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Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
Marine comments on Jul 28, 2018:
Life to short plan to have as much fun daily and leave to worry to someone else. I have and continue to do my part.
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Good plan...just enjoy life.
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
Marine comments on Jul 28, 2018:
Life to short plan to have as much fun daily and leave to worry to someone else. I have and continue to do my part.
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Good plan...just enjoy life.
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
LadyAlyxandrea comments on Jul 28, 2018:
My perfect life: Being able to do daily chores and work full time without hurting so bad I can't even walk. Being able to live a decent life on my income. Pay all my bills on time, still have money for food and medicine, have a morgage on a small house. A job I enjoy that doesn't give me ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
I hope your modest requests will be granted...
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
Hitchens comments on Jul 28, 2018:
To have a beautiful home (Not huge or extravagant) it needs to be elevated..maybe on the side of a hill overlooking the sea with a large wrap around veranda (The view is crucial). To have enough money not to have to worry about anything and to use this beautiful home as a base to travel to all ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
That's a really exciting dream....
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
patchoullijulie comments on Jul 28, 2018:
My perfect life would be to own a private jet so that I could fly between Australia and the U.S. to visit or fly out friends and family whenever I want! :D
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Remember in "Star Trek" when people were beamed up? Now that's the way to travel. @patchoullijulie
No Duh!
nicknotes comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Most other first world countries have universal health care. We are supposed to be a rich country and we don't. What the HELL is wrong?
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
What is amazing is that under the ACA health care companies had to cap administrative costs at 20% The first year many had to give back money because they couldn't keep within the cap.. Proof they are ripping us off. @PickledRick
No Duh!
nicknotes comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Most other first world countries have universal health care. We are supposed to be a rich country and we don't. What the HELL is wrong?
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
We need pols who will advocate for the people. @exilesky
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
TristanNuvo comments on Jul 28, 2018:
For me it would be that I was drinking buddies with Dr. Neil DeGrasse Tyson. We'd have some interesting conversations, and I would learn a bunch of shit that would never have thought about. And maybe, just maybe, He might take in consideration something I might say. Having a friend in that ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
I get it....You dream of being a Scientific genius. Do you ever write your ""mentor" letters? I had a special interest in the past and wrote to several prominent men....several answered me.
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Jul 28, 2018:
The Women keep changing so.... nothing set in stone and very to my liking... never a final product. Surprises in the future to be revealed.... need no dreaming when life is what you do awake. Not much planning now other than living.... locked the money, coming for life... dance to my own beat. I won...
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
You are doing well....
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
Sticks48 comments on Jul 28, 2018:
A very loving realationship with someone.
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Maybe she is on this forum..."seek and ye shall find"
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
Stacey48 comments on Jul 28, 2018:
I would definitely live near an ocean. The work I would do, would make a difference in the lives of others, as it does now, but I would travel more and it would involve training and workshops more often. I wouldn't be alone, I would actually have a partner in life. The way this differs in my ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Something wonderful about seeing the waves and blue ocean water....
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
birdingnut comments on Jul 28, 2018:
My current life, except with millions more in my bank accounts.
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
So what would you spend your millions on?
What car would you own if . . . .?
nicknotes comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Beautiful car....did you buy it?
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Too bad. @RobLawrence
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
idoubtit comments on Jul 28, 2018:
I'm comfortable with my current life. The only thing I would change would be the ability to travel more.
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Florida is a great place to explore. And you don't have to go far.
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
patchoullijulie comments on Jul 28, 2018:
My perfect life would be to own a private jet so that I could fly between Australia and the U.S. to visit or fly out friends and family whenever I want! :D
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
I've flown from Florida to Hawaii twice and to several places in Europe.....I just hate those long flights. I can't sleep and I'm thinking..."Are we there yet.""
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
maturin1919 comments on Jul 28, 2018:
It involves gazing into the abyss, and the abyss gazing into me.
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Be careful you don't fall in....
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
Drsmash253 comments on Jul 28, 2018:
Weeeell, I had my perfect life was so happy made the mistake of bragging about it now I broke my damn foot so I'm still in Paradise I'm just limping a lot more
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
This too shall pass. And you will be back on top.
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
MrDMC comments on Jul 28, 2018:
I do not believe that a perfect life is possible. Problems would go against the idea of perfection. But without problems, we have no purpose. So I think that the best life would involve the taking of one big problem, maybe youth development, and creating a mission.
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Interesting comment....in my own life some of my best times were when I was involved with some "cause."
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
rsabbatini comments on Jul 28, 2018:
1. Lack of time/opportunity to meet other people who are also seeking a relationship; 2) Excessive selectiveness, Internet leaves no room for mistery and discovery; 3) Avoidant personality or fear of failure due to previous ones; 4) Simple problem of statistics: most valuable potential partners are ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Opportunity seems to be a big factor for retired folks. When we were in school, working a job, there were always lots of people to interact with. When a person retires contacts are limited...unless a special effort is made.
Take minute, close your eyes and imagine what your perfect life would look like.
sunn comments on Jul 28, 2018:
My perfect life mmm bizness has now taken off I have paid staff who I still keep eye on have villa in Italy feet up around pool working on lap top sigh keep dreaming xx
nicknotes replies on Jul 28, 2018:
Maybe I could be your pool boy????
I invite you to describe the "match" you want to date.
JoshArnaldo comments on Jul 27, 2018:
I'm looking for a woman who's calm and understanding, compassionate and fun. Someone who will sit up late around a fire with a few drinks talking about philosophy, but also laugh at a silly joke. I'm a serial saver. Been saving for retirement ever since I was 16 years old. That can throw a ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
She sounds terrific. I wonder if she is here and has read your comments. Good Luck.
I invite you to describe the "match" you want to date.
plh2433 comments on Jul 27, 2018:
I think having a open mind and accepting the differences in others is what makes life interesting. For me, it's a gut thing. I've been with guys younger and older than me, of various education levels and financial statuses. If someone is willing to listen and be generous with their feelings, ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Good answer.. You seem open to try whatever attracts you whenever. I think this is a good attitude.
Bigot for the left
LiterateHiker comments on Jul 27, 2018:
He was joking. Woody Allen started his career doing stand-up comedy. I had one of his live albums. Hilarious, he is great at self-deprecating jokes: "Once again, I tried committing suicide - this time by inhaling next to an insurance salesman." My insurance salesman father loved that ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
When Woody Allen was first getting famous years ago, Playboy Magazine did an article on Woody. I remember reading it but I discarded my old magazines years ago when I moved to Florida. @LiterateHiker
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
IAMGROOT comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Less government, more individual freedom (a natural result of the former), more self-reliance.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I guess not.@IAMGROOT
I invite you to describe the "match" you want to date.
SkotlandSkye comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Read my profile....and find me the male version. :-)
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Maybe someone is checking your profile right now.
The Trump administration wants to roll back endangered species protections | Washington Week
nicknotes comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Trump's sons and rich friends want to hunt and kill them. They think it is the macho thing to impress their women. https://www.businessinsider.com/trumps-sons-own-a-huge-hunting-preserve-that-sounds-like-a-war-zone-2018-2​
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I wonder why they didn't volunteer to go to Afghanistan. Uncle Sam will pay for the ammunition. @HippieChick58
Bigot for the left
LiterateHiker comments on Jul 27, 2018:
He was joking. Woody Allen started his career doing stand-up comedy. I had one of his live albums. Hilarious, he is great at self-deprecating jokes: "Once again, I tried committing suicide - this time by inhaling next to an insurance salesman." My insurance salesman father loved that ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
That is a great collection. Woody Allen films are always fun to watch even if you've seen them before. I've watched "Interiors" 3 times. @LiterateHiker
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
BufftonBeotch comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Make school lunch free for all students. Empty bellies and humiliation is unacceptable.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
The Republicans made Ketchup a vegetable. After all it is made with tomato. @BufftonBeotch
I invite you to describe the "match" you want to date.
peststudio comments on Jul 27, 2018:
I have said I would only date guys with a good education, then I fell in love with someone without a college degree. Your idealistic person is never going to be the same as the real person and the real person will surprise you with qualities you don't even know you love, then you can throw your ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
The future is always fluid. Who knows how our emotions will react.
Bigot for the left
LiterateHiker comments on Jul 27, 2018:
He was joking. Woody Allen started his career doing stand-up comedy. I had one of his live albums. Hilarious, he is great at self-deprecating jokes: "Once again, I tried committing suicide - this time by inhaling next to an insurance salesman." My insurance salesman father loved that ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I loved your Woody Allen excerpts. My favorite Woody Allen Movie is ""Interiors."" It is a great movie unfortunately many people do not understand the dynamic of the movie.
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Get rid of whitey? Nah depends on the country... get rid of religion? Sure but what will be the new opium? Existence of aliens? Tried, proof failed, where No Shows. Drugs? Too crazy, many couldn't handle them, same with alcohol, Guns? We know the dangers.... Porn? Porn is the new opium but not ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I agree there was a certain glamour to the hippie life back then.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
maxhyde comments on Jul 26, 2018:
All that are alone are not lonely. Just wanted to make that distinction first. Here is my theory and it is halfbaked, even though I am not at this time. Lonely is the state where I find myself longing for what is past. That deep connection I shared with someone. Dating can make it worse because...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
You did well. Don't be critical of yourself. @maxhyde
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
Anonbene comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Posting individual votes in real time on your county state and federal websites. If my guy loses fair and square I'll be fine with the outcome. Elections here always feel like you know your spouse is cheating on you but you just can't prove it. It's undemocratic it's discouraging and it's ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Some people like to just vote for the winner so they can brag they are on the right team. I rather we get the result after all the votes are counted.@Anonbene
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
IAMGROOT comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Less government, more individual freedom (a natural result of the former), more self-reliance.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I'll bet you like Trump @IAMGROOT
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
BufftonBeotch comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Make school lunch free for all students. Empty bellies and humiliation is unacceptable.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Maybe someday the pols will start working for the average person rather than the rich and powerful. @Storybook
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
escapetypist comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Universal income, according to a person's height. Shorter people get more money
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Very Creative. @minhmeister
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
maxhyde comments on Jul 26, 2018:
All that are alone are not lonely. Just wanted to make that distinction first. Here is my theory and it is halfbaked, even though I am not at this time. Lonely is the state where I find myself longing for what is past. That deep connection I shared with someone. Dating can make it worse because...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
The point is you were able to express your views. @maxhyde
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Donna_I comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Encouraging people to vote!
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
A Drivers License is the usual ID required. But poor people, minorities, and college students often do not have a license. This is just a plan to suppress Democratic votes. @Donna_I
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
GwenC comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Raising the minimum wage. If you list to the podcast Majority 54, Jason Kander had a really good discussion on July 13th's episode as to how much this would benefit so many people and the economy.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I'm glad we are on the same team. @GwenC
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
TristanNuvo comments on Jul 27, 2018:
A better education system.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
People entrust their most precious children to the care of teachers and the politicians won't pay them a fair salary. @TristanNuvo
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girlwithsmiles comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Building a system of ethics into Capitalism is vital for the world to grow into to a place we'd like to be. So putting inport taxes on products produced in environments that don't have Workplace Health & Safety Standards and similar. It would not only prevent worker's rights deteriorating to an ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Unfortunately greed and profit seem to be the mantra of the capitalists.
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
273kelvin comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Neuter shopping trolleys, so they don`t breed in alleyways.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I think you are referring to what we call ""SHOPPING CARTS"" here in the USA. Poor people who don't have an automobile will often push the carts home and then discard them. I have noticed that many stores now have a solenoid in the wheel housing that locks the wheel when the cart is pushed to the outer edge of the store property.
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
Partyhawk comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Build Tiny Home cities to give the less fortunate a place they can home and a community they can relate to.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Great idea. Everyone should have an affordable home.
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BufftonBeotch comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Make school lunch free for all students. Empty bellies and humiliation is unacceptable.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I agree. Put a cafeteria in every school and teach people to eat sensibly with free nutritious food.
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
Storybook comments on Jul 27, 2018:
By listening. Putting real value on people’s concerns and fears.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Good point....sometimes it makes me angry that the majority wants more gun control and congress supports more guns for everyone.
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TristanNuvo comments on Jul 27, 2018:
A better education system.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Education is of course a top priority. Sometimes I wonder if the powerful are conspiring to keep our children ignorant and uneducated.
Huge fires are burning all over the world, including the Arctic Circle.
nicknotes comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I asked my neighbor....he said "it's cyclical."
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Scientists have known and have warned for many years. But nothing was done. I hope we are not too late to fix the problem. @Ricky64
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Renickulous comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Love this type of posts i want to see more of. People offering solutions
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
It would be great if Congress was listening.
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GwenC comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Raising the minimum wage. If you list to the podcast Majority 54, Jason Kander had a really good discussion on July 13th's episode as to how much this would benefit so many people and the economy.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I was all in on Bernie Sanders' $15 minimum wage. If you put money in the hands of the poor they will spend it...create demand....boost the economy.
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Donna_I comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Encouraging people to vote!
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
You might remember the days when there was a Poll Tax to discourage the poor from voting. It has been suggested that voters get a reasonable extra tax cut incentive if they do vote. This would encourage voting. Of course the Republicans would never agree to this.
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Anonbene comments on Jul 27, 2018:
A small IRS change would be to require orgs that get tax free priviledges to post on their websites what they receive and spend their money on. Capping salaries and admin costs at 10% Like when the Trumps put up a fake veterans charity and then spent the money on themselves. Like when The ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Yrs...I think we are being ripped off by fake charities and phony foundations.
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patchoullijulie comments on Jul 27, 2018:
A little more than a small thing but here it is........Non, insurance controlled, affordable health care for everyone and I mean EVERYONE.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Yes. .health care is an item we can all agree on.
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SkotlandSkye comments on Jul 27, 2018:
No matter what country --- Teaching people from a young age to be self-reliant...that EVERYONE should work....that no one should depend on others to provide their shelter/food/quality of life....and that education, careers, and stability should be the main goal...and that ALL humans should focus on ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I can see how passionately you believe in your ideas.
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AmiSue comments on Jul 27, 2018:
We need large change, not small. Fix healthcare. People are suffering. Tax churches and use the funds for healthcare , education and veteran’s needs.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
You mentioned something dear to my heart. There is no reason why the religious establishment gets by without paying any taxes. Taxpayers also get a deduction for their church contributions. If people want to believe in a fairy tale they should pay to support it themselves and not get a tax break from the Gov't.
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Anonbene comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Posting individual votes in real time on your county state and federal websites. If my guy loses fair and square I'll be fine with the outcome. Elections here always feel like you know your spouse is cheating on you but you just can't prove it. It's undemocratic it's discouraging and it's ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Oregon does not have election polls....all registered voters get a mail in ballot.
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Sticks48 comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Universal healthcare and education. It works in countries with a lot less money than we have. It is immoral to treat these two things as just another commodity like chewing gum and condoms. Equal opportunity for both, for everyone is a must if we are going to survive as a great nation.You judge a ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Excellent ideas. I think we spend too much on defense and are involved in too many foreign wars. It seems we have troops in every country.
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Exterminis comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Educate the children, especially the female children.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Education is a key. Educated people commit less violent crime than uneducated people. There have been studies to show college educated people earn more and thus pay more taxes in their lifetime.
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IAMGROOT comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Less government, more individual freedom (a natural result of the former), more self-reliance.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I'm for more freedom as long as we protect the weak from the greed of the powerful.
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
Marine comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Healthcare for all and medicine without profit as it once was with Blue Cross Blue Shield insurance that everyone wanted.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Yes...healthcare is a big problem. We need healthcare for all at an affordable price.
What are some examples of small changes that can be made that really improve the lives of a ...
escapetypist comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Universal income, according to a person's height. Shorter people get more money
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
Are you short? Are you trying to rig the system?
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birdingnut comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Legalize cannabis, hemp, etc. Decriminalize drugs. Bike and walking lanes everywhere throughout cities, convert high rise buildings into indoor farms, also have rooftop farms. Have free higher education, a living wage, inexpensive fire and mold-proof housing, using hempcrete, students having ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
You have some great ideas. Recently I saw a video on vertical farming where the environment is controlled and the yields are fantastic while the building has a small foot print compared to a traditional farm.
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Bendog comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Friggin healthcare! The whole system is built on profit.
nicknotes replies on Jul 27, 2018:
I absolutely agree. I'm for Medicare for all.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Jul 26, 2018:
I like loneliness. I like not having to justify myself if today is blue or yellow or red. Ham or Steak? Comedy or Drama? Myself I am not looking for a caretaker or caregiver. She needs to be active and very danceable if possible because I still got thread on my tires. 95% of what I say... is not ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Dying is so permanent. Can't have any relationships if you are dead. @GipsyOfNewSpain
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
maxhyde comments on Jul 26, 2018:
All that are alone are not lonely. Just wanted to make that distinction first. Here is my theory and it is halfbaked, even though I am not at this time. Lonely is the state where I find myself longing for what is past. That deep connection I shared with someone. Dating can make it worse because...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Thanks for your interesting contribution to the discussion.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
JeffMesser comments on Jul 25, 2018:
because people are too busy being something they're not instead of being themselves. when they finally figure that out they're in their 50's or more and desperately trying to claw for a few years of much deserved fun.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Me too.....@kauva
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Jul 26, 2018:
I like loneliness. I like not having to justify myself if today is blue or yellow or red. Ham or Steak? Comedy or Drama? Myself I am not looking for a caretaker or caregiver. She needs to be active and very danceable if possible because I still got thread on my tires. 95% of what I say... is not ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
I think you have all figured right.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
KKGator comments on Jul 26, 2018:
Honestly, I no longer harbor any desire for another intimate relationship. I have all the "connections" I need.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
I understand...sorry I missed that. @KKGator
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
jlynn37 comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I am a loner, an introvert, practically a recluse and I rarely feel lonely. On those rare occasions I might feel lonely, I visit some married family and friends and it only takes me a very short while observing them that when I leave I tell myself how thankful I am that I live alone.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Come on ....you are joking ...aren't you? @jlynn37
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
EvaV comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I think for me it us accessibility on so nany levels- and to be honest im not sure what that means or its restrictions. For having a relationship is havibg commonality but same desires. When i was younger it was having same interests and goals Now its about sensuality and sexuality in expressing ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Oh Eva...you sound very exciting...@EvaV
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Bmb202 comments on Jul 26, 2018:
I think a lot of people struggle with being truthful; to themselves as well as with others. As we get older it’s harder to put yourself “on the line” and be open; when we are open with someone else you can get a connection. But as we get older it’s hard to do because so few still take the ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
What is really at risk when we take a chance on a relationship? Our ego? Of course the experts will tell you the ego is not the real you.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Deanervin comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Lots of fear out there. Seems I meet those so damaged by the first relationship, the one they put their heart into, or so they believe, and refuse to do it again so even if meeting a great guy they are not really available.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
IMO living with fear is not healthy.@Deanervin
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
birdingnut comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I suppose lonely people aren't comfortable being alone with themselves. In the US, it's fashionable for new mothers to stick bottles in babies' mouths and return to work, causing a lifetime of inability to connect to others. How a parent’s affection shapes a child’s happiness for life ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
I was a breast fed baby....My children were breast fed by their mother. I think the natural way is best.@birdingnut
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Krish55 comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Excellent question. This is a byproduct of capitalist individualism and the alienation in capitalist society. In a more communal society, there would be less lonely and thus happier people. Consumerism separates us. Virtual friends are not a substitute...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Sure....@bingst
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
David1955 comments on Jul 26, 2018:
Yes, it's very evident, including on this site. It's the paradox of the modern world: the more connected we become, the more isolated we start to feel. As capitalism had reduced people more and more to economic units in a dehumanised society, the more alienation people feel. I read Karl Marx on this...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
I think you have a point. When we were an agrarian society we depended more on each other to survive. Now we can sit in front of the TV, get stuff delivered, and pay with a credit card and rarely have to interact with others.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Psycho_Sammie comments on Jul 26, 2018:
People are lonely because they can't stand being alone with themselves humans are social animals and the concept of being introspective and thinking about your life is terrifying to them it makes them examine their own mortality
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
I like your insight. When we are with others we can forget our problems that consume us when we are alone.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Silver1wun comments on Jul 26, 2018:
People need social interaction for good emotional and mental health. Loneliness I see as something different in most cases. If we really like, admire, love and appreciate ourselves we can't be painfully lonely. Our disposition with self-love and love of others is to generously participate with ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
An interesting comment.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Ride_Captain comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Being lonely and smart are 2 different animals. The advantage of aging is knowing your dream and not settling for anything less, even if it means being alone forever.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
I hope you are successful finding your balance point between perfection and compromise. @Ride_Captain
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
amdam87 comments on Jul 26, 2018:
I think this neatly sums up part of the problem: https://youtu.be/15nR7nhFRZE
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Very intuitive video. There are many symbols utilized . I was hoping for a happy ending.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
resserts comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Here's my 2¢: Making a real connection is hard work, especially as we get older. It's easier in a lot of ways when we're young, because we are in school or otherwise have routine hangouts where we can get to know people our own age through prolonged contact day after day. As we get older, we have ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
It's OK I can take rejection of my advice. @bingst
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
KKGator comments on Jul 26, 2018:
Honestly, I no longer harbor any desire for another intimate relationship. I have all the "connections" I need.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Then if you don't want romance you can try the politics.
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idoubtit comments on Jul 26, 2018:
Well, as usual, there are some excellent comments here on this subject. I would only ad that in today's society, which is highly commercialized, people feel obligated to be part of a couple. Movies, books and ads romanticize couples and people feel ostracized if they are not involved with someone.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Sure some people thrive being alone.
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ProudMary comments on Jul 26, 2018:
I think a lot of it has to do with setting our standards too high. No one's going to be perfect and we need to stop looking for it. And the most crucial thing in a healthy relationship is honesty.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
With honesty what you see is what you get. It's a firm foundation for a successful relationship. Sure sometimes compromising your expectations can lead to success and it may be better than not being in the game at all.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
archer5691 comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Because human beings are just too difficult to live with.....and getting more difficult with every passing generation. Too much social media and not enough socializing......piss poor parenting....the continuing stupidity of irrational God-Belief......intellectual laziness....physical ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Excellent suggestion. You clarify the objective of getting out and about and meeting more people. @Lavergne
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Krish55 comments on Jul 26, 2018:
Simple Suggestions: 1: Turn off the TV and the computer. 2: Invite some friends over for boardgames/storytelling/joke sharing. 3: Learn to sing/play and instrument & join a group for practice. 4: Learn to dance and throw a dance party. 5: Join a group that seeks to improve a situation you are ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Some excellent suggestions for widening your circle of people
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
JeffMesser comments on Jul 25, 2018:
because people are too busy being something they're not instead of being themselves. when they finally figure that out they're in their 50's or more and desperately trying to claw for a few years of much deserved fun.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
You are fine. @kauva
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
JeremyTaylor comments on Jul 26, 2018:
To your first two questions: fear and improper communication. Fear is a powerful drive. Fear of judgment, of ridicule and rejection. Or sometimes it's fear of being hurt, especially if you've been hurt before. All the can cloud our judgement and rein us in from going after what we want. ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
You made some excellent points. Fear is a terrible hindrance to starting a relationship. Many fear rejection. One has to accept rejection and promptly move on to discover new people.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
confidentrealm comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I agree. I wish I knew how to connect with more people. I get very lonely, especially on Saturday night. I haven't had anyone to go out with on saturdays for a long time. People work or hang out with others and don't invite me. I call it my Saturday blues.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
I hope you discover yourself and bloom like a beautiful flower @confidentrealm
Huge fires are burning all over the world, including the Arctic Circle.
nicknotes comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I asked my neighbor....he said "it's cyclical."
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Actually I love Science. I'm all in with Global Warming. I think we need to act NOW. @Ricky64
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Sticks48 comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Friendship. If that person does not become your best friend, it will never be what it could be. I really believe that. The two best relationships in my life were the best becuase we became best friends.
nicknotes replies on Jul 26, 2018:
Sometimes it is luck. But if you are trying to catch a fish your baited line has to be in the pond that has fish. @Sticks48
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
resserts comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Here's my 2¢: Making a real connection is hard work, especially as we get older. It's easier in a lot of ways when we're young, because we are in school or otherwise have routine hangouts where we can get to know people our own age through prolonged contact day after day. As we get older, we have ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
Think of yourself as a salesman. You are selling yourself. Go out and look for your customers. Do it Scientifically. @resserts
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Wurlitzer comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Good question, all the lonely people: where *do* they all come from? Some are no doubt picking up the rice in a church where a wedding has been, others wait by the window, and still another segment lives in a dream. Im personally darning my socks most nights when nobody’s there. Darn you, socks ?...
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
You never know...Miss Right may be reading your comments and wondering what you are like. That "open mic" might just attract interest. @Wurlitzer
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
buck1977 comments on Jul 25, 2018:
Finding a person who says "yes" when you ask them out for a date, is the most crucial thing for a healthy relationship. This "real connections" thing you speak of is vague gibberish. Offer a sincere smile when listening, look them in the eye when you speak and be polite. If you can't tell if ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
Sounds like you are on track building a relationship. @buck1977
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
WeaZ comments on Jul 25, 2018:
You are not Alone.
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
That's very true...we have the Atheist community for support.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
TwistyOwl comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I'm uncertain why there are so many lonely people out there, but I imagine it's because life sometimes feels isolating for everyone, even those in partnerships. Its a lot easier to blame feeling alone on being single when you don't have a partner to lean on for that emotional support and have to ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
Yes one can be lonely in a crowd.
Huge fires are burning all over the world, including the Arctic Circle.
nicknotes comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I asked my neighbor....he said "it's cyclical."
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
Yes...just a Fox News Republican. @Bendog
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
confidentrealm comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I agree. I wish I knew how to connect with more people. I get very lonely, especially on Saturday night. I haven't had anyone to go out with on saturdays for a long time. People work or hang out with others and don't invite me. I call it my Saturday blues.
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
Check the newspapers...sometimes their are dances sponsored by community groups on weekends. Join clubs, join political organizations...use your imagination.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
seaspot_run comments on Jul 25, 2018:
My answer--many people are too anxious about getting together to let a relationship develop and unfold naturally. Looking back on my longish life, my best relationships have come with both mates and friends who I spent time around for reasons other than trying to specifically be with them, and we ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
You make a valid point. Some philosopher....I forget who....said...Never marry unless you know your mate at least 5 years.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
Snickers77 comments on Jul 25, 2018:
If you could bottle that answer, I'll invest. Trust, respect and mutual satisfaction.
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
It would be nice to have all the answers...
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
birdingnut comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I suppose lonely people aren't comfortable being alone with themselves. In the US, it's fashionable for new mothers to stick bottles in babies' mouths and return to work, causing a lifetime of inability to connect to others. How a parent’s affection shapes a child’s happiness for life ...
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
There you go...original thought...blame it on mom. Maybe they ought to do a study and compare the lives of breast fed babies and bottle fed babies to see how they fare in relationships later in life.
Why are there so many people who are lonely?
jlynn37 comments on Jul 25, 2018:
I am a loner, an introvert, practically a recluse and I rarely feel lonely. On those rare occasions I might feel lonely, I visit some married family and friends and it only takes me a very short while observing them that when I leave I tell myself how thankful I am that I live alone.
nicknotes replies on Jul 25, 2018:
Having a relationship is not for everyone. But isn't it more fun to have a warm body in your bed at night?

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