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64 year old lady divorced going on 13 years looking to meet an interesting fun man. Not religious, 2 grown sons, Like the arts, movies, dance ,plays and politics. retired nurse. Political activist...liberal.

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Is a married human being happier than unmarried one?
vnufall comments on Apr 14, 2018:
Therapists say so yes happuer peiple married. In my marriage..no..lol.
Have you ever been stalked?
vnufall comments on Apr 11, 2018:
Some years ago I was in a relationship with a doctor. We dated a year , lived together for 2 years. He broke it off. I got my own apartment he went back to his home in another state. Eventually i heard he was dating a lady who lived not far from me. One nite cold snowy and icy, no one was on the road, except car lights swept over my bedroom and i could see he was looking up in my apartment and texting. I was creeped out. He tried to keep texting me. I think he wanted wife and something on the side. Men..some want it all....lol.the
As a child, the earliest memories of a TV show that made the most impact on me was MASH . Alan ...
vnufall comments on Apr 11, 2018:
The character Hawkeye from Mash was a womanizer, surgeon, and always looking for a good time. The actor Alan Alda is a liberal in real life, understands feminism, and probably most of the liberal issues of the day. I like Alec Baldwin, politically we are in sync. He does all kinds of work for the Democratic party volunteers time and money.
Growing my beard for my Central America trip in 2 weeks. I'm gonna be 'beard guy' down there. ...
vnufall comments on Apr 11, 2018:
At least you wont have to shave. Keep it trimmed tho.
What's better: tacos or pizza?
vnufall comments on Apr 11, 2018:
I love pizza. I like Mexican food better then just tacos.
What's the one thing you can't live without?
vnufall comments on Apr 11, 2018:
My hair blow dryer...lol
Anyone listen to Zuckerberg today?
vnufall comments on Apr 11, 2018:
I. Saw. A few senarors ask questions including my Sen Gary Peters from Michigan. His questions were good, appropriate and knowledgeable. Older guys you could tell just didn't know what social media was to begin with. I think Zuckerburg was thinking, "it's all come down to this"?? I just made this up to meet women, socialize, now this.
What are your thoughts on online dating?
vnufall comments on Apr 10, 2018:
I was on ok cupid....i guess I'm too fussy. I did just end.a 6 month relatio ahip with a widower on there but i ended it. He had too many issues for me.
For those worried that America is no longer 1.
vnufall comments on Apr 10, 2018:
We are fading fast with Trump at the helm. We certaily are not furst in education.
What was your “ah ha” moment when you realized religion was bs?
vnufall comments on Apr 10, 2018:
Many years ago when George carlton explained it in a comedy routine.
What is your best comedy movie ever?
vnufall comments on Apr 9, 2018:
Blazing Saddles and Young Frankenstein.
That moment when an old psychological wound is reopened... One that you thought had healed... I ...
vnufall comments on Apr 9, 2018:
Take a long brisk walk.
Are we meant to be with one person forever?
vnufall comments on Apr 9, 2018:
I'm certainly not. Was was married 22 years, divorced 12 years now. In 3 relationships, since I divorced and I dated a lot too. He would have to be pretty special for me to stay with one guy.
Do you believe in love? Or more specifically, that somebody could be the love of your life?
vnufall comments on Apr 9, 2018:
I doubt it. Too old and independent.
Liberal Ideals
vnufall comments on Apr 9, 2018:
I'm all in favor of them.
Does anyone else sit in with a book on Saturday night or am I dull as fuck?
vnufall comments on Apr 7, 2018:
I read political stuff, but since I'm not involved with anybody right now...it's fine with me.
Do you think that exposing children to fantasy movies and books conditions their mind into accepting...
vnufall comments on Apr 7, 2018:
My son who is 29, is still involved with Marvel Comics...from Spidey to Thor to Black Panther to Captain America to whoever Stan Lee has cooked up...so apparently he. Still likes super heroes.
What do you say on facebook to friends or family that have lost a loved one? Most people type ...
vnufall comments on Apr 7, 2018:
I'm sorry for your loss.
Do you think that exposing children to fantasy movies and books conditions their mind into accepting...
vnufall comments on Apr 6, 2018:
My kids loved fantasy movies, they grow up fast. Let them have some imagination.
Has anyone checked out the new social media site MeWe.com? If you did, what did you think? Do you ...
vnufall comments on Apr 6, 2018:
I think I'm too old.
I don't think Snoopy is buying it. Lol
vnufall comments on Apr 6, 2018:
Hahahaha...
Why does extremism in politics seem to be the new norm? Thoughtful answers looking to solve ...
vnufall comments on Apr 6, 2018:
Omg, just listening to Trump talk is enough to send me to crazy land. He is the best material for comedians. You never know what name hes going to call someone. Totally inappropriate. His tweets aren't any better. He has caused a big rift because he is so far to the right. He cant stand LGBQT people, people who are black or brown and immigrants. His policies on education, environment and religion ( not everyone is a Christian) taxes and the military are wrong. I dont care what Trumpies say, he is wrong as president. Ohh I didn't even mention Stormy Daniels and his making money off his businesses...
Are you a good tipper?
vnufall comments on Apr 6, 2018:
I try to be a gpod tipper. If service is bad, then i don't tip so well. If i have a good hairdresser always tip well...20%. Helps getting last minute appointments.
How many have long term goals? I was chatting with a friend (61) recently and asked where he wanted ...
vnufall comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Of course we have to have goals. For me I'm a political activist. I want to see many Republicans voted out this Nov. 2018. Have to stay on these congressman's tails, show up at town halls. Ask pointed questions. Get behind new candidates. I have to have a hysterectomy,waiting for a date..for that to happen. After that i want a new bike too.
Do you ever feel alone in a room full of people?
vnufall comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Sometimes, especially if the party is filled with. Conservatives. I know if i open my mouth there will be trouble.
I'm new to this site and only just beginning to explore. Curious to know what prompted you to join? ...
vnufall comments on Apr 4, 2018:
I like to connect with others...sometimes discussing different subjects. Interesting people, and I like being to open your own discussion.
So, are you the vehicle or are you the light?
vnufall comments on Apr 4, 2018:
I have no idea.
What does compatible mean to you? How alike does a potential mate have to be before they are ...
vnufall comments on Apr 3, 2018:
Loaded question. Last relationship I had was with a recent widower. We had no problems with religion...both raised in Catholic schools thru the 12 the grade, and now not religious either of us. Sexually, both compatable despite being in our 60's. The problem s for me was his unwillingness to move, house too big, steep stairways 4 bedrooms and at least a half an acre to take care of. Too much for me. Also his every day afternoon wine drinking and having me be his driver. When it got down to it he wanted to replace his wife with me without him having to change a thing. It was all on me to cut the muster. I cut my losses and moved on.
Besides Agnostic.com what other websites do you spend time on?
vnufall comments on Apr 3, 2018:
Facebook, Twittet and Fetlife
Does someone have to be college educated to be intelligent?
vnufall comments on Apr 2, 2018:
I have a girlfriend who only had a GED out of high school. She does read voraciously, and really is pretty self educated. Her son has a PHD from Cornell.
What's the best bit of advice you've ever been given?
vnufall comments on Apr 2, 2018:
Don't be shy, speak your mind and you can accomplish anything you set your mind to.
Mormon Missionaries So last summer, my door was knocked on by three young men, obviously Mormon ...
vnufall comments on Mar 31, 2018:
Reminds me of the play "Book of Mormon". ...lol.
Sexual Compatibility
vnufall comments on Mar 30, 2018:
It's wonderful to have intimacy in ones life. I like some kink in my sex life, kind of keeps it fun.
Anyone like Broadway musicals?
vnufall comments on Mar 30, 2018:
I saw 42nd Street on Broadway, just can't beat the excitement and energy of live musical theater. Locally I have seen Jesus Christ Superstar, A Chorus Line, Evita, A Book of Mormon, Wicked., Hairspray., Avenue Q. Repetory theater at Stratford, Ontario. Shakespeare, Hamlet, Macbeth, others.. I have seen ballet and opera"s too.
Breaking News: An Italian journalist and athiest, who struck up a friendship with the Pope, has ...
vnufall comments on Mar 30, 2018:
We probably make our own hell on earth. I love it., no hell.
Heart breaker..
vnufall comments on Mar 28, 2018:
I'm friends with my ex after divorcing nearly 12 years ago. The significant other I had a relationship with aftsr that lasted 4 years, 2 years I lived with him. He ended it, married someone else. Wanted to stay friendly...I was furious. The last guy I dated I broke up with 2 mos ago. We dated 6 mos a very recent widower. Wsnted to replace me for his beloved. I resembled her, everyone thought I was his wife....no. I could write a book.
Why do women on dating sites want someone that can make them laugh?
vnufall comments on Mar 28, 2018:
I sure as hell do, life is crappy enough wirhout some humour.
Can a guy have a female best friend and sex never enter the frame?
vnufall comments on Mar 28, 2018:
For me, no it always turns sexual.
Do you talk to yourself?
vnufall comments on Mar 28, 2018:
Way too much...lol
When you have dinner at a new restaurant, do you order something that you are familiar with or try ...
vnufall comments on Mar 28, 2018:
These days because of stomach problems I try to stick to tp I know what won't bother my stomach. Noemally tho, adventurous
How old were you when you got married for the first time?
vnufall comments on Mar 24, 2018:
I was 28. Divorced 22 years later....
What do you do with the hours between midnight and 2 am when sleep is elusive ?
vnufall comments on Mar 24, 2018:
Read any political stuff I can find, Read in my groups on Fetlife. Watch Netflix on my Kindl .
Anyone find it ironic that this year Easter and April Fools Day is the same day?
vnufall comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Wow
Is there a need for political correctness? Has it gone too far or not far enough?
vnufall comments on Mar 23, 2018:
When was the N word ever acceptable?? I think some correctness is needed. African American is better. Also no illegal aliens anymore. Rhey are called undocumented.
Do you give to beggars?
vnufall comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Near where I live by the freeway there are always people standing out with a sign, homeless etc. I don't. I always think are they are going to buy booze or drugs with the days money. Now I understand the concept it's not my business, just give but its my money. Going and buying crappy fast food is no better. They need to go to Health and Human Services and get help. They can get them help.
During my workout this morning, I overheard a trainer (non-freethinker) talk to his charge about how...
vnufall comments on Mar 22, 2018:
Listening to that is just too much for me. I guess in their minds they are having a psrsonal relationship wirh Jesus.
The Historicity of Jesus?
vnufall comments on Mar 22, 2018:
I wonder what does the Vatican have? Maybe some answers there. But will the pope let anyone look?
Which way do you lean politically and why?
vnufall comments on Mar 17, 2018:
In the US right now the far right has taken over. I cant get wth Trump and his fascist philosophies. Trump is deregulating everything. Its a dangerous place. We need to change the polirical landscape of Republican congress. Grassroots is woeking hard for a blue wave in the midterms.
What traits make a good boss? Have you ever had one?
vnufall comments on Mar 17, 2018:
Never had good managers. One who listens, treats you like an adult. Encourages you to be open to new learning experiences. Doesn't try to micromanage.
Sexless marriage
vnufall comments on Mar 17, 2018:
My ex and I were married for 22 years. I think i outgrew him. Sex was awful at the end, i could hardly stand to be around him. I had an affair. I liked the attention. Both people have to work at it.
Is it Spring yet?
vnufall comments on Mar 16, 2018:
Its coming, longer days,the sky is changing, more sun. Saw a robin...woo hoo
What do you like most about yourself?
vnufall comments on Mar 11, 2018:
I like after a long nursing career, to have become a political activist. I like that I can say what I wanted to say when I was working but I couldn't , especially regarding healthcare
What are the three worst things about America?
vnufall comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Income disparity, lack of education in the public schools, and Big Pharma causing the opioid crisis.
Marriage
vnufall comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I think i outgrew my ex husband. We were reformed Jews. Never very religious.
Happy International Women's Day! Who is your favorite FEMALE atheist author/public figure?
vnufall comments on Mar 9, 2018:
For me Gloria Steinem, writer founder of MS Magazine, involved with many womens issues and she is still here!!! She also is a political activist. Looked up to her since the 70s.
A quick grammar question
vnufall comments on Mar 9, 2018:
Hahahahs
Are You a Baby Boomer Still Working?
vnufall comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Retired from nursing....yeah!!!!. Polirical activist much more fun....
In the interests of truth in advertising I've changed my avatar to one which was taken this morning ...
vnufall comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Why do people use old pics anyway??
Anyone enjoy listening to podcasts?
vnufall comments on Mar 3, 2018:
Marc Maron's WTF, Alec Baldwin's Here's the Thing.
Does anyone remember the first time they had romantic feelings for another person? The first time ...
vnufall comments on Feb 27, 2018:
I waa in kindergarten, some blonde boy had a crush on me whenever i wore my party dresss to school. It was sweet
Is there a lesson to be learned from a "failed relationship?"
vnufall comments on Feb 26, 2018:
No it was fine, but it didn't push me into another marriage either. I dont know, been sivirced 12 years now...too independent for a man.
I was born into a family where my Father's side was Jewish, and my Mother's was Catholic. Both sides...
vnufall comments on Feb 26, 2018:
I was brought up Carholic in in Catholic schools. I constantly has questions . Eventually married a reformed Jew, converted had 2 kids divorced and now single Im officially agnostic.
This happened just the other day. A damn shame they weren't able to put this fucker six feet under.....
vnufall comments on Feb 26, 2018:
I'm glad the ladies are alright.
Do you feel that psychology is a valid science?
vnufall comments on Feb 26, 2018:
Yes it's a science, if you dont believe it you need psychological help.
I'm currently struggling with some stuff and someone made the comment that "if I had a husband,I ...
vnufall comments on Feb 16, 2018:
I was married 22 years, 2 sons now grown, divorced going on 12 years. I have been in three relationships and dated a lot too. I love men but i am very independent. Probably wont marry again. I just broke up with someone because I didn't want to live in his town in a big house to take care of and his afternoon drinking every day bothered me. I know i cant change anyone best to just move on.
Would you rather never use social media sites / apps again or never watch another movie or TV show?
vnufall comments on Feb 16, 2018:
I like to watch movies on the big screen...tv doesn't matter to me.
I just found out today that someone I used to be very close to died from cancer. Apparently she had...
vnufall comments on Feb 8, 2018:
Part of life
Which is your favorite black mirror episode?
vnufall comments on Feb 7, 2018:
the Star Trek one...
How do you handle cabin fever?
vnufall comments on Feb 7, 2018:
Get bundled up and walk..shovel snow, If inside, omg..listen to music, listen to podcasts...Marc Maron WTF, there are tons, watch Netflix. Read about politics...gossiip...no end.
Do illiterate people get the full effect from alphabet soup?
vnufall comments on Feb 7, 2018:
Hahahaha
Are any of you other old-timers out there having trouble keeping up with the youngsters (esp. 20-40 ...
vnufall comments on Feb 7, 2018:
I don't worry about keeping up with anybody these days...I'm retired.
More Americans who consider themselves white are discovering they are part African through DNA tests...
vnufall comments on Feb 7, 2018:
We all are a big mix...could care less...
Opposing Abortion and Stigmatizing Single Motherhood
vnufall comments on Feb 7, 2018:
Why are Catholic men so interested in this?? I want to see more Catholic women stand up and insist birth control be used so might not have to have an abortion. I have seen men show up at Planned Parenthood rallies with abortion fetus pics, usually with a group of little mousy women standing around them. If men had to carry babies things would be different. If you Catholics don't want an abortion, don't have one. Don't take my right to choose. Single mothers need a lot of support, emotional and financial...care to help out Catholic men???
Hello. I am interviewing for a position at my company. My potential boss is a holy roller at a Mega ...
vnufall comments on Feb 7, 2018:
I have a headache just thinking about this....
Do you remember where you were when the Challenger exploded?
vnufall comments on Feb 7, 2018:
I was on maternity leave, pregnant overdue with my first son in bed watching tv. It was really sad, and I could never get excited about space programs ever again.
Who else will ignore Valentine's day? I will tell all those close to me that I love them. But I ...
vnufall comments on Feb 7, 2018:
I just lost the boyfriend...ohhh...well..I like flowers hearts candy...why not celebrate??, it means love....
Evolution vs. Creationism. What about... [youtu.be] How do you feel about this?
vnufall comments on Feb 6, 2018:
Even the nuns in Catholic Schools taught us both Creatiionism.,..part of religion and then science. We needed science so we could get to college.
Correct me if I am wrong BUT I grew up believing that “men of God” were supposed to lead by ...
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Jim Baker From the PTL Club, has been around trying this Prosperty crap for years. Now he has new wife and church is on tv with his kids...its disgusting. Mostly crying about the end days. He was in jail for messing around with his Church's money...same ole schtick...
Marriage... Are there any divorcees out there who actively hope to get married again? The only ...
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Married 22 years, divorced 12 years...in 3 different relationships after the divorce..just broke up with someone...I'm here and there about remarrying.
Importance of friendships.
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
I went to an all girl Catholic High School, graduated in 1973..Between politics and religion I cannot discuss much.
I went to Barnes and Noble today, and came home with a huge Synonym Finder book. Only $21.65 after ...
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Smart girl....
I'm waiting for the Trumpenfuhrer to respond to the current stock market activities.
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
He'll tell his people just a glitch...lol, or not respond at all.
Did you know the first banks were Synagogues and Churches!
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Yup, we have a synagogue in Detroit whose congregation moved and the building was given to Wayne State University...and this became a theater.
Who had their infant child circumcised and why?
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
My sons were circumcised on my kitchen table by a mohel...ritual circumcision.
Marriage... Are there any divorcees out there who actively hope to get married again? The only ...
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
Just broke up with a nice guy...but I couldn't settle for him, too many things wouldn't have worked out.
Alone or with friends? For the life of Micky....going shopping is a pain unless I am alone. ...
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
It depends where I am shopping. Lots of kids, forget it.
SURGERY Getting right knee replaced 22 Feb. I know it's become rather routine but still anxious (If...
vnufall comments on Feb 5, 2018:
I'm an old retired orthopedic nurse. Worked on a orthopedic floor for 21 years, and did sub acute rehab too. A lot of it depends on you. Keep your weight down (helps a lot with movement and healing) Eat healthy, no garbage fast foods, no smoking. Have to trust the ortho doc. After surgery as the staff helps you up and moving...the more you move the better. Pain pills are needed but remember constipating too. Drink a lot of fluids. If they ask you to go to Rehab...do it!!
Who's your Hollywood Icon or pin up?
vnufall comments on Feb 1, 2018:
Steve Mcqueen
How old were you when you first watched porn?
vnufall comments on Jan 30, 2018:
18 or 19 Linda Lovelace...Deep throat.
What are your thoughts on the etiquette of paying for dates? Please read the thought provoking ...
vnufall comments on Jan 28, 2018:
I'm an old divorced lady. I have paid for my share throughout my life. Now tho I feel if someone in his 50's or 60's cant pick up the tab for dinner , he probably shouldn't go. Now...I don't pay.
Did your parent(s) ever talk to you about 'da birds & da bees'?
vnufall comments on Jan 27, 2018:
Not much...should have been more information on birth control...but we were Catholics.
One thing I was told very often when I was younger was "You'll get more right wing as you get ...
vnufall comments on Jan 27, 2018:
Not me, brought up in a conservative family...married into a family of reformed Jews...liberal ever since.
How many of you are still in touch with an ex, someone you had some sort of relationship with or ...
vnufall comments on Jan 27, 2018:
My ex husband I'm friends with but we have 2 sons (grown)...took awhile but we at least can talk about the kids.. We were not friends for quite awhile after the divorce. I was in a relationship for 4 years, I have nothing to do with him. I was in another relationship for a year...did talk to him once, but not anymore. Once its over, its over for me.
So the evangelicals want to have a day of prayer and fasting for that orange guy in the White House....
vnufall comments on Jan 27, 2018:
The Evangelicals can pray til hell freezes over. Trump is in big trouble with Mueller, his time is coming and all the prayer in the world won't save him.
I grew up eating red meat. It's one of those cultural programmed behaviors that I've never, ever, ...
vnufall comments on Jan 27, 2018:
I don't eat much meat, especially red meat...but every once in awhile I enjoy a big fat steak...lol.
Was sex more fun when you still believed in original sin?
vnufall comments on Jan 26, 2018:
Ohhh brother, I gave up that thinkinking after Catholic school...lol.
Did you ever have a job that sucked the life out of you?
vnufall comments on Jan 23, 2018:
Yes...Nursing....
If you could teach everyone in the world one concept, what concept would have the biggest positive ...
vnufall comments on Jan 23, 2018:
How about peace in the world?
On English tv.A baby has severe brain damage.No chance that it will have any quality of life.The ...
vnufall comments on Jan 22, 2018:
There are hospital ethicists who will work with family and staff on this complicated issue.
Did you know the Baby Boomers are no longer the largest demographic. The number of millennials (aged...
vnufall comments on Jan 22, 2018:
As an old baby boomer myself, I feel like we were the generation of peace and change, but everyone became conservative as they got older...big drag..

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