It's hard to find someone of my own species.

I don't reay go to bars or munches or anything, so yes, I do find it difficult. When I meet someone just while out or something, I don't wanna be a creep by flirting with someone who isnt into it so I usually just don't.

Very hard to find that right chemistry.

It is hard for everyone. Hang in there

It's not just you. I turned to online dating sites. Even then, it is hard to have the patience to sift through all the people you meet who just aren't looking for compatable things. There are almost always significant compromises. Dan Savage (my favorite guru) calls those compromizes "the price of admission."

I hear you, I live on Long Island but it feels like the moon!

I am almost 40 and have never had a Boyfriend proper. A few friend with benefits here or there but I am lonely single and too tired to care anymore. The guys I like never like me back so I am just alone.

Yes, it is a little harder finding an same sex partner. I've been looking for quite a while.

I don't understand the question....

Relationships are hard, no matter what the flavor.