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Do you prefer dating other introverts?

i tend to enjoy the company of other introverts, but wonder if someone a bit more extroverted would be a better balance.
thoughts?

outlier8 5 Sep 6
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I prefer dating other introverts because I feel less judged and less pressure to engage in performative socializing. That said, dating someone a little more introverted gets me out of my comfort zone in a healthy way.

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I used to think that to until I dated another introvert. I prefer it now. An extrovert will always make me feel infrior, like a shy little kid that needs help. Like they were better. With someone similar I am more myself. I don't need someone to make me go out more. I need someone who doesn't like going out either. That way neither of us are holding the other back, or making the other do things they are not comfortable with. When we do go out we are more understanding of each other and enjoy ourselves more.

MsAl Level 8 Sep 7, 2018
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I've never really thought about it. Balance is good but like mindedness is great as well. I guess I'd just have to wait and see.

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While it is easier to engage extroverts initially, for the long term, I think I'd get along better with an intro. But I think it could work with either.

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I think I prefer introverts but seem to attract extroverts.

Booklover Level 7 Sep 6, 2018

@Paracosm I think it's because they like to talk. I listen. ?‍♀️

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I definitely do better with other introverts. I'm not nearly as socially inept (I may not be at all, but it's a sliding scale I suppose) as I used to be, but like Dan said below, extroverts are more likely to be engaging other people or be more interested in doing social things, while I would like to unwind at home.

shayne69 Level 6 Sep 6, 2018
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I think it's helpful at first but once a person becomes comfortable with you then those labels don't really apply, in my opinion

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I am an introvert but not socially inept!

bubaj50 Level 7 Sep 6, 2018
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I want to be at least included in conversations.

bubaj50 Level 7 Sep 6, 2018
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I get along with anybody except” loud mouths”!

bubaj50 Level 7 Sep 6, 2018
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They say opposites attract....

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I like intros

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