new here from San Antonio Texas. Basically I think I have tried all the good sites to meet someone just to talk to. they never stick around for long and the sad thing is they're never honest about why. is it cliche' for the guy to NOT being looking for hookups? I see a lot of profiles across the universe were the ladies all say right up front first line "NOT LOOKING FOR HOOKUPS or a ONS" etc that's not me either.