It works if you're suited to it, but if you're not, change all your friends, get a therapist, and do it that way.

i can't understand why ppl have so much trouble quitting alcohol..it's easy. i've done it many times.

The main objection most atheists have is the reference to "a higher power".

When I got my AA in Addiction studies, I ws taught tht "higher power" doesn't really fefer to god. It shoudl be whatever it is in your life that evokes enough feelings of love and caring, that when you think of it, you8 can overcome your desire to drink or use. For one person it may be theri child, for another it may be a motorcycle and yet another a kitten. It coudl even just be a hobby of woodworking. Whatever evokes those feelings that lets you overcome the desire to drink and/or use, is a stronger or "higher power".

The twelve steps are deasigned to lead a person to carign more and mroe for other people, helping other addicts overcome their own addictions.

I am a member of Alcoholics Anonymous. My sobriety date is 1.28.2002. I am a recovered alcoholic and addict. I attend secular AA meetings (they do exist). I give credit to the program for helping me identify the problem. I did the 12 steps and gained insight, perspective, and personal responsibility needed to maintain sobriety. I continue to attend meetings and sponsor other members. Some believe in the "higher power" concept and some do not. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. While I use the book Alcoholics Anonymous, I rely on the book Twelve Secular Steps by Bill W. I am curious about your question regarding a less expensive way to get sober. There is no fee for AA. Meetings pass a basket for a contribution to help with rent and coffee but that is never required. Anyone may attend meetings and never put a buck in the basket. Peace -- Sarah

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