I walk away from Fundies. Debating with them just leads to a headache.

Of course it would be difficult to maintain a relationship with someone who is talking god all the time. I have a brother I can barely talk to. No topic is safe. Everything winds up being about religion or some conspiracy thing. Kinda boring to have to limit conversations to things like the weather.

It sounds like she also might not be respecting you. Why keep the relationship?

Perhaps the reason you can't relate to her anymore , is because she isn't relating to you . She's trying to change you , to meet her own specifications . There is absolutely no reason , since you both are aware that you have religious differences , for either of you to contineuly introduce it into the conversation .

If you're an introvert, walk away. Your friend won't 'get better.' You're fine, she's not worth the energy.

From what you have said, sounds like a serious issue with projection on her part. She seems to be unable to tolerate YOU being different from her. Whether this causes her to be bitter, can't tell from the info given but if she is basically attacking your character, I would bet she is.

I can't say whether you are an introvert as I feel this kind of attitude would turn off people of either bent. I am an introvert and this approach from someone would put a quick end to the friendship as I would not be able to put up with the judgemental interactions. Sadly, some of this has occurred in my family and I find myself unable/unwilling to deal with the person involved.

Note, this is not particularly uncommon behavior in people who become fanatically religious (even mildly). They take that whole "go spread the word" thing to heart and think it is their mission to "save" all the "heathens" meaning anyone who doesn't share their beliefs. This can make them unbearable, abrasive bores.

All this is just my opinion, take it for what it's worth.

It's difficult to say without specific examples. What about other relationships you have?