I am 46 years old now. I can remember in my 20's I was basically a sperm bank!
When I reached my 30's, things didnt change much aside from me being much more selective when it came to sexual partners
Now that I am in my 40's, The sperm bank has filed for Chapter 11 Bankruptcy and Operating in The Red! My sexual appetite is far less aggressive.
I know our bodies change as we age but what a difference a couple of decades can make.
Please tell me how your body and mind has changed about Sex as you age.
I was 17 and he was 19, both virgins. Within a month of marriage he said once a week was enough. Lasted 5 years, but I learned that was his sex drive, not mine. My second husband also made me feel guilty about my sex drive. Now that I understand multi-orgasms as well as clitoral and g-spot orgasms, I realize I'm normal with a high sex drive. When I was going through menopause I only needed it a couple times a week, and I was so happy not to be ruled by my genitals. Early retirement has freed me up to resume activity andbit is as if I am 30 again. As a married 35 year old female student once said about the meaning of two words: sometimes I want to make love to my husband and sometimes I just want to fuck. At 64 I'm looking for a partner so we can do both. However, new sex toys are coming out that have been designed by women for women. Let me recommend the toy that touches internal and external spots at the same time. FINALLY a toy as physically satisfying as the real thing. Yet NOTHING beats the real thing!
I was 17 and he was 19, both virgins. Within a month of marriage he said once a week was enough. Lasted 5 years, but I learned that was his sex drive, not mine. My second husband also made me feel guilty about my sex drive. Now that I understand multi-orgasms as well as clitoral and g-spot orgasms, I realize I'm normal with a high sex drive. When I was going through menopause I only needed it a couple times a week, but early retirement freed me up to resume activity as if I am 30. As a married 35 year old female student once said about the meaning of two words: sometimes I want to make love to my husband and sometimes I just want to fuck. At 64 I'm looking for a partner so we can do both. However, new sex toys are coming out that have been designed by women for women. Let me recommend the toy that touches internal and external spots at the same time. FINALLY a toy as physically satisfying as the real thing. Yet NOTHING beats the real thing!
I always heard that guys peaked in late teens and early 20s, women in their late 30s.
I definitely peaked in my mid 40s and felt the ladies I knew were awesome at that time.
Anyone who says women are less sexual is lying. Sadly due to personal circumstances love life was a mess in my 50s, bit of a drought, maybe like a sportsman needs training to stay in peak condition but things have certainly declined in the past 2-3 years, say 57-58.
Went to the doctor last year and told him I wanted my sex drive lowered,
he said at my age it's all in my head,
EXACTLY, that's why I need it lowered.
Bad joke, but in my mind all is good, age, sore joints, less fit, all takes it toll. Not lining up for viagra yet, some things are fine, it is my back, shoulders, knees and ankles that let me down.
For me it went from 100 to 0, practically over night, when I went through menopause. That was about 6 yrs ago and now I have no interest at all. Truth be told the thought of it makes me nauseous.
Sure put a damper on dating but at 56 those days are over anyway, I guess.
I went thru surgical menopause at 29...feel sexier now, have Much better sex, at 69+ than I have ever had!
My interest in sex certainly went down over time. I attribute it mostly to fatigue and crazy things I want to accomplish before I run myself into the crematorium. When I do however feel like it, I take quality over quantity any time, and that seems to work well for my needs. I also noticed how my sex drive depends on my cycle.
Past 40 here and it seems around 40 women go one of two ways. They usually either lose interest in sex (NOT contact and intimacy) or turn into honorary 18yo guys.
I'll just say that Australian foreplay works fine by me.
I'm going to make you feel grateful. Answer me if i do?
46 and still ultra fascinated with my bits
If anything it my sexual hunger has increased Ten fold as I have aged.
In a joke I would say this....
Put it this way..the first thing a partner would say to me in the morning would be...FOR CHRIST'S SAKE WILL YOU GET OFF ME??????.