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Does any one have a problem with blushing really badly when the attention is turned on you, even if you're not necessarily super embarrassed? How do you deal with it or fix it?

AnnaMD 5 Jan 6
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I blush at nearly everything usually for no reason I can figure out. I have no idea how to fix it. After I was much too old for it to do me any good I realized that women found the blushes "cute" or something like that. I suspect works the other way around.

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I usually bolt. I know, I'm a Marine, and face terror head on, but I really feel defenseless in social situations.
I'm working on it.
I met 3 really nice ladies at the club the other night.
And I did ok, lol.

Keech Level 5 Jan 7, 2019
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I see it in my students when they have a difficult request to make. So if they need a letter or recommendation or something like that. Or if they are in a high stress situation. I ignore it and consider it part of human nature. I think it is a "tell" but it can't really be fixed easily and maybe, in some cases, tells aren't so bad anyway.

marmot84 Level 7 Jan 6, 2019
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I blush so hard that I can feel it. Sadly, I can't remember the last time it happened.

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Yes .... it helps if you practice doing things that are a bit stressful - if you fear speaking to several people at a time, fear speaking to a group, it helps to join Toastmasters or something similar. Practice helps.

SKH78 Level 8 Jan 6, 2019
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Burst out crying. I bet that will stop things. JK. I am not aware of any way to not blush. So, sometimes you just have to go with it or walk away.

OHJim Level 5 Jan 6, 2019
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I do too. Nothing you can do.

MojoDave Level 9 Jan 6, 2019
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There's nothing to fix.. Nothing wrong with blushing. It's cute... Embrace it... It's you!

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Don't worry about blushing - try to think about how most people find it cute. Try excessive sweating. That's REAL fun.

pmar074 Level 6 Jan 6, 2019

Been there done that too! Embarrassing!

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And then someone notices you starting to blush and points it out and brings even more attention to you. Yea, it sucks. Usually if I keep going through it, eventually it passes.

That's how it happens. My wife usually starts it!

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Stare at the ground avoid eye contact. Wait for flushing to pass. Avoid the same situation ever again. I hated being late to school people staring at as I entered the classroom. I cut class alot to avoid the situation.

Mokvon Level 8 Jan 6, 2019
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