I was chatting with a guy tonight and he said he has a FFM threesome fantasy, but would never ...

seattlepanda comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Cheating is the surreptitious violation of an agreement. So cheating follows the agreement, whatever it may be.

I know poems can be difficult to decipher, some seem appropriate for this group.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 6, 2018:

way beyond me...

Time for everyone's favorite game...Sex Toy or Not?

seattlepanda comments on Oct 6, 2018:

I can work with this...

Do idiosyncrasies annoy you or do you just let them just slide?

seattlepanda comments on Oct 6, 2018:

I have so many quirks of my own, pretty tolerant of others...

Doctors opinion...

seattlepanda comments on Oct 6, 2018:

admirable bedside manner...

I can skip the chocolate, but absolutely to the rest of it.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 6, 2018:

how about skip the chocolate and make it $6,000,010?...

Don't Be Ashamed of Your Story

seattlepanda comments on Oct 6, 2018:

many stories...ashamed of some...still, to tell all...

Marilyn Milian has been my role model for as long as I can remember.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Woody Allen...self-denigrating wit...

My favorite perfume - Rapture, by Victoria's Secret.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 6, 2018:

me, natural woman aromas...

So, while I'm waiting on my knight in shining armour to sweep me off my feet, or take me to a gig.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 5, 2018:

send photos ;D me, I'm going back to school...

Since not everyone belongs to all groups I will post this here as well.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 5, 2018:

not into football anymore(since I quit gambling ;D)...however, here UW/WSU(Apple Cup) is big...when I lived in Michigan, went to one UM game, vs. Minnesota, called Little Brown Jug game...I don't know anymore but UM/Ohio State used to be a major rivalry...

What do you like to hear a woman say when in flagrante delicto? say, shout, whisper, scream...

seattlepanda comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Her: Hurt me! Him: Your sister is more successful than you are... Her: Wait! Him: I don't know about that new hair... Her: Stop!!

Which would you choose?

seattlepanda comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Travel, clearly

My contribution.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Beam me up, Scotty

When 2 People Really Care For Each Other They Will Make it Work

seattlepanda comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Sometimes caring is walking away.

TGIF!! Have a great weekend!

seattlepanda comments on Oct 5, 2018:

TFIG...

Wow! What do I say?

seattlepanda comments on Oct 4, 2018:

good to see you back...

Anyone know what happened to CB?

seattlepanda comments on Oct 4, 2018:

sorry to hear...

Once in a lifetime ❤❤❤?

seattlepanda comments on Oct 3, 2018:

Twice...

Ugh.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 3, 2018:

How to alienate the most voters within 5 weeks...

I just need to vent a bit.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 3, 2018:

Chin-up, M...I also experience these waves...we just stay out there, do things we like to do...expect to someday be found ;)<3

"Indecision may or may not be my problem." -- Jimmy Buffett

seattlepanda comments on Oct 3, 2018:

I'll tackle this procrastination problem, soon as I have time...

Today is a palindrome day!!! 2018102! I plan to do something forward then backwards!

seattlepanda comments on Oct 2, 2018:

so exciting!! :D

If you could know the exact time of your death, would you want to know?

seattlepanda comments on Oct 2, 2018:

no and no...

It appears that being Agnostic and deviant/kinky and living in the State of North Carolina is ...

seattlepanda comments on Oct 2, 2018:

We on the west coast have no idea about places like NC :O

Do other animals kiss? I thought that maybe a social animal like elephants might kiss.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 1, 2018:

They lick/groom...but I don't know these have sexual connotations.

The sound just is so sexy

seattlepanda comments on Oct 1, 2018:

yes...my most recent ex-gf...

Ok, let's say you meet someone and you two hit it off.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 1, 2018:

No marriage, fine...monogamy, fine...

Ah, October.

seattlepanda comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Heading for China the 17th. I'll be reliving Seattle late-summer weather, through November. Typical Thanksgiving Day attire, shorts, t-shirt, flip-flops...

Having been divorced for a year I have been looking at single pages and the like.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Flattered

Scene: 40th high school class reunion. My friend Kari texts 2 others: “Where are you?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Feel like I know these wise guys...

There was a chatroom request for a picture of my floggers.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Just bought one as a wedding gift for a China friend...

I need a gentleman friend for my lady friend.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 30, 2018:

I'm in Bremerton. Where is Cascade?

At what age did you stop believing in traditional love as perpetuated in music / movies / mainstream...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 30, 2018:

I focused on the "as perpetuated..." part of the question...I think my love looks different than "as perpetuated..."...

I can tell I’m getting tired of being single.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 29, 2018:

fools?...

40th high school reunion last night and a guy I didn’t even know well back then said, “You were...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 29, 2018:

We've had some informal reunions, 45-47 years(class of 71). Similar experience. All very happy to see one another. Seems we're all much better friends now than when in high school.

Would you engage in a activity you dont like just because your partner does ?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Would depend on the degree of my not-liking-it. I'm not one that thinks a loving couple need 100% activity sharing...

When I was a kid our neighbor got a goat.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 28, 2018:

haha! hi Pep... ;)

I have a question..... I get kinks and fetishes. What about taboos?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 27, 2018:

Seems there are fewer and fewer lines...

No smiling in profile pictures makes me swipe left/ lose interest immediately.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 27, 2018:

I AM smiling... ...

How many men have been or have a desire to be with another man?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 27, 2018:

Never, but mildly curious. Religion plays no(conscious)part in anything I do or not do...

I never said I was perfect ? who else can relate❓

seattlepanda comments on Sep 27, 2018:

yea, we're all over the place, eh?

A harrowing boat trip to Victoria.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 27, 2018:

a good story...never been out in rough weather here...Great Lakes many times...

Just woke up to 27 updates.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 27, 2018:

It's just for fun and, yes, the novelty will soon wear off...

== Results from bdsmtest.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 26, 2018:

many of these...not sure what they are...

Well this is me! ;)

seattlepanda comments on Sep 26, 2018:

interesting, these...where to find?...

I swear it's either feast or famine.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 26, 2018:

you have a farmer?...

This defines deviant

seattlepanda comments on Sep 26, 2018:

There's a delicious chocolate, wrapped in foil, about the size of a small brussels sprout... 1. Buy these chocolates, buy some same-size brussels sprouts 2. Carefully remove the foil 3. Eat the chocolate 4. Wrap the delicious brussels sprouts in the foils 5. TRICK OR TREAT!!

What are some small things that make your day better?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 26, 2018:

Commenting on this site...client project I can begin and wrap same day...well stocked food and beverage...lunch date in the city...commuting with son...

It may be random and silly but when the bus stops exactly in front of you, it feels like the world ...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 26, 2018:

Often, I see it blowing by when I'm a block away...

Which state is most represented on this site.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I think the higher population states are fairly well represented.

When it comes to love. What form of expression ( besides a kiss) makes your emotions feel it?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 25, 2018:

hold my arm, head on shoulder...

A man I had a casual relationship with misunderstood when I told him I cared about him.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Friends care...this distinguishes FWB from hook-ups...

A man I had a casual relationship with misunderstood when I told him I cared about him.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Interesting. I had a similar experience with a FWB. She was serious though and became uncomfortably possessive.

for all the people that stalk my profile, ask me a question you didn't get an answer to while ...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 25, 2018:

"visit", "hover" = stalk ???

what do you want to have happen to your body when you die?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 25, 2018:

That's for live people to decide. I won't care ;)

The date is set you are dressed up to look your best.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 24, 2018:

I dress as comfortable to me...I have no favorite questions...I answer all, flattered they ask...

I'm not sure this exactly falls under "dating" but I figure that I'm among friends here.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 24, 2018:

would be fun if someone captured on video and you posted...

If you see the % of a match with a member what do you think?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 24, 2018:

I don't pay much attention. I do wonder why some hearts are colored, some grey...

I just watched S&M Sally (which I recommend as a really good movie about BDSM and other kinks -- ...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 23, 2018:

I liked "Secretary"...

Past present or both... Describe your sex life using only a MOVIE TITLE..

seattlepanda comments on Sep 23, 2018:

Animal House...

So...are you really impressed by what car a person drives...like society seems to believe...ladies?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I know little of cars...

A tip for conversation on a date.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Unfortunate this needs to be said...

Take Chances When you're Young

seattlepanda comments on Sep 22, 2018:

yep...then, never stop...

Let's Have Some Fun - Pick 2 Pills

seattlepanda comments on Sep 21, 2018:

10

Has anyone done speed dating? Is it worth it? How much can you get in a five minute chat?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 21, 2018:

fun! little chat with many women(men) in an hour...time afterwards for follow-up...

Happy Friday Everyone!

seattlepanda comments on Sep 21, 2018:

TFIG!...

I'm currently on an adult dating site and I'm getting numerous requests from submissives seeking ...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 17, 2018:

My second wife(submissive) introduced me to the idea of being the dominant. In exploring her psychology, turns out like you say, the idea of force and not being responsible for her behavoir excited her.

Any one up?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 17, 2018:

I also wonder about. I use the term in lieu of FWB.

Anyone want to play a game? ;)

seattlepanda comments on Sep 17, 2018:

hurt me...

Congrats to the Dallas Cowboys on their victory over the Giants

seattlepanda comments on Sep 16, 2018:

??

Does a bad day give you the right to be un-pleasant?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 16, 2018:

Only to those directly involved it making it the bad day...

Please describe your worst sexual encounter.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 16, 2018:

The worst in memory wasn't that bad. A woman I had chatted with on qq(Chinese platform)for couple years. We finally met near shanghai. Ate near my room, she ordered, frogs :/ We went to my room. As we got started, she talked about what we should say when the police broke in, demanded explanations. This somewhat disconcerted me. As it should have been a quicky, and her train was leaving soon, I decided to make it a bit quicky-er and directed we dress and walk to her train. We may try again next month...

Never regret a day in your life ?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 16, 2018:

This is a consistent theme when I'm asked advice. Good or bad, experiences teach.

What do you think about the swinger lifestyle? Is it the way of the future?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 15, 2018:

I think the growing acceptance of same-sex relationships will result in growing acceptance of other diverse relationships. I don't know we will see institutional acceptance in our lifetime...

Do You Like Being Alone?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 15, 2018:

you can do/be all these things with the right partner...

Are you happy enough?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 15, 2018:

Yes, have been for some time...

That time you read a Match profile and find the guy truly attractive and interesting until the last ...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 15, 2018:

Doesn't specify which god?

Why am I the only one that doesn't think I'm crazy?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 15, 2018:

Only people who don't know me well, do not think I am crazy ;D

What are the best hobbies? I am partial to fishing however I like many other avenues.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 14, 2018:

"best" hobbies are what work best for the individual...there are no "best" in a universal sense...

I tried dating a 47 year old.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 14, 2018:

Possible you take "love" too seriously or too broadly?...love doesn't always mean I want you to be mine forever...

What kind of fish is for dinner?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 12, 2018:

tuna fish...

How many times per month would you like to make love with a partner?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 12, 2018:

daily....sometimes more...

here it is! the reference to end all references on human kinks.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 12, 2018:

':O whew!... will need to print-out and study this one...

Who says there's no free lunches?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 12, 2018:

Sounds like an espresso machine seller I used to work for...

Perfume and cologne: Yay or Nay?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 12, 2018:

Lite

Earthy Questionnaire-I have never done 10 things on this list. How about you?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 12, 2018:

11

So been trying out the online dating.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 12, 2018:

Be cautious...stick with those who seem as cautious as you...

Where's everyone at? Bible study?.lol

seattlepanda comments on Sep 11, 2018:

haha!...

Today I am 64

seattlepanda comments on Sep 10, 2018:

HB Glenn!

Working on writing a novel have 53,835 words about halfway there.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 10, 2018:

imagine before Word...

What movie title describes your sex life? Cast Away

seattlepanda comments on Sep 10, 2018:

Animal House

I'm going to take a community college class soon and thought I would get some suggestions from the ...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 10, 2018:

pretty diverse...I will start classes(audit)in January...drawing, writing, Spanish...

I always wonder, when a man puts "Average" for his height in his profile, what do men think is ...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 10, 2018:

5'9"...usually I describe as the low-end-of-average...

I can't believe that Les Moonves is retiring and they're gonna give him 100 million severance.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 10, 2018:

when you're in the club...

I have a smartphone.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 9, 2018:

My smartphone is smarter than I am. I don't need a kitchen the same way...

I get a lot of support in this group, so I feel this is a safe place to post this.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 9, 2018:

I know the feeling...my condolences...

What are 2 things on your sexual bucket list?

seattlepanda comments on Sep 9, 2018:

poly-relationships...

Often I "hover" by accident..."visit" is always intentional...

seattlepanda comments on Sep 9, 2018:

Sometimes "hover" is useful and intentional...but often mouse crosses the name accidentally...

Ok so I'll get straight to the point.

seattlepanda comments on Sep 8, 2018:

be open to a boy friend too...