I think this group needs a firm spanking from one of the lovely ladies who are members here, to encourage a little activity. Here's my attempt to drum up some discussion.

Okay, so… what interests you all (Dommes and subs alike) in this topic of dominatrixes? Is your interest limited to play sessions, or something more? Would you want an FLR (female-led relationship), or would that be too much for you?

I'm rather reserved and have difficulty giving up personal control, and I need a solid, loving relationship with the woman in my life to make this a reality (as I wouldn't be interested in a casual D/s relationship — it has to mean something to me), but I can see it being especially freeing to give of myself completely to her, trusting in her so fully, being led to the edge of my comfort zone and nudged gently across that boundary time and again, to become increasingly devoted to her with each passing day, to long for her touch (gentle and harsh alike), to want nothing more than to please her. I don't need a true dominatrix in my life to make much of this a reality, to live to please her however she desires, but I certainly wouldn't oppose her assuming that more dominant role if that were her wish.

So, what do you all think (whether reality or fantasy)? Dommes, what do you enjoy in your role? And subs, where is your pleasure? What do you find alluring in this dynamic?