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Grand Haven, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Here for community

I was brought up Christian Reformed, which is an offshoot of Calvinism. I began to look into the concept of Free Will after someone told me the old bromide "It's all part of God's plan". After about a year of intense reading and studying what I believed, I came to the conclusion that I was atheist.

I'm currently living my last 5 year plan. My new 5 year plan is to own a boat. Best part is that I'll be 41yo in 5 years, so everyone will think it's a midlife crisis.

Indiana, USA

Agnostic, Humanist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Spiritual
Open to meeting men

Why Post Pics With Your Kids on a Dating Site?
I did when I first joined sites because I thought the pic of me with them was a good pic but then thought better not to. I have all adult daughter's and I am very protective of them. There are a lot of creeps on those sites and now I don't. Also it's one thing to out our own on them but do we really have permission to but another person's pic on there. Just a moral thing not to and children should never go on them. Too risky
Minnesota, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Antitheist
Open to meeting women

Getting out of very long term relationship/marriage and am searching for physical and emotional intimacy as well as friends. Questioning almost everything about relationships right now so can't promise anything long term. Will always be respectful and honest and expect that of you too. Self-awareness and emotional health/intelligence very important. Ability to let loose and have fun a must. I try to be very physically active and hope you are too. I like cats and yes, I am a serious lifter: at least as much as my old joints let me. :)Science Fiction/Fantasy fans a plus. Politically left-leaning very important.

This is excellent!

British Columbia, Canada

Open to meeting women

I’m looking for a friend to share stories with, cuddle, and build intimacy. If you’re interested in going on dates, discuss mathematics, politics, playing chess, cooking together, and sharing movies/art/books hit me up Alternatively, I'm not interested in one night stands

Do you feel optimistic about the future??

no! there is not even present
Wimberley Tx, USA

Agnostic, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Antitheist
Open to meeting women

I am a liberal semi-retired musician. I love animals, art, music, nature ( I don't camp, having a fondness for indoor plumbing). I paint a little. I enjoy interior design. I have spent most of my life playing music for a living, about 25 years of that on and off the road. I still play 5 or 6 nights a month. Meeting someone on this site would be nice, but it is not the only reason l am on this site.

Not mine.. We did have stationwagon with a rear facing back seat.

Marshall, USA

Atheist, Humanist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Open to meeting men

North Carolina, USA

Agnostic, Secularist, Freethinker, Spiritual
Open to meeting women

I'll be honest, I don't like crafting profiles. I always feel very awkward trying to compress myself down into a tiny box. I was born in Louisiana and raised in the mountains of NC. I was never particularly religious to begin with, but I am by nature academic and value science, and the antagonistic relationship between religion and science, and the resulting social manifestations in socially isolated rural parts of the Bible Belt and Deep South, made organized religion an unappealing prospect. As a subject of study, however, religion and all that comes with it is absolutely fascinating. I am open to the idea of some heretofore imperceptible cosmic controlling force, and I am open to the idea that the technological and perceptive capabilities of humanity may one day transcend their current limitations and reveal any number of things. Until such time, however, I'll put my money on science. I write. I'm learning music and music theory, among other things. I believe very strongly in making the acquisition of new knowledge a priority. I love video games and i've spent most of my life around computers. I enjoy tabletop gaming but it's always so hard to find people. If I tried to talk about my taste in music or books or movies or television it would take an hour to read, but here are the broad strokes: Music: just between the years of 1999 and 2001 I bought and lost (left my CD case on the roof of my car when I was leaving school) and bought and lost something to the tune (ha ha!) of 250 CDs. I love music LIKE THAT. Movies: I took a class in college called 'Masterpieces of Cinema' and I was one of the two people in the class who weren't just taking the class to slack off and watch movies. We purposefully sat across the auditorium from each other so we wouldn't disrupt the teacher chattering between ourselves. She still had to ask us to shut up during midterm review because we were dominating the session. She apologized after class, and we both laughed and told her we'd been expecting it far earlier in the semester. I love movies LIKE THAT. Television: My current major fandoms are Venture Brothers, Archer, and Bob's Burgers, and i'll usually give something Chuck Lorre produces at least an honest try. I believe Young Sheldon is an excellent extension of Big Bang Theory, which is wonderful but nearing it's end. The current popular trends of schadenfreude drama, reality shows/docudramedies and celebrity narcissism programming don't really interest me. I particularly love the 'Saturday Morning Fun Pit' episode of Futurama because during the framing vignettes it masterfully presents the viewer with an incredibly accurate picture of the public opinion of children's programming from the days of Hanna Barbara all the way through the GI Joe years and how parents kept putting pressure on the government to intercede. I love TV LIKE THAT. Books: In terms of fiction, I enjoy spec-fic most of all. I tend to prefer fantasy over sci-fi, and while I don't read really horror I like dark fantasy and I adore Lovecraft. I had the good fortune of meeting CJ Henderson before he passed, and as a fan of Lovecraft he's one of those legacy authors that captivated the hearts of the fandom. In terms of nonfiction I like books that can teach me skills or provide similar tangible benefits, but I also like reading philosophy and history. Mythology and folklore are a lifelong passion. I also do a lot of random research about any possible subject. I love reading get the idea. I find it difficult to truly engage communities and people in numbers, and I tend to keep to myself for the most part. I'm not anti-social so much as socially avoidant. I'm usually willing to engage in conversation, and on an individual basis I find people interesting and enjoyable. I don't always make a good first impression; I'm often prone to either clam up, in which case I seem aloof, or I chatter nonstop and seem like an idiot. Poly RationaI Existentialist / Zen Nihilist BA in Cultural Anthropology -NFJ

At what age did you realize the Earth wasn't flat?

I never thought the earth was flat. My dad was a high school biology/chemistry/anatomy teacher so I was taught the scientific explanations for everything growing up.
Searcy, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Freethinker
Open to meeting men and women

West coast heathen living in the bible belt. Secular charity organizer. Mom. Trekker. Human (who sometimes wishes she could be an android because feelings suck).

I have said "we both know that's not the case" MANY times. Because they know better than that, and I know that they know better than that.

Merrimack, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Here for community

Hi everyone out there I am a liberal political junkie and a trivia buff. I'm all inclusive and like the people in my life to be open-minded.. I do not believe in organized religion.. I believe diversity makes us stronger. Very concerned about the social and political environment of this administration. My friends would describe me as independent, spontaneous, sexual, adventurous and spicy. I've met someone here that I really connected with and we're starting something wonderful. I am the owner and moderator of 2 groups -Cancer Survivors and Singles Group. I also participate and moderate Kindling and 20 other groups. I run the Trivia Night Contests as well. I love music-live and recorded, enjoy travel and outdoor activities such as motorcycling, sailing, kayaking, hiking,and horseback riding.. Thanks and take care.

We have a member here who was/is incarcerated.

Illinois, USA

Agnostic, Skeptic
Open to meeting men

Hi. My name is Char. I'm single, agnostic, liberal of politics, honest, pretty straight forward most of time and happy with my life. My non-religion does not loom large in my life. It's just part of who I am. I live with my dog in a pretty little house in an old but nice neighborhood. I enjoy my home, my dog, camping, good conversation and some occasional inane banter with a willing partner. So far, I'm enjoying this site and look forward to more interaction.


Michigan, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Open to meeting women

Tinder has a lot of fucking christians on it lol. They're everywhere!! 😂😂😂 anyways. Here i am. My name is Kraig. Im in the Local 58 union (telecom) since 2001. I live with my mother (dont be weird about it) just looking for concert goer that wouldnt mind catching a few shows this summer. Or just to shoot the shit, hang out, go to the movies with.

Washington, USA

Agnostic, Humanist, Secularist, Freethinker
Here for community

I will make my way into your heart... then slowly devour it. But don't let that scare you! I'm a super sweet PTA mom!! Native Pacific northwest gal here. I love my city! Im in sales and am a professional temporary body artist. (Face paint, body art and henna.) I love to create and I love people!

Way to go!!!!

New South Wales, Australia

Agnostic, Atheist
Open to meeting women

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California, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Open to meeting women

Hello atheist friends, I’m here at first and foremost to make friends and to socialize with people of my tribe – smart, rational, freethinking folks. If I should connect with someone special, well, that’s just the icing on the cake. I realize that this site is geared more towards fun and spirited discussions about everything under the sun; and that the dating thing is really an afterthought, because realistically, our membership isn’t large enough to support that purpose. That said, the idea of meeting someone romantically here is an intriguing thought and so I will pen a dating profile in pursuit of that goal. For the men reading this, here is where we say good bye, because it would be very weird for you to read my dating profile – it’s meant for ladies only. **Dating Profile** The dating profile conundrum: write too little and you seem dim-witted, write too much and you seem to have no life. In the interest of saving time for both of us and to appear halfway smart, I present you my abbreviated but lengthy profile. This is me in a nutshell: not married, not serial dating, not playing games, not wife beater, not child abuser, not pedophile, not ex-felon, not alcoholic, not drug addict, have career, have house, have vehicle, have nice shoes, have hobbies, have interests, have pets, great friend, great father, great communicator, great sense of humor, great cook, physically fit, no terminal illness, no mental illness, no infidelity, no substance abuse, no smoking, no debt, no couch potato, love food, love wine, love outdoors, love exercise, love travel, love music, love theatre, love art, love cats, love dogs, love life, love country, love the environment, love laughter, love romance, great table manners, great bedside manners, great social intuition, not religious, not racist, not homophobic, not xenophobic, not misogynistic, and absolutely positively not deplorable. I am only looking for one terrific lady who will join me in living out the romance in life. We’ll take pleasure in all the fun, sweet things that life has to offer. To me, a good day is when we stroll hand in hand through farmers market, thrift stores and art museums and then consult Yelp for the best ethnic cuisine in town. And to me a good night is when we cook a meal together, dine by candle light and dance the dark while Adele plays on the stereo. Beauty is skin deep so I place a high value on intelligence, a fabulous sense of humor and the ability to communicate. **Geographically speaking** I reside in the high desert of So Cal, however, I have roots in Los Angeles and visit there often. If I just made you smile with this goofy profile, I invite you to message me a hello. I would be delighted in our new found friendship.

So sorry to hear about Fred. I hope you find comfort sharing your stories with us here. Peace.

Florida, USA

Agnostic, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Spiritual, Antitheist
Open to meeting men, women and genderfluids

I don’t know what I believe in. I don’t believe in the Bible. I don’t believe in Jesus. I don’t believe in God. I do believe that there is some sort of higher power. I believe in fate. Serendipity. Coincidences. I believe we’re all brought together for a reason. Be it good, bad, or indifferent.

Thank you for all the supportive words. It’s nice to know I’m not alone in this. And, while I have a very small support system between my immediate family and my very close friends, it’s comforting to know that there are so many people rooting for me. 😊 To those of you that are fighting along with me, please do not hesitate to reach out to me. We are in this together, regardless of the type of cancer and how agressive it is. Cancer does not discriminate and, sometimes, the struggle to survive is more than one can bear. Sending you all lots of good, healing vibes and lots of love too! ❤️❤️❤️

Tennessee, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Antitheist
Here for community

I'm so happy to find a website like this. I just moved here to Tennessee, March 2018, and have not made many friends. I love to sing so I go to karaoke quite a bit, but most of the people in my area are conservative and Christian so it's hard to really connect. I hope I make some new friends on here, whether local or not.... cuz it gets a bit lonely talking to an 8 and 5 year old everyday. Feel free to chat me up...I am an open book. :)

Men's underwear

Commando=easy access. Lol
Kentucky, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Freethinker
Open to meeting women

You can't step into my same bio twice. I ripped that off from Heraclitus. Beware: atrocious grammar ahead lol OMG!! Oh My Galileo!! I'm a Freethinker and a philosopher (one loves wisdom). Don't like a label with a religious word as part of the it (athiest, non believer). I have a very strong intuition. My brain is always thinking about possibilities and how to solve problems. I'm a loving, caring, affectionate, empathetic, honest, loyal, trustworthy, supportive, understanding, positive (not always), humble and smart man with average intelligence lol, with a great sense of humor. I have flaws that I'm working to repair. Sometimes, I have made big mistakes. I wear my heart on my sleeve. My dad has called me a bleeding heart liberal. I wear that badge with honor. I'm a proud lifelong member of the geek squad (not the official one). Loved all the Revenge Of The Nerds movies. lol I truly love all my fellow Geeks, Nerds, Dweebs, Dorks etc. lol I'm a 5'5" man. Do you see that glass half full or half empty? If your a female heightist, then HIT the road. Lol Don't waste my time. If you don't know what heightist means, then now's the time to Google it. Lmao What's under the kilt? For me to know and for women find out. Lol : ) I can be cool and fun as hell with a great female catalyst. Feel free to ask me anything in the comments, through a message. I will answer any question, if I have time. Even the one's you want to ask me, but are afraid to ask. I like the thrill of those the best! I talk about things that other people are afraid to. (1st Amendment) It's ok if you're shy, I'm shy too. You can be yourself with me. There's a very likely that I'll like you just the way you are. I promise I won't bite unless you're into that. Heehee I don't take myself that seriously. I do, when I need to. Unlike some men, I'm not looking for hookups or one night stands. Flirting is nice and fun. I've been known to take it too far, but it's not a relationship. I want to be friends first and see if we have chemistry, similar interests and compatibility. I’m looking for a loving, affectionate, supportive, committed relationship. I miss the love, romance, passion, kissing, hugging, touching, a woman's voice and emotions, knowing she's there, the support, being and traveling together, the affection, snuggling, intimacy, conversation, watching cartoons together, teamwork and fun of a committed, loving relationship.  I’m looking for an outgoing, liberal, freethinking and smart woman with a heart. There are many types of smarts. I know she will make me a better person. I want us to be a strong team, working and playing together. A woman who loves Astronomy, Philosophy, Psychology, 80s+ music and EDM played a little loud like I do, that plays her own electric guitar, rides her own chopper are definite pluses in my wishlist. As a quiet man, I appreciate people who understand the need to relax and recharge. We all have our strengths and types of intelligence: educational, emotional, musical, artistic, people smart, logical, body-kinesthetic (you don't have to be a model or ripped, I like curves too), book and word smart, street smart, etc. I really like outgoing, thinking, feeling, creative and good decision making women who aren't afraid to speak their mind. I'm open to women of any ethnicity. Women are beautiful all over the world. As a Progressive Democrat and a freethinker, I volunteer and vote for candidates I like. With an active mind, I’m good at troubleshooting and fixing things. I’m a better listener than I am at interpersonal communication. Activities I enjoy: cranking up music with electric guitars, watching movies with car chases and romance, adventures, IMAX movies, watching any show about Astronomy or other sciences, watching biographies, learning more philosophy, trying new restaurants and new food, using my smartphone, listening to music, bicycling in parks and nature away from traffic, driving a convertible, classic cars, road trips, walking, talking and laughing with that special someone, art and sculpture, art galleries, indoor or outdoor concerts, festivals and art shows. I'm open to trying almost anything new. I like to do what a woman likes as much as what I like. While I like a spontaneous adventure, I’m also good at planning activities together. I want my friend and special woman to be happy too. Let’s meet at a café for lunch. We can walk along the riverfront or lake. Stroll through an outdoor art show. It’s easy to talk when we’re enjoying those things, nature etc. I love this community! I'm on here to find Ms. Right. I want to be friends first. I know it sounds cheesy, but it's true. : ) Wanna find out more about me? Then read my posts and my comments, unless you're uncomfortable with naughtiness. In that case you shouldn't. Pet peeve: Women that were sunglasses so dark I can't see their beautiful eyes.

Me too. My whole life. People don't like me to "be myself" So I went the longest time not knowing who I was.

Kentucky, USA

Agnostic, Humanist, Secularist, Freethinker
Here for community

I'm Agnostic/Atheist or whatever title you want to give me, not much for titles I joined to have people in my life that were more like minded.I'm not here to find some life partner/wife/girlfriend. But I do have those days when I do want that. I don't think I'm good at it. After having two very wonderful wifes already. So now I'm single again, and have been for the passed 5 years, I seems to suit me the best. I live alone on a big farm with just my dog Thor also my best friend. I enjoy playing music Guitar, banjo and singing. I do it for myself and a few friends and family. I like gardening, A have a fairly large one, I love to get people involved in it where we can work together and share it. I really care about all people, different races, and cultures, I don't understand why people want to hate people that might be different. I've done a lot of things so far with my life, some good and some bad, but I have no real regrets, It's made me who I am and I'm good with that. I also know enough that whatever I believe I'm so right about, I could also be so wrong. There's always something to learn. I like people as a whole, but somethings I can't stand to be around them I'm am more attracted to the kind of person who in their actions in life show love and care for their land/ air/water/ animals and the people around them.

You know you're talking about me right.

California, USA

Agnostic, Atheist
Open to meeting women

Born in Mexico - in California since age 10.

Why are people stuck in relationships that are basically roommate's you pay bills with?

Rent is quite expensive in Southern California. I knew of people who stop seeing each other and simply become roommates. On a personal note... I remember being in relationship that was a huge pain in the ass but I didn’t want to be the one to break it off. I guess some people just stay out of habit. lol
New Jersey, USA

Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Freethinker, Antitheist
Here for community

I struggle to write about myself, but I am an open book. If you have a question, feel free to ask. I’m here to meet folks from all walks of life.

Don’t bother

California, USA

Atheist, Secularist, Freethinker
Open to meeting women

I love hiking in the mountains, Im an hour from Sequoia National Park. I play pickleball - its similar to tennis. Raised in the Church of Christ. Long time atheist. I have an ex wife that lives with me, although we arent together. It took a long time but I comprehend what infinity and eternity really mean - There was no beginning of time, and there is no end of space. The Big Bang Theory is a joke.

Wheres the outrage when Obama put children in cages? hypocritical liberals.

Chula Vista,California, USA

Open to meeting men

I believe religion was made up to keep law and order I believe Jesus existed and they made him a martyr I don't believe that Jesus was a divinity Just a human

And I would never say you're fat just too substantial!

Clearwater Beach, USA

Agnostic, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Open to meeting women

Just a human having a human experience, seeking like minded for friendship and maybe more. I am open to all possibilities. I am an enlightened, independent liberal who was born, raised and educated in CA who now resides in Fl. I am a Scorpio who enjoys sushi, long walks on the beach, reggae and my dogs.

The Big Lebowski, Forrest Gump, and Something about Mary😎

Oklahoma, USA

Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker, Antitheist
Here for community

Do you want to be happy like me?

How many of you live in the moment as much as possible?

I try to abide.

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