Back when I decided to quit looking for a relationship (before I met Kate) and just focus on trying to live, I started to meet women, would start a conversation and just converse. Some times there would be an interest and sometimes the woman would listen, I would listen, and friendships started. As I was not interested in a relationship, my state of mind, I found that it was easy to meet women. I think having the state of mind I had helped. One thing I may not be taking into consideration was that there was no pressure to be something other than authentic, there was no pressure for them to react negatively. I did meet Kate about a year later and she did have to basically chase me to get me to notice. She made about 3x what I had, drove a fancy car, and dressed to the nines. She knew I did not have two nickels to rub together, but we have now been married 27 years and I am providing the money we live on. Money is not everything, but it helps. More to this story if you read my posts.

Personally I don't feel comfortable if the woman is earning big bucks, not in that she is smart and capable of doing so, I love smoart capable women. But if she wants to just keep money coming in then obviously her goals in life and mine can not be compatible. I actually have an aversion to wealth. My mind set is that wealth is an accumulation of profit at the expense of other things or people.

Its not relevent to me.