My dad, he acts as if he actually cares about me. A bonus of being a kid is that when my parents hide cookies from each other, I can take from both stashes.

For me it’s my mom. My parents divorced when I was 6 and my dad quickly remarried. I then had a new stepmother that ruled the roost. I loved my dad dearly but very much resented how he let her control everything and chose her over me.

I can't even look at pics of my momma without crying. I thought i loved them equally but its my momma im missin

My Italian father was so unlike the stereotypical loud, abrasive, gangster type. He was kind, patient, very involved in my life, and very accepting of who I am. He played good cop to my mom's bad cop, and it helped to at least have one rational parent. He helped w/my math homework, taught me to play sports, and very rarely lost his temper. I miss him now more than ever.

my dad fuels my ego, my mom keeps me from starving, the rent is too damn high, i can't eat love.

Mom

I could not talk to either of my parents about problems, because "just pray about it" never solved anything, because that never worked. As a result I was never close to either of my parents.

Dads dead was an ass. Mom is alive but crazy so I prefer no parents.

I voted that I do not have a preference because more information is needed. Of course I loved them differently, just as parents love their children differently. A preference to me somehow indicates one over the other, or that one was loving while the other is a waste of life, which is sometimes the situation in some families. Yes, I was closer to my mother because I was with her more and she had a stronger personality,. but that takes nothing away from my dad who sacrificed so much and who loved his family.