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Site & Customer Service

Feb 19, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by ShawnHicks

There are a number of NewUser(xxxx) accounts with high numbers of referrals, and large related points/levels. NewUser1300 is at a level 7 with no posts. This is additional evidence of absent administrators of the site. I'm about to remove my account ...

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General & Hellos

Feb 12, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by TonyGriffiths1

Been signed off work with PTSD. Done CPR on a friend last week unfortunately he passed away 2 days later. With whats happened to me over the last 12months Im surprised im still sane. Just needed to write this down as i felt it could help me.

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Silly, Random & Fun

Nov 5, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by demifeministgal

Why is it that if you argue or defend a topic/issue passionately, you must be directly effected by it? Are people so apathetic and self-centered they cannot care about issues beyond themselves? For example, when I passionately argue pro-choice there ...

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Love & Relationships

Nov 4, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by BrockSamson

Dating is so impossible in Connecticut, I gave up on love. People always say not to but like it's impossible to continue with constant rejections and no matches. I've been on almost every single dating site for over 20 years and I have never come ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 27, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by Nardi

i'm posting for sympathy and advice here and i will appreciate even harsh words. I feel so depressed because it feels like my life is going backwards. I have this need to be wanted and loved and the the woman I have decided to fall in love with, ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 18, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by Castlepaloma

Who else has given up dating Christains? I was even warn on a post I made here, over this Christian woman I thought I might be in love with. The last three Christains women started out saying they are spiritual rather the Religious, yet I have to ...

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General & Hellos

Oct 13, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by Stenz

Another lonely night.

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Health & Happiness

Oct 9, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by ForTheBirds

Apparently cancer was not enough. I fell last Nov and shattered my pelvis & cracked my sacrum top to bottom. That was a bitch to do Rehab on. Then my Ortho Surgeon said I shouldn't have broken, and sent me to a Endocrinologist. The bone density is ...

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General & Hellos

Oct 9, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by vjohnson51

It's sad that some ppl bully others, even on this site who you have to block. I deleted a post about how I counseled a transgender woman on the phone at my job for 40 minutes (I work at a DV/SA Shelter). A man on here has, for whatever reason, felt...

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General & Hellos

Oct 8, 2019Oct 2019

Posted by Ceaselessmind

Hey guys, I know I do not post often at all. I have been going through a lot of stuff lately. I honestly do not have time to ponder things and enjoy anything anymore. However, I am still here if anyone here has missed me. I do read through some post ...

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Online Dating: The Reality

Aug 29, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by bleurowz

I’m shocked and disheartened at some of the responses I’ve been getting for my recent post. People assuming I’m bitter and angry. I am not, just more or less frustrated. Like I’d responded to a few of the responders, most of ...

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General & Hellos

Aug 27, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by DavidClark

Oh well I guess I tried all you can do is ask

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General & Hellos

Aug 24, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by Ceaselessmind

Sorry guys, I have not been posting much in the past several months. I have been going through a lot. My deepest depression in years festered by loneliness self loathing has taken its toll on me. I feel as if I am defective.

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Love & Relationships

Jun 30, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by DAB456

You know, I did not blame ALL men for what went wrong in my marriage. In fact, I was very anxious to get involved again. After all, I am hornier than I have ever been in my life (and I have always been plenty horny). But since trying to find a ...

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General & Hellos

May 12, 2019May 2019

Posted by LadyAlyxandrea

I don't talk about it much, but mother's day is kinda hard for me. I have two children that I'll never see and never hold. Two children whose heartbeats I felt but never heard. I've made sure I'll never experience that loss again. It's hard some ...

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General & Hellos

May 12, 2019May 2019

Posted by Green13Purple

Wishing happy mother's day to all !!! I am alone, but dont feel sorry for me... Im listening to my music and remembering when i wasn't alone. ... With my "margarita" (that my son made me) :) hopefully, by next year ... I would have found my king ...

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Singles/Mingle/Chat

Apr 13, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by LimeySteve

I am so emotionally raw. I’m crying more often, feeling alone a lot of the time, wishing I was a priority in someone’s life other than my own. It IS possible to have more than one priority. On the outside, I’m doing quite well. Well, on the ...

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General & Hellos

Mar 26, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by callmedubious

a great thing about this forum is the ability to block asinine assholes who are really stupid & have nothing of value to contribute. i don't do it often but did it twice today. just to show that i don't discriminate i blocked one of my few followers.

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General & Hellos

Mar 25, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by LynneAkkaya

I am the opposite of suicidal. I have had a fabulous life and don't want it to end. But as I'm getting older I am distressed by the thought. I was hoping for some support to help me through this. My replies to my post have been more critical and ...

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Health & Happiness

Mar 25, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by ElusiveMoby

This morning I was in a car accident. A teen driver plowed into me at a pretty good speed. Once I gained my senses (and it took me a good few moments to get out of the car) I did what comes naturally for me-- I hugged her! She apologized profusely ...

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Love & Relationships

Mar 22, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by RoadGoddess

There are things I really miss about having a partner. But today, I considered things I do not miss about living with another person. Because that's how my mind works. Here is a partial list (feel free to contribute): Arguments Being awakened from ...

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General & Hellos

Mar 18, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by tipi

Observation: Plants, Our Co-Terrians, have also rights to Survival and Future. Humans, as the most Evolved Living Beings, need to protect all the Terrian Family. We cannot be that selfish as to think only about Our own well-being and profit. It is ...

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Love & Relationships

Mar 16, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by James00346

It has been years since I've had a solid, intimate relationship. Had a good many physical ones, FWB situations. But nothing that compares to being half awake, touching her, and as she snuggles up against you, you can see her smile, even if she's ...

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Love & Relationships

Aug 18, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by StevenMichael

I just told a woman we should stop seeing each other yet somehow I'm the one who feels dumped

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General & Hellos

Jul 25, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by GeorgeRocheleau

Did anyone miss me? I was on a three week road trip with bad internet, so I wasn't able to log on very often.

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Love & Relationships

Jul 25, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Jc007

Where is she?

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Love & Relationships

Jul 23, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Palindromeman

It's the 24th of July 2018. It would have been our 26th wedding anniversary - we separated in December 2016. I've covered a lot of ground since then, but this is two years running now that 24 July has mugged me. A black dog day. It sucks. It ...

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Love & Relationships

Jul 22, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by HardBlues69

I've been on here a short time. But as I see it. It seems as though most who ( myself included) are trying to connect seem to live so far away? I guess what I'm saying is there are not a lot of locals for this site. Right or am i wrong?

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Love & Relationships

Jul 21, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Scottzillyun

I'm not seeing that people are very friendly here at all . Of course , I don't actually see many different people and Ive only seen one profile of a woman whose less than 35 miles away , a few that are 65 miles away but no evidence that any of those ...

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Health & Happiness

Jul 18, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by OutcastVamp

Love hurts and is a total waste. My life is short and I am battling just to stay alive. And for what? To live my life a barren, lonely, freakish, unlovable waste of space. Why I even bother is beyond me.

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Love & Relationships

Jul 17, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Josh87

Advice please: I haven’t been on a “date” in almost two decades. I may have that opportunity this week. Should I just play it safe and watch breaking bad for the 10th time and if so, bourbon or wine??? Toughy...

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Health & Happiness

Jul 13, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Palindromeman

I have fixed a hard date for myself - unless there is any improvement in my life over the next month; well, that's it. I'll check out. Because I am a writer by nature I have started a daily journal between now and D-Day. Which is both ...

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Family & Parenting

Jul 12, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by MFAtheist

It isn't my night tonight, but my child isn't feeling well so she was sent to me. These days everything is always happy and sad at the same time.

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Health & Happiness

Jul 10, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Hermit

Woke up with a bad case of the doomy-gloomies. I'm not the kind of person who could commit suicide, but sometimes I wish some space junk would crash through my roof or that the uncomfortable feeling in my chest really was a heart attack.

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Family & Parenting

Jul 10, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Mom-goddess

We are in a really bad bind and don't know how to get out of it.

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Love & Relationships

Jun 25, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by SouthernHell

I'm so exhausted of people. I'm tired of being surrounded by people that treat others as if they are disposable. You start a new job, you make friends with someone and then you leave that job and find out your "friends" are talking shit about you. Or...

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General & Hellos

Jun 23, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Petter

I originally posted this in the Poetry group, but I felt other members might also appreciate the morality of it. A double sonnet I wrote upon Morality, under the title of:- Foibles Eyes closed, breathe deep to clear your thoughts of ...

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Love & Relationships

Jun 22, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Leatherwing

I think I get torn between wanting to get out and meet people, find a relationship, have sex and be social. (Not necessarily all at the same time) OR staying home, avoiding people, working on hobbies, watching a show, playing xbox and having a ...

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General & Hellos

Jun 21, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by msimpson9agn

On this site, I was hoping to make friends with a few attractive, educated, freethinking vegetarians who might appreciate a nut like myself for who I am and not what they can get out of me. I am no longer that interested in sex but I would like ...

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Health & Happiness

Jun 19, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by Infoguy211

Is anyone else having a bad year? Not only did my girlfriend dump me, my employment program doesn't have an assignment for me, I'm not having any luck looking for work, and I've been either sick or injured for a good chunk of the year so far.

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Love & Relationships

Jun 19, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by BeeHappy

What NOT to do when you meet a guy for the first time! And ladies I'm talking about a good looking (his pics don't do him justice), very fit, tall dark and handsome guy!! Swooning... Talk about a failed almost relationship... and the waterworks ...

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Philosophy & Meaning

Jun 8, 2018Jun 2018

Posted by mt4704

Anyone else getting ditched as a friend because the other person is overly sensitive and defensive AF?

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Love & Relationships

May 23, 2018May 2018

Posted by Adorkable

So my woman had to move out because I haven't worked in almost a year and she can't support us on a minimum wage job. She also pays out 30% of her earnings to student loans. I've had a rough time the last year because of medical issues, and ...

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Love & Relationships

May 22, 2018May 2018

Posted by Turkeylips

Why, at 52 years old, I feel like I've never been truly loved?

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Love & Relationships

May 17, 2018May 2018

Posted by Ange

Just when I thought living alone was better than living with someone who made me feel alone...they come out with all this research about loneliness being a silent killer. Maybe I'll never find the right someone, but I'm convinced I'm still in a ...

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Love & Relationships

May 15, 2018May 2018

Posted by timoteif

At my age I really didn't think it would be so hard to find a mate. Seems women of my age are set in their ways or have been so horribly treated that they give up. It's always been that nice guys finish last. I think that is true. I'm mellow relaxed ...

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Love & Relationships

May 13, 2018May 2018

Posted by AtheistDan

So, it's a been quite some time since I've even considered dating. Like nearly a decade. I'm not sure I even want to date. I'm pretty much to the point in life where I'd just like to talk with like minded people. Though, I have a question in ...

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Silly, Random & Fun

May 6, 2018May 2018

Posted by LadyAlyxandrea

Can I rant about my coworker for a minute? Ugh here's what I hate about my job. One of my coworkers can complain about things I do in an email to the entire office. Like, some are valid complaints that she could just talk to me about. Like ...

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Health & Happiness

May 6, 2018May 2018

Posted by Gnarloc

Age. Apparently I am too old to work but well below the age of retirement. Go figure. I am an Electrical Engineer and have been interested in Wind/Solar, renewable energy. I am not really employed at the moment, but in reasonably good shape and ...

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General & Hellos

May 4, 2018May 2018

Posted by simplequestions

This site is a lovely thing to know about, but I fear I am not suited for it. An insular writer, I am not given to large group chats, don't feel comfortable in such a setting. Having said that, I must say as well that I am very much in favor of ...

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Love & Relationships

Apr 30, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Ceaselessmind

Pretty much sums up the past 20 years of my life.

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General Forum

Apr 26, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by AssassinofWords

Well this site has made me realized something: even atheists can be unreasonable assholes.

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General & Hellos

Apr 26, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Akfishlady

Going to visit my religious sister. After another fail job interview. This could get ugly.

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General & Hellos

Apr 22, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by LilAtheistLady

So, I bought the wrong hair color. And now I'm walking around looking like Paul Ryan. I think I even have the hairy-pointy-forehead-thing. I SO don't want to go to work tomorrow. :/

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Love & Relationships

Apr 21, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Irene

My son and his wife just separated after 13 years and three children. I was so very close to my daughter in law that I feel the separation also happened to me. When I went through my divorce I never had a thought of how my decision was going to ...

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Love & Relationships

Apr 18, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Turkeylips

Anyone else in an unhappy relationship and don't see a way forward? Any advice?

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Health & Happiness

Apr 17, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Byrd

Is it wrong...

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Love & Relationships

Apr 17, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Amisja

In a couple of weeks the financial side of the divorce will be finalised. My entire adult life will amount to a few pounds and pence. Part of me wants to walk away from the lot, a tiny screamy angry part wants to make it very difficult for him and ...

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Love & Relationships

Apr 17, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by AprilT

Omg... I hate dating! Why is dating so difficult? From crazy, to controling, to not wanting to pay a woman a compliment.... I have no idea where the good guys are.

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Love & Relationships

Apr 16, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by TheLiberalGent

It was so nice to hear my former dinner and movie companion on the radio last night giving movie reviews for the Sarasota Film Festival that's going on right now. Geez I miss her. We dated for over 1 year and a half. What I'd give to date her again. ...

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Silly, Random & Fun

Apr 13, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by NicThePoet

This guy! Again! Same one I posted about before. Dude needs to pick a personality and stick with it. Should there be a mandatory intelligence test and interview before someone can join this site? I'm being completely serious.

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Health & Happiness

Apr 8, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Bverret2012

I know I need to go to therapy. I’ve been isolating myself for three months now. My apartment is a mess. I feel like I’m a mess. I told my psychiatrist the other day that the only way I could explain how I’ve been feeling is “extra ...

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Love & Relationships

Apr 8, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Prairiegirlinfla

When will I stop thinking about him?

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Health & Happiness

Apr 8, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Usedw0tm8

I'm just gonna say this now so I don't blindside anyone, but I'm a bigger girl. Not obese or anything, but I definitely have a few extra pounds. Hope that's not an issue ?

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Health & Happiness

Apr 7, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Presley1209

Hey there! I have to share that I suffer from severe RLS and was not sleeping well at all. I was on Klonopin (sp?) for years which was a benzodiazepine drug and I was addicted. I am off of that now, have been for about a year but was not sleeping. ...

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Health & Happiness

Apr 6, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by ledj

I am a grieving mother. My 37 yr old daughter decided to end her life in 2016. I envy those who can accept a loss like this by thinking "It's God's will" or "She is with her maker"...thoughts like those comfort them. I only know that my daughter ...

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General & Hellos

Apr 6, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by tioteo

Were you one of those people who had a lot of friends growing up?

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General & Hellos

Apr 5, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Angelface

A few things to put out there. Recently to clear an issue, I posted the meaning of the word atheist. The other person made a snarky remark that I didn't post the entire meaning from the Dictionary.com as if I was trying to pull something by using an ...

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Politics

Apr 5, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Nevermind345

Doctors, Lawyers, Priests and Politicians. I feel they are the biggest problems facing our existence. Why do we let them get away scott free from facing their fraudulent policies, practices and being able to say whatever they feel is beneficial ...

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Site & Customer Service

Apr 5, 2018Apr 2018

Posted by Akfishlady

POLLHow do you feel about people who just want to put people down, whether it's in opinions or discussions? I have seen an increase in the number of people who are insulting our fellow users. I have had a number of people say very inappropriate things...

17 votes Ignore them, hope they go away
53 votes Call them out on bad behavior
46 votes Block/flag them
18 votes Allow them to state their 'opinions' even if it is foul or rude
4 votes Have groups that only allow members who have been here for a while
12 votes Other, please comment

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Health & Happiness

Mar 3, 2018Mar 2018

Posted by Roadster

Imposter syndrome It appears to be not uncommon in many successful people. I have definitely had this all my life and it comes with a fair amount of anxiety. I have, by most measures, been pretty successful after starting from relatively poor ...

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