan.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex Well we do have an international airport. And West Jet is an Alberta based airline that is very successful. There are also many smaller airports and airfields. Lots of transport for supplies and people for the oil fields up north. There’s also a big military base.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex Well we do have an international airport. And West Jet is an Alberta based airline that is very successful. There are also many smaller airports and airfields. Lots of transport for supplies and people for the oil fields up north. There’s also a big military base.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex it’s not too bad out here. Not as crowded as most other big cities, enough variety of everything, close to camping and vacation spots, cold but not as much snow as most other places, housing prices are decent, crime not too bad.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex it’s not too bad out here. Not as crowded as most other big cities, enough variety of everything, close to camping and vacation spots, cold but not as much snow as most other places, housing prices are decent, crime not too bad.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex It is currently snowing quite steadily. So much for the very end of summer.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex It is currently snowing quite steadily. So much for the very end of summer.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex Edmonton area
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 21, 2018:
@Captain747ex Edmonton area
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
Lukian comments on Sep 20, 2018:
so is it shorts or parka?
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@Science-guy Though I’m not near mountains.
Lukian comments on Sep 20, 2018:
so is it shorts or parka?
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@Science-guy Though I’m not near mountains.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
Lukian comments on Sep 20, 2018:
so is it shorts or parka?
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@Science-guy I was gardening once in shorts and tank top when it snowed in June.
Lukian comments on Sep 20, 2018:
so is it shorts or parka?
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@Science-guy I was gardening once in shorts and tank top when it snowed in June.
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@Science-guy Yuck!!! You can have it!!!
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
It was up to 11 C today and tomorrow the high will be 3 C, 1 C for Saturday, and 4 C for Sunday. Lows go down to -3 C. All three days with snow.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@Science-guy Yuck!!! You can have it!!!
Why do young guys think sarcasm is positive?
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I’m not young and I’m not a man but I love being sarcastic. It’s part of my nature and why I get called a smartass all the time. I guess I don’t care if people like me. Most of the time it’s better that they don’t.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor When I was still driving my beloved Smart car I wanted a vanity license plate that said SMART S. But I wasn’t allowed.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I’m not young and I’m not a man but I love being sarcastic. It’s part of my nature and why I get called a smartass all the time. I guess I don’t care if people like me. Most of the time it’s better that they don’t.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor When I was still driving my beloved Smart car I wanted a vanity license plate that said SMART S. But I wasn’t allowed.
Why do young guys think sarcasm is positive?
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I’m not young and I’m not a man but I love being sarcastic. It’s part of my nature and why I get called a smartass all the time. I guess I don’t care if people like me. Most of the time it’s better that they don’t.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@RedneckProfessor You are brave to offer!!!
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I’m not young and I’m not a man but I love being sarcastic. It’s part of my nature and why I get called a smartass all the time. I guess I don’t care if people like me. Most of the time it’s better that they don’t.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@RedneckProfessor You are brave to offer!!!
Going to feel like 38 Celsius tomorrow and then it’s going to feel like 5 Celsius tomorrow.
Lukian comments on Sep 20, 2018:
so is it shorts or parka?
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
Parka at 5 C? You’re joking right?
Lukian comments on Sep 20, 2018:
so is it shorts or parka?
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
Parka at 5 C? You’re joking right?
Silly selfies! C'mon, show 'em to me!
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I'm ALWAYS silly!!!
With my dog Leia, with my cat Salem, and with the Devil herself.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor You know which "s" adjective (and noun) I fit the best.
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I'm ALWAYS silly!!!
With my dog Leia, with my cat Salem, and with the Devil herself.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor You know which "s" adjective (and noun) I fit the best.
Silly selfies! C'mon, show 'em to me!
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I'm ALWAYS silly!!!
With my dog Leia, with my cat Salem, and with the Devil herself.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@FlippantLlama He was being a vampire kitty!!!
graceylou comments on Sep 20, 2018:
I'm ALWAYS silly!!!
With my dog Leia, with my cat Salem, and with the Devil herself.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@FlippantLlama He was being a vampire kitty!!!
Ok everyone. Selfie time! Real selfies (no joke shit) Come on out and show yourself!
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Me and my smirk. Bonus points if you know what’s on my shirt.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@thinktwice Stratford in Ontario is a huge Shakepearean Festival. We do have a smaller festival in the summer here called Shakespeare in the Park. When I lived in Vancouver, we had Bard on the Beach. I took an acting class in university, and one of my classmates, her husband was stage manager so we all got to go for free. One of the actors of the play we attended later became a regular on The X-Files, which was filmed in Vancouver. And he happened to be my friend's (fellow grad student) brother in law!!!
Daddy took me to The Globe Theater in London (re-creation of the original Globe Theater) and He took me to see As You Like it featuring Sienna Miller and Dominic West at a West End theatre. That was amazing!!!
We sooooooo need a Shakespeare group here!!
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Me and my smirk. Bonus points if you know what’s on my shirt.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@thinktwice Stratford in Ontario is a huge Shakepearean Festival. We do have a smaller festival in the summer here called Shakespeare in the Park. When I lived in Vancouver, we had Bard on the Beach. I took an acting class in university, and one of my classmates, her husband was stage manager so we all got to go for free. One of the actors of the play we attended later became a regular on The X-Files, which was filmed in Vancouver. And he happened to be my friend's (fellow grad student) brother in law!!!
Daddy took me to The Globe Theater in London (re-creation of the original Globe Theater) and He took me to see As You Like it featuring Sienna Miller and Dominic West at a West End theatre. That was amazing!!!
We sooooooo need a Shakespeare group here!!
Ok everyone. Selfie time! Real selfies (no joke shit) Come on out and show yourself!
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Me and my smirk. Bonus points if you know what’s on my shirt.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@thinktwice Oh, I did that with my younger brother, the Pi contest. He's a total nerd (with a MSc. in Astrophysics) and now a tech at the TRIUMF particle accelerator in BC. If things aren't bad enough, my friends and I would get together and act out scenes out of Shakespeare plays!!!
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Me and my smirk. Bonus points if you know what’s on my shirt.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@thinktwice Oh, I did that with my younger brother, the Pi contest. He's a total nerd (with a MSc. in Astrophysics) and now a tech at the TRIUMF particle accelerator in BC. If things aren't bad enough, my friends and I would get together and act out scenes out of Shakespeare plays!!!
Ok everyone. Selfie time! Real selfies (no joke shit) Come on out and show yourself!
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Me and my smirk. Bonus points if you know what’s on my shirt.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@thinktwice I had a birthday party at my house and my friends were all from the honours/AP classes we were in together. We were extremely competitive in Math and Sciences. I know it wouldn't be PC these days but one of our friends is of Iranian origin and we all called him John the Terrorist (his name really is John). He didn't mind the nickname at all. I remember him to be extremely smart and very sweet, and he gave me this T-shirt at my party.
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Me and my smirk. Bonus points if you know what’s on my shirt.
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
@thinktwice I had a birthday party at my house and my friends were all from the honours/AP classes we were in together. We were extremely competitive in Math and Sciences. I know it wouldn't be PC these days but one of our friends is of Iranian origin and we all called him John the Terrorist (his name really is John). He didn't mind the nickname at all. I remember him to be extremely smart and very sweet, and he gave me this T-shirt at my party.
Ok everyone. Selfie time! Real selfies (no joke shit) Come on out and show yourself!
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 20, 2018:
Cheese!
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
Your pics always make me smile.
JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 20, 2018:
Cheese!
graceylou replies on Sep 20, 2018:
Your pics always make me smile.
Ok everyone. Selfie time! Real selfies (no joke shit) Come on out and show yourself!
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Me and my smirk. Bonus points if you know what’s on my shirt.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@PolyWolf I got this shirt from a friend on my 17th birthday and I still have it now still in good shape. I love math!!!! I tutored high school and university math for 22 years.
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Me and my smirk. Bonus points if you know what’s on my shirt.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@PolyWolf I got this shirt from a friend on my 17th birthday and I still have it now still in good shape. I love math!!!! I tutored high school and university math for 22 years.
Just how freaky are you?
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Damn. Only $14,200. I'm so sheltered.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@OldGoat43 One of the acts I really want to do but haven’t had a chance.
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Damn. Only $14,200. I'm so sheltered.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@OldGoat43 One of the acts I really want to do but haven’t had a chance.
Just how freaky are you?
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Damn. Only $14,200. I'm so sheltered.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@HereticSin If you’re an old perv then so am I. You’re only two years older than I am.
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Damn. Only $14,200. I'm so sheltered.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@HereticSin If you’re an old perv then so am I. You’re only two years older than I am.
Just how freaky are you?
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Damn. Only $14,200. I'm so sheltered.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor One of them you can't help me on I'm afraid, unless you bring a friend.
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Damn. Only $14,200. I'm so sheltered.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@JeremyTaylor One of them you can't help me on I'm afraid, unless you bring a friend.
Just how freaky are you?
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Damn. Only $14,200. I'm so sheltered.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@HereticSin Why? Are you going to help me earn the $$$$?
graceylou comments on Sep 19, 2018:
Damn. Only $14,200. I'm so sheltered.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@HereticSin Why? Are you going to help me earn the $$$$?
How good are you at striking up conversation with a stranger?
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
For someone who has social anxiety and who doesn’t like people, I tend to end up talking to total strangers for hours and hours with no problem. I think it’s more crowds I have trouble with.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@FrayedBear Well, I work with dogs and I talk to them a lot.
I tend to get frustrated with people being idiots. Or being too normal. I would rather not to be around them.
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
For someone who has social anxiety and who doesn’t like people, I tend to end up talking to total strangers for hours and hours with no problem. I think it’s more crowds I have trouble with.
graceylou replies on Sep 19, 2018:
@FrayedBear Well, I work with dogs and I talk to them a lot.
I tend to get frustrated with people being idiots. Or being too normal. I would rather not to be around them.
How good are you at striking up conversation with a stranger?
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
For someone who has social anxiety and who doesn’t like people, I tend to end up talking to total strangers for hours and hours with no problem. I think it’s more crowds I have trouble with.
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@FrayedBear I’m not sure why I would need it since I don’t want to talk to people most of the time. As for public speaking, I’ve taught university classes and given lectures. In high school I competed in public speaking competitions....in French. I don’t have a problem talking to people; I just don’t want to.
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
For someone who has social anxiety and who doesn’t like people, I tend to end up talking to total strangers for hours and hours with no problem. I think it’s more crowds I have trouble with.
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@FrayedBear I’m not sure why I would need it since I don’t want to talk to people most of the time. As for public speaking, I’ve taught university classes and given lectures. In high school I competed in public speaking competitions....in French. I don’t have a problem talking to people; I just don’t want to.
How good are you at striking up conversation with a stranger?
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
For someone who has social anxiety and who doesn’t like people, I tend to end up talking to total strangers for hours and hours with no problem. I think it’s more crowds I have trouble with.
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@Ubergooroo I actually enjoy the chats. And we would cover tons of different topics. Before I know it three hours have passed.
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
For someone who has social anxiety and who doesn’t like people, I tend to end up talking to total strangers for hours and hours with no problem. I think it’s more crowds I have trouble with.
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@Ubergooroo I actually enjoy the chats. And we would cover tons of different topics. Before I know it three hours have passed.
What bands do you think most people probably aren't aware of, but absolutely should be?
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
I love Beats Antique too and have known them forever. I dance Tribal Fusion Belly dance and Zoe Jakes has been my idol (non-religious of course) since I started tribal fusion. Beats Antique was extremely popular in the tribal fusion community years ago when it was originally a gothic and steampunk ...
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@PolyWolf I have some male friends who are bellydancers and bellydance students. I love watching male bellydancers.
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
I love Beats Antique too and have known them forever. I dance Tribal Fusion Belly dance and Zoe Jakes has been my idol (non-religious of course) since I started tribal fusion. Beats Antique was extremely popular in the tribal fusion community years ago when it was originally a gothic and steampunk ...
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@PolyWolf I have some male friends who are bellydancers and bellydance students. I love watching male bellydancers.
What bands do you think most people probably aren't aware of, but absolutely should be?
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
I love Beats Antique too and have known them forever. I dance Tribal Fusion Belly dance and Zoe Jakes has been my idol (non-religious of course) since I started tribal fusion. Beats Antique was extremely popular in the tribal fusion community years ago when it was originally a gothic and steampunk ...
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@PolyWolf You did, did you? Hmmmm, you might like this too, I don't know.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMz7GzwZMaE
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
I love Beats Antique too and have known them forever. I dance Tribal Fusion Belly dance and Zoe Jakes has been my idol (non-religious of course) since I started tribal fusion. Beats Antique was extremely popular in the tribal fusion community years ago when it was originally a gothic and steampunk ...
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@PolyWolf You did, did you? Hmmmm, you might like this too, I don't know.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMz7GzwZMaE
What bands do you think most people probably aren't aware of, but absolutely should be?
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
I love Beats Antique too and have known them forever. I dance Tribal Fusion Belly dance and Zoe Jakes has been my idol (non-religious of course) since I started tribal fusion. Beats Antique was extremely popular in the tribal fusion community years ago when it was originally a gothic and steampunk ...
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@PolyWolf The bands we danced to back then were Beats Antique, Maduro, and Bassnectar (which is not a band really). I also like to dance to Balkan Beat Box.
graceylou comments on Sep 18, 2018:
I love Beats Antique too and have known them forever. I dance Tribal Fusion Belly dance and Zoe Jakes has been my idol (non-religious of course) since I started tribal fusion. Beats Antique was extremely popular in the tribal fusion community years ago when it was originally a gothic and steampunk ...
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
@PolyWolf The bands we danced to back then were Beats Antique, Maduro, and Bassnectar (which is not a band really). I also like to dance to Balkan Beat Box.
What bands do you think most people probably aren't aware of, but absolutely should be?
Zster comments on Sep 18, 2018:
I LOVE Beats Antique! Such a great fusion of old, new, and ethnic, with a beat that's irresistable!
https://youtu.be/4DGE0zVuHs4
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
Love this song, and love Zoe!!!
Zster comments on Sep 18, 2018:
I LOVE Beats Antique! Such a great fusion of old, new, and ethnic, with a beat that's irresistable!
https://youtu.be/4DGE0zVuHs4
graceylou replies on Sep 18, 2018:
Love this song, and love Zoe!!!
Computer generated...so, what do you think?
graceylou comments on Sep 17, 2018:
That would look amazing on you. It’s fun to try different hair colours. I’m just stuck with black.
graceylou replies on Sep 17, 2018:
@MissKathleen If I have an event to go to may be. I don’t go out much and people don’t see me, much less my hair.
graceylou comments on Sep 17, 2018:
That would look amazing on you. It’s fun to try different hair colours. I’m just stuck with black.
graceylou replies on Sep 17, 2018:
@MissKathleen If I have an event to go to may be. I don’t go out much and people don’t see me, much less my hair.
Computer generated...so, what do you think?
graceylou comments on Sep 17, 2018:
That would look amazing on you. It’s fun to try different hair colours. I’m just stuck with black.
graceylou replies on Sep 17, 2018:
@MissKathleen I did. It says water soluble.
graceylou comments on Sep 17, 2018:
That would look amazing on you. It’s fun to try different hair colours. I’m just stuck with black.
graceylou replies on Sep 17, 2018:
@MissKathleen I did. It says water soluble.
Computer generated...so, what do you think?
graceylou comments on Sep 17, 2018:
That would look amazing on you. It’s fun to try different hair colours. I’m just stuck with black.
graceylou replies on Sep 17, 2018:
@MissKathleen Hmmmm. Water soluble?
graceylou comments on Sep 17, 2018:
That would look amazing on you. It’s fun to try different hair colours. I’m just stuck with black.
graceylou replies on Sep 17, 2018:
@MissKathleen Hmmmm. Water soluble?
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