My favorite time to view my white Iceberg roses - and I guess Enzo enjoys them, too!

JackPedigo comments on Jun 2, 2019:

I think Enzo is looking for critters in the flower bed.

tinkercreek replies on Jun 2, 2019:

Quite likely!

My favorite time to view my white Iceberg roses - and I guess Enzo enjoys them, too!

MikeInBatonRouge comments on Jun 2, 2019:

Nice! What is that bright scarlet rose there?

tinkercreek replies on Jun 2, 2019:

It does look it in the pic, but is actually this Charisma:

My favorite time to view my white Iceberg roses - and I guess Enzo enjoys them, too!

sweetcharlotte comments on Jun 2, 2019:

Oh so pretty. I need some for night viewing under the moon and stars. Thanks for the idea.

tinkercreek replies on Jun 2, 2019:

You are welcome! I have found the Iceberg variety to be vigorous and hardy, bountiful growers, full sparkling white blooms with a sweet, light scent. I pruned them hard this year for better air circulation as they like to grow dense foilage.

So a man messaged me for the first time on a dating site today.

Cast1es comments on Jun 1, 2019:

The grammar sounds like scammer grammar , and one of the first things they try to do , is to get you isolated from others , because their plan is to bilk you out of your money .

tinkercreek replies on Jun 1, 2019:

'Scammer grammar', I like it!

True confession here.

Wangobango3 comments on Jun 1, 2019:

You stated very clearly in your post what you want and what is best for you. If you settle for less than that, you will end up disappointed. The additional complication that it's within your social circle increases the potential for disaster. That said, I'm probably the last person you should ...

tinkercreek replies on Jun 1, 2019:

Au contraire, I would say you are EXACTLY the person she should listen to!

Having spent some time with Ancestry.

Honorabledougn comments on May 28, 2019:

Isn't ancestry.com run by the Mormon church?

tinkercreek replies on May 28, 2019:

Yes, I believe so.

Having spent some time with Ancestry.

Lutherzme comments on May 27, 2019:

This is the power of history! Thank you for sharing this. So moving on this day.

tinkercreek replies on May 27, 2019:

You're welcome, and it is important to remember them all.

Having spent some time with Ancestry.

BufftonBeotch comments on May 27, 2019:

VE day was May 8th. His parents and other loved ones had probably thought he had made it. What a crushing blow to their euphoria that must have been.

tinkercreek replies on May 27, 2019:

Exactly, with restrictions of the time on both communications and travel, I'm sure my Grandma would have already begun homecoming plans, so devastating.

My BlackLace Elderberry in full bloom, snuggled into the Deodora Cedar, with Wild Huckleberry to the...

MikeInBatonRouge comments on May 27, 2019:

Wow! Elderberry. Is that where Albus Dumbledore's "elder wand" came from? 😁

tinkercreek replies on May 27, 2019:

I'm not a Potterite, had to google that one . . . no idea! :-)

Hi everybody.

Deiter comments on May 27, 2019:

Good luck with that. Sincerely. The rushing brain dope of love is the thing we all live for – in the before, during, and (sometimes) long after. You're in the eye of the hurricane right now. Savor it. May it last a long, long time. OTOH, you're probably not in the most hospitable space for ...

tinkercreek replies on May 27, 2019:

Good advice on both hands, Deiter, especially the part about ignoring "us".

Is it a sign of a scammer when one of the frequent questions they ask is what your last meal was, or...

tinkercreek comments on May 26, 2019:

Never heard that one, but it's just a bit creepy, and likely just fishing for other extraneous information - which, if it were a real person who read your profile, they would know.

tinkercreek replies on May 26, 2019:

@IrishTxJudy , right, and answering such a question could reveal such things as income, living situation, social habits, dating patterns, family relations, etc. Just a thought ;-).

My BlackLace Elderberry in full bloom, snuggled into the Deodora Cedar, with Wild Huckleberry to the...

NoPlanetB comments on May 25, 2019:

Mmmm... elderberry wine. :)

tinkercreek replies on May 26, 2019:

sorry, wrong elderberries!

So these are my purr-kids, Sybylla, with the crystal blue eyes, and Enzo, king of all he surveys.

Cast1es comments on May 24, 2019:

Nope , thank goodness . It's taken me awhile to figure out which flavors , textures , etc, they prefer in the way of cat food . He likes the dry stuff I found . She likes wet canned - Savory Sea Food bake , Chunky Salmon , and Chicken and Tuna with Cheese . If I get the pate' or the kind without the...

tinkercreek replies on May 25, 2019:

THANK YOU for mentioning the foods with cheese! My cats have always preferred fish combos, so I just didn't look there. Got the Turkey with Cheese last night and they gobbled it!

So these are my purr-kids, Sybylla, with the crystal blue eyes, and Enzo, king of all he surveys.

itsmedammit comments on May 24, 2019:

So sorry you and the kids are dealing with this. Hyperthyroid is fairly common among cats. Unfortunately I had a rare situation in which my cat developed liver failure, possibly from the treatment. As long as his meds are properly monitored, you should be ok. As long as he is hyper or normal ...

tinkercreek replies on May 25, 2019:

Thank you, and I do have a great vet who is monitoring carefully. His initial labs on T4 were 9.7, on a normal range of 0.8-4.0. She started cautiously then increased the Methimazole when he wasn't improving. 8 weeks in now, finally seeing significant improvements!

So these are my purr-kids, Sybylla, with the crystal blue eyes, and Enzo, king of all he surveys.

Cast1es comments on May 24, 2019:

Nope , thank goodness . It's taken me awhile to figure out which flavors , textures , etc, they prefer in the way of cat food . He likes the dry stuff I found . She likes wet canned - Savory Sea Food bake , Chunky Salmon , and Chicken and Tuna with Cheese . If I get the pate' or the kind without the...

tinkercreek replies on May 24, 2019:

Yes, and food has suddenly become an issue, also! After some experimenting (did you know switching to grain-free makes for very stinky poos??) I have been making my own for them, now with a freezer full of chicken/rice/vege mash, diced roasted chicken, liver and heart cubes. As soon as I find something they like, they change their minds, aaarrrrrhhhh!!

So these are my purr-kids, Sybylla, with the crystal blue eyes, and Enzo, king of all he surveys.

synergy comments on May 24, 2019:

Oh, goodness. I'm so sorry - it's so hard with fur kids, because they can't tell you anything and you can't explain anything to them. I'm so glad they have such a good mom - I wish you all the best.

tinkercreek replies on May 24, 2019:

Thank you, and I am lucky to have a very dear vet that I trust.

I was thinking about all the scammers I have corresponded with in my dating history.

Lorajay comments on May 23, 2019:

Occupations have already been listed. I found the fastest and easiest way to flush them out is to tell them you want a video call.

tinkercreek replies on May 24, 2019:

Even just a phone call, using *67 and asking them to accept the call from a private number. That, or just calling out a coffee shop, day and time, and they will vanish!

My work office is located within a large, Catholic-based medical system.

zesty comments on May 19, 2019:

Do they sell aborted fetuses in formaldehyde?

tinkercreek replies on May 19, 2019:

Last I knew they weren't even doing tubal ligations, so, nah.

My work office is located within a large, Catholic-based medical system.

Amisja comments on May 19, 2019:

I want one!

tinkercreek replies on May 19, 2019:

because . . . ??

Abortion is not the issue.

Deiter comments on May 18, 2019:

The Anti-Choice advocates are almost *always* motivated by religious concerns. (There are exceptions.) So, following this thread, God gets precedence over everything else, including the advice of a doctor and the woman's health or circumstances. It has long been the reactionary's dream to have the ...

tinkercreek replies on May 18, 2019:

@Deiter Hahaha, I was not familiar with him, but just listened to the bit with that line - awesome!!

Abortion is not the issue.

Boxdoc comments on May 18, 2019:

If a woman is unhappy in her marriage she could get a divorce. That is expensive and a hassle. To avoid this she could hire someone to kill her spouse. That would be Murder for Convenience and is illegal and morally repugnant. If a woman is struggling with the behavior of an unruly teenage child, ...

tinkercreek replies on May 18, 2019:

@Biosteelman: Those "medical procedures", heroic surgical interventions and incubator/NICU care are still in historical infancy in terms of growing a human being able to fully thrive and function in all normal manner. Some fertilized eggs were not meant to survive. The medical world is seeing a baffling array of afflictions even at this point, which present as physical, chemical and psychological. Studies are underway to connect prenatal care, pre-term birth, C-section, toxic environments and artificial feeding influences. We don't know much when all we know are that vital signs are stable.

Abortion is not the issue.

Deiter comments on May 18, 2019:

The Anti-Choice advocates are almost *always* motivated by religious concerns. (There are exceptions.) So, following this thread, God gets precedence over everything else, including the advice of a doctor and the woman's health or circumstances. It has long been the reactionary's dream to have the ...

tinkercreek replies on May 18, 2019:

Excellent, thank you.

Abortion is not the issue.

tinkercreek comments on May 18, 2019:

Thank you, wise Seeker, and this:

tinkercreek replies on May 18, 2019:

@Deiter I need a cross-eyed, exasperated emoji for this one.

Abortion is not the issue.

Boxdoc comments on May 18, 2019:

If a woman is unhappy in her marriage she could get a divorce. That is expensive and a hassle. To avoid this she could hire someone to kill her spouse. That would be Murder for Convenience and is illegal and morally repugnant. If a woman is struggling with the behavior of an unruly teenage child, ...

tinkercreek replies on May 18, 2019:

Boxdoc, quite sad that you are not grasping the core issue here.

Black Lace Elderberry blossoms are popping, plus my favorite leopard rhodie!

FrayedBear comments on May 17, 2019:

Wine or cordial?

tinkercreek replies on May 17, 2019:

I'm afraid neither, from this elderberry variety.

Black Lace Elderberry blossoms are popping, plus my favorite leopard rhodie!

dede18 comments on May 17, 2019:

ever tried making elderberry wine?

tinkercreek replies on May 17, 2019:

Different variety - Western Blue Elderberry - is needed for wine, for the Black lace is primarily blossom clusters and foilage, with few and insignificant berries. Don't tell it I said so. The Blues are prolific throughout western Oregon, in forests, along roadsides, easy to find and a good hobbyist wine fruit.

I just got home from the hospital a little while ago.

silverotter11 comments on May 17, 2019:

Glad to hear everything is okay. I know you are fit and workout but I think taking things a bit easy or easier until you deliver might be a good idea. Glad you're seeing the doc later. Keep us posted.

tinkercreek replies on May 17, 2019:

@Cutiebeauty You are wise to keep exercising carefully, for it is prenatal fitness that contributes most to postpartum weight loss. I swam through both my pregnancies, more gently toward the end but within days of delivery. The water lifts all the belly weight away!

Made a beautiful stir-fry for dinner this evening: shallots, zucchini, bokchoy, green peas, and ...

Looking4-Others comments on May 16, 2019:

Mm! What type of greens are those? I love greens too by the way.

tinkercreek replies on May 17, 2019:

That's the bokchoy, tasty and easy to work with.

Made a beautiful stir-fry for dinner this evening: shallots, zucchini, bokchoy, green peas, and ...

FrayedBear comments on May 16, 2019:

Why don't you? It looks a lot for one person. A little red capsicum would have given an appetising colour lift.

tinkercreek replies on May 17, 2019:

@FrayedBear No, silly, that's about 4 servings!

Made a beautiful stir-fry for dinner this evening: shallots, zucchini, bokchoy, green peas, and ...

FrayedBear comments on May 16, 2019:

Why don't you? It looks a lot for one person. A little red capsicum would have given an appetising colour lift.

tinkercreek replies on May 16, 2019:

I actually tossed on paprika and black sesame seeds for serving- perfect!

Dinner this evening after a long day in the gardens.

tinkercreek comments on May 7, 2019:

New Zealand wines are amazing, and much lower in sulphites and pesticides than American wines.

tinkercreek replies on May 7, 2019:

@bigpawbullets So would I, but I do get to visit my daughter there (12 yrs a resident). Do you have Grocery Outlet stores there? Even if some similar discount group, I often find nice NZ wines there for $4-7/bottle, just bought a case of lovely $5.99 Marlborough Savignon Blanc!

Most of the front is done! My new little darling shrub (closest to camera) is Pearly Twirly ...

FrayedBear comments on May 7, 2019:

Very twee. Looks good.

tinkercreek replies on May 7, 2019:

@FrayedBear OK, I'll just choose to believe you on that. No, wait, just learnt sumpin' new!

Most of the front is done! My new little darling shrub (closest to camera) is Pearly Twirly ...

glennlab comments on May 7, 2019:

looks really good, how i miss not having to fight weeds

tinkercreek replies on May 7, 2019:

What, you think we don't have weeds in Oregon?? They grow just as happily as the others, guess I could post those pics, too ;-).

Most of the front is done! My new little darling shrub (closest to camera) is Pearly Twirly ...

FrayedBear comments on May 7, 2019:

Very twee. Looks good.

tinkercreek replies on May 7, 2019:

thank you - twee??

Most of the front is done! My new little darling shrub (closest to camera) is Pearly Twirly ...

Cast1es comments on May 7, 2019:

Defensive looking prickly leaves .

tinkercreek replies on May 7, 2019:

Actually, they are very tiny & soft, more like hairy than prickly.

The light blue passion vine starts to bloom and really spread before the purple ones are breaking ...

tinkercreek comments on Apr 29, 2019:

Passion Flower vines are great, but can be a little picky in my zone 8. I got them going once where I had good sun!

tinkercreek replies on Apr 30, 2019:

@CrazyQuilter Thank you, that's encouraging!

2 Weeks on "Plenty Of Fish"

callmedubious comments on Apr 28, 2019:

whatever happened to just walking into a bar & meeting someone? i guess when i was between marriages it was a simpler time. almost like "Cheers" i suppose. but don't ppl still have their favorite watering holes?

tinkercreek replies on Apr 30, 2019:

An unpleasant drain of time and money, nope!

A kitchen is only as good as the use you make of it.

tinkercreek comments on Apr 28, 2019:

Lovely design and function, larger than my kitchen, and I am envious!

tinkercreek replies on Apr 29, 2019:

Yes, it's a little 8' galley, with 15" of counter on either side of the stove beside the fridg on one side. The other side is 24" counter, sink, and 35" counter on the other side, with an added 24" shelving unit for microwave beside that. It does take some planning! Oh, the trade-out from an expansive, luxury custom cabinet, granite, Subzero, pro grill/gas stove kitchen WAS worthwhile as I left that marriage ;-).

The scent of freshly shorn grass.

tinkercreek comments on Apr 27, 2019:

Mowing will be my tomorrow, for I dare not miss a week until about June, it grows so fast! We have wild garlic in all the planting beds, which fortunately keep to open soil. I've been on a mission to pull them up, bulbs barely 1/2", while the soil is evenly moist to reduce the regrowth next year. ...

tinkercreek replies on Apr 27, 2019:

@Allamanda Yes, I found that book early in college, and was entranced! Gave me a whole new appreciation for the nature I'd always valued, but since then in a more deliberate manner.

I just wrote a long post on a recent online dating interaction then closed the browser window ...

Stephanie99 comments on Apr 26, 2019:

I have done that myself. I'm not sure what compels me to do it. Once I had two going at once and I gave one the phone number of the other one. It wish that I could have been in on the phone call.

tinkercreek replies on Apr 26, 2019:

What a brilliant idea, I'll remember that!

Hey, happy Friday night wishes to everyone.

Triphid comments on Apr 19, 2019:

My first ever REAL date went just like a LEAD balloon, absolute failure, went to collect from her parent's home to go to the local movie Theatre only to discover upon arriving there they were all very devout Catholics were expecting ME to accompany the whole family to a special Mass at the ...

tinkercreek replies on Apr 20, 2019:

Oh my, that is really a hilarious image!!

Yippee, 2 days in a row above 70' in Oregon! After work I got to mow, weed, trim, and say hi to old ...

CourreurDeBois comments on Apr 19, 2019:

Beautiful garden, looks like somethings I admire in the wilderness, like the rocks. Those fiddleheads though Mmmmmn :)

tinkercreek replies on Apr 19, 2019:

Thanks! It took a few years to naturalize this yard to be just that, and I am now enjoying it.

Well this is interesting. Drones in service of ecology [cnn.com]

Robecology comments on Apr 18, 2019:

The geology and biology (and thus, its' ecology) of that Island ( Kauai) is phenomenal! I took two helicopter rides in Hawaii when I was there...spent lots of $$ but the adventure was so worth it....

tinkercreek replies on Apr 19, 2019:

I took my kids there years ago, and we did a horseback ride through some hills, allowing us a view of Puff the Magic Dragon - a beautiful rendition via land formation across the valley!

After a day at the coast, Chelsea is too tuckered out to object to cat cuddling!

Sinbad comments on Apr 16, 2019:

What a hoot! What's the kitty's name?

tinkercreek replies on Apr 17, 2019:

Sybylla, who is age 12 now to Chelsea's 10.

Won't hurt, might help.

MrLink comments on Apr 16, 2019:

Reminds me of the time i ate a bunch of fresh toasted beets at dinner. Then I went to pee in the middle of the night. That was scary!!! Until i remembered I had eaten all those beets. Anyone else experienced this?

tinkercreek replies on Apr 17, 2019:

YES! It was pretty horrifying until I remembered the beets!

I've gotten to know an older guy from my dance class.

WonderWartHog99 comments on Apr 15, 2019:

>Do I ask his intentions? You first -- you tell him your intentions. Here in Dixie "you sexy thing" is flattery. It doesn't mean humping their bones with wild abandon is an optional extra.

tinkercreek replies on Apr 15, 2019:

@WonderWartHog99 I find nothing salacious or suggestive in those age/gender-neutral terms of affection.

I've gotten to know an older guy from my dance class.

WonderWartHog99 comments on Apr 15, 2019:

>Do I ask his intentions? You first -- you tell him your intentions. Here in Dixie "you sexy thing" is flattery. It doesn't mean humping their bones with wild abandon is an optional extra.

tinkercreek replies on Apr 15, 2019:

I would be prone to believe that "here in Dixie" today's women have gained the self-respect as elsewhere. There are a multitude of words and phrases that flatter and compliment a woman without invoking sex. Blushing giggles are but thinly veiled fear in most cases. And yes, it does.

People who have been single too long are.....

VictoriaNotes comments on Apr 11, 2019:

This meme has always rubbed me the wrong way, Lol. How long is too long? Who gets to make that judgment? Being independent and self-sufficient does not equate to being unlovable. Not *needing* someone isn't a bad thing. Nothing wrong with being selective. IMO, this comes across as ...

tinkercreek replies on Apr 11, 2019:

Thank you, well said.

Has anyone tried an Instapot?

MsHoliday comments on Apr 10, 2019:

Take any appliance but leave my Instant Pot. I am mostly vegetarian and it cooks my dried black beans and chick peas in an hour. Frozen chicken and rice in 12 to 15 minutes. Once your food is cooked it will keep it warm for hours. Mine is called a Duo and it can fry as well. I have the 3 quart ...

tinkercreek replies on Apr 10, 2019:

@IrishTxJudy , thanks for the info & encouragement! I have downsized my kitchen for cooking solo, bid farewell to small appliances but a few. Hearing of all these options, I think I'll open that box, just need to find counter space in my little kitchen!

Has anyone tried an Instapot?

MsHoliday comments on Apr 10, 2019:

Take any appliance but leave my Instant Pot. I am mostly vegetarian and it cooks my dried black beans and chick peas in an hour. Frozen chicken and rice in 12 to 15 minutes. Once your food is cooked it will keep it warm for hours. Mine is called a Duo and it can fry as well. I have the 3 quart ...

tinkercreek replies on Apr 10, 2019:

This gives me hope, thank you. My son gave me one for Christmas and I haven't opened the box yet. I feel so guilty but since I rarely cook meat, I've been wondering if I should donate to a women's shelter.

Saguaro bloom in CA. Three inches in diameter. Not my shot, but loved it.

CourreurDeBois comments on Apr 9, 2019:

WOW looks edible ;)

tinkercreek replies on Apr 9, 2019:

Hey, you wanted to eat my ferns, too!

A few hours of cold & wet spring clean-up, weeding and spreading wood chips all comes into ...

Fernapple comments on Apr 8, 2019:

Have you ever eaten them, or are they for decoration ?

tinkercreek replies on Apr 8, 2019:

I just enjoy seeing them on my naturalized property - one of about a dozen fern species!

A few hours of cold & wet spring clean-up, weeding and spreading wood chips all comes into ...

Cast1es comments on Apr 7, 2019:

Doesn't putting down wood chips encourage termites ?

tinkercreek replies on Apr 7, 2019:

I think that may also be a regional concern, very common mulch here. Then again, I'll let you know :-/ !

Oh, PULLEEEEZE! Just received a scammer note from the handsome JW on this site, complete with "how ...

RavenCT comments on Apr 5, 2019:

Scammers aren't getting pulled like they used to. So be aware of that. I've got a pinned list running - it's at the top of the group here "Watchers Group" if you want to do preemptive blocking. The ones bolded are confirmed through photo - text they've written - or member report. The ...

tinkercreek replies on Apr 5, 2019:

Thank you, and I have also gotten a kick out of how ludicrous it all is, and fun to 'bust' them. I think it was just especially annoying to find it first thing in the morning.

Oh, PULLEEEEZE! Just received a scammer note from the handsome JW on this site, complete with "how ...

ProudMerrie comments on Apr 4, 2019:

I'm afraid I'm going to have to ask you to edit your post to remove the offender's name. I believe that's against site policy. You can report him to one of the scammer groups. @Cutiebeauty am I correct about that?

tinkercreek replies on Apr 4, 2019:

Ooops, sorry, didn't know and won't do that again. Looks like that profile has been removed from the site anyway, thank goodness!

It's spring! I'm longing to make this again now: Zucchini Tart with Herbed Goat Cheese.

DharmaBum50 comments on Mar 31, 2019:

That's a work of art. I'd hate to be the first one to cut into it. But I see somebody else beat me to it, so no problem. LOL

tinkercreek replies on Mar 31, 2019:

Yes, it was appreciated equally as culinary art and a savory treat!

Morning chuckle!!!

mischl comments on Mar 31, 2019:

Yeah, right. I'm looking for a grandma like that.

tinkercreek replies on Mar 31, 2019:

@mischl I dunno, makes no sense to me, other than hearing other older women say they're just tired of the new pms - putting up with men's shit. Rather harsh, don't you think? I may be more discerning in choosing who I allow to be close, but still love men and intimacy. 'Dating' is the challenge.

Morning chuckle!!!

mischl comments on Mar 31, 2019:

Yeah, right. I'm looking for a grandma like that.

tinkercreek replies on Mar 31, 2019:

I'm noticing a strong pattern of comments like this from Floridians. Does all that heat and humidity douse women's libidos?

may i ask ...especially from the 50+ Singles who dare to date. will the b.s. ever cease?

Cutiebeauty comments on Mar 30, 2019:

I'd kick him to the curb... That's a serous lie... And he sounds like the type to lie to get what he wants... Just my opinion

tinkercreek replies on Mar 30, 2019:

@Soarfeet Yes, getting caught is the only thing liars are every sorry for, then they move to new hunting grounds.

may i ask ...especially from the 50+ Singles who dare to date. will the b.s. ever cease?

tinkercreek comments on Mar 30, 2019:

Having ended a relationship with a man who concealed his last marriage (not yet divorced) until we'd been living together for 6 mos, I saw the patterns repeating, and finally understood the truth of the "poor me" stories. Anytime you meet online when there is distance, a recent move, or both, think ...

tinkercreek replies on Mar 30, 2019:

@Soarfeet Exactly, and the unfortunate truth for later-life singles is the huge challenge in putting together pieces of someone's past, unless you have contact with nearby friends and relatives. A good therapist guided me toward definitions of a pathological liar, and the reality of being a convenient placeholder as he finished his PhD - never the truth of future and marriage. Oh yes, a trusted medical professional . . . if his patients only knew.

My daughter lives in Christchurch and I was there just 2 mos ago.

CallMeDave comments on Mar 22, 2019:

More fakebook? Yuck.

tinkercreek replies on Mar 22, 2019:

Actually, a link to a news site.

Beads Found in 3,400-year-old Nordic Graves Were Made by King Tut's Glassmaker [haaretz.com]

Robecology comments on Mar 18, 2019:

Awesome! As an Egyptologist (hobby, not pro) this is good news! I strongly recommend reading "The Egyptian" and other books that are historically accurate - yet fictional accounts of ancient travellers...by Mika Waltari. I loved his book "The Wanderer" as well.

tinkercreek replies on Mar 18, 2019:

Thanks for the reading recommendations, will check them out!

What was your worst experience with someone from an online dating site?

tinkercreek comments on Mar 13, 2019:

OK: A couple years ago I started dating someone and things were going well over a couple months. We had attraction, similar backgrounds, values and interests in common, having fun and getting along well. He asked me/brought me to an RV dealer to help in the final pick of a travel trailer he'd been ...

tinkercreek replies on Mar 14, 2019:

@TomMcGiverin Wow, sorry you've met so many unhappy women. I am grateful I saw this guy's true colors as soon as I did, and still maintain that people, in general, are inherently kind and seeking the best for themselves and others. I'm fortunate to have male friends and colleagues that I value and enjoy immensely, helping me look forward to finding someone special.

When you love milk but age makes every single delicious calorie stick to your belly.

Magister comments on Mar 13, 2019:

I often wonder what the environmental impact of consuming alternatives to dairy milk are. Whilst almond trees may well have positive environmental aspects to it, are intensive farming methods used that may nullify these benefits?

tinkercreek replies on Mar 13, 2019:

You could easily google that, and find huge articles on how large-scale (commercial) farming/dairy installations are one of the greatest environmental threats we live with! The land is scoured, trees are gone, and animal waste is devastating to planetary health. Any vegan or vegetarian website could provide a wealth of information for you, as well as the health benefits of avoiding dairy products. Try www.plantbasednews.org or www.livekindly.co/news. Whatever bit each of us can do to reduce our dependence on those harmful industries and products will pay off!

What was your worst experience with someone from an online dating site?

sweetcharlotte comments on Mar 11, 2019:

My experience came from Face Book, rather than a dating site. An older retired police detective found my picture and town on FB. He wrote and asked me to meet him for a Outback dinner on New Years Eve 2009. I accepted. He seemed nice, was tall and handsome, in a Stetson western hat and cowboy...

tinkercreek replies on Mar 11, 2019:

Anyone can say anything in print, and the angry misogonysts who consider women as property are evilly skilled at their stories. Not that I would know, for heavens' sake.

Hi everyone! I just joined so I could share about these amazing carnivorous plants I found growing ...

JackPedigo comments on Mar 2, 2019:

I really like these plants and quite a few varieties grow here. I discovered a plant in my Seattle home called a Vodoo Lily https://www.gardeningknowhow.com/houseplants/voodoo-lily/voodoo-lily-information.htm (or for us atheists - the devils tongue). They are grown from bulb and shortly after the ...

tinkercreek replies on Mar 9, 2019:

Oooh, I had one of those appear at a little house I had in Portland years ago. Awful smell, but interesting and fascinating to watch grow. It grew right along the east side of the house, got full morning sun and was shaded all afternoon.

Clarification: I guess in my efforts to keep this group drama-free, I've caused a shit storm with ...

Heidi68 comments on Mar 4, 2019:

I seriously wish people would either grow up, get over themselves or both... not everything revolves around them. They should just enjoy this page (the whole site) if you don't like something just scroll on... how hard is that?

tinkercreek replies on Mar 5, 2019:

Yeah, what she said!!

What's a "date"? I keep seeing the word.

tinkercreek comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I think we're experienced enough as a society to be done with the sexist patterns of the male, of a male/female interest, being responsible for asking, planning and paying for a "date". It can be fun and flattering, but I've found it uncomfortable to be on the receiving end of this, just doesn't ...

tinkercreek replies on Feb 26, 2019:

@TomMcGiverin Well, that would actually be just in select areas of the inner city. I can drive to downtown in 15-20 mins, and taking transit would be over an hour. My 4-mile drive to work is about the same, but would take 2.5 hrs by bus! We are definitely a community of drivers, which is really unfortunate.

What's a "date"? I keep seeing the word.

tinkercreek comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I think we're experienced enough as a society to be done with the sexist patterns of the male, of a male/female interest, being responsible for asking, planning and paying for a "date". It can be fun and flattering, but I've found it uncomfortable to be on the receiving end of this, just doesn't ...

tinkercreek replies on Feb 26, 2019:

@TomMcGiverin I have heard that about the cost of living here, but I'm a native so that's not a reality for me - I couldn't afford to move and start over somewhere more affordable!

Ok so we’re here because we’ve done online dating and had mixed experiences.

tinkercreek comments on Feb 24, 2019:

You have no obligation to respond to anyone who dials your number! The caller should ID themselves if there has been no ongoing communication.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 26, 2019:

@IrishTxJudy Maybe a bit of that, or just very little awareness. Then, there are those who just go fishing,sending out sweet-sounding messages to whole groups. I had the fun of 'busting' someone who sent a holiday message like that, but formatted it incorrectly, then even tried to deny it, what a dope!

What's a "date"? I keep seeing the word.

tinkercreek comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I think we're experienced enough as a society to be done with the sexist patterns of the male, of a male/female interest, being responsible for asking, planning and paying for a "date". It can be fun and flattering, but I've found it uncomfortable to be on the receiving end of this, just doesn't ...

tinkercreek replies on Feb 26, 2019:

@TomMcGiverin I don't have an answer for that, but I can comment that you sound like a Portlander! We have a great range of arts, music and thought-provoking entertainment here, with a variety of people and ideas. I haven't been to the midwest, but imagine it as much different. Am I wrong?

Okay, my hobby is hypnotizing people (stage type hypnosis) .

tinkercreek comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Ummm, just before you plan to practice your hobby on them, or as a matter of general interest???

tinkercreek replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@SPRapp Seriously, though, 'stage type hypnosis' as opposed to what, therapeutic?

Without a doubt!

Novelty comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I've done the woods thing. My father owned 15 acres of Alabama swamp land that bordered thousands of acres of undeveloped land that went all the way to the Choctawhatchee River. At night you could hear the red necks hunting deer using trucks and lights to herd the deer across fields into dead ends ...

tinkercreek replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@Mortal That sounds amazing!

Without a doubt!

Novelty comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I've done the woods thing. My father owned 15 acres of Alabama swamp land that bordered thousands of acres of undeveloped land that went all the way to the Choctawhatchee River. At night you could hear the red necks hunting deer using trucks and lights to herd the deer across fields into dead ends ...

tinkercreek replies on Feb 22, 2019:

Sorry you had to experience Alabama swamp! I think forests of higher ground and farther north are more familiar to many of us, and wonderful places to visit.

In all honesty, we have probably been here once.

MerlinZap comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Rocky Raccoon,..went back to his room....

tinkercreek replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@MerlinZap Thank you! Such good feelings and vague memories . . .

does anyone here have A flutter or fib?

tinkercreek comments on Feb 16, 2019:

In my 20's I worked as an ECG tech, which made me aware that the fluttering I sometimes felt in my chest was not normal - surprise! It was just benign atrial activity, a reassuring confirmation. Years later, my response to life stressors created a few episodes of runaway fast heartrate, the last one...

tinkercreek replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@callmedubious Echocardiography is the ultrasound study of the heart, performed by an echo technician. Pretty much every cardiac workup includes an echo, thereby every cardiologist is an echocardiographer, but perhaps meaning this one also does the reading of the studies (not everyone does). Ablations are performed in a cath lab or most often the electrophysiology (EP) lab by a cardiologist specializing in EP. Hope that helps!

So.

darthfaja comments on Feb 19, 2019:

You don’t. Ask her on a date instead. That’s simple enough.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@Unclehotrod Does not bode well at all. Sorry, I didn't know these scammers were hitting on men, too, silly me!

does anyone here have A flutter or fib?

tinkercreek comments on Feb 16, 2019:

In my 20's I worked as an ECG tech, which made me aware that the fluttering I sometimes felt in my chest was not normal - surprise! It was just benign atrial activity, a reassuring confirmation. Years later, my response to life stressors created a few episodes of runaway fast heartrate, the last one...

tinkercreek replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@callmedubious When I showed up in Afib, electrical cardioversion was the first thing tried, SOP. When that didn't hold I opted for the chemical cardioversion via Tikosyn, just a few weeks later. Ablation is best because it a)repairs the current to the right electrical track in your heart and b) you don't have to take a pill twice daily, which is not always convenient. The electrophys docs bring a brilliant melding of cardiac knowledge, computer science, and remote electronics to the table, and their work will improve your life tremendously!

Is there any particular favorite activity listed in someone's profile that is a deal breaker for ...

tinkercreek comments on Feb 16, 2019:

Why would we want to give away these thoughts and observations??

tinkercreek replies on Feb 17, 2019:

@ProudMerrie Sorry, no challenge intended! I was thinking rather sarcastically and posted that as a cheeky comment on the issue.

Any suggestions for an interesting, gripping, thought-provoking movie on Netflix?

VertLyfe comments on Feb 2, 2019:

Ted Bundy interviews.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 17, 2019:

Watched last weekend, what a great production! I was in college in Tacoma, WA, when his killings began just north, but somehow word did not travel down when I was there. His trials and demise came about when I was home with 2 babies and not following news closely. A sobering story, and good to finally get that info, thanks!

Any suggestions for an interesting, gripping, thought-provoking movie on Netflix?

MoonTiger comments on Feb 17, 2019:

The Legend of 1900. Great period piece, great music and reflections on fear of leaving familiar surroundings to venture out into the insane world. Do you live in such environs in your Great Nortwest?

tinkercreek replies on Feb 17, 2019:

Oooh, I just watched the trailer, looks wonderful and with a beautiful score. Live in what such environs - held captive by limitations and redundancy? FAR from it here, in a culture offering an array of influence and exploration. The cute little "Portlandia" show was a silly exaggeration (watched it once) but the overall ideas were accurate. Just what is the rust belt?

Do you remember back in the 70's blowing out birthday candles, a lit cigarette 6 inches from your ...

tinkercreek comments on Feb 16, 2019:

So, you're telling us you grew up with beer-swilling smokers? How is your health?

tinkercreek replies on Feb 17, 2019:

@Normanbites OK, hope you are finding some relief and doing good research. I work in the medical field, and have respect for whatever helps someone on wellness, which is sometimes based on 3000 year of eastern success. Take good care!

Well, today,I did something for myself.

rogueflyer comments on Feb 16, 2019:

Please keep us updated. Many of us gray haired will appreciate a treatment.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 16, 2019:

@soquel Hey, I can do that myself, though it requires regular maintenance. If/when successful stem cell tx for arthritis launches mainstream, I will be in line to get my ankles back to original function!

Well, today,I did something for myself.

tinkercreek comments on Feb 16, 2019:

Good for you, and how exciting! Is there a forecast expectation on when you could notice results?

tinkercreek replies on Feb 16, 2019:

@soquel Awesome, thanks for letting me know, and you've obviously created quite an interest with ALL of us in the arthritis era!

Why are people so hostile towards President Donald Trump?

callmedubious comments on Feb 16, 2019:

someone said that the elelctorate get the politicians they deserve. and he's nothing but a 3rd rate politician. could be kind of a karma thing.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 16, 2019:

His supporters are the same people who watch Honey BooBoo, Family Feud, and Duck Dynasty. Enough said.

does anyone here have A flutter or fib?

tinkercreek comments on Feb 16, 2019:

In my 20's I worked as an ECG tech, which made me aware that the fluttering I sometimes felt in my chest was not normal - surprise! It was just benign atrial activity, a reassuring confirmation. Years later, my response to life stressors created a few episodes of runaway fast heartrate, the last one...

tinkercreek replies on Feb 16, 2019:

@callmedubious Oh, and thankfully it has gone generic now, drug name is Dofetilide. I am quite aware of my health and have detected absolutely no side effects, which was a worry at first. Hey, please let me know how things go for you!

does anyone here have A flutter or fib?

CallMeDave comments on Feb 16, 2019:

standard or first?

tinkercreek replies on Feb 16, 2019:

@callmedubious Cardiac Ablation is the standard preferred treatment these days, and works quite well. They use great technology in the electrophysiology lab to find and 'zap' the exact spot inside your heart that is derailing normal heart rhythm, like repairing a section of railway track to keep the train on. Best of luck to you!

does anyone here have A flutter or fib?

FatherOfNyx comments on Feb 16, 2019:

I've had one for years, but everytime I went to a doctor they couldn't find anything wrong. Not too long ago I tried an antidepressant/anti-anxiety medication and once it started working, my flutter went away. I never thought of myself as having anxiety as I always saw it as a mental state, but now ...

tinkercreek replies on Feb 16, 2019:

Sounds like our heartrates respond to stress in the same way! Glad you have such a good result with your meds, and hope that continues to work for you.

Do you remember back in the 70's blowing out birthday candles, a lit cigarette 6 inches from your ...

tinkercreek comments on Feb 16, 2019:

So, you're telling us you grew up with beer-swilling smokers? How is your health?

tinkercreek replies on Feb 16, 2019:

@Normanbites That's a different topic, my friend. Have you consulted an experienced Naturopath, if western medicine doesn't offer you help?

Do you remember back in the 70's blowing out birthday candles, a lit cigarette 6 inches from your ...

tinkercreek comments on Feb 16, 2019:

So, you're telling us you grew up with beer-swilling smokers? How is your health?

tinkercreek replies on Feb 16, 2019:

@Normanbites There is the old saying "never too old to have a happy childhood", and you can find great improvements in your life with a good therapist, if you haven't yet. I found fantastic help and understanding with group work, for there are many others who have experienced the same disappointments. Hearing others' stories and sharing your own is very healing.

Not looking for sympathy or pity, but just sharing a fact that this is my 3rd Valentine's Day ...

ProudMerrie comments on Feb 15, 2019:

It seems like this is the kind of thing we're all going to have to get used to.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 15, 2019:

just to clarify, exactly what 'kind of thing'?

Not looking for sympathy or pity, but just sharing a fact that this is my 3rd Valentine's Day ...

PalacinkyPDX comments on Feb 14, 2019:

You're absolutely, positively certain you're not looking for sympathy or pity? Sorry you don't have someone special in your life right now, but I'm going to bet there are a LOT of women on this site who haven't had a partner for a hell of lot longer than 3 years.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 15, 2019:

Please see my response, above. Anyone else have experience in thinking a long-distance connection could grow into an actual relationship?

Paul Manafort plea deal voided after judge says he 'intentionally' lied to the FBI, special counsel ...

KKGator comments on Feb 13, 2019:

He's really hoping for a pardon. Apparently, he's not doing too well in jail. Poor baby.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 13, 2019:

@HippieChick58 I would guess that's the legal strategy!

Any suggestions for an interesting, gripping, thought-provoking movie on Netflix?

hankster comments on Feb 1, 2019:

the ballad of buster scruggs......cohen bros. collection of shorts. i loved it. i'm reminded of hollins.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 12, 2019:

What a riot! True to the Cohens, that was a fun and wacky trip.

Any suggestions for an interesting, gripping, thought-provoking movie on Netflix?

rsabbatini comments on Feb 3, 2019:

Trotsky

tinkercreek replies on Feb 3, 2019:

Thanks, that looks great!

Any suggestions for an interesting, gripping, thought-provoking movie on Netflix?

FrayedBear comments on Feb 2, 2019:

Australian movie "the Dressmaker". 1950's society rural Victoria. It hasn't changed much in 60+ years. For those delighting in dress styles a must see.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 2, 2019:

@FrayedBear Oh, but a fun story!!

Any suggestions for an interesting, gripping, thought-provoking movie on Netflix?

VertLyfe comments on Feb 2, 2019:

Ted Bundy interviews.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 2, 2019:

Thank you, I love getting docu info on events that were cloistered in real time.

Any suggestions for an interesting, gripping, thought-provoking movie on Netflix?

Jolanta comments on Feb 2, 2019:

I am watching "Travels with my father". It is a doco, funny and entertaining, but you have to be able to understand British humor.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 2, 2019:

I have noticed that, thanks for the recommendation!

Any suggestions for an interesting, gripping, thought-provoking movie on Netflix?

ToolGuy comments on Feb 2, 2019:

Just watching a series called Black Earth Rising about the Rwandan genocide.

tinkercreek replies on Feb 2, 2019:

Thank you, I'll check for it.

Any suggestions for an interesting, gripping, thought-provoking movie on Netflix?

birdingnut comments on Feb 2, 2019:

Russian Doll. https://www.vox.com/culture/2019/2/1/18205534/russian-doll-review-spoilers-netflix-natasha-lyonne-loop

tinkercreek replies on Feb 2, 2019:

Thanks, that looked interesting!