Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

SaucyCheryl comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Why block people? Just let them know you aren't dating right now. Seems kinda extreme.

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

Well this guy was talking about god and got miffed because I questioned him on it. Others just get rude and angry and I don’t need that.

Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

Quazi comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Have you thought about changing or taking off your gender to deter some of the inconsiderate men?

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

Not really. I shouldn’t have to be the one to give up something because others can’t or don’t read.

Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

Buffulo1 comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Your expectations are reasonable. They even ask if you are lookin for dating or not. I am married and like you just looking for meaningful dialog with people of the same beliefs.

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

I was a little apprehensive joining this site because I wasn’t sure if it’s primarily a dating site but reading the info it seems it was just a community site with dating added because members wanted it. I joined because of the option to say no to dating.

Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

BSquared comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Hang in there graceylou, there are losers in every crowd.

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

I will survive. Just I don’t like conflict with people because it just ruins my day.

Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

Cosmicowl_73 comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Sorry this happens to you. This is true, I just want to read and comment on posts lol I still get messages here and there but for the most part being "here for the community" has helped a lot. I feel the same way. I would hate to have to block people but sometimes you have to do what's best.

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

Yes, I think it could be a lot worse. I mostly blocked today because of the god thing.

Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

Burnedhawk comments on Aug 28, 2018:

I'm here for fun, for friend and all other kinky stuff ??

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

Me too!!!

Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

weeman comments on Aug 28, 2018:

really he prayed to god thats hilarious he thought someone who identifies as atheist would find that an ok statement fuck me some people are beyond stupid

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

Right? I asked him if he believes in god why is he here. Sheesh. If I were looking I wouldn’t go for a believer infiltrating an agnostic/atheist site. And if he prayed to god and god sent him me, that should be enough for him to ditch religion. LOL.

Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

Singledad76 comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Perhaps it’s because I’m a man, but I haven’t had that experience here. I have 9 sisters and completely understand your plight. If you’re an attractive woman it is especially difficult to get through nearly anything without being hit on. I’ve just never understood why a guy would act so ...

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

Yes, there are many wonderful people here I enjoy chatting with and getting to know. I’m not looking for a relationship but I have formed some relationships here, just not THAT type most people are looking for when dating. But absolutely, the majority of the members here are decent, exceptional, intelligent, funny, brilliant, creative, witty. And literate enough to read profiles.

Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

Tomfoolery33 comments on Aug 28, 2018:

I joined in the hope of dating, but I stayed because of the community. It's great fun being on here and talking and laughing with like minded people. I hope this doesn't sour you on the site too much. And I have a feeling that this happens a lot more with attractive women, sadly.

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

No. I’m not discouraged from staying in the community. It’s just that something like that might ruin my mood for the day. I’m really enjoying myself here otherwise, especially in the groups.

Do people take "Here for community" seriously?

Fibonacci1618 comments on Aug 28, 2018:

That's sucks, sorry for your ill experience. I hope you continue to enjoy yourself. You contribute some interesting perspectives and are quite witty and playful. Hope you have a better day darling

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

Thank you. You are very sweet. For the most part I have fun here. Only now and again I get a few desperate sounding people who need a life partner now!!! Since I list myself as here for community I don’t feel the need to lay out all my personal and relationship information in my profile. Those who get to know me will find out more of that by getting to know me as friends or more.

So I was on my hands and knees, and I smelled like alcohol, and I was covered in baby powder.

sellinger comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Wait one minute! You didn't finish the story! ?

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

Was there even a finish? It shall remain a mystery.

[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.

glennlab comments on Aug 27, 2018:

They look like they got left in the sun, too pink.

graceylou replies on Aug 28, 2018:

@glennlab I know.

So I was on my hands and knees, and I smelled like alcohol, and I was covered in baby powder.

CarolinaGirl60 comments on Aug 27, 2018:

Sex in the shower. Trying not to fall, cramp, or drown: NOT sexy!

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

I agree.

I'm very fortunate to say this is never happened to me.

graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:

I have never climaxed during intercourse in my entire life. I just am not able to. A man would have to keep going until he’s blue in the face if he keeps trying. I would prefer he gets there even if I don’t get to climax at all during the whole thing.

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@HardBlues69 That said I don’t even need climaxing to enjoy myself.

So I was on my hands and knees, and I smelled like alcohol, and I was covered in baby powder.

Flexymorals comments on Aug 27, 2018:

I was told to get up and close my eyes. “Walk forward toward me”, he said. My eyes remained shut as he watched my every move. “Now open up and blow” he commanded as he shoved forces his way into my mouth. He chuckled as I heard the sound of metal clinking. “Turn around” he said as he ...

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

That sounded kinda hot, until the end. Well, I don’t know, the end part could possibly be fun too.

So I was on my hands and knees, and I smelled like alcohol, and I was covered in baby powder.

JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 27, 2018:

@graceylou the first 8 words are so promising too...

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 Aaawwww.

So I was on my hands and knees, and I smelled like alcohol, and I was covered in baby powder.

JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 27, 2018:

@graceylou the first 8 words are so promising too...

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor How many can fit in your hotel room?

I'm very fortunate to say this is never happened to me.

graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:

I have never climaxed during intercourse in my entire life. I just am not able to. A man would have to keep going until he’s blue in the face if he keeps trying. I would prefer he gets there even if I don’t get to climax at all during the whole thing.

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@HardBlues69 Oh I can climax just not vaginally. Your question has to do with intercourse specifically, no? Usually I get taken care of first either orally or manually and it does feel good with the actual sex part right after where he gets his turn.

So I was on my hands and knees, and I smelled like alcohol, and I was covered in baby powder.

JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 27, 2018:

@graceylou the first 8 words are so promising too...

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

May be it would’ve turned out differently if you were there. ?

[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.

glennlab comments on Aug 27, 2018:

They look like they got left in the sun, too pink.

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

Pink is my favourite colour!!!

Maroon 5 feat.

graceylou comments on Aug 27, 2018:

I just watched it for Adam Levine. Yummy.

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Alvingo1 I don't even know who most of them are. But irrelevant anyway.

My Sir/Daddy had play time today. Pictures to com, if he approves.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Sigh. It’s been awhile since I had a Daddy. Fun times.

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 I like to please so either way has been ok.

McDonald's or Burger King?

graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:

I don’t go to fast food restaurants. I rarely go to restaurants. I prefer to cook my own meals. If I’m out there and need to get something to eat and drink I would find a Starbucks and check online for a list of their items that are vegan (not all available at all locations). I rarely drink ...

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Dandewine Apparently it uses honey. I don’t know if that is just in Canada or everywhere because ingredients can differ in different countries for the same products.

My Sir/Daddy had play time today. Pictures to com, if he approves.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Sigh. It’s been awhile since I had a Daddy. Fun times.

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 It wasn’t my thing at first but I got more comfortable with it after awhile. I did like the nurturing side of it. I do miss having a nurturing yet strict Daddy however.

When did you first realize you were deviant?

Mitch07102 comments on Aug 27, 2018:

Never. I reject the term. If two people (or yourself) in an informed way choose to do something, who says it's deviant? Uncommon perhaps, maybe revolting even, but if it is not to you and your informed and consenting partner.....it's not deviant. How about sexually adventurous? Unconventional?

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Mitch07102 May be I can use my charms. Or break out the whip and the flogger.

When did you first realize you were deviant?

Mitch07102 comments on Aug 27, 2018:

Never. I reject the term. If two people (or yourself) in an informed way choose to do something, who says it's deviant? Uncommon perhaps, maybe revolting even, but if it is not to you and your informed and consenting partner.....it's not deviant. How about sexually adventurous? Unconventional?

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Mitch07102 I think everyone knows my sexual ummmm adventurousness. I'm open about it to my friends and relatives, and I don't care if anyone else knows. I think the term actually is attractive to me. I'm also into deviant art, which I think is a very cool name. May be Jeremy might consider changing the name if that is possible.

My Sir/Daddy had play time today. Pictures to com, if he approves.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Sigh. It’s been awhile since I had a Daddy. Fun times.

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 I just feel I'm a little too old to be in that position now. I hadn't talked to Daddy for a very long time since I broke things off (not going to discuss why). I just broke up with my much younger boyfriend but he liked to call me Mommy sometimes.

When did you first realize you were deviant?

Mitch07102 comments on Aug 27, 2018:

Never. I reject the term. If two people (or yourself) in an informed way choose to do something, who says it's deviant? Uncommon perhaps, maybe revolting even, but if it is not to you and your informed and consenting partner.....it's not deviant. How about sexually adventurous? Unconventional?

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

Why would you be in a group called Sexual Deviants if you reject the term. I don't see the term as negative at all myself.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

chalupacabre comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Some favorites Vancouver, BC Baltimore, MD Aachen, DE Strassbourg, DE Lagos, PT Prague, CZ Edinburgh, UK Cheltenham, UK Not-so favorites Djibouti, DJ Chehalis, WA

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@chalupacabre It’s probably a different kind of cold. Kinda like Vancouver, damp cold.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Sticks48 comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Favorites : New Orleans... Been there about 6 times NYC...One time visitor, great time Louisville Ky... A most beautiful city Least favorites : Miami/Ft Lauderdale...Phoniest people l have ever been around ( Aspen is the same ) Phoenix...The least charming city l have been to....

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Sticks48 Good night. Have a good one.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Sticks48 comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Favorites : New Orleans... Been there about 6 times NYC...One time visitor, great time Louisville Ky... A most beautiful city Least favorites : Miami/Ft Lauderdale...Phoniest people l have ever been around ( Aspen is the same ) Phoenix...The least charming city l have been to....

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Sticks48 I make sushi rolls filled with veggies. Sometimes also tofu or some sort of faux meat but only limited amounts. I use vegan mayo for the sauce inside the sushi rolls. I made cornbread tonight. I don’t always like sweet foods but sometimes it’s nice to have some around. I can’t buy vegan treats in the stores in town so I make them myself.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Sticks48 comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Favorites : New Orleans... Been there about 6 times NYC...One time visitor, great time Louisville Ky... A most beautiful city Least favorites : Miami/Ft Lauderdale...Phoniest people l have ever been around ( Aspen is the same ) Phoenix...The least charming city l have been to....

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Sticks48 I hate salads. And they often cover it with cheese and the dressing is usually not vegan. I don’t have a typical day. I eat a variety of grains, veggies, fruits, legumes. I have veggies with rice or pasta, soups, tofu scramble, burritos or fajitas with vegan alternatives, veggie sushi. I make pancakes, cookies, cakes, cupcakes, other treats and desserts. I make my own bread also.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Sticks48 comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Favorites : New Orleans... Been there about 6 times NYC...One time visitor, great time Louisville Ky... A most beautiful city Least favorites : Miami/Ft Lauderdale...Phoniest people l have ever been around ( Aspen is the same ) Phoenix...The least charming city l have been to....

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Sticks48 I’m not a foodie. So I don’t put much into eating. I much prefer going on adventures. I might be able to ask the restaurants to change menu items a bit. There are sandwich places that make nice vegan sandwiches but they are open only for office workers and close at 2 pm. So disappointing.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Sticks48 comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Favorites : New Orleans... Been there about 6 times NYC...One time visitor, great time Louisville Ky... A most beautiful city Least favorites : Miami/Ft Lauderdale...Phoniest people l have ever been around ( Aspen is the same ) Phoenix...The least charming city l have been to....

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Sticks48 Sometimes art just captures you. I am a huge fan of the Tate Modern in London. I never thought I would be a fan of modern art but I went back over and over. And no, vegan food was difficult to find especially when you don’t have a vehicle to just go anywhere. I did find a few options and quite a few at the grocery stores. I traveled vegetarian then (only if I couldn’t find a vegan option). Now I’m a strict vegan so it would be even more difficult. I’d survive though.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Sticks48 comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Favorites : New Orleans... Been there about 6 times NYC...One time visitor, great time Louisville Ky... A most beautiful city Least favorites : Miami/Ft Lauderdale...Phoniest people l have ever been around ( Aspen is the same ) Phoenix...The least charming city l have been to....

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Sticks48 That was the only problem I had in New Orleans. Food. Everything had meat or seafood in it. I survived on pasta with some kind of tomato sauce (and I’m allergic to tomatoes). I bought my food at the corner markets and took to the hotel. In NYC I spent like 6 hours at the Museum of Natural History (because I’m such a nerd) until they had to kick me out when they were closing.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

OlderMusicGeek comments on Aug 26, 2018:

I haven't traveled much since the 90s, but I loved London, Paris, Rome, Venice, Madrid, Athens, and New Orleans! But if you want see some awesome nature, check out the South African national parks! And Botswana and Namibia next door are pretty awesome too!

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

I’d love to visit Africa one day. I didn’t quite like Paris and Venice. But the history and architecture are amazing.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

helionoftroy comments on Aug 26, 2018:

I would love to travel Europe. Get on a train and tour as many countries as possible. I'm not a fan of New Orleans. I was there in August one year and the city stunk. Even being drunk 90% of the time didn't help. Savannah is a fun city, also smells from the sulfur, but..it is historical with lots of...

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

I’m not too worried about criminal activity. Europe tends to be bad for that though. My friend had her purse stolen in Amsterdam. She had our passports in her purse at the time. I chased down a girl who grabbed cash I was handing to a ferry ticket agent at Victoria station in London. North America feels safe by comparison.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

chalupacabre comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Some favorites Vancouver, BC Baltimore, MD Aachen, DE Strassbourg, DE Lagos, PT Prague, CZ Edinburgh, UK Cheltenham, UK Not-so favorites Djibouti, DJ Chehalis, WA

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

Edinburgh is on my list for the next few years. I have been to Aachen a few times. Quite a nice place. My relatives are mostly in the Netherlands so we would go into Germany and Belgium niwcabd then. Germans are very nice people I find.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Sticks48 comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Favorites : New Orleans... Been there about 6 times NYC...One time visitor, great time Louisville Ky... A most beautiful city Least favorites : Miami/Ft Lauderdale...Phoniest people l have ever been around ( Aspen is the same ) Phoenix...The least charming city l have been to....

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

Yay. New Orleans!!! Meet ya there!! I like NYC too. I felt safe enough travelling alone. No issues. I met up with some online friends from upstate NY one day and that was fun.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Ozman comments on Aug 26, 2018:

In the US, Portland OR, Denver, and Santa Fe NM. I hate just about everything else. ;) Internationally, my favourites are Munich, Brisbane, Montreal, Toronto and Sydney. Wondering what is wrong with Vancouver, though. I want to see London, Vancouver, Perth, Berlin, and so many others.

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@Ozman I have been to both Seattle and Portland. They are quite similar to Vancouver for sure. Friendly open cities with deep secrets. Denver. I’ve only been at the airport (way too many times) and boy do I hate that airport.

What made you smile today?

graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Hearing from a particular someone from here ?

graceylou replies on Aug 27, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor I’d rather join him behind the curtain. Sounds fun.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Kriptikos comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Vitória, Espírito Santo Brasil and Amsterdam are my favorites, least favorite is Rome. Would love to go to Rouen France and Tokyo. Recommend Vitória, Espírito Santo Brasil, beautiful beaches, the people are extremely friendly and fun. When walking along the beach there are little trailers that ...

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

Wild horses sound cool. Fish no. I should list Amsterdam as one of my least favourite. Been there 6 times because most of my relatives live in the Netherlsnds. The city is beautiful but I had encountered open racism and theft of my property there quite a bit.

Which are your favourite cities/towns to visit?

Ozman comments on Aug 26, 2018:

In the US, Portland OR, Denver, and Santa Fe NM. I hate just about everything else. ;) Internationally, my favourites are Munich, Brisbane, Montreal, Toronto and Sydney. Wondering what is wrong with Vancouver, though. I want to see London, Vancouver, Perth, Berlin, and so many others.

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

I used to live in the Vancouver area. Grew up there pretty much. My family is still there. All the rainy days, grumpy people, high priced everything, and crowding, and high crime are quite depressing. For all the beautiful things there, there is an equivalent amount of horrible things. The bad things just get blocked behind a wall or moved to a location tourists don’t go to.

McDonald's or Burger King?

graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:

I don’t go to fast food restaurants. I rarely go to restaurants. I prefer to cook my own meals. If I’m out there and need to get something to eat and drink I would find a Starbucks and check online for a list of their items that are vegan (not all available at all locations). I rarely drink ...

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

I mean, if I need to grab something to eat or drink quick, that is. My phone app won’t let me edit.

Opportunity bless my soul

graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:

I’ll back that.

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor Sure. I’ll back into you.

What made you smile today?

graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Hearing from a particular someone from here ?

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

@helionoftroy But but but, it’s top secret!!!

What made you smile today?

graceylou comments on Aug 26, 2018:

Hearing from a particular someone from here ?

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor I will never tell. But I think you know him very well. ?

Do you "dress your age"?

PontifexMarximus comments on Aug 25, 2018:

perhaps it is more important to dress one's size rather than age ...

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

@PontifexMarximus Still I’m not considered within current average range by far so I must not be served the same as average women when it comes to clothing. I tend to be seen as having something wrong with me. And I’m not tiny. I’m over 5’3 and 115 lbs. A friend of mine is 4’11 and 88 lbs. she’s more of an outlier than I am for sure.

Do you "dress your age"?

PontifexMarximus comments on Aug 25, 2018:

perhaps it is more important to dress one's size rather than age ...

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

@PontifexMarximus Where I used to work they worry I might not be able to lift a heavier dog into the tub to get cleaned, because I’m much smaller than my coworkers. They really had no idea how much I can lift. I’m small but I’m strong.

Do you "dress your age"?

PontifexMarximus comments on Aug 25, 2018:

perhaps it is more important to dress one's size rather than age ...

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

@PontifexMarximus So she knows exactly how I feel. My friend who is larger says that size 14-16 is the average size and therefore normal. I’m not a normal size. They don’t need to stock a lot for us not normal humans.

Do you "dress your age"?

PontifexMarximus comments on Aug 25, 2018:

perhaps it is more important to dress one's size rather than age ...

graceylou replies on Aug 26, 2018:

@PontifexMarximus I’m not tiny. I wear a regular size small or around size 5/6. But people have complained that stores don’t stock realistic sizes so now they rarely stock my size because apparently I’m not a realistic size because I’m not size 14 or larger.

Some people who have difficulties becoming intimate with a possible lover do so as a result of body ...

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I used to be extremely body conscious although I have never been overweight. But having been with men who have been nothing but appreciative of my form reassures me that it’s ok to let go of those insecurities. None of us is perfect and it’s ok to accept yourself and others as unique and to just...

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor The appreciation is mutual. ?

Do you "dress your age"?

PontifexMarximus comments on Aug 25, 2018:

perhaps it is more important to dress one's size rather than age ...

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

Sometimes I can’t find my size and have to go with bigger.

I just realized ".

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I had been chatting with another member and thought we were getting along well. Until one day he was not on my following list, all his messages are gone, etc. I searched for his name and it came up and when I tried to see his profile it says he’s not an active member at this time. I can’t ...

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@Sticks48 My rule, don’t ever apologize. If I bump into someone or accidentally step on someone’s foot well yeah. I won’t ever apologize for stating my opinions or offending someone.

I just realized ".

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I had been chatting with another member and thought we were getting along well. Until one day he was not on my following list, all his messages are gone, etc. I searched for his name and it came up and when I tried to see his profile it says he’s not an active member at this time. I can’t ...

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@Sticks48 but then, it’s probably a good thing those morons blocked you.

I just realized ".

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I had been chatting with another member and thought we were getting along well. Until one day he was not on my following list, all his messages are gone, etc. I searched for his name and it came up and when I tried to see his profile it says he’s not an active member at this time. I can’t ...

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@Sticks48 I stay away from political posts. Sometimes I chime in on judgemental posts because I really hate judgmental people. I don’t tend to piss off people because I avoid certain types of posts.

I just realized ".

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I had been chatting with another member and thought we were getting along well. Until one day he was not on my following list, all his messages are gone, etc. I searched for his name and it came up and when I tried to see his profile it says he’s not an active member at this time. I can’t ...

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@Sticks48 I’m not sure. It’s pretty vague. And why would anyone block you? You’re always nice and polite.

I just realized ".

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I had been chatting with another member and thought we were getting along well. Until one day he was not on my following list, all his messages are gone, etc. I searched for his name and it came up and when I tried to see his profile it says he’s not an active member at this time. I can’t ...

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@pepperjones Now I'm really wondering how many people have blocked me and what I have ever done to them. Well, actually I just don't care.

This is a question for women.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Not at all. Sometimes I'm just curious why. I'm not that interesting.

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@questionall They are in the groups so I don’t know if the posts would show up in the general posts.

This is a question for women.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Not at all. Sometimes I'm just curious why. I'm not that interesting.

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@questionall I posted a recipe for some yummy balls recently.

This is a question for women.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Not at all. Sometimes I'm just curious why. I'm not that interesting.

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@questionall I post recipes in the vegan groups. They might not show up on my profile. I rarely talk to my parents even now, only when absolutely necessary (like my mom was in the hospital recently for pneumonia). I do get updates from various people. If I call and talk to them it might just end up in arguments.

[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.

Sticks48 comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I know squeezing mine can certainly relieve stress. If someone else gives it a squeeze, even better. They are cuter than those Cabbage Patch Dolls, but then what isn't? ☺

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

The kids can have the Cabbage Patch Dolls. I will have these. I will squeeze yours if you squeeze mine?

[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Equal opportunity? https://www.amazon.ca/yaode-Animals-Squeeze-Miniature-Decoration/dp/B07BWBG4GT/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8=1535225214&sr=8-1=ding+ding+squishy

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

I can get a 20 pack of the little squishy ding dings from amazon but unfortunately, not the bigger plushy ones. SIGH.

[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.

helionoftroy comments on Aug 25, 2018:

I want one!! But I can't see taking it to work. We just had a training class on inappropriate behavior and sexual harassment. Don't think it would go over very well. Someone would be offended.

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

I would get the plush to snuggle with in my bed. LOL. They are so cute and squishy.

[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.

Captain747ex comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Well, there's something you don't see everyday.

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

The ad popped up on my Facebook feed. I wonder what made them think I'm an audience for this sort of thing. LOL.

[lazada.com.ph] I need me some Ding Ding.

Blue-eyes comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Why would anyone buy a soft penis?

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

https://www.facebook.com/EcomKingdom/videos/1941463989479420/ This video might explain it (sorry, found it on Facebook)

This is a question for women.

graceylou comments on Aug 25, 2018:

Not at all. Sometimes I'm just curious why. I'm not that interesting.

graceylou replies on Aug 25, 2018:

@questionall It must be the recipes I posted.

Do you "dress your age"?

Coldo comments on Aug 24, 2018:

I dress kinda twenties style.

graceylou replies on Aug 24, 2018:

That is cool. I have a flapper dress.

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Nada comments on Aug 24, 2018:

I don't think that should even be a thing. I say dress how you feel like dressing, to express yourself, a d to be comfortable. No other reason matters (although if you do corporate work you might need a couple of suites, which I personally utterly despise and forever happy that I don't have to.)

graceylou replies on Aug 24, 2018:

I am technically the CEO of my corporation (on paper anyway). LOL. My corporate work includes playing with dogs and getting grubby. Jeans and t-shirt are standard office wear.

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evergreen comments on Aug 24, 2018:

Unless one is a fashionista (more power to 'em), it seems most folks gravitate to what is comfortable - fashion trends be damned ! I know here in super casual, and often very warm Florida, I dress for comfort . On the rare occasions I need to dress up a bit , I manage - but really don't ...

graceylou replies on Aug 24, 2018:

I would be completely out of place around a fashionista, although I used to be one. I used to work around the university and with students, and those people aren't exactly examples of trendy fashion. And now, I work with dogs. They don't care what I wear, and on occasion, I've had my clothing torn up by overly enthusiastic pooches. I like casual and comfortable but I also love unique one of a kind clothing. I feel as comfortable in shorts and tank top as I am in a ball gown in heels.

Do you "dress your age"?

marksam8484 comments on Aug 24, 2018:

Dress the way that makes you feel good, don't worry about what others think. Of course I am going to deviate on one fashion trend "Thongs". YIKES!!!, some people definitely should not wear them. Actually I am just going to say that most people shouldn't wear them, but hey that's just my ...

graceylou replies on Aug 24, 2018:

@marksam8484 I don't know. I think you would look hot parading in nothing but a hot pink thong.

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Mitch07102 comments on Aug 24, 2018:

An interesting question. I think it's fine to have one's own style, which may or may not fit other's perception of age-appropriate. Be reasonable: If you don't like suits but it's a formal affair, go with the flow. Where I see this being charged revolves around the objectification of women when ...

graceylou replies on Aug 24, 2018:

Yes, dressing the way you want is usually fine except in the cases that you mentioned. I can easily pull off a Hello Kitty top and short frilly skirt because I don't look like I'm in my 40s. On the other hand, I can hardly pull off a blouse and a blazer without someone asking me if I'm going to a special event.

Do you "dress your age"?

marksam8484 comments on Aug 24, 2018:

Dress the way that makes you feel good, don't worry about what others think. Of course I am going to deviate on one fashion trend "Thongs". YIKES!!!, some people definitely should not wear them. Actually I am just going to say that most people shouldn't wear them, but hey that's just my ...

graceylou replies on Aug 24, 2018:

There is a time and place for thongs. They are super uncomfortable. I might wear thong undies when I wear tight body-fitting dresses and don't want panty lines showing through. Or if I wear a skirt for dance with slits way up my thighs.

Do you "dress your age"?

JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 23, 2018:

For me comfort and function are king. I wear dress clothes for work every day. Slacks, dress shirt, tie (I hate ties). I would much rather where be wearing shorts and a t-shirt, or jeans and polo or flannel when it's colder. At home I'm as likely to be wearing nothing as I am to wear something.

graceylou replies on Aug 24, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor I will show you double.

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PalacinkyPDX comments on Aug 24, 2018:

Just my opinion (but shared by much of the world)... most Americans dress like slobs. It's not just how someone doesn't 'dress their age' it's rather that the majority of Americans dress in a very juvenile fashion in formless, schlubby or blocky clothes. This country looks like one big Simpson ...

graceylou replies on Aug 24, 2018:

If they feel comfortable should it matter to anyone else?

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escapetypist comments on Aug 24, 2018:

I look awful in yoga pants

graceylou replies on Aug 24, 2018:

Then take it off?

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Green_eyes comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I’m also 47. How should we dress? I see women my age dress like they’re 80. I take care of my body, I will wear whatever I want for the most part. It’s usually tight and sexy... I’ll admit it.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

You go girl!!! And me too. I love tight clothing. Sex appeal. I know forty somethings often dress frumpy.

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weeman comments on Aug 23, 2018:

either shorts or a kilt tshirt hiking boots odd socks and when weather turns colder a jumper

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

Kilt!!!!

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bleurowz comments on Aug 23, 2018:

When I was younger, except for a few years in college I actually dressed older because I wasn't very comfortable in my body. Lots of shapeless, matronly styles. As I've gotten older though I've become more comfortable with who I am and gravitate to things that are more fun and figure-flattering. ...

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

I was very prissy when I was in high school. Blouses, blazers, long skirts, pantyhose, dress shoes. In my later 20s I switcted to more sporty styles. I turned into a free spirit later in life.

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patchoullijulie comments on Aug 23, 2018:

Oh good grief no. I actively avoid trying to dress my age. How boring. :D

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

Right. Me too.

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JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 23, 2018:

For me comfort and function are king. I wear dress clothes for work every day. Slacks, dress shirt, tie (I hate ties). I would much rather where be wearing shorts and a t-shirt, or jeans and polo or flannel when it's colder. At home I'm as likely to be wearing nothing as I am to wear something.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor I dare you!!!

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SummerM79 comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I dress how I want. Never been told to dress my age.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

I did get told once. And I tried to dress more “mature” but then I get asked why i was dressing up.

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JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 23, 2018:

For me comfort and function are king. I wear dress clothes for work every day. Slacks, dress shirt, tie (I hate ties). I would much rather where be wearing shorts and a t-shirt, or jeans and polo or flannel when it's colder. At home I'm as likely to be wearing nothing as I am to wear something.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor Only if you show me proof yourself. Again.

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birdingnut comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I just wear what's most comfortable for me..always. I design/make most of my own clothes, so now lean toward Thai designs and wear stretch cotton T-shirts. Pic taken this Christmas at a local store.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

Looks very comfortable.

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antitheism comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I dress. Isn't that enough?

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

Sure. But I'm ok with undress.

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Donna_I comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I tried to find a cotton, button down, fitted-ish, oxford style shirt. Three shops - no luck. Not just not in a color or a size I liked but nothing in the store at all! Somedays I really dislike women's fashion.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

@Donna_I If you like it, wear it, right. I tend to go the opposite of traditional. I have some "shabby" style tops, OOAK or custom made for me.

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Donna_I comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I tried to find a cotton, button down, fitted-ish, oxford style shirt. Three shops - no luck. Not just not in a color or a size I liked but nothing in the store at all! Somedays I really dislike women's fashion.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

@Donna_I Ha! That's my garb.

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pepperjones comments on Aug 23, 2018:

Ill be 48 in a week and a half. I wear dresses and skirts with heels every day; most hemlines go above my knees. I don't look like the other moms in the PTA... I look good ;)

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

Go for it sista!!! You look hot!!!

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Donna_I comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I tried to find a cotton, button down, fitted-ish, oxford style shirt. Three shops - no luck. Not just not in a color or a size I liked but nothing in the store at all! Somedays I really dislike women's fashion.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

Right? Sometimes I look at the trendy clothes and go, NOPE!!!

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WesleyMatthews comments on Aug 23, 2018:

Shorts and band and comic character T's... And a mohawk.... Lol

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

I wonder how I would look with a mohawk. Gotta try that sometime.

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Gwendolyn2018 comments on Aug 23, 2018:

My sister and the gossipy woman at McD's think that I do not dress appropriately for my age; I am almost 66. I wear short skirts, high heels, and show a bit of cleavage (tank tops). I also shop in the junior department; not only are the dresses cuter, but they are cheaper. I either wear jeans or ...

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

That's so awesome. You look great so why not flaunt it.

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KissedbySun comments on Aug 23, 2018:

Dress however you want, which may or may not include dressing to impress, dressing for a job, dressing to shut up the haters. We each have different challenges to face and reasons for putting more or less energy into our appearance. I never have worn make up and 99% of the time my hair is in a ...

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

I love Hello Kitty gear!!!! And I'm proud of it. LOL.

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Nevermind345 comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I dress in colors and exactly what I feel myself in. I have a closet full of suits that I haven't worn in years. Sneakers, Jeans, T-Shirts of every type, kind, color and sayings. Baseball Hats, Berets, Balmorals on Occasion, Bandana's and Jeans. My hats and shirts are me and I'm over 60.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

I love bold colours!!!

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Kriptikos comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I feel the same as you, and apparently dress the same, i’m 47 as well. :-)

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

Awesome!!!!

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sassygirl3869 comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I dress the way I please. Still have the figure for short shorts, camis, halters but wear one piece bathing suits.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

I can’t do one piece bathing suits!!!

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MrBeelzeebubbles comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I have a new job, so I've had to buy office wear for the first time since the 90's. Ugh.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

Sorry to hear that. The last few years my work and office wear has been jeans and t-shirt. Love it.

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JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 23, 2018:

For me comfort and function are king. I wear dress clothes for work every day. Slacks, dress shirt, tie (I hate ties). I would much rather where be wearing shorts and a t-shirt, or jeans and polo or flannel when it's colder. At home I'm as likely to be wearing nothing as I am to wear something.

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

You and me both. I mean, the at home thing. That is. ?

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steve148 comments on Aug 23, 2018:

Before I retired I wore a suit everyday. Now I wear a T-shirt and jeans everyday. If I'm in the house I wear nothing

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

In the house I often wear nothing as well.

Do you like to play outside in the winter?

graceylou comments on Aug 23, 2018:

I'm more of a winter person than a summer person, although I would prefer something in between like spring and fall. Around here, if you aren't out and about in winter, you are simply holed out in your home. It can be winter conditions up to 6 months out of the year (not unusual to get snow in ...

graceylou replies on Aug 23, 2018:

@kjsgenie Temps in the -20s and -30s Celsius are not uncommon. You do acclimatize. I've lived here for over 20 years. My family is on the west coast where -1C is considered freaking cold. They never can understand how anyone can live in Alberta winters. I have a few friends in your area. I've heard about the extreme winters. I think you guys get more snow than we do here. We tend to be a lot dryer, not so much precipitation most of the year.

What color is your vehicle?

graceylou comments on Aug 22, 2018:

Blue, sort of on the dark side.

graceylou replies on Aug 22, 2018:

@helionoftroy But if I had my choice for a vehicle and colour for non-functional purposes, I'd want a hot pink Smart car cabriolet. I drove my red and black one for years (I still have her but she doesn't run due to engine issues that would cost more to repair than the cost of the car when I bought her).