Hirsute women, I find them sexy and appealing. What do others think?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 24, 2018:

I like underarm hair...

Since the spark of passion fades anyway, does it matter if people never have that chemistry to begin...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 24, 2018:

Passion is overrated...suitability and caring are most important...companionship...

Strange requests: During my life I've had some strange requests by my girlfriends but one that keeps...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 23, 2018:

second wife instructed me this way...

Finish this sentence: Everyone who knows me, knows I love _______.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 23, 2018:

IPA and sex...(though not simultaneously)...

Would you hop on a long flight just to spend a few days?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 23, 2018:

absolutely not...I visit China every year...but cannot imagine that travel for less than a month...

All About a Ring

seattlepanda comments on Jul 23, 2018:

drop...

Flowers in my hair?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 22, 2018:

Hippie! ;)

Just for the fun of it.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 22, 2018:

37

Does it drive anybody else crazy when there is a sink full of dishes that hasn’t been cleaned for ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 22, 2018:

My job is keeping kitchen clean...nothing left overnight...

Summer reading question.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 22, 2018:

I am reading Judge Dee... ...guilty pleasures here...

What is the oddest food you've ever eaten? Would you eat it again?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 21, 2018:

duck tongue, shark lips, snake soup...

Just look at this ratato! He thinks all ratties live in a house with chef catered meals and a queen...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 21, 2018:

we had a hamster...surprisingly friendly, sociable...

Brunettes or blondes?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 21, 2018:

black...

Whatcha doing this weekend? Any big plans?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 21, 2018:

light construction with son...

When I've been told to "go to hell" I respond that I've already been there.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 21, 2018:

In hell I'll be in good company... The Dead South

Is it irresponsible to have more that 3 children knowing what we know about our future Earth?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I think having kids is a personal choice. I respect equally, those who choose 0, and those who choose 10...

Yesterday sadly I had to go home after spending a week with Dan at his home in Albany, NY.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Very good, Sassy. My ex-wife and I also have a very friendly relationship, like before we lived together. We enjoy sleep-overs when we're between bf/gf's...

Finally a useful ancient scroll. ?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I had suspected this ;)

FYI everyone.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Since I changed settings a few days ago, I get notices on any I follow. Seems I get notices before the site actually posts. Maybe part of the review process?

I have to say that I’m very grateful to feel like a part of this group.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 20, 2018:

It's a fun group(and site)...a relaxing alternative to FB...

TGIF! Have a great day :-)

seattlepanda comments on Jul 20, 2018:

TFIG!

I listen to Romance novels on my phone to fill the quiet time at work, I can say that I have stared ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

<3 :D

Are there any books about intimacy / relationships that had an impact on you? If so, please share.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Languages of love...Venus and Mars...Bertrand Russell...cao xueqin

Many people are entertained by horror movies/stories.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I'm with you...sex, good...violent, no! :'O

You must only choose one avenue for your next partner. Would you...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

generally "open" is usually the best starting point...

Some women just have to criticize

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

sorry Eve...

I wrote this as a comment on another post in this group and though it was a good enough to be a post...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

well said...

Very first concert you attended?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

forget the very first, but in quick 1970's succession, Led Zepplin and Jethro Tull...

I had yet another discouraging evening last night.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I believe your 85%...sorry it so often ends up this way, Marcie ':/

Marriage or Domestic Partners?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I've long believed inviting lawyers in does nothing to enhance an emotional relationship. My ex-wife and I had been bemused at the whole same-sex marriage thing...why anyone would be so adamant about being allowed to marry...a money thing? That said, marriage is required by many governments for non-working residency. So, I consider it a prospect, in spite of my basic indifference.

Do you ever feel that no one "gets" you?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Feeling more often, don't seem to belong... anywhere.

Don't fight me?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Why the T-shirt? ;)

They say that we all have a mate somewhere.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 18, 2018:

we have many...

It has been over 30 years since I dated. Is it okay to have sex on the first date now?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I plan to wait until second date. Better acquainted. Time to think it over.

Heard it on my way home today. Happy Hump Day, Y'all! S&M NY Rihanna [youtu.be]

seattlepanda comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Happy Hump, Saucy...

I think we have finally figured out the problem...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 18, 2018:

We're open to compromise...

Its only Tuesday... :S

seattlepanda comments on Jul 17, 2018:

Sympathize...

Live Your Life and Fuck Everybody Else

seattlepanda comments on Jul 17, 2018:

My key word is fucking...

I believe this this belongs here...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 17, 2018:

...in bed...

Even the Republicans are speaking out!

seattlepanda comments on Jul 17, 2018:

After the past couple years of "thoughts and prayers", will prefer acting out to speaking out.

What are the best arguments you have in favor of marriage?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 17, 2018:

In many countries, it's required of older folks to obtain legal residency. Besides that, pointless unless your religion proscribes.

What are some great movies with philosophical meanings behind them??

seattlepanda comments on Jul 17, 2018:

Secretary

Ok is it just me or does anyone else's skin crawl when they hear/read the much over used word ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 17, 2018:

I say "yum!". :D

How do you guys combat loneliness?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 17, 2018:

I'm never ok with being single. But I've set some criteria for a later life relationship and stay out there. I seem to have an endless supply of optimism and hope. Good luck to you. :)

What's the best breakup song ever?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 17, 2018:

Badfinger, Baby Blue...

I wonder about the wives of the murderous presidents like Putin, Kim Jong, Duterte and other leaders...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 16, 2018:

Power is an effective aphrodisiac...

This doesn’t bode well. The announcer just said 56 minutes late...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 16, 2018:

I had a similar experience with my bus yesterday :/

What is your opinion on dating sites? I have mine. Would like yours.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 16, 2018:

As I seek a Chinese woman, and to return to live in China, chat platforms qq and wechat are best for me. Many hits there. The few domestic platforms I have tried haven't been serious. I had some spotty luck on Craigslist when they had personals.

So today's odd thought.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 16, 2018:

Peanut says, I agree. I only use sexual terms in their literal sense. I refuse to use fucking in a negative connotation.

What is your favorite position?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 16, 2018:

From behind.

Can I just ask the guys something...what is it with the ass thing?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 15, 2018:

It's a gateway...

I'd like to call into question the word deviant.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 14, 2018:

I suggest "alternative".

Question of the day: manicures.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 14, 2018:

I like. I'm fascinated with nail art.

I may be off the market soon: Jason at the nail salon has great hands. manipedi shouldermassage

seattlepanda comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Don't jump the gun. ;)

Wife and I have been daydreaming about partnering, family poly style with someone, or someones for a...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Good luck to you! :)

A question for men: 5 women from a singles group went out dancing at a local bar tonight, and not a...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 8, 2018:

I've never been a dancer. I don't know any "steps". But I do try to be a good sport and will make a fool of myself if I think a woman is being neglected.

You Done Me Wrong - This is What I Wish For You

seattlepanda comments on Jul 5, 2018:

You really know how to hurt a guy...

Can’t completely deny this.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 3, 2018:

One of the fun things about women ;))

Now that I finally got into my own digs again (was sharing a house) I am starting to know about ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 3, 2018:

To find the one or two, try many...

If Your Ex Started Dating.....

seattlepanda comments on Jul 1, 2018:

Maybe... doesn't matter

Any of other subs experience people trying to bully and scream at you to get their way?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 30, 2018:

It's a misinterpretation of the relationship by the Dom...when he doesn't understand the dependency and trust aspects of the relationship...

So i had what I would call an almost date this afternoon.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 28, 2018:

You can "pray" as some do in Japan, "thank you fish, for growing big and strong, and becoming my dinner".

A friend of mine likes to point out that perfect partners don't exist.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 26, 2018:

I have tiers of standards as I chat with many women overseas. Tiers are first, suitability, which may be tenatively determinable through chat and video. Then compatibility, which needs time together. If love comes, that takes time. I feel at my age I can't wait for love. I take chances.

They're older I get.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 24, 2018:

the older we get, the less important it is that others understand the life we choose...

Has the passing of FOSTA impacted your online activities?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 21, 2018:

craigslist is not as interesting now...

Is it okay if I flirt with all you men? All y’all are far, far away, but I need the practice.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 21, 2018:

Is it ok if I flirt you back?

Intimate friends know each other’s secrets.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 21, 2018:

also my hard drive...

Comments on these posts show on my profile page.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 20, 2018:

I'll bite...

Is this possible? What is your opinion?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 20, 2018:

I can...

This is so me.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 19, 2018:

Um um...(tell her my name)...um um...(what IS my name?)... ... ':O

I've enjoyed being single for the last decade, but now I would like a partner.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 18, 2018:

I advise hope over despair. It's what actually keeps me alive. I want a companion as well as a fuck, and I don't think I am so unusual. I do find, however, as ashtan42 says, the pool gets smaller...

Are all compliments suspect?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 16, 2018:

Most women I have known make great effort to enhance thier appearance. I don't see that acknowledging this with a compliment needs to be suspect or taken at any but face value. That said, human males are naturally very sex- focused...

Events, Get-togethers, Local Groups can be organized for singles here.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 16, 2018:

Thanks SassyGirl, but how can you help someone way out in Bremerton? ;D

Does anyone believe that friends with benefits can let to a real relationship?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 15, 2018:

yes, definitely can...any relationship, on any basis may evolve into something else...one caveat...that relationships begin with an objective(often not explicit)...many who go into FWB, and depending who with, may be averse to "something more"...really a random chemistry thing...

Something wrong. Blocked

seattlepanda comments on Jun 14, 2018:

Who blocks?

Something wrong. Blocked

seattlepanda comments on Jun 14, 2018:

Who blocks?

Today while talking to a friend about her recent breakup, I asked what reason her partner gave her ...

seattlepanda comments on Jun 13, 2018:

I have heard this, though not in the explicit form. What I heard is that I could not provide the life she wanted. I believed this, I accepted this. We separated. We still see each other, meet for meals. We still love each other very much...Love does not always find the way...

Age, why it matters, and why it doesn't in a relationship.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 11, 2018:

I know it's possible, but a rare chemistry...

Would you give someone a 2nd chance?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 11, 2018:

If they asked and I thought they were sincere...

Is This a Woman's Logic?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 8, 2018:

haha!...endless topic of guy discussion... ;D

I was watching a BBC show on Netflix a while back and this couple was going through a breakup due to...

seattlepanda comments on Jun 8, 2018:

sounds like more of a stand-off than an "aha"...

Ever feel like some people don't take it as seriously, and you end up envying those who have it more...

seattlepanda comments on Jun 7, 2018:

Maybe a difference in perception of guys vs. gals?...I'd been approached for an arrangement, in China, very seriously...worked it out in my mind...quite a sensible relationship if the players are right...

Have You Ever?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 7, 2018:

$140...

My "baby" boy is turning 7 years old today and I'm feeling like an old lady.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 7, 2018:

OLD!! omGosh!...

Had a date tonight with my daughter — an outdoor concert by Alison Krauss and David Crosby.

seattlepanda comments on Jun 7, 2018:

when I hear about movies I'd like to see, but I have no patience to sit still unless my girl is beside me...

Are You With The Right Person?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 4, 2018:

look before you leap...

In surveying the questions i notice that women are mostly asking/posting about intimacy of emotion ...

seattlepanda comments on Jun 3, 2018:

I speak in generalities here, first point being that male and female have intrinsic differences in primal psychology. I have spoken a lot of love vs. sex and for this purpose I equate "intimacy of emotion and attachment" to love. For men(again, in general), love and sex are not the same. I suggest that one of the biggest deceptions foisted on humans is calling sex, "making love". I find nothing particularly loving in the sex act, Before and after, perhaps. But during, and for the male, no love. Men are more able than women to perform and savor the sex act with any other, regardless of love. I have distinguished love and sex to student friends, as such. To me, "making love" is feeling joy in the relationship. For me personally, shopping together, cooking, cleaning, watching movies, playing games. Together and feeling joy in just being with her. The key word here is "together". Time together, time to accustom to one another, to know each other and find joy in the knowing. All this said, and to address the specific question. Men may find talk of love in detached(online)discussion to be premature, maybe discomforting, maybe deceptive. But the male has, I believe, a very pronounced interest in the sex act, and in venues such as these, relatively anonymous and "safe", we find entertainment in chatting explicitly about sex. Sorry, pretty wordy here, but your question asks directly about something I have actually discussed a lot with young and exploring friends...

Here I am While Everyone is Out

seattlepanda comments on Jun 1, 2018:

maybe you "party" when the party-animals are sacked-in... ...me?, I don't know Saturday from Tuesday...

Why Am I Single?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 1, 2018:

be out there....shop...take a chance... ;D

"Following" question: Is there a protocol for following someone?

seattlepanda comments on Jun 1, 2018:

To me "following" simply means I read your profile, interesting(level unspecific), I'll see what you have to say when you post or comment...99% of the time, that's it...I rarely initiate direct messaging...

Has Your Ex Come Back Around?

seattlepanda comments on May 31, 2018:

We returned to friendship, soon as we separated. We were both stupid... ;)

Most unusual place you've done it

seattlepanda comments on May 31, 2018:

on her mother's bed....

Warning warning: white house sinking

seattlepanda comments on May 31, 2018:

The Mandate of Heaven...lost...

Do we carry forward our values regarding sex with us, even though we have rejected its doctrine?

seattlepanda comments on May 31, 2018:

Takes generations for societal values to change. Though we are likely a post-christian society, we still cling to the Christian ethic.

Where do you go when you need a break from everyone?

seattlepanda comments on May 31, 2018:

South Pacific bar...

Has anyone single here, or at least, living alone, wonder about what type material things really ...

seattlepanda comments on May 30, 2018:

Priorities and passions...me? I prefer to travel light...

I am twice divorced and have lived alone now for 16 years.

seattlepanda comments on May 29, 2018:

No, I'm tired of solitude..

What hair color of the opposite sex are you more attracted to ?

seattlepanda comments on May 29, 2018:

Black

Human beings are NOT monogamous by nature, only by social rule enforcement.

seattlepanda comments on May 29, 2018:

To understand our "nature", I find value in observing other large mammals. Birds are monogamous, large mammals are not. In viewing other human cultures, I reach a tentative conclusion that monogamy is a feature of primarily Christian societies. It has a rather weak hold in other cultures. I know China, and though monogamy is the "law of the land", the idea of multiple wives is not mortifying as it is here. Before the Chinese invasion, it was common in Tibet for women to have multiple husbands. I consider modern polygamy to be a significant economic opportunity, whether multiple husbands or wives.

Human beings are NOT monogamous by nature, only by social rule enforcement.

seattlepanda comments on May 28, 2018:

True...