I do not have a personal relationship with God. For a lot of years, I thought maybe I was lacking something others seemed to have built in--then I realized what it was: delusional thinking. I am neither delusional nor particularly gullible. That's more than okay I think. I'm not going to insist there is no God. How the hell would I know? I don't actually dispute the existence of God, I more dispute the belief that, if God exists at all, mankind has any kind of clue about what God is like, what God thinks, or what God wants. Seems pretty presumptuous at best (and delusional at its worst). There you have it. That's where I'm at.
I guess i should add some other stuff about me besides my lack of faith. lol.
I've been single for a long time. My last relationship was about 6 or 7 years ago. That seems like a long time when i write it out like that, but it hasn't been a period of horrible, aching loneliness. I'm neither lonely or unhappy. If i'm going to have a relationship with a man, it's going to have to be a really good one with lots in common, a strong physical compatibility, and very little drama and negativity. I'm very independent. I can entertain myself. I paint. I sculpt. I sing. I have a guitar that i really need to play more often because i've gotten very rusty.
I like road trips. I like any kind of travel really. It doesn't have to be to an exotic place (although i do have a current passport).
I'd like to branch out a little from my current social circle, which is busy, but mostly includes my immediate family and grandchildren (I adore my 3 grandsons and am very involved with them). They aren't that much fun on long road trips though. Them bickering and goofing off in the backseat can make you want to drive off a mountain. lol.
Looking for someone to compliment my lifestyle, not take it over. Someone who can mesh with my family and doesn't think they're going to get me all to themselves.
Also... i don't rush head first into things. I'm a slow mover if you're looking at me from the dating/relationship angle, but I'm also here for the community.