This has happened a few times where when I cum really hard I start laughing uncontrollably with a ...

Cabsmom comments on Jan 18, 2019:

I laugh sometimes because of the amazingly good physical sensation.

That is how I like it

Cabsmom comments on Jan 20, 2019:

Both please!

How long should two people be in a relationship before the idea of marriage is brought up, assuming...

Cabsmom comments on Jan 23, 2019:

I don't think there is a set time. For me I'm not sure I ever want to be married. I would like a long term relationship, but the piece of paper is unnecessary.

Happy Friday Eve! Here's today's question (and I'm sure none of you will have an answer ;) ): ...

Cabsmom comments on Jan 24, 2019:

I thought of another one. I actually like organizing...once I get started. My stuff really isn't that disorganized, but the satisfaction from organizing is a wonderful feeling. I like to go through EVERYTHING I own about once a year and declutter.

Thursday meme 😜😊

Cabsmom comments on Jan 24, 2019:

Man. I wish I could afford to do that.

Does anybody else hate automatic flushing toilets?

Cabsmom comments on Jan 26, 2019:

I hate them. We have one at my job that sometimes flushes over and over...even when no one is in the stall. That's a huge waste of water and money.

If two hearts are meant to be together☺?

Cabsmom comments on Jan 29, 2019:

This hits close to home.

Guten Morgen :) Here's today's question: What kind of art do you enjoy most?

Cabsmom comments on Jan 30, 2019:

Music. I love singing along and enjoying good music.

Your bladder is about to blow a gasket, you get to the restroom; full house.

Cabsmom comments on Jan 30, 2019:

I am only bladder shy on the hospital trying to use a bedpan. I was I the ER and had to pee really badly. First attempt...no go. Second attempt I asked the nurse to leave the room. I had to think to myself that I was sitting on that toilet. It still took a little while.

I'm wondering is this really true?

Cabsmom comments on Feb 2, 2019:

I know I hate my friend's ex more than she does. She's seeing him again...ugh!

Good morning! Here's today's question: Would you rather go hang gliding or whitewater rafting?

Cabsmom comments on Feb 6, 2019:

Hang gliding. I don't like being in turbulent water. I don't like being underwater period...and that's where I would probably end up.

Good morning! One thing that really suddenly dawned on me yesterday that "home" is no longer ...

Cabsmom comments on Feb 7, 2019:

North Texas. I've been in Texas since I was 6...so 43 years. I would love to relocate, but ONLY I family all goes too.

Is it just me

Cabsmom comments on Feb 7, 2019:

I'm looking at 50 approaching very quickly...I'm not sure how that happened so fast.

I had a female friend tell me about the stages of dating many years ago.

Cabsmom comments on Feb 8, 2019:

I'm a stage 3 or possibly stage 2...lol. I actively want a relationship...not necessarily marriage. I would like a long term committed relationship and I'm picky about who I want to be with (really...hippydog).

Have you gone on a date with someone you met on this site?

Cabsmom comments on Feb 9, 2019:

I went out with two different men from here on one date each. I'm working on meeting up with another man.

Are you into pegging?

Cabsmom comments on Feb 10, 2019:

Not for me.

This kind of choice I can support

Cabsmom comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Exactly. I'm almost 50 and mother nature hasn't stopped my monthly gift. I could still get pregnant. WTF? That would be insane.

Domino when he's being sweet!

Cabsmom comments on Feb 12, 2019:

That's a cool looking cat.

We've learned who owns what shelves in our house:

Cabsmom comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Exactly

Stella looking regal.

Cabsmom comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Beautiful

Too cute [facebook.com]

Cabsmom comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Lol

This Quiz Will Reveal Just How Kinky You Are [buzzfeed.com]

Cabsmom comments on Feb 14, 2019:

53%

I had an extremely pleasant date with Mr.

Cabsmom comments on Feb 17, 2019:

Just use your best judgment. I don't think I know the whole story..so it's hard for me to think of any advice to give you. PLUS, I'm probably not the best person fur relationship advice.

Good morning! I'm back to whatever normal might be, thanks for the good wishes! I don't like hot...

Cabsmom comments on Feb 19, 2019:

I don't think of it as sandwich. I do like them, but I know they aren't good for me.

Feel each other's senses.(close your eyes)🙈

Cabsmom comments on Feb 22, 2019:

I've had sex with an ex. I didn't take it too seriously. He did. He proposed...I said, "no, and this will never work out." I realized that I couldn't sleep with him anymore.

Being in a relationship is great but having a fall out is hurtful at any age. This to will pass. ?

Cabsmom comments on Feb 27, 2019:

I'm sorry. That hurts!

Just heard this for the first time on the radio today.. kinda fit my crappy mood . [youtu.be]

Cabsmom comments on Feb 28, 2019:

I'm sorry you're going through a horrible time. ?

Good morning! I know I flaked out on you yesterday let's just say the day got away from me.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 1, 2019:

That an interesting question. I think I'd like to make all kinds of cool looking furniture.

I went on date 2.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 1, 2019:

I tend to think chemistry is there or it's not. If I spend and hour or two with someone I think I'll have a good idea if I feel chemistry for that person. That being said...I might be too hopeful for a certain kind of chemistry or too romantic perhaps. I want to connect with someone mentally and be attracted to them romantically. I have limited experience (yep...49 years old and didn't date for a LONG time.) So, I'm not an expert.

Update: one week .

Cabsmom comments on Mar 1, 2019:

Well...if 3 out of four aren't local, that means one is, right? That's something...hopeful!

I felt a bit weird writing out my biography last night.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 3, 2019:

"How to be single" I'm an expert. I've been single for a LONG time. I've dated. I had a FWB. I had semi-relationship that I desperately wanted to turn into a real relationship, but he isn't in the same place...ugh...it HURT. That's recent...still healing. Anyway,I'm at the place where I WON'T settle. I would rather stay single than be with someone just to fill that spot....void. It is a void in my life, but I've seen to many people just fill that void with any person only to be left heartbroken or abused. I'm strong enough to know what I want, and what I want is not unrealistic.

Wonderful date! My feet hurt! Dinner and dancing and no hanky panky.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 3, 2019:

That's great to hear. I'm glad you got to enjoy the date and seeing your friend.

Good morning! While going through tons of stuff yesterday, I found my report cards from 2nd ...

Cabsmom comments on Mar 10, 2019:

I was good and bad. I learned how to memorize useless information. I learned how to write a well written paper...even though I hate writing. In college I learned that some professors were really not that demanding and I learned how to make them like me. If they like you, when they read your papers they already are predisposed to think it's a great paper. Other classes...well...I learned how to learn what was necessary. I think the modern educational system is broken and seriously needs an overhaul.

How flexible are you when it comes to relationships?

Cabsmom comments on Mar 12, 2019:

It all depends on what you're talking about. Some things are fine to compromise. Other things like core values...etc. are not. At this point I'm not willing to relocate very far. Also my family and friends are very important and I will visit them often.

Good morning! Just a goofy question today: Would you rather find your true love or a suitcase with...

Cabsmom comments on Mar 14, 2019:

True love...definitely.

Good morning, and Happy St.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 17, 2019:

Something money can buy-college to get a bachelor's degree. I got my associates already, but that doesn't do much. Something money can't buy- a truly connected and loving relationship.

You would be far less concerned with what a person thought of you if you realized how infrequently ...

Cabsmom comments on Mar 21, 2019:

Hopefully one day someone will think of me often...but in a positive way.

Ok, let's say you meet someone and you two hit it off.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 22, 2019:

I think marriage is overrated and antiquated. I wouldn't care.

Having been divorced for a year I have been looking at single pages and the like.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 22, 2019:

I've made first contact before. If a man is weirded out by that...oh well.

I broke it off with my latest, with whom I had two dates.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 24, 2019:

Yikes! I get down about things sometimes, but I usually still see good in the world.

Good Sunday morning! Simple question today: what are you up to today?

Cabsmom comments on Mar 24, 2019:

4' 11"

How many people here are willing to get involved with a man/woman who is separated, which is ...

Cabsmom comments on Mar 25, 2019:

It all depends on the specifics. I would have to know them really well and trust them.

Normally, the weird dreams/nightmares don't bother me so much, but every once in a blue moon one ...

Cabsmom comments on Mar 26, 2019:

That's a painful experience. It sounds like you did what you needed to. However, doing what is necessary is sometimes harder in the short run...hopefully better in the long run.

Good morning! I'm not into playing sports at all, and don't watch much either (unless it's soccer).

Cabsmom comments on Mar 26, 2019:

I don't play sports or watch them. I was in gymnastics as a young girl, but have since lost that flexibility...lol?

Just looking for a descent woman to spend time with and see where things can lead.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 26, 2019:

I think we can stop picking on the one word that is misspelled. I make grammar/spelling mistakes all the time when posting.

Is there really a God to discuss ?

Cabsmom comments on Mar 27, 2019:

Why join an agnostic site if you believe in a god...like your profile says? Maybe you're trying to save all of the agnostics/atheists?

This is what it sounds like.....when doves cry.

Cabsmom comments on Mar 29, 2019:

Maybe because it's the middle of the night?

Good morning! Coffee in hand and a sneeze attack like I haven't had one in years, I think to myself...

Cabsmom comments on Mar 31, 2019:

Two things. .eating chips and salsa And ..getting along with just about anyone. Years of waitressing taught me how to deal with many different types of people.

The granddaughter I'm now raising got an award for most improved GPA and, for the first time ever, ...

Cabsmom comments on Apr 2, 2019:

That's wonderful!

POS?

Cabsmom comments on Apr 4, 2019:

Maybe not now, but I posted something on FB a year or more about not QUITE feeling like I belonged anywhere. I now feel very much a part of certain groups and still feel like I don't quite fit in others.

POS?

Cabsmom comments on Apr 4, 2019:

One woman at work made me feel very accepted...until she found she had a lot in common with another woman. Then I was definitely an outsider.

Good morning! Where's the weekend going?

Cabsmom comments on Apr 7, 2019:

Riding bikes with friends Climbing the tree in the back yard Swimming almost every day one summer Spending the night at a friend's Camping

Good morning! One of the things I am really looking forward to is going back to the Rijksmuseum in ...

Cabsmom comments on Apr 10, 2019:

I think one piece that amazed me was at a student show in the community college. There was portrait that was amazing and it was all done with varying sizes of black dots.

OK.

Cabsmom comments on Apr 15, 2019:

I don't have any old ones. Lol.

Good morning! It's partial moving day today for Chuck into our townhouse.

Cabsmom comments on Apr 20, 2019:

Too many to count

Do women tend to like, or dislike wet, sloppy kissers? I tend to be a bit wet and sloppy.

Cabsmom comments on Apr 24, 2019:

I'm not into sloppy kisses. If I have to wipe my face of after, that's too wet and sloppy. I'm into passionate kisses. I want to feel that intensity...that heat. If it's sloppy, I'm likely to lose any chance at feeling passion.

Hey, y’all.

Cabsmom comments on Apr 25, 2019:

I hope they find the answers soon and get you healed quickly.

Good morning! Back to the 36 questions.

Cabsmom comments on Apr 28, 2019:

No, not really. However,I recently texted someone and it was important. I wrote it down on a piece of paper and thought it through first

What fictional character would you like to "spend the night" with, if you could?

Cabsmom comments on May 2, 2019:

Gerry (played by Gerard Butler) in the movie P.S. I Love You.

Cowgirl! Womxn, What little things do you like to do when you're riding?

Cabsmom comments on May 2, 2019:

I like to gyrate my hips...lol. I like to reach back and play with his balls. I like for him to squeeze my boobs or suck on them and kiss sometimes.

How do you feel about pet names early on?

Cabsmom comments on May 10, 2019:

I feel weird about that also. I finally put that I don't want that right away in my profile. I did that after a man called me an upright hag after I asked him to not call me baby.

Suede larb jeebus, a friend just messaged me, said she "read my cards," and doesn't trust my new ...

Cabsmom comments on May 13, 2019:

Oh my goodness...that's insane!

Is it just me or everyone breaking up or getting divorced?

Cabsmom comments on May 13, 2019:

Well, it seems to be the way things have been for quite a while. More than 50% of marriages fail from what I've heard. Probably the percentages are higher.

What was your most enjoyable dream?

Cabsmom comments on May 15, 2019:

My most enjoyable ones have been sexual in nature...lol. My worst nightmare? In the nightmare a couple who I know in real life lost two of their children due to a flood. It was incredibly sad and felt real. I have continued dreams, but I don't think I made it happen.

Good morning! It was a long busy weekend at the Toastmasters conference, and we had a great time ...

Cabsmom comments on May 20, 2019:

Laughter Sharing Concern Love Joy Brutal honesty (only when needed)

Hi all .

Cabsmom comments on May 29, 2019:

Good overall. I have a little anxiety, but that is my "normal." It's at a very manageable level...😀.

Sorry for my absence from the site but Aunt Mary’s been busy.

Cabsmom comments on Jun 3, 2019:

I'm so glad he's ok.

How many of you that have been previously divorced are confident you will not get married again(even...

Cabsmom comments on Jun 4, 2019:

Never been married...don't see any reason to, but who knows? It will only be after living with someone a long time though.

Good morning! Today's question: are you watching any of the Women's Soccer World Championship?

Cabsmom comments on Jun 8, 2019:

No...I rarely watch any sports.

Does anyone else hate the phrase "I love you" ?

Cabsmom comments on Jun 8, 2019:

I like "I love you" if it's sincere. However, it does need action to back it up. If I had to choose to hear the phrase without any real demonstration or have it shown to me without the phrase, I'd gladly choose the latter. I like compliments if they are sincere. I get what you're saying though. One of the best compliments at work IMO is of the bosses leave me alone because they know I'll do a great job. There are ways too show appreciation without just outright saying it also.

Good afternoon, everyone! It's a super rainy day here .

Cabsmom comments on Jun 9, 2019:

Pink and cobalt blue

Let's go back in time👍😊

Cabsmom comments on Jun 15, 2019:

It depends...smoking pot with friends or sitting at home doing nothing.

Have you.....

Cabsmom comments on Jun 16, 2019:

Yes!

What would you have said?

Cabsmom comments on Jun 16, 2019:

I think we have to pick our battles. I had a woman offer to pray for my son. I didn't argue or even say I wad an atheist. I didn't know her.

Today I learned that I am a sexual deviant - but not in the way I thought.

Cabsmom comments on Jun 29, 2019:

I prefer to wait until the 3rd -4th date/meet up.

Pussy is the definition of Umami to me.

Cabsmom comments on Jun 29, 2019:

Being a straight woman....I just don't see the beauty in the female genitalia. It looks weird to me.

Deadly combination.

Cabsmom comments on Jun 30, 2019:

That's me...mostly

Informal poll about ghosting:

Cabsmom comments on Jul 1, 2019:

Too many reasons to narrow it down. I figure it could be that they aren't interested. It could be that they found someone else. It could be that they feel insecure and chickened out. ETC

Ladies, don’t be afraid to get on top...

Cabsmom comments on Jul 6, 2019:

I'm not afraid. I love being on top.

So, I've started going on dates.

Cabsmom comments on Jul 10, 2019:

If there is any kind of interest...intellectual, whatever, I'd probably go out on a few dates and see what can develop. I have stopped dating for a while because I wasn't interested in any men or the ones I was interested in ghosted me or lived too far away, etc. It's frustrating to go out with quite a few people and go home and just feel "meh."

So, I've started going on dates.

Cabsmom comments on Jul 10, 2019:

One of my problems Now that I've had STRONG chemistry with someone... it's hard to settle for anything less.

I've noticed most people have a "button".

Cabsmom comments on Jul 16, 2019:

Kissing my neck Touching/kissing my left nipple

Hello wonderful deviants! What sexy plans do you have for this weekend?

Cabsmom comments on Jul 20, 2019:

Nothing... I'm picky and no one I would like to hook up with is available. It's a short list...maybe 2 people.

Question: How sensitive are your nipples?

Cabsmom comments on Jul 20, 2019:

My left one is one of the most sexually sensitive spots on my body. I was with a man that knew that. He was sitting in the couch and we were just talking. He reached in my bra and touched my left nipple. I literally forgot what I was talking about. 😈 My right one is sensitive after I'm aroused, but nothing like the left one. I swear my left one's nerves are connected to my clitoris or something.

Question: Sexual positions are for practical purposes endless (at least 700 variations).

Cabsmom comments on Jul 20, 2019:

I prefer face to face positions, but enjoy all that I'm able to do. I think my favorite is me one top and he is sitting up.

This is a rant .

Cabsmom comments on Jul 20, 2019:

OMG ...yes! Not here, but on other dating sites I always said I was an atheist and said I didn't want ANYTHING to do with religion. Then I would get messages from men looking for a god fearing woman.

My apologies if this has come up before. Is there such a person as a soulmate?

Cabsmom comments on Jul 20, 2019:

It depends on what you mean. I think some couples are so well connected...."in love"... and everything, that I see no problem with the term soul mate. What I do have a problem with is the idea that there is only one possible match for everyone that would meet this criteria.

Sooo.

Cabsmom comments on Jul 23, 2019:

I got so used to being single that I'm not navigating the dating scene very well. It stresses me out. After 20 plus years of not dating (really!) I decided to start back about a year and a half ago. Now, I'm in a place where I REALLY want a significant other. I want someone to cuddle with, talk to, have sex with, and share intimate details of my life with.

Good morning! Yes, I did sleep in, and am still slowly waking up .

Cabsmom comments on Jul 27, 2019:

Yes, a friend I met at a job when I was 19 (I think). She and I lived together and laughed many times together. We bonded almost instantly. She got married and divorced and remarried and had children, etc. I had my son and got busy raising him and working. She had moved a few hours away. Nothing bad happened...just time and distance. We reconnected and while it's great, we still don't talk much. She's not great about messaging back and I'm not going to beg for attention. When we do get together it's great and like no time had passed. So...it's mixed. Another friend, a man I've been friends with for over 25 years reconnected a few years ago. He's married so I visit him and his wife. She and I have become friends. I visit them 4-6 times a year. I go there because she is disabled AND I don't want her to feel any jealousy that her husband had a female friend.

So i posted about a casual relationship here and in another group on FB.

Cabsmom comments on Jul 29, 2019:

One of the admins in that FB group removed the rude person.

What makes you feel sexy? This question is for men or women....

Cabsmom comments on Jul 31, 2019:

I feel sexy when a man expresses that he's interested in me. It's even better when I'm interested in them. I feel especially sexy with loving touches ang kisses and more from a partner.

It's okay to be different. Agree/Disagree?

Cabsmom comments on Jul 31, 2019:

It better be because I am different.

Hey everybody! Here's something super sexy I read today.

Cabsmom comments on Jul 31, 2019:

Sounds intriguing

My 129 days of unwanted celibacy ended yesterday.

Cabsmom comments on Aug 3, 2019:

I understand the need to share. I have shared in the past. It was in June after 4 1/2 months of nothing.

Different folks , have different ideas , about dating and sex , some expecting immediate degrees of ...

Cabsmom comments on Aug 5, 2019:

I got tested twice in the past year. Once just to make sure. The other time I was concerned...I tested clean. It was most likely a yeast infection that was a little stubborn. I was worried because I had unprotected sex. So...my new thing is be up front. Once sex comes up, the subject of condoms come up. After more time goes by...if they test clean and I trust them...then we can go without condoms.

Question: For both guys and gals - Do you prefer a circumcised penis or uncircumcised penis?

Cabsmom comments on Aug 9, 2019:

I've only been with circumcised. I wouldn't care in the end if it's clean.

"Are You Pretty Enough For Him?

Cabsmom comments on Aug 13, 2019:

The last guy I dated made me feel beautiful and I didn't even mind him seeing all of me with the lights on. That is one standard I have for myself. I won't have sex/date someone who doesn't make me feel attractive. I found him to be incredibly sexy also. He doesn't think he is. I think when having chemistry also helps.

I never know what or how much is going to come out of me when I start writing to something that has ...

Cabsmom comments on Aug 16, 2019:

For me I don't need a great established friendship first. I do need chairs m chemistry for great sex. The better the chemistry-the better the sex. The best sex I had was on the 4th date (using that term lightly) and I didn't know him before hand. I felt very close to him, but that may have been just lust...but we didn't know a lot about each other.

Pet peeve time.

Cabsmom comments on Aug 18, 2019:

I don't think it's necessarily a waste of time and resources. Hobbies can be very therapeutic. I like to make quilts. It takes quite a bit of money for just the fabric and a LOT of time. It's mental therapy. It's peaceful. I could easily buy a quilt or other type of blanket, but I choose to make them.

Why do we desire and seek a romantic, intimate relationship with the opposite sex full well knowing ...

Cabsmom comments on Aug 19, 2019:

I pondered that after a heart break earlier this year. At one point I wished I had never met him. Now, I'm grateful I did even though I suffered because it didn't work out. The pain was gut wrenching. I still feel sadness when I think of him, but I'm not sobbing and feeling like I'm breaking. I think I'll always feel something for him. He was my first and only heartbreak...yes, at 49 years old. The crazy thing is he didn't do anything wrong. I wanted something more serious. He didn't. I have fond memories...