Are you so confident that you can stay for your opinion even if no one agrees?

zeuser comments on Jul 24, 2018:

"No one agrees" is my default position. Even after I got a divorce. Heh.

History repeats

zeuser comments on Jul 24, 2018:

And as I recall, the first thing Mussolini did was take over the newspapers. Something to watch for.

History repeats

zeuser comments on Jul 24, 2018:

Good comparison. The original wound up hanging by his heels when reality caught up with him. So if there are parallels....

I'm still waiting to see if someone made some error in the calculation.

zeuser comments on Jul 24, 2018:

Nah, it was a loose wire. It was also 6 years ago. http://www.sciencemag.org/news/2012/06/once-again-physicists-debunk-faster-light-neutrinos

Is there a tactful way to let the Ex know you're dating? :|

zeuser comments on Jul 24, 2018:

With me, when we (my new dating interest and I) posted pictures of outings on facebook, the cat was out of the bag. My kids were older at that time (18 and 24), and they told my ex also. I was and still am on good terms with my ex, even though the dating relationship fizzled out. Nobody's feelings were hurt. YMMV, but if you feel like you should tell her, tell her.

Do you think there is good to reinvent yourself sometimes or to keep doing the old way?

zeuser comments on Jul 23, 2018:

One good idea a day, one thing you make sure you learn every day. You can reinvent yourself on an ongoing basis incrementally. It can work for a lot of people.

How do you people feel about prenups?

zeuser comments on Jul 23, 2018:

I doubt I'll get the chance to have one at this point of my life. If love does sneak up on me, I'd need one to protect my assets - I don't have any earned income anymore and my long term survival depends on carefully managing what I've already accumulated.

What’s the worst injury you’ve ever gotten from the gym?

zeuser comments on Jul 23, 2018:

Inflamed right rotator cuff. I've been doing stretches from the therapist for a year or so, and it's still not quite right (a phrase which some people use to describe me overall). I've stopped doing flies, and some overhead work still irritates it.

In an effort to chop away at debt faster, I am interested in reading about some efficient tips and ...

zeuser comments on Jul 22, 2018:

See if you can consolidate, pay extra each month above and beyond the required payment to directly pay off principal, pay revolving credit in full every month, use the 12 months same as cash deals as much as you can, and without fail add a fixed amount to your savings each month, even if you have to give up some stuff to do it. 8-)

Does it drive anybody else crazy when there is a sink full of dishes that hasn’t been cleaned for ...

zeuser comments on Jul 22, 2018:

I wash as I go, and never let things I use at night get past the following morning.

Not sure how anyone can defend him at this point. The obvious deflection is obvious.

zeuser comments on Jul 22, 2018:

Go ahead, YOU try it. It ain't easy.

Where do Conservatives go fact check, since they say all the fact check websites are owned,or run ...

zeuser comments on Jul 22, 2018:

The Bible, the book of Mormon, personal revelation from conversation with the almighty, and Rick Santorum (Google his last name!).

Every time I think I'm ready to start dating.

zeuser comments on Jul 21, 2018:

One thing about dating, it's expensive. It's also a time sink. I can go casual for a while, like let's go get some drinks. But I don't want another ltr, or to hear someone critique my clothes, lifestyle, hair, friends, or food choices. So I can relate, red.

Who is your favorite Batman?

zeuser comments on Jul 21, 2018:

Nobody will ever match the thrill of the original Adam West TV series, it was huge. Keaton was very good, Nicholson and Basinger were excellent support, and Christian Bale belongs in that conversation as well. But Frank Gorshin, Caesar Romero, Burgess Meredith, Julie Newmar, Eartha Kitt, Lee Merriweather, George Sanders, Vincent Price, you can't match that murderers row of villains.

Whatcha doing this weekend? Any big plans?

zeuser comments on Jul 21, 2018:

I need some new threads. I've got a pork belly I want to crisp up and chill for tacos later this week. Wrap some birthday presents for a friend. Some quality bar time, then I think a Tarantino movie i on Netflix, I never saw the Hateful 8, which I intend to rectify this evening.

Turn Back Time?

zeuser comments on Jul 21, 2018:

I wouldn't do it, once was enough for me. If forced, I'd go back 5 minutes.

Going on a date with someone I met through here tomorrow.

zeuser comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Leave your rosary at home, just a tip. You're welcome. 8-) Have fun, dude. Stay classy.

Yay! My free Agnotic.

zeuser comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Good agnostic, good on you. I aspire to the 8 level. I've got quite a ways to go, but the tee-shirt, hell, I'll do anything for a free tee-shirt. 8-)

We need a new category..rant of the day!

zeuser comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Well, what's the new one you want?

Without any doubt the truth comes forth in many different ways! Please note: I have been ...

zeuser comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I don't think this particular quote is real. It's been surfacing here and there for a while and has been debunked. That doesn't mean it doesn't not sound plausible. LOL

It’s been over 10 years.

zeuser comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Awwww, that's very sweet. Thanks for sharing, and all the luck in the world to you and your new secular partner. 8-)

Sin or not, if yes, why?

zeuser comments on Jul 20, 2018:

You have to remember, the bible was written before the development of KY jelly and tissues. Men were allowed to screw anyone they wanted, and women weren't allowed to complain about it. So why waste a perfectly good boner? (I kid, but not really.)

Colbert shoots, he scores!! [youtube.com]

zeuser comments on Jul 20, 2018:

That isn't not an accurate description of the talking yam's grammatical style. LOL

Is it better to live in a sexless relationship because you still love each other, live alone or seek...

zeuser comments on Jul 20, 2018:

That is as subjective an issue as it can be. Everyone in that situation needs to answer it for themselves, and everyone will have a different calculus.

So there are 91 members in the Conservative Atheist Group.

zeuser comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I'm shocked. It's shocking.

The question is, are we going to stop it?

zeuser comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I know it looks bleak, but yeah. We are going to stop it.

It's not a trap

zeuser comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I am HOWLING at this anti-trump-trope! LOL 8-)

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zeuser comments on Jul 19, 2018:

That's right, beat it. Hit the road. Take off, yeah keep walking you son of a bitch. Take a hike. GTF outta here.

Very first concert you attended?

zeuser comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Frank Zappa and the Mothers of Invention on the Mudshark tour, 1970 I think, at the historic Watres Armory in Scranton, PA. If Joe Biden was there, I didn't see him. 8-)

Do you ever feel that no one "gets" you?

zeuser comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I also tend to stand apart. In a room with me and 10 other people, there will eventually be five conversations and me sipping my wine. This isn't to say noone gets me, several people do. But by and large, nope. At this point, it doesn't bother me. I've tried changing my behavior to "fit in" when I was much younger, and that went over like a turd in a punch bowl, plus I was miserable pretending.

All that's left to decide...

zeuser comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Here's an idea, why doesn't he try to BE an adult?

TATTOOS ... what do you think of tattoos?

zeuser comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I don't mind 'em on other people, although some folks do go a bit overboard. The ones that are religious also give early warning that a christer is coming. I've enjoyed looking at tramp stamps, but the circumstances probably had something to do with that. I am inkless, and neither of my kids have any. But hey, if you want some, it's your skin.

Trump’s Face Is Now The First Result When You Google ‘Idiot’ President Donald Trump might ...

zeuser comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Winning again!

What was your first reaction when you heard about the creation story, the fall of man and the ...

zeuser comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I don't think this was the first time. But I remember being in a catechism class (Catholic brainwashing), I dunno about age 6 or 7, and heard the nun tell that story. I looked at my buddy, Joey P., and remember him grinning and saying "What corn." I remember thinking thank goodness I'm not the only one.

Queen to Trump.

zeuser comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Attagirl, your majesty. If this nitwit tried to grab you, I bet he'd draw back a nub.

Where do you stand on the political compass?

zeuser comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Yeah, I'm down in the lower left with you.

Often when I test myself - "what is the next right thing to do?" i grade very very easily.

zeuser comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Grade on a curve, see if it makes any difference. 8-)

OK I don't like trump, let's get that straight.

zeuser comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I wish I didn't see him so much too. But if the news stops reporting on him, this is pretty much what he wants. Best way to stop hearing about him is to get his ass out of office.

A longtime friend of mine, whom I met in the days when I was a cabaret performer, fancies herself a ...

zeuser comments on Jul 18, 2018:

This is a white lie. Doesn't sound like it's any skin off of your back. Keep doing it, you are clearly a very good friend and I can't see an upside to deflating your friend's fantasy. It certainly isn't hurting anything.

What's something that is popular right now that annoys you?

zeuser comments on Jul 16, 2018:

The idea that everything tastes better with a slice of avocado on it.

Was at a gathering a couple of days ago.

zeuser comments on Jul 16, 2018:

Good job, brother.

I'm currently volunteering for a candidate who is running for the Michigan House of Representatives ...

zeuser comments on Jul 16, 2018:

That's highly commendable. ?

West coast or east coast?

zeuser comments on Jul 16, 2018:

East coast: the food is better - bagels, pizza, cheese steaks, and hoagies baby; no major seismic faults; Appalachian trail; clams and lobstah; trains; corner bars. Come at me westies! 8-)

I'm visiting NC, this week.

zeuser comments on Jul 16, 2018:

If you stick to the cities and towns that have universities in them, or high tech companies, things are moderately better. But it is extremely depressing, by and large. NEPA is no box of chocolates either, but NC is a different dimension.

Let's get personal: What is your worst vice? Mine is smoking cigarettes and eating sugar.

zeuser comments on Jul 15, 2018:

Alcohol. And I can't keep ice cream in the house for long without consuming all of it.

Did anyone see Michael Moore on the last episode of the season of Bill Maher?

zeuser comments on Jul 15, 2018:

The price of the American reliance on technology to research, advertise for, and actually conduct our elections is a vulnerable infrastructure easily penetrated by bad people. This is the Achilles heel of our republic. If the current cabal is able to consolidate power by continuing to attack and exploit this vulnerability, it will probably take some bloodshed to right the ship, though I really hope that it doesn't come to that. I never though I'd live to see this.

Are you the type of person who seeks revenge when you’ve been wronged by someone?

zeuser comments on Jul 15, 2018:

Actively seeking revenge means you are planning to pull something, and shit can go wrong and leave you looking guiltier than the original perp. I prefer shunning. It's a little passive-aggressive, but you can cut the toxic individual out of your life and be a better person for the decision. Now I *have* fantasized about various plots to exact retribution, but I don't ever carry them out. I don't avoid people who screwed me over, but I make sure they know that *I* know what they did, and pointedly ignore them every chance I get. It ain't much, but that's how I work it.

EEeeeewwwwwww

zeuser comments on Jul 14, 2018:

Well, I guess these days we need to see what Checkov thinks about all of this.

"When the student is ready, the teacher appears."

zeuser comments on Jul 14, 2018:

Everybody can teach you, but you have to be ready to hear what they say. The teacher appears because you are finally listening to hear what he or she is saying.

Fear of Death?

zeuser comments on Jul 14, 2018:

Life after death happens. Everything goes on like before. You're just not there is all.

A 45 suppose to be funny. Remember. LMAO.

zeuser comments on Jul 13, 2018:

I will take personal responsibility for any limp dick I may experience, thank yew very much. So far, however, it's all good. ?

Have you ever tried . . .?

zeuser comments on Jul 13, 2018:

I got 13, I didn't count the ones I wasn't sure about

Trump London trip.

zeuser comments on Jul 13, 2018:

No, someone has to stand up to the bully. I keep hoping some R's will let love of country shine through.

How genuine is your smile?

zeuser comments on Jul 13, 2018:

No I don't. I think there was a substantial improvement in my smile after I got all my implants in. ?

To all agnostic users, My time here on agnostic has come to an end.

zeuser comments on Jul 13, 2018:

In everyone's life, there comes a time when you just gotta book. I hope you get to where you are going. All the best, bro.

Save me. I'm surrounded by narcissists ?

zeuser comments on Jul 13, 2018:

If you can't move or find other work, like folks have suggested in the comments, at least talk to your doc about some anti-anxiety stuff. SAM-e is a pretty good mood enhancer that you don't need a prescription to get. Good luck to you, you certainly hit the unlucky jackpot there.

"Left-wing and right-wing political ideologies have themselves become secular religions, providing ...

zeuser comments on Jul 13, 2018:

You can look at the extremes on both sides and this bears out. The right wing overtly and regularly conflates political ideology with religion, even in their mainstream. I see less of that on the mainstream left, and more flexibility regarding policy issues based on facts. But the quest for ideological purity cuts both ways.

Proselytizing

zeuser comments on Jul 13, 2018:

The most I've done is explain my own beliefs without any expectation or intention of changing someone's mind about the advantages of practical rationality over silly superstition. I have no idea if that influenced anyone to become secular or not.

One of my favorite things today.

zeuser comments on Jul 13, 2018:

This gag brought me to my knees.

Dating tip! If you don't floss your teeth people who do are not going to want to kiss you.😁

zeuser comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Does this come up? Goodness.

Does it annoy you when people blame the devil for things that may go wrong in life?

zeuser comments on Jul 12, 2018:

It bothers me a lot more when they blame me. The devil can take it, since it's just a fictional character in a sorry and ridiculous fairy tale.

Sorry this is a FB link but worth watching: German News Caster losing it when covering Trump at ...

zeuser comments on Jul 12, 2018:

It's embarrassing.

Does anyone else assume when they're talking to someone new that they're a right-leaning, ...

zeuser comments on Jul 11, 2018:

Mixed bag here in NC urban areas, but down east it's a safe bet.

Argued with someone about the Bermuda Triangle last night.

zeuser comments on Jul 11, 2018:

Don't waste any more energy on guys like this. You cannot fix stupid, that has to be up to each of us for ourselves.

Reverse psychology

zeuser comments on Jul 11, 2018:

There's that famous wingnut sense of humor. ?

Overweight shows weakness?

zeuser comments on Jul 11, 2018:

Sometimes it's your family that comes up with the most stupid shit. It hurts a lot more than hearing it from some random stranger. First, I'm suspicious of any idea applied as a generalization that covers all cases. Second, even if that's what you think, why broadcast it? What do you gain at the cost of hurting someone else? But finally, what exactly makes someone else's weight (or status, or any other characteristic) your business?

"Pay attention when I am talking...he is dumb as a bag of hammers."

zeuser comments on Jul 11, 2018:

That boy, I say that boy, is about as sharp as a sack of wet mice.

Interesting and depressing... [educateinspirechange.org]

zeuser comments on Jul 11, 2018:

That's a lot of insight creatively expressed.

What are your opinions on mukbang videos?

zeuser comments on Jul 10, 2018:

With all the other things more deserving of my time and attention available both on the net and in hardcopy, this wouldn't even make the top ten thousand. What in the holy hell?

Still at it, comrades! [m.facebook.com]

zeuser comments on Jul 10, 2018:

People fall for this crap? Oh ffs, really?

Have you ever just lost your self control when someone is babbling pseudoscientific bullshit in your...

zeuser comments on Jul 10, 2018:

Yeah, I've given lectures on climate science, Chem trail bullshit, homeopathy crap and healing with crystals nonsense. Sometimes, you can only put up with so much.

WILL KAVANAUGH PROVIDE COVER FOR TRUMP? NY times [nyti.ms]

zeuser comments on Jul 10, 2018:

You can't really predict what he'll do if confirmed, but I don't like the direction this is heading.

Would you date someone who is a self-proclaimed psychic/intuitive?

zeuser comments on Jul 10, 2018:

There's a wide continuum of reasons to date or not date someone. You have to balance that together with your goals. For certain considerations, I'd sit for a tarot reading. Hell, I've done them, for reasons that seemed like a good idea at the time, you know? Heh.

I posted this in the Poetry group but it is a poem about Trump so I am posting it here as well.

zeuser comments on Jul 10, 2018:

Nicely done. Truth is often sad. Truth distilled into poetry packs a more powerful punch.

Who is your favorite guitarist?

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Johnny Cephas, Roy Buchanan, Stevie Ray, Doc Watson, Clapton. Honorable mention to Jimmy Page and Hendrix.

Complaining.

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

My daughter taught me to try to look at some positive aspect of any situation. It's not easy, and it doesn't always work, but it's energy invested into something other than complaining. People who always complain tend to blame everyone for their problems and not consider their own part in the path to resolution. People who think like that are never happy. And I do try to steer clear of them. Good on you for looking for the positive in the face of adversity. Not easy. Highly commendable.

Maine Governor Vetoes Gay Conversion Ban Citing Religious Freedom - The Intellectualist

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

This guy has been a major tool bag for a while. It should be about time for him to face the electorate again, no?

I love the way Kristen Russell handled this. I would not want to play Scrabble against her either ?

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

You gotta do the best you can with what they give you to work with.

One pillow, two pillows or more?

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Two, both under my head. If I am in some other bed, one pillow will work if I double it up.

Do you sleep with your bedroom door open or closed?

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Closed. I got into the habit when I had small children poking around, and it feels funny if I leave it open now.

What's the best coffee you've ever had and where did you have it?

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I was in Austin Texas for a conference early in the century, and I was hung over as hell. I went to a little Mexican place for some huevos with some legitimate frijoles and ice cold salsa with a warm tortilla, and a cup of hot, strong coffee that made me moan with the first sip. I grind my beans (dark roast Arabica, usually) and use a French press, and that is good java, but that cup in Austin from almost twenty years ago still lives on in my memory.

Hmm mmmm. Mmm

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Ricky Gervais, Daniel Radcliffe, Billy Joel, all well and good, but my all time atheist hero is Linus Pauling. "I believe that all complicated phenomena can be explained using simpler scientific principles." That quote galvanized my atheism decades ago, and I still use it when people ask me what I believe.

What small act of kindness was once shown to you that you'll never forget?

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

After I was done with public elementary school, my mom decided she didn't want me to go to public junior high, so she got me into a local parish school. An Italian parish school. Here I am, 12 years old, one of the most awkward times of your life, and it's a brand new group of kids that I never laid eyes on before in my life. So there I am before school starts, looking like a real polak - all blue eyes and blond hair among all of these olive skinned kids, everyone is in their group of friends and I'm just standing around looking out of place, and a kid came over and said "Hi, my name is Louie. You're new here, right?" and he introduced me to a number of people before class started. One of the people he introduced me to turned out to be a best friend with whom I remain in contact to this day, and I still keep in touch with Louie too. It was just what I needed at that time, and not that big a deal for Louie. I try to pay that forward each time I see someone looking out of place or unsure of what to do. Good question, thanks for the memory. 8-)

Life Lessons ....

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Buy based on quality, not price. Whatever seems like a good idea, do it sooner rather than later. When people show you that they cannot be trusted, believe them. Always go for the laugh, good comedy requires risks and speed. If it doesn't feel right, it ain't right. It's ok when refusing an invitation to say "because I don't want to".

How does the brainwashing in televangelism work?

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Mostly, it's shills. Some people feel peer pressure to fall in with the program and do it because they think they are supposed to.

MEN: What would your reason be for asking a woman what she does for a living, upon meeting her?

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

If you just meet someone, the topics available for conversation are limited. This question opens up some avenues for conversation. That's about it. If you find you are both involved in similar or related fields, this can make the first meeting more interesting.

I would like to begin a discussion of the validity of posting a credit score limit on your profile ...

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Maybe your LinkedIn profile. Or, if you find personal relationships that are transactional appealing, a lot of people do. I wouldn't myself.

I found a brilliant post, it says EXACTLY what I think.

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

I don't have any family members on the crazy train, and I feel sorry for those of us who do.

Irresistible

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Yes, only twice in my life (well, so far, but I think that I hit my limit). All logic and rational thought just disappear, and the only important thing is to be in each other's company. You think it's gonna last forever. But it doesn't.

US threatens countries supporting breadtfeeding resolution! [cnn.com]

zeuser comments on Jul 9, 2018:

And the frigging russkies wound up sponsoring the resolution!!

More Civil war letters

zeuser comments on Jul 8, 2018:

"These are all "Harleys*? We can't ride these!" Good ones. ?

I could happily throttle my kids today, wanted to go to the beach, no, made pancakes for breakfast ...

zeuser comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Well, in my experience, if mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy. Time for tough love, and an excellent opportunity for the youngsters to learn how to do some of the things mama does as you withdraw your services. Good luck, raising kids ain't easy.

Would you rather?

zeuser comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Maybe it's different for other people, but in my experience, competition in a relationship usually doesn't end well. There are *lots* of good ways for a walk on the beach to end. 8-)

In case you had missed it

zeuser comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Soccer? Soccer?! I barely know her!! LOL

Would you get married if you met the right person and what would the marriage actually mean to you?

zeuser comments on Jul 8, 2018:

If I meet the right person? That's BIG if. I can't answer without knowing who that would be, but just based on what I know about marriage after a 28 year run that ended 8 years ago, I'd say no, no I wouldn't.

Star Trek vs.

zeuser comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Trek has a deeper inventory. And cool captains.

I was messing around on Pinterest earlier and picked this up.

zeuser comments on Jul 7, 2018:

It's a good idea to keep just a little bit of assholishness up your sleeve. Then, when you run into one, which is almost a given, you've got something special just for them. My theory is this : of two people were left alive after a planet wide holocaust, chances that at least one of them is an asshole is 75%,but odds that both of them are assholes is 99%. Don't worry about the math, it's a joke. ?

Dating after 50

zeuser comments on Jul 7, 2018:

If I had the moral profile that allowed me to date married women, I'd have it made, at least a far as dating is concerned. For whatever the reason, married women are fascinated with me. No I don't go there. It's been tempting.

This could go for either gender. :) Just a great one liner, had to share

zeuser comments on Jul 7, 2018:

Oh I am so stealing this! ?

There is no agnostic vs. atheist! The peeve I have...

zeuser comments on Jul 7, 2018:

I identify as openly secular. I consider myself both atheist and agnostic. You make a good case, and I agree with it.