Anyone else find that their sexuality and gender attraction varies in extremely unpredictable ways?
I'm male and bi but sometimes go weeks without having any sexual thoughts about guys then periods where it's all I can think about.
At those time it can be all consuming and seriously distracting.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.somewhat. I call myself a 70/30 gay. I knew I was attracted to guys long before I had the nerve to act on it. I thought about men a lot when with a woman. Then, the first time I was with a guy sexually, I thought about a woman. It was a bit unsettling. I haven't thought about sex with a woman while actually with a man now for a long time. I think I'm settling into a comfort zone.
MikeInBatonRouge
Level 8
Aug 19, 2018
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It's funny, I've thought about guys when I've been with a woman buit never thought about a woman when I;ve been with a guy. I guess the fact of my role with a guy is very different to when I;m with a woman which may or may not be a factor.
Same thing with me, But there are very few men that I'm attracted to. For me it's mostly just about the sex.
FIREmedic
Level 7
Aug 19, 2018
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It's only been within the past few years that I've become more attracted to guys visually rather than just the appeal of the diffierent dynamic sex with a man involves. I've been bi since my teens but for a long time it was also just about the sex. Now sometimes I'll see a guy and develop a mini crush or simply have a little daydream.