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Hi IQ

Mar 15, 2022Mar 2022

Posted by Cast1es

Life is a matter of choices . We all make them . Sometimes , we learn too late , that the information we based our choices on was either incomplete or even a complete lie . In which case we can either learn to live with the altered reality or we can ...

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Feminist Atheists

Jun 5, 2021Jun 2021

Posted by deepeddy

Strong men identify themselves as Feminists because they know that the love and respect of strong women makes them stronger.

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Posts

Apr 25, 2021Apr 2021

Posted by phxbillcee

Does the silent treatment work? It depends what your goal is.

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Dating for Real People

Jan 12, 2021Jan 2021

Posted by Ash_Bhaskar

How do you filter out the self-proclaimed atheists, agnostics, and nonreligious people who actually believe in woo or other religious malarkey? I'm on Bumble and Match, which let you filter by religion, but a shockingly large number of people who ...

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Love & Relationships

Jan 2, 2021Jan 2021

Posted by LisaLisa92806

This cracks me up!

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Love & Relationships

Oct 14, 2020Oct 2020

Posted by GoodMan

LINKCOVID-19 Can’t Stop Love: Couple Says ‘I Do’ in the Hospital | AHA

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Silly, Random & Fun

Oct 8, 2020Oct 2020

Posted by GoodMan

Hello! I'm friendly and warm, and you have a nice smile... :)

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Introverts Unite!

Sep 28, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by GoodMan

LINKHere’s What Makes Each Introverted Myers-Briggs Personality Type Angry

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Love & Relationships

Sep 11, 2020Sep 2020

Posted by Green_Soldier71

I am posting this video in response to something a friend of mine said to me a few days ago...something to the effect of (don't have her exact words) being scared to fall in love with someone only to find out that they have been loving a ...

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Older Men and Younger Women

Aug 30, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by Boomtarat03

A Therapist Reveals the Surprising Truth about Older Men Marrying Younger Women

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Sunset, Sea, Coffee and Me

Aug 16, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by Boomtarat03

Why do you love me?

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FreeThinkers

Aug 9, 2020Aug 2020

Posted by Mimee

Multiple relationships over a period of time is becoming more and more common over that one single love of a lifetime. One reason is increasing lifespans. People once considered old are now called just 'mature' and with better health aided by ...

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Human Sexuality: Everything About It

Apr 26, 2020Apr 2020

Posted by domos

POLLHave we normalized hypersexuality in the USA? If so, who is encouraged to be the most hypersexual? for example we put a lot of pressure on women/feminine roles to be sexually available, and we put a lot of pressure on men/masculine roles to be ...

perceptions of hypersexuality in the United States

4 votes No
1 vote Yes, both sexes are encouraged to be equally hypersexual
1 vote Yes, men are encouraged to be the most hypersexual
2 votes Yes, women are encouraged to be the most hypersexual
0 votes Yes, The non-straight are encouraged to be the most hypersexual

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Love & Relationships

Feb 10, 2020Feb 2020

Posted by Catinahat

I met this guy...very nice guy. I feel so chill and happy when I'm with him. Problem is we come from two very different worlds. He used to be a gang-banger but gave that life up. Sadly, he still uses some of the vernacular from his old days and that ...

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Silly, Random & Fun

Sep 25, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by Rob48

What's the silliest thing that ever occurred while you were "making love"? In my case, during my junior year of college, we students had to attend an extended weekend living off the land at "Camp Wapalanne" (pronounced Wop-A-LON-eee) in New ...

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General & Hellos

Sep 14, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by Lorajay

Long but very interesting viewpoint.Please remember I am a feminist but I also firmly believe we should continue to examine our beliefs.

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Love & Relationships

Sep 13, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by LiterateHiker

Unhealthy food. How could I have been more tactful?

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Memes R Us

Sep 3, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by surrealhoax

I dunno you, but I just saved a whole buncha money by ... not doing this right here.

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Love & Relationships

Sep 2, 2019Sep 2019

Posted by Decieven

Hey all. So my mom is going through a divorce with a terribly abusive husband, which I have been more than ecstatic about as I have never liked the man. It's taking more of a toll on me than I thought though. I guess because I've been juggling grad ...

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General & Hellos

Aug 5, 2019Aug 2019

Posted by theatreskill

OK. How many people come to this site to find a partner? A kindred atheistic spirit? Frustrated with dating sites crowded with choices of people who hold religion in high regard? They reject you automatically, don't they? An atheist! They must ...

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General & Hellos

Jul 8, 2019Jul 2019

Posted by PatrickKerr

Can relationships and health problems co exists?

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General & Hellos

Jun 25, 2019Jun 2019

Posted by PatrickKerr

Who else here lives on a basic income?

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Memes R Us

Apr 11, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by bookofmorons

I found it (eventually) - can you?

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Ethical Sluts

Apr 3, 2019Apr 2019

Posted by Mermaidfantasy

Grehttps://tonic.vice.com/en_us/article/zmdgnj/6-things-to-know-a bout-making-an-open-relationship-work?fbclid=IwAR3zaIeDwVkfxUnl34 HSP7-RBp4EROgwAgRhaSv4yv-CZANuGdy8JhDVFl4at read on Non-Monogamy

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Love & Relationships

Mar 20, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by Ravenwolfcasey

Does anyone ever feel like they will never find that one person who just gets them? I mean I've been burned so many times that I'm sorta shellshocked..and ptsd when it comes to opening up to new people... Obviously not everyone is going to like or ...

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Love & Relationships

Mar 10, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by zesty

POLLWhat is the difference of significant importance between a handshake and having protected vaginal sex?

0 votes There is no significant difference
21 votes It is very different
2 votes Just different

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Love & Relationships

Mar 3, 2019Mar 2019

Posted by LetzGetReal

Something sobering perhaps...

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Love & Relationships

Feb 16, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by Janiesuper

Do you like having long term friends of the opposite sex?

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Music, Movies & Books

Feb 16, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by Bignate901

This is a little late but I was exploring my playlists and I found some old offbeat or creative Valentine's Day themed songs list. And I wanted to see if anyone had any good suggestions for similar songs and any good story associated with those ...

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Love & Relationships

Feb 9, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by WeaZ

Within a “VanLife Singles” FB group I am in... a man posted this... I was curious & “skeptic” about it... Here is a screenshot of the post... and here is my comment... am I wrong about this... MY COMMENT... “in all the Love Language book ...

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Love & Relationships

Feb 7, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by Tinocca

This goes for romantic relationships, but it also applies to family members, I have regretfully discovered.

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Love & Relationships

Feb 5, 2019Feb 2019

Posted by Lorajay

I've had two relationships since my husband died. One lasted almost 2 years but he was way too young for me. Now to online dating. I've been on POF for about 4 years off and on. Yes scammers contact me often and I am adept at recognizing them almost ...

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Love & Relationships

Jan 29, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Dougy

LINK12 Little Ways Couples In Long-Distance Relationships Stay Connected | HuffPost Life

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Love & Relationships

Jan 15, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Unclehotrod

Wtf, I Saw this woman over a year ago, we've been trying to to rekindle things lately, but she can't let go of the fact that I dated others while we apart. What do you do?

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Silly, Random & Fun

Jan 15, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Capricorn

Story of my life

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Love & Relationships

Jan 14, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by AzVixen52

Every so often I read the posts in this category, and it reminds me how lucky I am to be single..............:)

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Love & Relationships

Jan 10, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by nicknotes

How do you visualize the perfect mate? What attributes does your virtual mate possess?

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Love & Relationships

Jan 2, 2019Jan 2019

Posted by Capricorn

LINKWhat You Need to Know About the Nice Girl Who’s Unbelievably Tough – Mind Activist

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Silly, Random & Fun

Dec 26, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by timothymnel

True Love is when two people lower their standards enough to make it work. It truly is a magical thing.

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Love & Relationships

Dec 16, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by Stepmomofdragons

Why is it I see that the most common complaint from men in dating is that us women go for the "bad" boys or opt to stay in abusive relationships? Why don't women want Nice Guys™ like them? I wish they could realize that it's more complicated and ...

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Love & Relationships

Dec 13, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by GipsyOfNewSpain

I am a Man and I Approve this Message.

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Love & Relationships

Dec 1, 2018Dec 2018

Posted by MuzikDan

POLLWould you date a man without a steady paycheck?

6 votes Wouldn't consider dating without a steady source of income
3 votes Would date, but not seriously.
13 votes This is not a factor in deciding who I date.
5 votes They have to have a steady paycheck, and it needs to be more than what I make.

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Love & Relationships

Nov 18, 2018Nov 2018

Posted by Jerald

The Problem Isn’t Their Narcissism. The problem isn’t the narc. The problem happens when I believe, without evidence, that I must have love. Then I can be recruited by love bombing, then manipulated by guilt fear obligation. If it’s a religion ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 27, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by JamesA91

Anyone had any luck meeting or interacting with people on this site? Any friendships made? Been on here for about a year, and have met no one. Would be great to have some advice.

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Love & Relationships

Oct 14, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by James121

K...been dead for a year and a half since my beloved died...have met some woman through that period so a year and a bit has passed .......and have now met my soul mate..she accepts that I am a a musician have long hair and a beard...so yes it can ...

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Love & Relationships

Oct 13, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Ravenwolfcasey

Why do people lie?

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Silly, Random & Fun

Oct 11, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by phxbillcee

Love Story - Cyanide & Happiness Shorts

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Love & Relationships

Oct 10, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by Wchairgal

Would you move for love?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 9, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by paul1967

What matters most in a potential spouse?

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Love & Relationships

Oct 4, 2018Oct 2018

Posted by HardBlues69

On a scale from 10 to 100 how important is sex in your love life with a significant other? 50? 60? More? Less?

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Love & Relationships

Sep 17, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by royaledspirit

Soo.... I've gotten a lot of compliments, but im still single. So, im trying the internet thing in the hopes of being happy with someone, if only for a series of moments. Anyway, a little about me. I grew up in the city, but after my brother passed ...

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Religion & Spirituality

Sep 10, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Ashxoleyxo

So my boyfriend and I who have been dating for about a year moved in together and the other night we were on the phone with my mom and she says to us “you guys have to right by god and get married, if you’re going to be living together” it ...

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Love & Relationships

Sep 10, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by Akfishlady

Is there one that got away for you?

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Love & Relationships

Sep 6, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by skado

LINKEsther Perel on Sexual Desire and Successful Relationships - with Lewis Howes - YouTube

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Love & Relationships

Sep 2, 2018Sep 2018

Posted by machus1

So I lost a woman I loved because I would not compromise on my skeptic approach and realistic understanding of our universe and our existence. Why is it that folks don’t find the understanding that we are from and of this universe to be ...

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Love & Relationships

Aug 30, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Lithiumus

POLLWhat's more important to provide to your partner, your time or your money?

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Love & Relationships

Aug 29, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by ChuckEjimadu

POLLCan a non-believer and believer relationship work? (Relationship: Marriage, dating, friends.)

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Love & Relationships

Aug 27, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Iam4MY

I had a really great first date Saturday night. Like maybe the best first date I've ever had. We are going out again for breakfast on Wednesday morning (I work stupid hours and his job often takes him out of town for work so scheduling dates is a ...

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Love & Relationships

Aug 21, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by KK-okc

I'm curious to know your opinions....How honest do you think one should be in a relationship? Personally, I am a believer of being completely honest with a SO. If I question if I should tell him about something or not, I definitely tell him. If I ...

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Family & Parenting

Aug 21, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by NerdforHumanity

It's nice having a family that accepts that I don't have beliefs. More families should be more accommodating to differing perspectives.

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Love & Relationships

Aug 21, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by JuliusZhu

I just want a girlfriend/wife who is Atheist. Hope I could meet the one here.

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Love & Relationships

Aug 20, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by NolaCyYoung

Why do I get attracted by religious girls?

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Love & Relationships

Aug 19, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by BlueSkies2019

Hello everyone! I'm loving this place so far :) I'm looking for my forever woman. I hope she's here.

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Love & Relationships

Aug 17, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by pepperjones

I'm an optimist, my husband is a pessimist. One day we were talking about this dynamic years ago. Me: being married to an optimist has several advantages; you get me as a cheerleader, I point out the silver lining, I find solutions, I'm always ...

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Love & Relationships

Aug 11, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Lucignolo

POLLWhat do you think of pornography?

11 votes I enjoy pornography, it’s harmless
2 votes I enjoy pornography, but it’s harmful
2 votes I don’t enjoy pornography, but have no issues with it
6 votes I don’t enjoy pornography, and think it’s harmful
8 votes I watch porn often (I’m a male)
3 votes I watch porn often (I’m a female)
4 votes Research on the subject is accurate
0 votes Research on the subject is wrong

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Love & Relationships

Aug 10, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Teterbilt

Heart breaks.

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Philosophy & Meaning

Aug 8, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by TheFighter23

Any sexy nihilists out there? Represent! Lol

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Love & Relationships

Aug 6, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by NiceFarm

I wonder; is it possible to learn what can cause people to fall out of love with a significant other?

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Love & Relationships

Aug 6, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Sensiwoman7

Do you like to dominate your partner or to be dominated?

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General & Hellos

Aug 5, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by EmmJay

Geese, so many middle aged people here. Where are all the young adults? Really not looking for someone much older than myself and the restrictions / profile preferences don't seem to alter the algorithm or anything. No offense middle aged adults, but...

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Love & Relationships

Aug 4, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by tioteo

Who has had a positive relationship with a father/mother-in-law?

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Love & Relationships

Aug 4, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by josephr

"Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence." I made a pointed ironic joke to a dear friend of mine yesterday. Her response; "Joseph you once asked me 'why i would want to hurt someone i love'? So why do you want to ...

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Silly, Random & Fun

Aug 4, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Keymaiden

Irony. Just a random thought. I live on a farm left in trust to me, my sister and mother by my great-uncle. It's no longer a working farm; we let out the land to local farmers for live stock and hay etc. We also let out the old threshing barn and ...

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Love & Relationships

Aug 2, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Rayray100

When seeking to date someone is someones religious views important in determining if you are compatible or not? Interested in your perspective. For me it has been an issue. I have tried to date religious woman and it eventually comes up. Haven't ...

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Love & Relationships

Aug 2, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Briceman

What was you most horrific relationship and why? What did you learn from it?

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Love & Relationships

Aug 2, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Philippe78

Meet anyone here?

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Love & Relationships

Aug 1, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Ana305

Impossible relationship

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Love & Relationships

Aug 1, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Sensiwoman7

What is "the sixth sense" of yours?

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Music, Movies & Books

Aug 1, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by BeeHappy

The best feeling...

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Love & Relationships

Aug 1, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by pepperjones

So I changed my profile to dating! :) I've been on the site since December and all the sudden the main page looks different, LOL! Everyone has hearts next to them! ???

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Love & Relationships

Aug 1, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by Nottheonlyone

Question for the women

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Love & Relationships

Aug 1, 2018Aug 2018

Posted by EvaV

Im very curious as to why so many men include pictures at 20 instead of being proud of who they have become. Im interestedvin playing with ghosts of Christmas past

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General & Hellos

Jul 31, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Coldo

Multi purpose homes.

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Religion & Spirituality

Jul 31, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Greenheart

How does everyone on this site get along with their religious families, relatives, co-workers, friends? I find it very difficult, especially when they bring up god, religion? How do you all cope with it, or handle it?

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Love & Relationships

Jul 31, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by pixiedust

This is the reverse image of @Crimson67 's post. When dating, what was the most shallow reason someone gave to stop dating you? Be honest We'll laugh with you, not at you and we'll call him/her/it appropriate names.

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Love & Relationships

Jul 31, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by RileyStevens

POLLDoes On-line dating seem backwards? Not wrong just backwards. I got used to meeting lots of people in the course of everyday life and sometimes getting to know and then finding I really like someone. It just sort of happens over time with no ...

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Silly, Random & Fun

Jul 31, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by UrsiMajor

Can men and women just be friends? Age-old and cliche rhetoric... I am looking for people to hang out with and probably not ready for a romantic relationship after a recent divorce. I'm literally going to meetup.com looking for people to hang out ...

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Love & Relationships

Jul 30, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by David3001

If you and your girlfriend/boyfriend didn't live together, would you expect at LEAST a text message everyday ? Edit. Maybe "expect" wasn't the word I wanted. And people seem to have to have a time table established. .... So "..you've been dating for ...

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Love & Relationships

Jul 30, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Telegramsam70

POLLPolyamory question

10 votes Swinger
5 votes Cheater
4 votes Progressive
18 votes Honest
11 votes Curious

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Love & Relationships

Jul 30, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by NothinnXpreVails

So what exactly is the FWB situation? On another post, women are talking about how this is what they want, but what is it? What is expected from participants? Do they each have the same expectations? Is it exclusive? Is it promiscuous? Is there a ...

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Love & Relationships

Jul 29, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by BarkRuffalo

POLLStarting a relationship with a religious person. Openly identifying this delta as a possible issue. She works close but lives far. Likes 45 given the option.....and knows I despise unintelligent leadership. Your 2 cents.......GO

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Silly, Random & Fun

Jul 29, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by AwarenessNow

First Date Question: "How aware are you of your traumas and suppressed emotions and how are you actively working to heal them before you try to project that shit on me?"

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Love & Relationships

Jul 29, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Mea

What's the most romantic gesture someone's carried out on your behalf?

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Religion & Spirituality

Jul 29, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by pixiedust

Has your family reacted in an extreme way to your intellectual choices and did that leave you feeling wounded or bitter? How did you stay strong in the face of censure? One of the things that really bothers me about my family is that they respect ...

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Family & Parenting

Jul 29, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by TwistyOwl

For those who have no children, would you date a partner with a child?

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Site & Customer Service

Jul 25, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Quazi

What question(s) do you wish the site would ask when people are first setting up their profile?

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Love & Relationships

Jul 23, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by DGJ0114

I once dated a wonderful woman who was a bit too trusting. She needed some cement work done at her home and after doing a bit of research decided on one contractor. When she told me that she had made a decision on a contractor she showed me his ...

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Love & Relationships

Jul 20, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by UrsiMajor

Are you in a healthy, functional relationship? What are signs to look for that a relationship is real? Every relationship has problems and needs work, but how can you differentiate normal issues from toxicity?

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Love & Relationships

Jul 18, 2018Jul 2018

Posted by Akfishlady

Women (and men if you choose to answer), when does a compliment go too far? I often hear things that are insincere or plain rude. Do you find this often? Because I am not even close to a perfect woman, I hear these 'compliments' directed at ...