What position do you sleep in?

webbew1 comments on Jun 27, 2018:

You're a little too young for me, but if I could shave about 20 years off I'd be delighted to see if you might be interested in finding out the answer to that question personally.

Karaoke picks?

webbew1 comments on Jun 27, 2018:

Let's see.... what did I sing this past week at karaoke? - I Will Follow You Into The Dark: Death Cab For Cutie - I'll Be You: The Replacements - Snowblind: Styx - The Bluest Eyes In Texas: Restless Heart - Honkytonk Woman: The Rolling Stones - Baby Blue: George Strait - Talk To Ya Later: The Tubes It was a slow week. I got to sing a lot.

I have a young friend who just had a child.

webbew1 comments on Jun 27, 2018:

My advice? She's your friend. That makes it your business. The people who are telling you otherwise are full of shit. Confront her and let her know that when she finally wisens up and decides to dump this losers ass, you'll be there with your buddies to make damn sure that he pounds sand and never looks back. Would be best if she'd just put a bullet between this cockroaches eyes, but I'm guessing that's never going to happen.

Let's play a game! You are in a room that contains seven doors representing each of the "seven ...

webbew1 comments on Jun 27, 2018:

All of them. I'm not a pedophile, a murderer, a rapist, a thief, a hoarder, a racist or a homophob, so I don't owe anybody an explanation or an apology for who I am.

If vaccines work, why should everyone get them still?

webbew1 comments on Jun 27, 2018:

You think because people get vaccinated that the bacteria which causes the diseases simply hops aboard a luxury space ship for a nice long vacation to Pluto?? Doesn't work that way. Vaccines don't make the disease go away. They just help the body build resistance to it.

As an atheist, I think Homosexuality should not come into mainstream. What's your take ?

webbew1 comments on Jun 27, 2018:

I always presumed that homosexuality was natures built in form of population control since gay people don't tend to pass along their DNA. Not much I can add to the responses to this post other than what has already been said. What consenting adults do in the privacy of their own bedroom is none of anyone else's business, so I'm not sure what you even mean by "mainstream".

Does anyone travel for concerts?

webbew1 comments on Jun 27, 2018:

Done it a few times. Back in my college days, my friends and I drove from Lincoln, NE to Lawrence, KS for Oingo Boingo, Kansas City, MO for The B-52's and Toad The Wet Sprocket and Denver, CO for The Cure, Love And Rockets and The Pixies. I've also flown from Denver to Detroit to see Porcupine Tree because the Boulder show was sold out and Detroit was the only stop on the tour with tickets still available.

Living while brown. [scontent-ort2-1.xx.fbcdn.net]

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Just know that the walking, talking sludge who pulls this kind of crap is so far beneath you that they are unworthy to even wipe your ass.

Assuming evolution is correct, do you think that if humans went extinct another species as ...

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

I think our planet still has enough time left before the sun goes super nova to give rise to another intelligent species should mankind go tits up. The conditions on this planet are ideal for organic life, so I can't see why the odds wouldn't be pretty decent for some species to evolve higher thinking skills.

New 'country' group: [instagram.com]

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

The Ickey Chicks

How do you deal with telemarketers?

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

I try to be nice to telemarketers. Most of them are just low wage workers who are just trying to earn a living. If I can get my claws in to one of their bosses though? That's a whole different can o' whoop ass.

It’s National Kissing Day!

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

It's a resounding yes for me. Kissing needs to be a part of foreplay or I have a difficult time getting turned on for sex.

Why would anyone want to date you?

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

I don't need to make a case for anyone to date me. I like who I am, and anybody whom I happen to like romantically that wishes to come along for the ride is welcome.

Let’s take a few minutes to share our favorite sexual experiences—one that really stands out in ...

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

I've had so many good sexual experiences it's hard to pick one. But I'd have to say that my best sexual experience ever was with a woman I'd been seeing for a couple of weeks who I had to leave because of distance issues. We spent our last day together in bed talking, making love and being heavily emotional on and off. The sex was passionate, tender and heartbreaking all at the same time. Getting in to the cab the next morning to go to the airport was the most difficult thing I've ever done in my life. I'm wise enough to realize that what we had was just the infatuation which comes from the early stages of a relationship, but if all sex was that good all of the time, I might never get anything accomplished.

Last words

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Oh, fu.............

For those wishing to equate Sarah Huckabee Sanders expulsion from The Red Hen with the gay couple ...

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Ordinarily I'd be with you 100%, but the GOP set the parameters here. According to their criteria, if the persons behavior goes against my ethical values and guiding life principles, I have every right to inform them that they will not be served in my establishment. If making a cake for someone in the LGBTQ community goes against their ethical values and guiding life principles, then serving someone who lies in the public square to protect a corrupt presidential administration can damn sure go against mine.

Do you collect anything?

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Does collecting student loan and medical debt count? If it was art, I'd have enough of that the fill the Louvre in Paris, the State Hemitage Museum in St. Petersburg, the National Museum of China in Beijing and the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York City.

Laughing at the repubs who are getting harrassed and kicked out of businesses.

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Karma's a cold hearted bitch, ain't it?

Beware of the internet liberal

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

When you decide to post something note worthy of discussion, we'll be waiting. Or are you just one of those meme warriors who can't formulate a thought in to a coherent sentence, let alone a paragraph, so you rely on memes in a pathetic attempt to make some sort of point?

What does this community think of non-monogamy and/or polyamourous relationships?

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Lots of threads on here covering that very topic which you'll be able to delve in to.

You just sit there without saying anything, with that amazing body.

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

I've never been this addicted to any type of mind altering substances, but I've seen plenty how it effects those who are around people that are caught up in an addiction. Especially kids. Not good. If you're married to the bottle, then make it an exclusive relationship. Don't bring another lover in to your bed with you. It just complicates things.

Why am I the bad guy?

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

She sounds like an asshole who needs to mind her own goddamn business to me. Whom you are friends with is no concern of hers.

Who thinks George Carlin was best comedian of all time?

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Yes. Without question. Lots of great runners up, but George Carlin was the best of the best. The 1962 Green Bay Packers of comedy.

[norasamaran.com] This one's for the men.

webbew1 comments on Jun 26, 2018:

This is all fine and dandy, but it's still formulating an excuse for the criminal who perpetrates the crime. At some point people become adults and need to take responsibility for their decisions regardless of what occurred in their formative years. We don't let off pedophiles for molesting children simply because in most cases these people were molested as children themselves. Same applies here. The decision to force one self upon another sexually without consent is a choice which the individual makes of their own accord. And they do it as a fully responsible adult. Attempting to excuse such behavior at any level because someone had issues growing up doesn't work in a court room. And it doesn't convince me.

Pigs fly just fine with sufficient thrust.

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Especially during a Pink Floyd or Roger Waters concert.

Socialists blame outsiders for their problems, it's a crime to speak the truth, sound familiar?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

If socialism is to blame for the fall of Venezuela, then who is to blame for the unregulated plutocratic fascism which has left Somalia without a functioning government and lead to the rise of privateer pirates within their ocean territories?

Alzheimer's doesn't sound so bad when I realize I'll be able to watch all my favorite movies for the...

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Alzheimers is tougher on the family than it is on the person who has it. At least in the latter stages of the disease.

What exactly is a hook up? I think it's a meeting for sex but am I wrong?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

These days hooking up can refer to any number of things. Sex definitely being one of them. It can also mean something as non-sexual as hooking up for a brainstorming session on a project after work.

Laughing at the repubs who are getting harrassed and kicked out of businesses.

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Getting kicked out of restaurants? Trump staffers in DC can't get laid? Well, fuck those assholes. Cry me a river. They made their bed and now they get to lay down in it.

For that special California girl that walks tbe beach.

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

The sexiest goddamn song ever written.

The summer mental drag is in full swing.

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Third floor. Nana Plaza Entertainment Center. Bangkok Thailand. Heaven on earth for single gay men.

Have you found your "calling" in life?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

I had aspirations to do musical theater on broadway. That's a little tough when you can sing well enough but can't dance for shit, or even be "an actor who moves well". These days I'm a garage door repair technician, and I like the work well enough. Beats slinging burgers.

Are You Lonely?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

I'm a garage door repairman, so for my job I get out in to all parts of the city to work in peoples houses. I'm always amazed at the endless stretches of homes occupied by people who married and started families and a part of me occasionally wonders if I'd be happier if I had been one of them. I sometimes have to remind myself that their lifestyle as opposed to mine amounts to six of one and a half dozen of the other. Yes, they have a home and a family to go back to at night after a hard days work, but while they're in over their heads in shitty diapers and college savings funds, I'm off having fun and seeing exotic parts of the world. The marriage and family thing will never be in the cards for me, and that's ok. I decided a long time ago that it was an opportunity for me to enjoy the type of lifestyle which your typical married guy can only dream about. I get married dudes all the time who want to hear stories about my adventures in places like Thailand and Costa Rica. How was your latest trip, buddy? Did you meet a woman? Who was she? What does she look like? Show me a picture! Wow! She's really hott! I'll bet she was a lot of fun. Damn! My wife hasn't had sex with me in weeks! Everybody feels lonely on occasion. It's a part of the human condition. The trick is to remind yourself that if you're single, you're really no worse off in that regard than someone who isn't. Use your single status to your advantage. Society will try to convince you that being single is some sort of disorder. It's not.

Has Evangelical Christianity Become Sociopathic? | HuffPost

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Christianity has always had its fair share of sociopaths. Lots of maniacs out there are looking for something to hide their twisted behavior behind, and religion makes a good cover. The pedophile who becomes a priest because it gets them close to kids. The privateer hoarder who hides their disgusting greed and lust for more and more and more as "blessings from the lord", even when they have acquired ten thousand times what any person requires to be comfortable. The sadistic control freak who claims that their right to exhibit wretched and abusive behavior is a devine power granted to them by some god. Yep. Christianity has always had its share of crazies.

What are the best and/or your favorite musicians of all time?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Danny Elfman, Steven Wilson, David Bowie, Knut Nistedt, Freddy Mercury, Bruce Dickenson, Mozart, Trent Reznor, Tom Waites and Johnny Cash.

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webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

\M/

Whats the ok age difference to date?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Well... technically it's legal so long as both parties are over 18. But if you're looking at some 18 year old hooking up with a 75 year old (a la Hugh Hefner) then I have to seriously contemplate how much money enters in to the picture as opposed to mutually desired sex or love. I'm 52 and I won't usually date women who are any younger than 30. Women younger than that are simply not mature enough.

Erybody doing after the weekend?What did y`all do for fun?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Karaoke on Saturday night.

What Do you Think About Monday's?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

I wanna shoot... ooo ooo ooooo oo-woo ooo... the whole day down.

Do you think the restaurant in Virginia that refused to serve Sarah Hucka-Sanders acted correctly?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Who cares? Apparently it's ok to refuse service to LGBT people, so titt for tatt, right? If I owned a restaurant, Sarah Huckabee Sanders could keep herself and her fucked up belief system out of my establishment too.

Anyone else pissed off at income inequality?

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

There will always be some level of income inequality. As their should be. A janitor should not make as much money as a CEO. That being said, what we have going on today is way out of control. When 1% of the population holds more wealth than they could possibly spend in five lifetimes even if they never worked again while 99% can't even feed their families and pay their bills, something is seriously amiss. There was a time not so long ago when anyone who was willing to work hard and play by the rules could at least own a modest home, drive a modest vehicle, put food on the table for their family and take a nice vacation once a year.

Nothing like an apparent domestic violence situation waking you up in the middle of a good sleep.

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

I feel for the kids in this situation. They're going to grow up thinking that this shit is normal. That this is how people interact with one another. Then the cycle will begin all over again.

I am going to see Roger Daltrey perform the songs from "Tommy" at the Ravinia Pavillion tomorrow ...

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Wasn't all that impressed with his new album, but I'm sure this was a hell of a show. The Who is still touring, you know. They should hit the road again in another year or so. But if you really want to see them, don't delay. They're not getting any younger.

Geeze, she's got her fingers in all sorts of pies.

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

November is coming....

Any Foreign Film Fans out there.

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

South Korea and Japan have been producing some really good horror films over the past 30 years.

Maybe it could be called a fetish of sorts; but I do mostly prefer a larger lady.

webbew1 comments on Jun 25, 2018:

Good on ya, mate! I prefer petite women myself, but everyone is different. Nothing wrong with liking plus size women.

How long is too long to wait to have sex

webbew1 comments on Jun 24, 2018:

I've found that this can be greatly influenced by culture. Here in the US, we are still pretty heavily influenced by the puritanical beliefs of many of our founding fathers, so we have a lot of hang ups when it comes to sex. Latin America, on the other hand, has seemed to do a much better job of shedding the oppression forced upon them by the Spaniards. It seems as though these folks only like to do two things in their free time; dance and have sex. Especially during Carnival. SE Asia is also a culture which has never seemed to have many hang ups when it comes to sex. There is a tribe in Cambodia called the Kreung where at the age of 13, fathers will build their daughters a hut separate from the family home where they can take boys they fancy to experiment with their budding sexuality in privacy. It seems as though the only countries which have any major hang ups about human sexuality and waiting for a specific time to start having sex are countrues where christianity or islam permeate every aspect of the culture.

I lost my little girl (my 15 year old chihuahua) on Monday.

webbew1 comments on Jun 24, 2018:

The most important lesson our pets teach us in this life is how to say goodbye. You should go to a shelter and adopt a new pet as soon as possible. There is another dog out there who needs your love and companionship and is dying to give you everything they have to offer in return for so little.

Things like this bother me a bit.

webbew1 comments on Jun 24, 2018:

I try to cut authors from earlier, more ignorant times a little bit of slack. Todays authors, not so much.

Your favorite dog breed!

webbew1 comments on Jun 24, 2018:

All of them.

The most disgusting food!

webbew1 comments on Jun 24, 2018:

Pig knuckles. Chinese people lose their shit over those things. As far as I'm concerned, they're the most nasty, gristley cut of meat you can get.

Well here we go again.

webbew1 comments on Jun 24, 2018:

You've made the correct decision in choosing to move on. First of all, you are not this persons free therapist. There are professionals who get paid money to sit there and listen to people bitch about their problems. Second of all, the relationship will not work at any level if both parties want something different. If this person will not become sexually involved with you, then go find someone who will.

UN report: America's poor becoming more destitute under Trump - CNN

webbew1 comments on Jun 24, 2018:

Sooooo.... you mean to tell me that a bunch of poor people voted as their fearless leader some incompetent real estate mogul who would be a door greeter at Wal-Mart if it weren't for the cool 22 billion his Nazi supporting daddy left him, and now they're all even worse off than they were before? How could this possibly happen?? It makes no sense!!! Oh... wait. Never mind. It actually makes perfect sense.

Red Hen owner explains kicking Huckabee out: [scontent-ort2-2.xx.fbcdn.net]

webbew1 comments on Jun 24, 2018:

I knew that this day of reckoning was coming. I'm surprised it took this long, really. Wanna keep gay couples from buying a wedding cake? Fine. Two can play that fucking game. We reserve the right to refuse service to anybody whose assholeish beliefs conflict with our sense of common decency.

U.

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Woo! Hoo! 222,000 more crappy, low wage, spirit and life force sucking McJobs created. Let the Trump Train sweat shop exodus from China to America begin. You'll have to excuse me if I choose not to join you on your victory lap.

5 Cruel Ways You'll Feel Destroyed by the Polyamorous Narcissist - Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

This is why people should always communicate openly about their intentions early on. Making promises to be faithful and monogomous when you know damn well that you're completely full of shit is disingenuous. A polyamorous person should never enter in to a sexual relationship of any kind with a person who is into monogomy. There is just way too much of a gap in expectations.

Living in the sticks..

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Already did it. Grew up in a small Nebraska town 150 miles from anything even remotely resembling a city. Had more than my fill of it. I live in the big city now, so if you're adventures outside of fly over country bring you to Denver, look me up.

Christian TV Host Defends Trump’s Concentration Camps For Kids

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

It's god's deal, eh? Well.... let's just see what her god has to say about that.... Leviticus 19:33-34 Exodus 22:21 Exodus 23:9 Malachi 3:5 Deuteronomy 27:19 Matthew 25:35 Romans 13:1-7 Jeremiah 7:5-7 Exodus 12:49 Leviticus 25:35 Hebrews 13:2 Romans 13:1-14 Deuteronomy 24:19-22 Zechariah 7:9-10 Genesis 12:1 Leviticus 23:22 Leviticus 24:22 Psalms 146:9 Deuteronomy 10:18 James 1:27 Deuteronomy 24:14 Deuteronomy 10:19 Philippians 3:20 Deuteronomy 10:18-19 Matthew 25:31-46 Ezekiel 22:7 Galatians 3:28 Deuteronomy 26:5 Genesis 11:1-32 Leviticus 19:9-10 1 Peter 2:13-16 Exodus 20:10 Psalms 23:1-6 Deuteronomy 32:8 Deuteronomy 23:3 Romans 13:1 Deuteronomy 10:17-19 Deuteronomy 14:28-29 Leviticus 19:10 Matthew 25:1-46 James 22:2-15 Acts 5:29 Galatians 2:10 Isaiah 19:19-25 Deuteronomy 48:43-44 Numbers 9:14 Zechariah 7:10 Deuteronomy 24:19-21 Leviticus 19:34 Deuteronomy 26:12-13 Jeremiah 22:3-5 Galatians 5:14 Jeremiah 22:3 Proverbs 23:10-11 Titus 3:1 2 Chronicals 36:1-23 Leviticus 19:33 Psalms 19:12 Proverbs 22:8 Deuteronomy 26:10-13 Deuteronomy 16:9-15 Leviticus 22:10 Deuteronomy 19:14 Luke 10:29-42 Job 31:32 Ephesians 2:11-21 Matthew 2:13-15 Ezekiel 47:21-23 Leviticus 16:29 Leviticus 24:16 Deuteronomy 14:21 Ruth 1:16-17 Leviticus 18:26 Acts 17:26-27 Deuteronomy 1:16 Genesis 23-1-20 Ezekiel 47:22 Numbers 15:15-16 2 Corinthiand 8:13-15 Romans 12:13 Deuteronomy 24:17-18 2 Chronicals 2:17-18 Revelation 1:1 Deuteronomy 5:14 1 Peter 2:11 Leviticus 17:12 Luke 13:29-30 Isaiah 56:1-8 Luke 10:25-37 Genesis 46:28-34 Revelation 17:17 Deuteronomy 17:14-17 Micah 6:8 Numbers 20:14-21 Genesis 7:1-8:22 Leviticus 17:8-9 Proverbs 8:15-16

I was inspired by the responses to my music post yesterday and the fun responses.

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Probably my favorite lyrics of all time are to David Wilcox's, Eye Of The Hurricane. The lyrics use riding a motorcycle recklessly as a metaphor for the things we use in our lives to try to fill up the spaces where we feel empty.... Tank is full, switch is on Night is warm, cops are gone Rocket bike is all her own It's called a hurricane. She told me once it's quite a ride It's shaped so there's this place inside Where if you're moving you can hide Safe within the rain She wants to run away But there's nowhere that she can go Nowhere the pain won't come again But she can hide Hide in the pouring rain She rides the eye of the hurricane Tell the truth, explain to me How you got this need for speed She laughed and said "it might just be The next best thing to love." Hope is gone and she confessed When you lay your dream to rest You can get what's second best But it's hard to get enough She wants to run away But there's nowhere that she can go Nowhere the pain won't come again But she can hide Hide in the pouring rain She rides the eye of the hurricane We saw her ride so fast last night Racing by a flash of light Riding quick, the street was dark A shining truck she thought was parked It blocked her path, stopped her heart But not the hurricane She saw her chance to slip the trap There was just the room to pass in back But then it moved, closed the gap She never felt the pain She wants to run away But there's nowhere that she can go Nowhere the pain won't come again But she can hide Hide in the pouring rain She rides the eye of the hurricane She rides the eye of a hurricane.

Do you edit?

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Mostly for spelling and grammatical errors. But once in awhile I'll look at something I wrote and ask myself if I really can't possibly phrase that a bit better.

Why do conservative Christians feel oppressed?

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Because, like any five year old or person who is mentally five years old, they are unable to tell the difference between being oppressed and not always getting what one wants.

What is your favorite BEER? Mine is Bud Light Platinum

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Best beer I ever had was brewed at a small pub called The Greyhound outside of Melville Castle in Dalkeith, Scotland. It was called Aloah Special, and nothing I've had since even comes close to matching up. Fat Tire and Blue Moon are about as close as I've come as far as mass produced beers go, so I guess those will have to do for a favorites list. For inexpensive lagers, Beer Lao from Laos is my go to brew.

Who Loves President Trump?

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

People who somehow seem to still think that their lives are going to dramatically improve with Trump as POTUS still love him. That number is quickly dwindling down as more people realize how foolish they were to ever believe that the loser trust fund baby of a Nazi backing billionaire could ever give the remotest of shits about them, but folks who believe that crap are still out there.

You catch a religious nut putting a flyer on your car windshield or house door. What do you do?

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Fold it up, put it in my back pocket and throw it out later with all of the other trash which has accumulated throughout the day.

Could you love a child conceived out of rape?

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

It would seem that in cases of rape, if the person elects to go ahead with the pregnancy, adoption would be the best option. Not a day would go by that your own child wouldn't be a reminder of what some monster did to you. I'm sure it would be very difficult to get past that, and the child does not deserve to have that weight placed upon their shoulders.

I will never understand people who are 'polyamorous' or 'ethically non-monogamous'.

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Romantic involvement is pretty much like everything else in life. Everyone is different. Some people are built for monogomy. Some are not. My parents were married for over 60 years and to my knowledge neither ever strayed. They were perfectly happy as a monogomous couple. I'm not a monogomous person, and I do not choose to pursue romantic and sexual relationships with those who are for that very reason. Too much of a gap in expectations. I'm guessing that some folks would consider me to be a bit of a male slut, and that's ok. I've had my share of lovers, and I consider myself fortunate to have had every single one of them in my life. Most I still talk to and all of them I still consider friends. Some went on to eventually get married. Some are still out there having fun. All brought companionship and pleasure in to my life for the time we were together. I will always hold a special place in my heart which belongs to no one else for each and every one of them.

Bloodhound Gang - Lift Your Head Up High ( And Blow Your Brains Out) - YouTube

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

You can not imagine how difficult it is to hold a half gallon of moo juice and polish the one-eyed gopher when your doin' seventy-five in an eighteen-wheeler. You either love the Bloodhound Gang, or you wish the universe would implode just so they would be wiped off the very fabric of existence.

My favorite band, Woods of Ypres - Shards of Love [youtube.com]

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Very under appreciated band.

I'm terrified to be in debt from it, but I finally applied to go back to college.

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

May you have better luck with going back to school than I did, my friend.

Should I travel and seek a different reality?

webbew1 comments on Jun 23, 2018:

You should most definitely see the world if you have the means to do so. Don't hesitate to PM me if you need some input on things to do, places to stay and cultural norms. I can give some pretty extensive advice on Scotland, England, Japan, Thailand, Costa Rica and Hong Kong. Here is the list, in order of preference, of countries I would prioritize: 1) Thailand- Safe, modern and affordable. Thai people are very welcoming and helpful to first time visitors. Most everybody speaks at least passable English. There are more things to see, do and experience in Thailand than you can possibly fit in to one trip. But that's ok. I've never met a person who went to Thailand once that didn't go back. Most have gone back several times, and with good reason. 2) Scotland- Beautiful, laid back country with lots of awesome pubs, castles and fish and chip places. Down to earth and friendly locals who will talk your ear off if you give them half a chance. Obviously, Scotland's lochs and castles and Stonehenge are highlights, although seeing Stonehenge isn't much worth it these days because they won't let anybody get near it anymore. Back when I saw it, you could walk right up and touch the stones. 3) Japan- A nice place to see, but pretty westernized and very expensive. You won't get much in regards to experiencing true Asian culture. I recommend going in the spring during the Cherry Blossom Festival. 4) England- A fun country to be in, but you won't have all that much in regards to a cultural experience. London is a blast. Great party town. 5) Hong Kong- Like England, a fun town to hang out in. I'm placing it 5th because it can be a bit confusing to someone who has never been in the city before, and few people speak english. Pick pockets are also plentiful in Hong Kong. Save this one for when you are a more seasoned traveler. 6) Costa Rica- Costa Rica is a wonderful country to see, but I would recommend saving this one for when you're a more seasoned traveler as well. It's not the safest country in the world and you can find yourself getting mugged or worse if you wander off in to the wrong areas. I would recommend going with a tour group the first few times you travel. It'll help you pick up on the how to's of traveling much quicker. You don't want your first travel experience to be an endless maze of trying to figure things out. You'll have less freedom and spontinaity with a tour group, but you'll also have a better experience.

Do any of you seniors, like me, remember a song that has the words, My friend the Witch Doctor?

webbew1 comments on Jun 22, 2018:

I think you're referring to: I told the witch doctor I was in love with you I told the witch doctor I was in love with you And then the witch doctor He told me what to do He told me Ooo eee, ooo ah ah ting tang Walla walla, bang bang Ooo eee ooo ah ah ting tang Walla walla bang bang Ooo eee ,ooo ah ah ting tang Walla walla ,bang bang Ooo eee ooo ah ah ting tang Walla walla bang bang The original version was done by Alvin and the Chipmunks with David Seville in 1958. The Cartoons did a remake of it in 1998.

Does anyone have experience with CouchSurfing, AirBnB and the like?

webbew1 comments on Jun 22, 2018:

I'm an Air B&B host. It's been awesome! With the exception of the fact that I'm renting my master bedroom to guests and sleeping in my kitchen, that is.

Shawshank Redemption. My favorite movie. What's yours?

webbew1 comments on Jun 22, 2018:

Same.

Am new on this group , i like Animal As Leaders , meshuggah and other bands like the helix ...

webbew1 comments on Jun 22, 2018:

https://youtu.be/dRwjTCC3Pyo

So, its 3 in the morning and I have some bad insomnia.

webbew1 comments on Jun 22, 2018:

I had a stretch of really bad insomnia for about six months a few years back. Visualization exercises and relaxation techniques got me out of it in less than a week. There are videos on You Tube to help out with falling asleep when your brain won't shut down on its own.

Would you? Could you?

webbew1 comments on Jun 22, 2018:

No. I would rather live for 75 years and enjoy every steak than live for 82 and eat like a goddamn rabbit every day.

Retirement!!!??? Reality check!

webbew1 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

Last time I was in a casino was 17 years ago. I lost 50 bucks at the blackjack table in less than five minutes, got up and walked out the door and never walked back in again.

Headline: Oklahoma GOP candidate proposes euthanasia for disabled and poor to avoid food stamps I...

webbew1 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

Remember.... Republicans don't give a fuck about you once you pop out of a vagina.

So We Do Have A First Lady!

webbew1 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

She's a hell of a lot smarter than her husband. She also seems to have at least some semblance of a conscience. But more than anything, I give her mad props for being Trump's lady of the evening on retainer. It can't be easy screwing that troll every single night to ensure that your family back home has the opportunity to live above the poverty line.

Digital World by Amaranthe..love it ://youtu.be/Qzw6A2WC5Qo

webbew1 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

Elize Ryde is what would happen if Brittney Spears had the whole Nightwish discography downloaded via USB in to her brain.

Recovering from 2 surgeries.

webbew1 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

Well, shit! Hope you're back up and around again soon, buddy!!

Should Trump get the Nobel Prize?

webbew1 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

Only if they put a dunce cap on it.

I am Tired of Men wanting to Fck me, but not Love Me. {Adult} | elephant journal

webbew1 comments on Jun 21, 2018:

There's a lot of nice, flowery platitudes here, but this is a common theme to which my response is always, show.... don't tell. Actions speak far louder than words, and this individuals actions show that the life they are manifesting for themselves demonstrates little of what they've put down on paper. The words printed in this column are the derelict mantra of every single person who has ever stayed with the same guy that has regularly beat their ass for 15 years. They're the derelict mantra of every single person who has ever claimed that they want someone who is "reliable, honest and trustworthy", but continually invite men to their bed who perpetually demonstrate that they have no interest in an exclusive relationship. They're the derelict mantra of every single person who has ever claimed to want a "nice guy", but whose last seven boyfriends are all in prison for armed robbery or aggrivated assault. And you can bet that somewhere in the picture there is some poor sad sack who fits the exact description of their supposed soul mate who has been carrying a torch for them for weeks, months or even years. You can also bet this person doesn't give that poor old sad sack the time of day when it comes to showing even the slightest inkling of romantic interest. This is the guy they go to so they can piss and moan about the dude they're actually sleeping with. So when I read articles like this or similar social media posts, I take it with a grain of salt until the person who made the statement pays it more than just lip service.

Psychology of women's profile for men they would/want to date

webbew1 comments on Jun 20, 2018:

When it comes to women and what they want in a romantic partner, never listen to what they say. Watch what they do. Their actions will speak far louder rhan their words.

Who else is currently ashamed of being American???

webbew1 comments on Jun 20, 2018:

At this point I'm just sad and numb.

How bad would things have to get for US citizens to seriously rebel - an uprising?

webbew1 comments on Jun 20, 2018:

A buddy of mine was talking to his car mechanic (who lived through the Russian revolution) about this very topic a couple of months ago. My friend mentioned to him that we might end up having a revolution in the United States very soon, to which his mechanic shook his finger at him and replied, you know nothing of revolution or how bad things have to get in order for that to happen. We're not at the point of revolution yet. Hopefully we can clean up this disaster in the voting booth. But if blood and revolution are what it comes to, then it wouldn't be the first time we've had to rely on bloodshed to put down tyranny in this country.

Some days ago, I mentioned that my landlord exploits homeless women for sex.

webbew1 comments on Jun 19, 2018:

So long as what goes on happens between two consenting adults, I don't have a problem with this arrangement. He needs to be absolutely clear right up front about his intentions though. This bullshit about letting someone stay for a few days and then threatening to kick them out if they refuse to start sleeping with him is blackmail.

Anyone else get really bad anxiety to the point where you sense a panic attack coming whenever ...

webbew1 comments on Jun 19, 2018:

I just get annoyed and bored.

Is there a non-religious argument against gay rights?

webbew1 comments on Jun 19, 2018:

No. In fact, there's not even really any legitimate religious arguments against gay rights. The few Bible verses which anti-gay christians scrape together in an attempt to defend their stance on the issue are easily contradicted and proven to be illegitimate using their very own source material against them.

Interesting fact.... any strippers here that can confirm this?

webbew1 comments on Jun 18, 2018:

Did somebody say strippers???

Do you believe it's unethical to eat meat?

webbew1 comments on Jun 18, 2018:

I eat organic life forms and someday one of them will eat me. It's the cycle of life. We all take from our environment, and the day will come for all of us when it is our turn to give back.

I lived a life full of people.

webbew1 comments on Jun 18, 2018:

I find my life goes in cycles. I have periods of time where I have contact with a good size circle of friends as well as stretches where I don't communicate with other people outside of work all that much. Usually my more solitary stretches are associated with a move to a different location. It takes awhile to acclimate to a new environment and to have the locals get used to your presence amongst them.

Has anyone who is seeking an eventual relationship, had any luck finding it with someone you met on ...

webbew1 comments on Jun 18, 2018:

It's not a priority. There are a few women on here who share my views on dating, sex and relationships, but most of them are too far away and are clearly already out there having fun and meeting people to connect with in their own area. If something clicks at some point, then it's all to the good. I'm not counting on it though.

A woman should feel safe anywhere.

webbew1 comments on Jun 18, 2018:

We shouldn't have a society where we have to design protective measures for anybody, but unfortunately we do. Muggers, predatory lenders, pedophiles, politicians, rapists, religious zealots, scam artists, thieves.... The world is filled with treacherous people which we must fight a never ending battle to thwart. It would be nice if all of these low lifes would just simply disappear, but wish in on hand and shit in the other....

Do you consider Near Death Experiences (NDE's) as proof of an afterlife of some sort?

webbew1 comments on Jun 17, 2018:

The interesting part about NDE's is the stories where people describe in detail things going on in other rooms while they were flatlining. Things which they could have had no way of observing, even if fully conscious.

Keep Your Friends Close Keep Your Enemies Closer What Do We Think?

webbew1 comments on Jun 17, 2018:

I think Sun Tzu was a very wise man.

Are you pro

webbew1 comments on Jun 17, 2018:

I'm pro contraception. If you're a guy, don't be an idiot. Take the goddamn responsibility to wear a condom so the choice of whether or not to have an abortion is something you never have to force a woman in to making.

When is it OK for white people to use the n-word? [patreon.com]

webbew1 comments on Jun 17, 2018:

It's not ok for anybody to use that word. Regardless of skin color.

Does this site get better?

webbew1 comments on Jun 17, 2018:

We are a community filled with people of varrying ideas and viewpoints. This means that frequently someone will say something which you do not like or do not agree with. If this bothers you, then you are more than welcome to move on.

Ugh, so tired of people using the word "friendzoned".

webbew1 comments on Jun 17, 2018:

I already have plenty of buddies to hang out with, drink beer and catch a ball game. So unless a woman is friend zoning me and wants to hang out with a bunch of belching, farting, obnoxious dudes who are probably doing a bunch of things they have little to no interest in, they're wasting both of our time. I sure as hell won't be hanging out at the mall with someone and watching them try on shoes or sitting around listening to them engage in a bunch of girly talk with their friends unless I'm sleeping with them. That's an allotment a woman only gets on occasion if we're more than just friends. There is absolutely zero benefit to being friend zoned for the one who is being placed in that category. This goes for both men and women. Everything always winds up being about the one who is doing the friend zoneing. There is no give and take. One person does all of the giving and the other does all of the taking and goals for the relationship do not match. The OP mentions having an agenda when it comes to entering in to relationships with others. People always have an agenda when they enter in to any type of relationship with another person. The question is always, does your agenda match mine? If so, then there is the potential for a relationship which can work. If not, then it's best to simply move on.