I am a Combat Disabled Navy Retired Veteran. I've been divorced over a year, separated for 3. I'm 280 lbs. of fuzzy, bearded, shaved-head, round bellied romantic filled with compassion, love, and attentive conversationalist.
I like short walks on the beach....ok, scratch the walking part, I just love the beach. I'm a Geek, I love Marvel movies and cartoons, I'm a total Star Wars nerd, and a fanatic of Lord of the Rings & Tolkien books. I play D&D when I can.
I love Nature, I am a Universalist that believes and tolerates all faith and secular paths, I was a Religious Program Specialist - a bodyguard for Chaplains and a accommodater of all paths. I practice Wicca, but that is my path which I never push onto anyone nor judge anyone for their path.
I love all kinds of women, compassion and humor are necessary. I've seen all these "I don't play all these games", well, I don't know any games. I am faithful, loyal, caring, and I respect women. I personally have a thing for redheads, and "chubby" ladies, BBW, shapely - but I am not particular about shape or size, that is less important than the personality and attitude towards life. My marriage was polyamoeous, I've only been with one man up to third base, and I may someday find another that I'm attracted to which us why I chose Bi, but I'm pretty much straight. I would like to meet and attractive Trans woman, I think it might be nice to meet a Trans man too. I don't believe in dating more than one person at a time, unless it was something we both agreed to ahead of time - but I wouldn't expect or demand my partner to practice monogamy dating unless we decided otherwise. I am pretty socially liberal. I wrote in my vote for Stein because I had to vote but couldn't go for either main party members. Politics are important to me, as is being up on current news and able to dis use and debate without needing to tear down another or belittle other's opinions. I will say if you voted for trump, don't bother messaging me.
I am a single father, I have a Trans son Andy 24 this October, a daughter Charity just 22, another gender fluid daughter Katlyn 18 next month and a Senior this Fall. I have one son named after Han & Princess Leia he's 11 next month, Jacen Merlin. We lightsaber fight, play Legos, I home school him during elementary years, although he may go to public school this year. I'll post a seriously funny video of him busting into my room saying "dad, I created a dart!" Using the build atoms and he made methane - my gut hurt from laughing. I have a will be 5 yo in July named Sarah-Bellah Galadriel Grace, she is currently living with her mom, we were swapping every week, she got Pussy and now we are going to custody court someday. I love all my kids, they are my pride and joy. Charity will make me a grandpa in August due 2 days before my birthday.
I'm obviously open and honest, I have nothing to hide except some horrors of war that civilians usually don't understand. This is my first dating site, I hope I meet someone, I would enjoy chatting and meeting with other people who are also looking for a relationship that aren't driven away by judging my fat bearded book cover. Archegos is Greek for Teacher, my name, Aaron David was taken. I try Yoga, I only drink water, sometimes tea (hot or sweet ice), and celebrate Yule, not Christmas. I also celebrate the 8 Sabbats, so we have more celebrations.
Sexual compatibility is important for long term relationships. I don't expect sex, just want it but I can only chose for myself, I'm not one of those assholes that turn mean against you if you don't want sex, no means no, I have daughters and had 2 wives, I respect women and their independence and their choices. I can be pretty freaky, I have some kinkiness in me. We have pets, I love my dogs, we have too many cats. Fetishes would be one of those conversations to have once we know each other.
I drink wine occasionally, and Apple Hard Cider, but rarely. I used to play golf, frisbee golf, soccer etc before I became disabled. I don't really watch any sports, except the FIFA finals. However I would be willing to participate in a partners activities, like supporting sport teams.
Even if you aren't interested in me, I wish you the best of luck finding a partner that makes you a better person.