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Houston, USA

Atheist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Antitheist
Joined April 3
Open to meeting women

Intp going to school for industrial deign. I like woodworking and computers.

Only if your an atheist

Iowa, USA

Agnostic, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Joined January 14
Here for community

Hello! I am what most people would refer to as a lapsed Roman Catholic. I don't know if any of my siblings are religious any more. I haven't asked and won't. Grew up on a hobby farm in Minnesota until I was about 12 then the farm crisis hit and we moved. Been a city girl ever since. I occassionly miss the quiet and greenery of the country so I go to a park and walk. I enjoy - live music preferably in a venue with the options to dance and drink; Other live performance art as well - circ's, plays, musicals, and ballet - not a big fan of opera or orchestral performances though I do enjoy classical music; books: in the general scifi region with an occasional non-fiction, I am no scholar but I love the tragedies of Shakespeare and seeing how they still influence modern entertainment; gardens with lots of flowers and vegetables; art - everything up through most cubism - modern canvases of solid colors are pointless to me and a stack of colored vacuum cleaners, while interesting, is not well... inspiring... An exception, because there is always one ;), recently saw a display from an artist, don't recall her name, took standard items like table, ladder, or chair and added various sizes of rather phallic looking tubes to the item till it was mostly obscured and then painted the entirety white. It was interesting and I am glad they included some discription of what the artist intended to convey because I wasn't sure what was going on. It stuck me as more of 'a nature reclaiming our creations' that however was not her intent. Oh well. photography - digital photos of whatever catches my eye - old cars, cool buildings, landscapes, bugs, flowers - the normal stuff :); travel to all sort of places by car, train, or plane - boats make me slightly nauseous :( ... love swimming in the ocean and enjoy canoes - I have often thought rafting down the Colorado river would be fun but not so sure now, I miss being in the mountains and snow ball fights in July at the higher elevations when I was a kid, I haven't been to a desert yet; movies - especially by Mel Brooks, Monty Python, most Marvel, James Bond, a good swath of Simon Pegg (Paul, Shawn of the Dead, etc.), Sean Connery (the Rock, the Name of the Rose, etc.) and more including the occasional romance like RED; I am also a minor Ren Faire junky. I love the pageantry and the history of the events. I say minor because I have a highly historically inaccurate costume that I love that is far from complete but I enjoy dressing as I wish and enjoying the spectical once a year. [I wonder if anyone has found the max limit for this window]. I am in the process of trying to live a healthier life and see where that takes me! ....there is more but drawing a blank for now.

Music and books!

Florida, USA

Joined April 6
Open to meeting women

Have four kids, love to cook, intelligent conversations, no drinking, smoking, or drugs...Finished my first book length project titled FOR REASONS BEYOND CONTROL -copyrighted- And yes, my status reads complicated because I still share the same house with my kid's mother. I am however, a writer who is searching for passion, sense of humor, uninhibitedness, intelligence, friendship, just to name a few... And if you support the current administration, stay away from me, I don't like you, I don't respect you, and you will only receive derision from me...

Because we are Americans and we stand with America...called patriotism...

Texas, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Spiritual, Believer, Religious, Antitheist
Joined July 13
Open to meeting women

This is a brainteaser!! At the age 83 i got married to my ex, he had 24 horses which was taken care by his nephew who was 81 years old. His nephew took 59 horses without his notice and returned 20 back home this resulted him for his high blood pressure that lead him to his death!!. Put this together and hit me up so that we get to know each other better .. Will be waiting for your text so that we talk much more.....

Texas, USA

Atheist, Humanist, Freethinker
Joined June 19
Open to meeting women

I just saw this one, hahah.
Tennessee, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Joined April 15
Open to meeting women

Hello everyone, thanks for the welcomes. I am new to sites like this one, so it may take a little time to get the flow of things. I have a lot of thoughts running through my head and this site seems like a safe place to share them.

Good morning! Love Joe Cool and Woodstock.

Tennessee, USA

Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Antitheist
Joined July 11
Here for community

Christian from 3 to 39. Formerly AG, SBC, Missionary Alliance, Methodist, Hope Chapel, Calvary Chapel, and Non-denominational. (Had painful 20 year deconversion process that began as I earned my theology degree at CFNI Dallas in the early 90s.) I've been in successful secular therapy for two years for PTSD from childhood, medical/physical trauma and RTS (Religious Trauma Syndrome). Married. Proud momma of two great boys: a teen and a tween. After being a SAHM for 14 years, I'm looking for employment. One thing that I know for sure is that this beautiful life is all that matters, might as well make the best of it. I am strictly here to make friends, and possibly establish business contacts as I return to work.

Aloha! I miss the 808! I lived in Honolulu, Kailua and Wahiawa. We're so glad you are here.

Victoria, Australia

Atheist, Humanist, Skeptic
Joined June 16
Open to meeting women

I'm a scientist and non-believer of more than thirty years standing. Despite this I still think humans need belong something that transcends themselves and I choose our lovely blue planet. I love escape her wild places - that is a true spiritual experience! As you might have guessed, if I believed in a god She would be female. Not here for dating but willing converse on any subject. INTP if that matters. Things I'm into: cooking, home brew, travel, wine, whisky, reading sci-fi and fantasy, running, daydreaming. Can't smile in selfies.

I don't know if it was the right thing to do, but I added my story in 3 parts in the comments of my earlier post. Enjoy!

Alabama, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Joined June 28
Open to meeting women

Liberal, secular. I'm fairly new to atheism, and I'm looking for friends to help me along that path. I was Christian for about 20 years, and then wiccan/pagan for about 20 years after that. Recently disillusioned with all religion and spirituality. I am physically disabled, and use a wheelchair to get around. That's the least interesting thing about me, though. Ask me about non profit work, my travels, or my fiction and fantasy writing instead. More about me on, where I also blog about being good for no good reason.

The Art of Living by Thich Nhat Hanh.


Agnostic, Humanist, Secularist, Freethinker, Antitheist
Joined July 15
Open to meeting men

In the field of education. Grew up in NYC. I have many concerns about where we are going as a country and religion is at the top of the list!

Does anybody else hate automatic flushing toilets?

LOL! We put tape over the sensors at work so put students don t get scared. I am not too crazy about them either.
North Carolina, USA

Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Joined July 17
Open to meeting women

I have a Ph.D. in history, read multiple languages, and have traveled often. I am an educator and an author. This site seems like an excellent place for someone who loves to engage with ideas without settling for conventions and conventional ideas.

As a baseball fan, I am surprised. We are now inverting, so that it is it.

Mississippi, USA

Agnostic, Humanist, Secularist, Freethinker
Joined March 4
Open to meeting men

When you live in the bible belt it's very hard to find anyone with whom you can have a conversation that doesn't revolve around religion. I can't be myself and express my opinions. I hope I can find that in this group.

If you could only pick one...

Being unkind to others is always a big issue for me.
Texas, USA

Joined July 17
Open to meeting women

I believe my life is a spiritual journey, I’m looking to meet someone I can share my life with.


Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Joined January 15
Open to meeting women

I'm retired now and building a house for a hobby. Widower, veteran, house mover, 3 1/2 dogs owner. I crack me up. You guys worry too much. Get out have some fun. Now I help people that are willing to WORK get free houses for themselves. A crash course trade school and for graduation you get to keep the house. Anonbene is for anonymous benefactor, it's my other hobby. As we are all adults here and honesty is valued. I need to clear something up. Yes, I'm interested in meeting women, plural. I'm a very happy widower now and date women, plural. Dinner and orgasms. One of my lady friends wants to try being with a woman for the first time if that is something you're interested in.

Why are you people wishing for these things and not out doing them?

Pennsylvania, USA

Agnostic, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Spiritual
Joined July 4
Open to meeting men

I love politics, movies, music, cooking and growing things. I write poetry and make my own soap.

Good morning. Drinking coffee!

Sherman, USA

Agnostic, Skeptic, Spiritual
Joined December 23
Open to meeting women

DWM, Bruised, used and abused (metaphorically). Recovered /recovering from that. Addicted to TV and the Internet. Too many dogs and cats, but they love me, so what-the-hey. If there's a god, not sure he/she/it takes an active role except with all the circular systems that are all around us. There are possibly spirits, ghost, big foot, aliens. All or none.

Vagina talk. It's been my experience that I get a cool reception if I talk vagina too soon. Supposedly things need to flow naturally. So to speak. As it were.

Kent, UK

Joined June 5
Here for community

I left school at 18, nearly went to College but decide to stark work. Worked in a bank in London for 19 years then took voluntary redundancy and found a job local to where I live. Now retired but have been guardian to Chinese student who are at boarding school in the UK. My wife is also Chinese but now spends a lot of time in China with her family.

What’s the worst or most boring job you’ve ever had?

I used to be a toll collector, not really boring, it was too busy to be that,just very repetitive. Have seen the entire spectrum of humanity pass through, though!
New York, USA

Joined June 13
Here for community

Here to find other atheist friends. I am a very open person. The friends I do have, say I have no filter. I'm extremely random and clumsy. My life goal is to make it to all 50 states. I've been to 12 states so far. Feel free to introduce yourself. For locals I started a facebook group. Message me if you're interested in joining.

How happy are you with your own body?

Even when I was thin I never liked my body.
Missouri, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Joined July 7
Open to meeting women

To sum it all up... I’m a Certified Medical Assistant, Movie Enthusiasts, Dc/Marvel fan, Minimalist, Geek, Coffee Addicted (ha), Hammocker, Camper, Vanlife, former Boy Scout Leader, former mobile Disc Jockey,Technology Enthusiasts, 1st Degree Black Belt in TKD, Photographer, Videographer, & I am a Youtuber - Reactor & Vlogger. AND I’M SINGLE. (Insert laughter here!) Way tooo many interests & hobbies to list in this box.

I can have an opened-mind & see the pros & cons of polyamory.

San Angelo, USA

Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Joined January 24
Open to meeting men, women, trans men, trans women, genderfluids and others

“Out for my own, out to be free One with my mind, they just can't see No need to hear things that they say Life's for my own, to live my own way,” Escape by Metallica I enjoy traveling, music, games, books and eating. I bet you can’t guess my favorite color or my favorite band. I’m a Humanist with a dash of Epicureanism. I just want to enjoy life with those I love. Pretty much looking for someone who I can share this existence with. Own an XBox? My Gamer Tag is Scott Sackett (Thats my mother and sister in the photos.)

Hercules, Lilo & Stitch and Hotwhees: World Race.

Fairfield County, USA

Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Antitheist
Joined December 10
Here for community

Hi there. I have been an Atheist for 31 years now. Wasn't even aware of an Atheist/Agnostic community - just being me. I'm a loner; here to attempt something new. Taking my crazy out for a walk if you will. I've been on here for a while and met people that have had a very real impact on me. It's all good :) I am a reader. Modern classics are a favorite. Beat era poetry is a love of mine. I am a gardener. No veggies! My gardens are tended to bring beauty and delight and give respite to the urban wildlife. I am a music lover - industrial, punk, jazz, ska, blues. I dance daily. No exceptions. I keep snakes, lizards, turtles; a passion I share with my son. Humor is my main form of communication. Not a jokester; a kind humorist. I need to smile, I want to make YOU smile. Contrary to recent reports I aver that life is, in fact, good. If you are literal minded, humorless, arrogant, bigoted, racist - Kindly move along. I have nothing for you. Damn! Now you know way too much about me... Be kind ;) ....Oh! And my favorite band...Play it LOUD.

I also hear a lot of insincere or rude 'compliments'. They are almost always obvious. I can spot a guy with an agenda easily. @hankster was spot on with his assessment. Going too far for me would be getting in my personal space, touching, and any hint of leering. There are plenty of men who are fans of we who are less than 'perfect'; connecting means we have to lower our fists sometimes and be able to recognize sincerity.

Fountain Hills, AZ (85268), USA

Agnostic, Secularist
Joined December 23
Open to meeting women

HI! Traveling is my passion (have been to over 25 different countries). I like to laugh (unlike most people :) ), dance and take long walks on the beach. Watching paint dry would be fun with the right person. Your intelligence, quick wit and playfulness multiplies your attractiveness to me. We need to live/work relatively near each other so we can see each other regularly. You'll find that you can always count on me and know that I'll always have your back. Originally from Detroit, I'm a successful attorney and was a prosecutor for 20 years. On the side I combine my legal and real estate licenses as "Your Attorney Real Estate Agent." I donate time to ASU law school judging various competitions. I'm allergic to cats. I'm looking for six simple attributes in my companion (in no particular order) and to be read with a sense of humor (because if you don't have one you're already in the hole): 1. Brain in head 2. Considerate 3. Sense of humor 4. Sports tolerant (I'm not a fanatic but I like to follow my teams and there are only a handful of games I must watch each year) 5. A social conscience 6. Attractive (to me of course, on the thinner side) Wish list: If you can even name a comedian (living) you get extra points :) If you're interested, please reach out, even if you're shy. I'll take it from there :) By the way, if you're happy with the job being done by the current U.S. president , I've got some lake bottom property to sell you. p.s I'm really a large t-shirt but since if I ever make it to the 7th level the t-shirt you get is all cotton, it will shrink :)

Very first concert you attended?

Loggins & Messina with Jim Croce warming up for them, a month before he died
Tennessee, USA

Joined July 7
Open to meeting men

I am a big believer in discovering your own truth; life is by no means a "one size fits all" journey. I want to always be open to learning...for this is the path of awakening, viewing each moment as a new opportunity for personal growth.

Very first concert you attended?

I snuck out of the house at 15 to attend a Rick James concert in a neighboring city. I was never "caught"- so much fun!
Pennsylvania, USA

Agnostic, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Joined May 12
Open to meeting women

A gentleman. Kind, sensitive. Minimalist. Progressive but not muddle-headed. Intellectually curious with a wide range of interests. Driven, focused, ambitious but also humble and tolerant. Thoughtful. Sense of humor, often laugh at myself and others. Playful, can be irreverent even silly at times. Good food with a strong preference for local/organic/keto. Rarely consume fast or industrial food, dislike anything corporate. Knowledgeable about nutrition and somewhat serious about it. Enjoy any activity involving outdoor movement, music especially jazz. Exercise regularly-kettlebells, HIIT, active, not a couch dweller. Skeptical in the sense of thoughtful and inquiring. Not a "thing" person. I have been a minimalsit since well before it became trendy. If you ask me "What are your favorite things?" I will answer: My favorite things are not things: Dreaming the fire. A grandmother's love. A child's laughter. A baby's giggle. The smell of a rose. The scent of a woman. Vijay Iyer. A-ha moments. Artisans. Modern architecture. Brain Pickings. Tadao Ando.

GF gets mad at me tells me to go back to my place. Calls two days later around 9:00 PM "What are you doing?" "Nothing." "If you want to spend the night you may. But no sex." "Ok, be right over." In bed, I hug her. Gently, oh-so-tenderly kiss her shoulder. She shuddered, the most intense surge of non-orgasm off-the-charts-never-experienced-anything-like-it sexual energy I've ever seen. Fast forward.She had multiple orgasms, some she nearly passed out. I had the most intense orgasm of my now 63-year life. There was a god that night. We made it.

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