Something else I've learned is that putting myself out there for someone to fall in love with me isn't necessarily going to make me happy. In fact, if it's not mutual, it can lead to misery, from my experience anyway.
I would so much rather be in love with someone, even if it wasn't mutual, than to have someone be in love with me. I don't see a mutual love in my future, and so for that I'm glad I'm an introvert.
In my 66 years of life on earth, most of my problems have occurred because of a man being in love with me, when the feeling wasn't mutual, and I wasn't strong enough to speak up and get them successfully to leave me alone.
So, I am no longer pining for a love. I will continue doing things I enjoy doing, alone or with others, and if a mutual love occurs, then great. If not, I'm still enjoying myself.
Glad I'm not looking for love, since I spend a lot of time at home alone. But I do remember when I was dreaming of love, yet not really willing to go out and let it find me, due to shyness. Now, I just go out by myself and am happy to make acquaintances, but am sticking to my resolve not to complicate my life with a relationship right now.
With a spike in covid cases in my community, it's finally is paying off being an introvert and enjoying my staying in while everyone else is out having fun!
no sweat, Sweetie. your guy will come along someday
Yes I too like the greenery in your bedroom. If We got the whole membership of this site to follow the declaration of love below would that help.?
I am sure you are capable of action about your problem. Results will only come if you select a few suitable candidates for deeper love, AND make your selections in order AND try out your favors on them. You have made a start,
With love and Luck , both of which are very precarious.
Bedroom? Looks like a park bench. Homeless? Anyway its working. I love you.
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Posted by AppleriverCame across this and I really liked it. It’s spot on for me for the most part
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Posted by AppleriverI really hated this in school. I worked so much better on my own. lol
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