May I suggest you try this. Take the gravity out of your expectations and approach it as if it was just practice. No consequences because it's just practice. I hope this helped.

just get drunk and click! that's what i do! NOT!! maybe not...maybe so :/

Don't know what you're expecting but that group ain't much. Half the people there are already attached. A lot of potty humor and that's about all.

Only you can honesty answer that question.

In my case, as I live in the middle of a theistically darkened landscape of supersisitonalists, using this site to establish correspondence with a rational (not theist) person worthy of my time would be with a person hundreds of miles from my location. Although in this wrelm of reason it is likely I could find a person worhty of my time, hundreds of miles would greatly encumber the possibility of physically meeting a quality person from this domain.