OK guys, just chasing a little feedback for this one.
I am an aspi, even though the term has lost currency now.
A couple of days ago I ran into a friend who said many times during the conversation that she was neurotypical. She said her partner was aspi, which I sort of knew as I met him a couple of time about 12 years ago.
The other thing which makes him not fit in is that he was raised very wealthy, always had everything given to him, told her never had to worry re school because he would never need to work. I am almost totally lacking in emotional behaviour, so most people think of me just as very stable, very boring. When I told her that I had aspergers and inside my head my world is totally different from how I present myself, she asked if her partner could come visit me for a chat, he had begun seeing counsellors etc.

I gave her my number, he messaged within the hour, and yesterday visited for 5 hours. A day later my head is still hurting. He never shut, I hardly got a word in edgewise, and the talk was mostly edging on inappropriate ie crude or about his money or both. Since I saw him last he has inherited about 50 million. My weekly income is $200 and I have under $300 in the bank so a little bit of a difference there. He was telling me about all the money he has given his partner and her kids, we are talking about 1.5 million all up.

But along with this was his frustration that she is caring for an elderly mother and spends time with her kids. They don't live together but less than 30 minutes drive. He wanted advice on how to manage the problems the aspergers caused.
All I could see was the problems cause by the fact that he has lived a spoilt sheltered life and expects everybody's world revolves around him. His kids hate him, he does not get on well with his siblings. His kids and siblings are also wealthy so money is only a bit of their problem. Though the kids apparently do want some more of the pie.

I don't get on with my birth family, but I would rather keep my relationship with my kids than have his money.
Apart from the screaming headache he left me with, I am frustrated that he is blaming his aspergers for his relationship problems with his partner, his siblings and his kids. Every 5 minutes he would remind me of his aspergers, I know a guy who is now 23, have known him since he was 6 and is the hardest aspi case I know. Still cannot see beyond his own perspective, needs, wants etc. Yet he is getting better behaviour wise.

###Am I wrong in feeling that this guy is playing on his aspergers as an excuse to be less caring about others needs and that he thinks by throwing money at people he can control them?
He is seeing the counselor this week, the counsellor operates twice a week from my work premises, but of course cannot discuss patient issues. I wonder if I will get any feedback at some point from his partner.