I'm having a serious emotional dilemma and was hoping to get some solid advice from rational people. I have a female friend who has very recently decided to separate from her husband (never really cared for him but he's not a bad guy). I am also recently single from a three year romantic relationship myself. While I would not say I love her romantically I care about her a great deal and have also always been physically attracted to her. From some of the conversations we've had over the years I believe we would be very compatible on a sexual level as well. Up to this point I have not expressed any romantic interest in her for ethical reasons (I don't go after married women or any other women for that matter while I'm with someone else). She also hasn't shown any feelings like that for me (at least none that I picked up on). Soooo... should I go for it? I'd hate to be rejected and I don't want to make things awkward between us. Would I be a fool to tell her or a fool not too?