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General & Hellos

Mar 10Mar 10

Posted by TheoryNumber3

True story: So this guy sends me an email from a dating site. I took a look at his profile and it said "I'm not here for games, hookups or a nightstand." So I wrote him back and said... "How about a dresser? Or a nice coffee table?" Strangely, ...

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Love & Relationships

Dec 5, 2023Dec 2023

Posted by Da4109

Dating and Agnostic

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Silly, Random & Fun

Dec 3, 2023Dec 2023

Posted by snytiger6

Dad, Did you do a ...

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Online Dating: The Reality

May 10, 2023May 2023

Posted by Wander2023

Does this just happen to me or do men that you "meet" in online dating apps get attached very quickly? I have not met them in person yet and we have only been chatting for maybe 10 days but they are already promising they will take care of me and ...

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Love & Relationships

Apr 9, 2023Apr 2023

Posted by ChestRockfield

Has anyone seen this? It's a green ring to signify to others that you're on the market. I have a hard time thinking this is going to work. Are any women going to buy this? Don't women already get hit on way more than ...

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Silly, Random & Fun

Mar 29, 2023Mar 2023

Posted by St-Sinner

Interesting information

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General & Hellos

Aug 26, 2022Aug 2022

Posted by GoodMan

I haven't been on the platform for a while, but I would like to say "hello and welcome" and encourage all of the new and fairly new members to do the same. Also, share what you like to do for fun (besides talk about xtians...lol), or a random story....

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Love & Relationships

Aug 18, 2022Aug 2022

Posted by Apunzelle

I’m scratching my head on this one. Sure, there’s gotta be some truth to it, but I don’t think it’s the whole story. LOTS of lonely, single women out there, too. ___________ The Rise of Lonely, Single Men American psychologist Greg ...

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Posts

Feb 3, 2022Feb 2022

Posted by Danny9

Just funny things in life

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Profile

Mar 12, 2021Mar 2021

Posted by MakasuKudo

Well none of the ladies on this site who I've messaged have replied back....so I'm going on dates with a Christian now.

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Dating for Real People

Jan 12, 2021Jan 2021

Posted by Ash_Bhaskar

How do you filter out the self-proclaimed atheists, agnostics, and nonreligious people who actually believe in woo or other religious malarkey? I'm on Bumble and Match, which let you filter by religion, but a shockingly large number of people who ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 13, 2020Oct 2020

Posted by RobertFoley

Chance encounter with a troubled lady more engaging than two months of online dating. Ladies being 3 sheets to the wind and reeking of alcohol doesn't make a positive first impression. Recently I went to a pizza joint/bar (something I think I'll ...

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Dating for Real People

Oct 8, 2020Oct 2020

Posted by GoodMan

LINKPickupAlpha Helps Humans Embark on the Journey of Dating Through Coaching

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Love & Relationships

Oct 8, 2020Oct 2020

Posted by GoodMan

LINKPandemic changes the nature of singles' dating and intimate partners

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Dating for Real People

Sep 30, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by GoodMan

LINK'I Really Like When Men': Woman's Devilishly Smart Dating Advice Will Change Your Life

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Silly, Random & Fun

Sep 11, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by GoodMan

Age is just a number...

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Dating for Real People

Sep 8, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by GoodMan

LINK8 Best Free Atheist Dating Sites

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Simple Thoughts

Sep 2, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by Boomtarat03

Live video dating: Finding love online with an audience

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Love & Relationships

Aug 11, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by demifeministgal

Hi Everyone, I am working on trying to identify red flags. For the seasoned veterans of dating among you, can you give me some advice here? So I have been talking to a guy online for almost a month now. My life in general can be pretty stressful, ...

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Posts

Aug 4, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by demifeministgal

So I went on a date this long weekend. And I did something stupid. I let myself be coaxed in to making out. I think it is because I was so impressed with him (he's a PhD and math professor and involved in models tracking the covid pandemic in Canada ...

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Love & Relationships

Jul 26, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by KinkyBourgeois

Think out of the box: What are your thoughts on 'Feminist Polygyny' dynamics?

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Love & Relationships

Jul 26, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by KinkyBourgeois

I had two previous Feminist Polygyny relationships before when I used to live in USA. My first 'throuple' experience lasted 5, and the second one for 3 years. Happiest years of my life. (In both instances my partners were non-religious) I'd love to...

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Love & Relationships

Jul 15, 2020Jul 2020

Posted by VeronicaAnn

To the people who either didn't understand, or were confused about my previous post... "When it comes to dating, if a man treats me badly (no matter how good looking they are, how rich they are, how many things they have, etc.), then POOF! I'm gone ...

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Love & Relationships

May 4, 2020May 2020

Posted by Apunzelle

I just came across a dating profile that reads: “A 6’3” warrior for Christ.” I think I’m in love! Perfect match. 😂

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Online Dating: The Reality

Feb 28, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by demifeministgal

Hey folks, Do y'all think it is worth dating if you aren't willing to meet immediately or almost immediately? I was chatting with someone and he ghosted and when asked if he's still interested he said we had not met in 3 weeks! To be fair, one ...

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Real Intimacy

Feb 26, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by rsb97080

I also posted this in a different group as a reply to woman who went on a date with someone she met on a matchmaking site, but won’t date him again because he’s a republican: It used to be that most people could disagree politically, but accept ...

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Love & Relationships

Jan 27, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by RobinGray

Just met a guy from on here for coffee Saturday. He really wasn’t into it and was distracted the whole time we were talking. He had approached me and then today when I asked his thoughts, he said he’d broken up with someone recently and it was ...

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Singles/Mingle/Chat

Jan 17, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by Marcie1974

I see so many men say nice guys get overlooked. Or that women are looking for good looking guys with fat bank accounts. I’d like to say that us plain looking women with a few extra pounds are vastly overlooked. I think most, or a lot, of women ...

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Online Dating: The Reality

Jan 13, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by demifeministgal

I found this article interesting and posted by tin-dr of all places! Have any bisexual women faced this in the online or general dating market? "My experience dating heterosexual men has largely consisted of sexually charged questions or statements...

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Singles/Mingle/Chat

Jan 11, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by motrubl4u

So sick of the games people play anymore. Men and women. I know us guys (as a whole. I dont) play their games. But I'll tell ya I'm sick to death of the lead on and ghost crap I keep getting.

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Singles/Mingle/Chat

Jan 5, 2020Jan 2020

Posted by Lorajay

Dating Advice - Encourage a woman to talk otherwise she might be thinking.

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Love & Relationships

Dec 24, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by JustAskMe

Hello there! I'm curious to know who if anyone has developed a romance or friendship - and actually met anyone from this site. ... I have lots of great matches and have some worthwhile conversations, but only one is less than 200 miles away from me. ...

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Love & Relationships

Dec 15, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by rsabbatini

Many female friends ask me if posting personal photos is good to increase your chances of dating and what are the advices I would give, as an expert in the neuroscience of the dating behavior. Yes, they are ultra-important, we are visual animals! No ...

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Dating for Real People

Dec 6, 2019Dec 2019

Posted by Mimee

Ok so this was my third date with a guy I met in my city (not from this site). The conversation flowed just fine and I thought it would be nice to get to know him well. I'm usually appreciative of people who are well read and follow some kind of ...

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Singles/Mingle/Chat

Nov 28, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Mimee

So imagine you've talked to someone a bit and now meeting her/him for the first time. How would the conversation go?

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Truly single gal and guys looking for love.

Nov 25, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Mimee

Ok here's a question for everyone in this group, though it's probably been asked before. But I'm still curious. "If someone left the 'relationship status' unanswered in their profile, does that mean they are not really single? "

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Just for Laughs

Nov 16, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by tedelliss

Some scammers on dating sites are not too bright...there was one ‘woman‘ who tried to get $500.00 from me. I played along, asking if she would accept an ‘IOU’...she said ‘yes’.

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Love & Relationships

Nov 15, 2019Nov 2019

Posted by Lorajay

On this site, I keep noticing lots of single older men from the UK. When I look at the other members in their area there are very few women. That made me wonder about the male female ratio there so I looked it up. According to this article there ...

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Love & Relationships

Sep 25, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by JohnMaclean96

I want a Girlfriend!

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Mental Health Support

Sep 24, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by AlasBabylon

My date with the lady I met on the bus last week went splendidly! We split a pizza at a restaurant, had a good bit of enjoyable conversation, and gave each other a hug at the end of the evening. I like her, and she likes me, and we're planning on ...

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General & Hellos

Aug 23, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by WeaZ

I think I just might make a craigslist/ebay post like this. I wonder how many ladies will respond?

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Love & Relationships

Aug 18, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by ThomasLevi

Dating? I don't. Anyone I'm interested in is either too far, too young, too busy or too not into me. I don't mind the too busy because I am too busy and too apathetic. I know what I want but that doesn't seem to fit anyone else. I'm not exactly sad ...

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General & Hellos

Aug 14, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by janniegirl

Rant: I paid good money (and a lot of it) for a one year subscription to eharmony. No one even so much as looks at my profile! It’s so frustrating!! Anyone had any luck there?

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Online Dating: The Reality

Aug 12, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by ArtzyNerd

I think I'm going to forget about long-term dating for now and just do casual dating for a while. I'm tired of one disappointment after another. I'm not a pessimist. I just want my heart to heal. I will concentrate on my art and have fun for a ...

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General & Hellos

Aug 5, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by theatreskill

OK. How many people come to this site to find a partner? A kindred atheistic spirit? Frustrated with dating sites crowded with choices of people who hold religion in high regard? They reject you automatically, don't they? An atheist! They must ...

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General & Hellos

Jul 29, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by DGJ0114

LINKAuthor of Christian relationship guide says he has lost his faith | World news | The Guardian

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All Things Asia

Jul 26, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by Boomtarat03

Is dating a Filipina? A good idea for you?

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Ethical Sluts

Jun 26, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Wildflower

Last night I saw the movie Rocketman, the story of Elton John, with my new man. The movie is great! It's a musical with his songs played throughout the story. I'm so enjoying going on dates! I've never dated in the true sense. I've never been ...

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Online Dating: The Reality

Jun 11, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by Dancing

I got stood up for a coffee date today. No skin off my back. It was nice to sit and eat my muffin in-between my errands. He never responded and I could tell he was on the app. I deleted our conversation and that's that. Moving on. 😉

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Trump Pinata

May 29, 2019May 2019

Posted by 1EarthLovingGal

I’m not playing any games on Tinder this year. 😅😂

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Online Dating: The Reality

May 23, 2019May 2019

Posted by Corvislover

Update for those of you who had advice about following up and possibly meeting the guy with the annoying voice. I decided to give him a chance and meet today for lunch. When he entered the restaurant i thought to myself I hope that is NOT him! His ...

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Memes R Us

May 13, 2019May 2019

Posted by EricTrommater

When you join an agnosistic dating site to meet like-minded Liberal Heathens and end up falling for a Conservitive Believer you met there....@Christiep77

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Memes R Us

May 5, 2019May 2019

Posted by EricTrommater

Again, results may vary.....

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Singles/Mingle/Chat

Apr 27, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Carla1963

i just need to vent, i have been attempting to meet people on a dating site, POF, i have a profile, i state i am not religious. I get alot of "messages" to meet from catholics, christians, etc. Long story short I meet up with this guy who is ...

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Love & Relationships

Apr 18, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Anonbene

The joys of dating. 😞😝

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Love & Relationships

Apr 15, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by McWalsoft

POLLWhat is the proper wait time etiquette when hooking up with someone who your friend likes?

4 votes A week is too short, give your friend more time.
3 votes He has had enough time, go for it.

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Online Dating: The Reality

Apr 13, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Unclehotrod

I've been divorced now for 6 years, but I'm seeing things from a different perspective. When I was separated from my wife I waited for 9 months before I started dating. The divorce was long and drawn out but I knew that it was going to end. Anyways, ...

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Sexual Deviants

Apr 8, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by brainyactress

Monday night date with TVYM™️ and I don’t know how to prep for this date. It’s 3 (?), but I’m not sure it’s going anywhere and we’re meeting at a Mex joint halfway, so no, like, drive me home making out in the car that leads to a ...

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Online Dating: The Reality

Apr 8, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by ballou

Would you relocate if you found someone on here that you have a connection with? This question has probably been asked before and I apologize if it has been.

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Memes R Us

Mar 28, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by EricTrommater

When someone tells me the right woman is out there.....

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The Watering hole

Mar 26, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Namaste

Just so tired of people trying to scam you on these “dating sites”. To include this one. Remember to reverse search photos so that you know for sure with whom you are speaking.

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Love & Relationships

Mar 16, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by surrealhoax

I may be ready to delete Tinder, Bumble, Hitch, etc. so I guess it is time to rant. It's not because I "found someone" ... but I have become convinced that the time and effort I spend (maybe more the time than the effort) is counterproductive. ...

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Love & Relationships

Mar 13, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by mzbehavin

To show desire for dating or community on your profile? I have waffled back and forth on this since I started. The problem is both are kind of applicable. I am here for the community but if I met a person and we became friends and later wanted to ...

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Love & Relationships

Mar 3, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by VictoriaNotes

Should Christians Date Non-Belivers? Advise From a Christian

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Music, Movies & Books

Feb 28, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by phxbillcee

Sci-Fi Short Film "Multiverse Dating For Beginners" | Presented by DUST

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Love & Relationships

Feb 16, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by Janiesuper

places to meet people?

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Silly, Random & Fun

Feb 15, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by inabbar

Valentine's Faux pas

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Love & Relationships

Feb 14, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by WeaZ

Do you need a Valentine’s Buh Humbug moment?

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Love & Relationships

Feb 12, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by lerlo

Am I advertising wrong in my profile? :) This guy's singing about having a king sized bed and a PhD...is that all that's necessary? ;)

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Love & Relationships

Feb 4, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by phxbillcee

Sci-Fi Short Film "A Date in 2025" | Presented by DUST

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General & Hellos

Jan 30, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by LeoMcDermott

Are these profiles real?

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Love & Relationships

Jan 27, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by jimmyjazz

Very disappointed lately. There have been 3 times now I have had the beginning of a meaningful conversation with a lady to end up not going well. All over religion of course. After a bit it is asked and I tell them I am an Atheist and the response ...

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Love & Relationships

Jan 23, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by BrittanyP

POLLCould you date someone who was a theist of some sorts?

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Love & Relationships

Jan 22, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by evergreen

So I was on this single's site the other night, and saw an ad from a decent looking guy, saying he was looking for FWB. Every now and then, I think that would work for me - so I was curious as to how, exactly, he saw that working ? He replied ...

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Love & Relationships

Jan 16, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Stepmomofdragons

I saw this ad from Capital One (ironic coming from a bank) with 30-somethings(probably actors) talking about spending money on dates, some not working out and not being able to afford to keep doing it. I know that some will be all about "you don't ...

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Love & Relationships

Jan 15, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Stepmomofdragons

What is it with me and older (sometimes much older) men? No matter what dating site I'm signed up for, most my results are +50. At best, my limit is around 55. Any older and it feels like my parents. I love my parents, most of the time, but I don't ...

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Love & Relationships

Jan 10, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Kaesen88

Are relationships and dating in 2019 changing the way we think of each other??

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General & Hellos

Jan 7, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by sweetcharlotte

Population of Dating and Community

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Love & Relationships

Jan 6, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Geektheist

After hearing horror tales from my daughters, friends, and women on here, I feel compelled to put this out there. Ladies, while it may be hard to believe, I can assure you we're not all immature horny, skeevy neanderthals. And I understand why ...

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Love & Relationships

Jan 4, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Stepmomofdragons

This morning, I almost ponied up $20 to pay for a month's membership to certain dating site involving the little winged god of love. Then I stopped myself, because I needed that money mostly. But I also realized that I despite my efforts and best ...

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Silly, Random & Fun

Dec 28, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Capricorn

Only a true horror fan can appreciate this ?

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Love & Relationships

Dec 27, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Rob1948

POLLYou can violate Title IX by asking another student out on a date? Do you agree. Edited 12/29/18: Interestingly, the NR published this statement on the 27th. It adds important context and withdraws the original article. ...

0 votes I absolutely agree with this interpretation.
3 votes This is an inappropriate application of the law.
5 votes Depends on circumstances (please explain in a comment).

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Silly, Random & Fun

Dec 26, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by timothymnel

True Love is when two people lower their standards enough to make it work. It truly is a magical thing.

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Love & Relationships

Dec 18, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by SukiSue

What is “dating” today and what should it be? (Full disclosure, this is an observation about dating in general. I'm fine! Honest! I edited this a bit. ) Personally, I’m new to this because I had been with the same person for the last 20 years...

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Love & Relationships

Dec 17, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Wenepai

"what'd you do yesterday?" "yesterday? I had brunch with a friend at this restaurant." "oh cool. Are you monogamous?" ... I swear I get whiplash from some of these conversations.

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Love & Relationships

Dec 13, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by FionaAtNight

Honestly, I joined to meet smart, non-religious guys here, not really to just chat. I have lots of friends to chat with live and on Facebook; most are A’s. So how does one use this site for just dating? It seems more like an old-fashioned chat ...

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Love & Relationships

Dec 11, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Freespirit64

Dating is harder after 50. Here's why....

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Love & Relationships

Dec 9, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by GhostbusterJay7

Wow! Dating religious people is a pain in the ass. They get offended SUPER quickly. All I did was ask if "So if you recharge your pendant, does it have mana points like from a video game?". I think it may be why she left me... Oh well. LOL

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Site & Customer Service

Dec 5, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by ClaytonE83

Dont advertise as a dating site and show me this when I open the app lol I did put that I'm interested the opposite sex. Just sayin... I know it's a community too but its getting a bit old to open the app and see a bunch of male profiles displayed to...

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Love & Relationships

Dec 5, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by SkotlandSkye

Ain’t it the truth....

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Love & Relationships

Dec 4, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by brainyactress

POLLWhen to write a man off?

16 votes 24 hours
51 votes 3 days
18 votes 6 days
11 votes 10 days
1 vote A month
6 votes Park outside his home until he understands
4 votes Join a convent

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Love & Relationships

Dec 1, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by MuzikDan

POLLWould you date a man without a steady paycheck?

6 votes Wouldn't consider dating without a steady source of income
3 votes Would date, but not seriously.
13 votes This is not a factor in deciding who I date.
5 votes They have to have a steady paycheck, and it needs to be more than what I make.

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Love & Relationships

Nov 30, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by AtheistReader

Is patriarchy ruining your dating life?

4 comments

Love & Relationships

Nov 26, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Marcie1974

For men on dating sites. A woman recently posted on here that it makes her uncomfortable when men message her for the first time and say hey baby, hey sexy, or hey beautiful. I totally and completely get why it makes her uncomfortable. I have tried ...

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Love & Relationships

Nov 20, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Jeremy77

I’m open to dating almost anyone as long as they’re not crazy religious and since most people don’t even really think about what they actually believe in or even go to church more than once a year, I really don’t find it to be a big issue on...

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Love & Relationships

Nov 19, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Capricorn

Dating woes

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Love & Relationships

Nov 16, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by MemphisMel

For those single people out there, it’s already hard enough finding a compatible “other half” but adding the desire to have that person be non-religion. It’s just almost impossible to check off all the boxes. How do you date (or do you)? I...

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Love & Relationships

Nov 16, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Jnei

How to message someone on a dating site - This is a question that is quite frequently asked in the chatrooms here on Agnostic, so here are some answers :-)

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