I am a retired retail manager. i am a widower after a 44 year happy marriage my pen pal of 6 years. i live in Charlotte near my son and family. I am compassionate, empathetic, funny and romantic. i read medical murder mysteries, take on-line courses and am a music snob. i am seeking a new companion senior citizen. My photo is on Facebook. My friends call me Richie. My wife called me Chatty Cathy! LOL I once had a license plate on my car with ocelot on it. That was when i lived in Quincy, MA