response....."is it god's plan for you to be such an idiot?"

I live with permanent disabling nerve damage from a spinal injury. No one has said that to me though. Here’s to pain! And survival. Yes, those are my legs.

I think the thing to keep in mind is that the comment was probably meant to give you comfort. It's a kindness they were trying to do but it was lost in translation. There is another saying that has a similar in meaning that you might like better and it goes: if there is a cure for what ailes you then there is no need to worry. If there isn't a cure then there is no use in worrying. Point being that having a mind at rest is important to wellness. It does no good holding on to anger and resentment. That only contributes to feeling worse.