Welcome. I was with men my whole life, but the desire to be with women lingered and grew. I finally had a relationship with a woman, and called myself a lesbian. After we broke up, and I found myself still attracted to men, I called myself bisexual. Realizing that it was almost a death sentence in the gay community, I went back to lesbian. Listening to my own awakenings, I now identify as bisexual, and am very comfortable with it. And if someone has a problem with it, well then, that's their problem. I'm 65 btw.

I've been to Scotland twice, and loved it. The southeastern part, with it's gorgeous green rolling hills, and then up around Inverness for a few weeks. I was in the Navy, and spent a lot of times in little pubs there. The people were so friendly. After some of them had enough pints, though, I often thought that the U.S. and Scotland are separated by, among other things, a common language. ?

Example. I asked someone on the street if they knew where I could find an arcade. He pointed down the street and told me, "Dune nex ta the guttage." I asked, "Guttage?"

"Yeah nex ta the guttage," he says. I ask him what a guttage is, and he looks at me like I'm daft and explains that they sell petrol there.

"Oh, a garage," I say. I could tell he wanted to say, "Oh yeah, right, yank. Nex ta the garaaaaahhhhhge." ?

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