I find that I do not do well when I am alone, I can do it but find company much more enjoyable. I can spend time alone reading, writing and doing Math. I do enjoy a good conversation.

Yay for weird old lady hermits. Be true to yourself & enjoy that we have that option.

I'm exactly the same. The older I get the more I prefer my own company much of the time.

I hear ya! I can only take people in very small doses. That "close friend" thing only works for me for a limited amount of time, til eventually everything they do gets on my nerves.

Right there with you.

Yep! I like to join others for company in small quantities, but am totally happy being alone most of the time. I know where to find people if I want to - guess I just don't seek folks out all that often.

I've been seeing daily shootings in the local news headlines , and frankly , even those who've been shot multiple times , can't expect to be treated at local hospitals due to them being over run by covid 19 cases . Between the shootings and the covid 19 , I think I'll be happier alone for a bit .

if i found a compatible female i'd prefer to solitude

I don't dread being alone but given the option I socialize

it depends on mood, location, what's going on. i find being widowed makes living easier. i don't mind being alone, but if isee my children and grandchildren I know I can leave when I want.