Hello friends I live in Benin and have spent the rest of my life in Canada !!!
Welcome (provisionally, as I mention in one of my replies to a comment below; we do have a lot of trolling from believers and a lot of scammers here and you potentially fit that profile, so please understand why some people don't react well to you joining).
I suggest you fill out your bio more completely and participate and respond politely and genuinely with others in conversation threads here and you'll be (mostly) accepted by other members.
Be particularly respectful to the women, who get hit on a lot by foreign men who are just scammers.