I always thought BDSM was short for 'how to achieve enlightenment' ....BuDdhiSM anyone?

@Philip21 try wiki: [en.m.wikipedia.org] In the Buddhist humour group on FB there was a post a while back: remember bdsm is not short for Buddhism, so I kind of feel like you’re yanking my chain lols.

@girlwithsmiles Many BDSM activities might not involve any kind of pain or humiliation, but just the exchange of power and control.[25] During the activities, the practitioners may feel endorphins comparable to the so-called "runner's high" or to the afterglow of orgasm.[29] The corresponding trance-like mental state is also known as "subspace" for the submissive, or "topspace"

@Philip21 care factor 0% I just thought you’d got the 2 mixed up, I have no interesting in discussing bdsm with you. FYI I also understand the distinction between suppression and self control, lols. All the best.